Episode 312 | 3rd Leg Of Separation

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Speaker 1: No, Willie be good.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes we say things that we really don't mean mean, we do things in between us. We should do modest than as. I'm sorry for a major peol. I ask know you all a little oh youse, a shine of stuff. I want to spend my nice with you, with you all bad bad Please wait up for me.

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Speaker 3: To like that.

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Speaker 2: But I get home. Of course, I know that you are alone, thinking more what you're going through. I hope they'll see it through. O.

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Speaker 4: We're back.

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Speaker 1: We are.

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Speaker 4: How many days was that one?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Twelve hours? I saw you?

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Speaker 1: It is that?

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Speaker 4: How you feeling? You got a haircut? I didn't hold on? Let me check it, let me check you out.

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Speaker 1: You see it.

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Speaker 4: On the barber sharks.

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Speaker 1: You really think I walk in the barber shop and point to them that don't say you haven't done. I swear on my life even as a kid. No, really, no, don't see you ain't a really I thought you was one of them. I'm not a black man. It was only black people on that chart.

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Speaker 4: No, that's not true. Depending on what barbershop you went to, they we had some, we had some Latinos, some some some you know, white boys on the charts.

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Speaker 5: Pointed out the low cut season with the deep waves.

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Speaker 1: I'm on the side the Dominicans are also black. That's why I mean but natural.

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Speaker 6: Rory walked in the barbershop with the picture of Travis Kelcey and said, I'll take this.

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Speaker 4: I'm not gonna lie I was watching these shout out to the Yankees.

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Speaker 1: My barber did say that to me, like six months ago, whenever that whole thing happened with Travis kelce I sat in the chair and he's like, you want the Kelsey. I was like, I'm getting the funk out of it.

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Speaker 4: I was watching the Yankee game or the other was it last night? Yeah, and Travis Kelsey was there. I ain't gonna lie. Man. Ever since he broke up with Kayler, he lost all his like like he's a white boy now.

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Speaker 1: He definitely does have the possibly racist mustache, possibly gay or racist, you're not sure which one like.

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Speaker 4: He he definitely lost all of the back to his roots man sauce that Kayla you know, she she had, she had she provided.

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Speaker 1: Him with your friend and Kayla had a little back and forth my friend over this past weekend. We're like a week late. Who Tianna Taylor really what happened with Kayla, a friend of the show. She went on Angel Reese's podcast and they were having girl talk, you know, back and forth has a podcast. Yeah, she's a multimedia experience. You didn't know the brand she's everywhere. She's she's a double don't sexualizer.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I say she's a double better not do that's a double double man sexualized the woman in a thong apologetically, Angel, that's the name of the podcasts.

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Speaker 1: Yes, well, I watched the Kayla episode. She's actually pretty good at podcasting as far as like an athlete that's just jumping into the genre.

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Speaker 4: I gotta checks. I like a person. Every time I see her speak, and you know, come a across a clip, she seems to be like, you know, a cool, cool girl.

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Speaker 1: I'm shocked you didn't hear about this. I know we're late to this, but it was girl gosspey talk, so we'll be late to it.

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Speaker 4: So Kayla and Tiana shout out to t that's that's family. And I don't know Kayla that well, but.

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Speaker 1: They were having their little key keys back and forth about you know, past relationships and let him watch the clip. Angel had asked Kayla what's the pettiest thing you've done? And we can play it. Actually, I don't know. The WNBA is established now, they'll probably flag us if we play that. Okay, So they're going back and forth talk about relationships. Angel asked, what's the pettiest thing you've ever done? And Kayla explains what she said wasn't exactly petty, just kind of crazy and weird.

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Speaker 4: She was not petty crazy.

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Speaker 1: I mean, there's really no explanation for it outside which she admitted as well. I appreciate her accountability. Yeah, she was dating this guy. They weren't in like a real relationship or whatever. But back and forth, you know, seriously talking. He ended their situationship and then got I mean we could just say it it was Shump left and then married Tiana. So that following Halloween, Kayla dressed as Tiana at her Halloween party.

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Speaker 4: Oh okay, all right, all right, So the internet see, I see where Kayla was going. A little you know, if you know, you know, little little sublime shot at Shump. Okay, all right, So.

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Speaker 1: The internet got ahold of this, and over the past weekend it was like the most trending shit ever. They were kicking Kayla's back in, and I feel for her because she's already been getting her back kicked in by all the Swifties for the last two years for what just because Swifties are fucking weird.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but kicking kicking. But has Kayla like said anything about Taylor's so why.

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Speaker 1: Because they go after any x that's in relation, but.

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Speaker 4: That should be that should be considered internet bullion, cyber bullyon. Oh, she's definitely if she didn't say nothing about Taylor Swift and her fan base is just online like saying demeaning things to her. Noother that should be. And I don't believe broken up for.

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Speaker 1: Quite some time before he got with Taylor, Like it wasn't even no overlap, just weird.

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Speaker 4: That's why I don't understand why they would do that.

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Speaker 1: But in the midst of the swifty world, at least Kayla had Black Twitter back in her through that whole thing, because they were cyber bullying a black woman for no reason, right, beautiful black woman at that that just minds her business, beautiful. But the tides turned, so now Kayla no longer has black Twitter either. She has a friend in me. Yeah, I'm here. We've all made mistakes in our past.

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Speaker 4: So it was mad because she brought that story up like she.

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Speaker 1: No it rightfully. So they found it really weird. What was the back and forth between her and Tis Well, we can pull up Tiana's response, but.

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Speaker 4: Are divorced? Yes, okay, but so tech.

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Speaker 5: Basically what happened was when she went on the podcast, she didn't name drop Emon. She just says she dressed up as this person's wife and they were in a very they were in a very public.

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Speaker 1: Names.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, but all people got to do is go get your Halloween costumes and see what celebrity.

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Speaker 1: Taylor shouldn't know that as well, because unfortunately the Swifties have like but I'm not in her parents' address, and like she knows how easily the internet, So so.

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Speaker 4: No, listen, pull up to my parents' house. I love killing fans on my launch. I love it. Come over if you want with that internet? And what are they going to do? Borrow their mom?

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Speaker 7: These are Tailor Swift fans.

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Speaker 4: What are they gonna do? Pull up those I.

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Speaker 1: Keep cleaning my guns for no reason to stay wait? I could not wait, Please pull up right outside my second floor pa.

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Speaker 5: So yeah, So basically they found it, and the internet was going crazy. So Tianna posted like a slideshow of all the movies that she's going to be in. After all that was going on, she posted a slides show all the movies she's going to be in, and she basically put a Tailor Swift song in the back and was just like something like, they're gonna hate to see a tailor coming because Tiana Taylor Taylor Swift like she was throwing shade. So everybody kind of got on Tiana, like you know what you know. Tianna saw some responses to what she said, and then she said, it's really crazy that everyone is allowed to bother me and be distasteful. Everybody gets to play while I move with grace always, but now I want to have a little sagittari as fun too, and I'm the problem fuck the mom part. I'm divorced and happily so. However, her choice of words were very distasteful and uncalled for. She knew exactly what she was doing. That Lady says she was famous at the time quote unquote. Also said I don't care who sees it, because Kayla during an episode said, well, I don't care who sees this whatever. It was very distasteful, uncalled for. Most importantly, she knew people would dig so automatically, my name is attached to the nonsense at that point she didn't need to act me. That was very quick. That was very clearly a quick search. My name was trending without an app before even saying a word. That's how I seen it. On top of the fact the math and math and the facts weren't facting, talked about the cringe factor, talked about her intentions being Ellen petty. She pulled the black car when it came to Taylor Swift, but in the same circle, turned around and tried to belie the black woman that was married to her situationship she claimed dumped her for me dressed up like me, dressing up like me for what crazy part about it all? I actually showed her love under the pick when she posted like I did the other three million something people that dressed up as me for hollow when the whole time I didn't even know she was being shady. Now I do so in that case, petty pennies on, I had my little fun I said what I said, I when they wear.

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Speaker 1: Petty panties is funny.

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Speaker 4: It's funny, like a cute petty.

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Speaker 7: It's funny.

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Speaker 6: Were falling into this topic because what you said right before we started recording, Mall, I thought you were referring to this topic.

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Speaker 7: That's why I want to know.

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Speaker 4: I wasn't. I wasn't referring to this. So this was like a news for me, for y'all telling me this, I understand. Uh, Tianna's a position on it. Now, while Kayla didn't say any names and uh, you know, she didn't objective journalism. Well you know, she didn't say any names, so she's telling her on the story.

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Speaker 2: Now.

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Speaker 4: If Tana saying her timeline, uh you know, doesn't add up and things like that in her story, then that's probably where the situation comes in. Like, oh, so you was messing with him while I was with him, Like so, I guess that's where that comes in. And you know, listen, man, I mean Kayla, she she seemed like she didn't care what she was saying. She knew obviously there was going to be some type of backlash. I think she feels like because Tiana and Shump are no longer together divorced, it was like, okay, it's not like their ticket. It's not like I'm breaking up a house and home. They are already divorced. I'm just telling a story of my past.

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Speaker 1: And I don't think Kayla was saying that they were together when Tiana and Shump were together. Maybe that wasn't No, that's exactly.

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Speaker 7: No, that's what she exactly.

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Speaker 4: She said she was dumped to go No, she said, yeah, and Tianna saying he didn't dump you in and like choose me, like I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: She could have been lying about that, but in the interview, she didn't say that there was crossover. She said I was dumped and then he moved on.

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Speaker 5: No, no, no, that's not what she said. She said, I was talking about moving up there and then he literally told me he dumped me, and then the next day moved in with Shorty. He was dating him at the same time.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, your mom was sloppy, he was moving that's not her faul.

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Speaker 5: But I don't know, that's not Kayla's fwawing. I don't think the internet, like you said, Kayla Frond of the show. We always show Kayla love on here and I don't know her personally, but the internet is killing Kayla because even if it wasn't shunp That is just a story that you just die with. You don't tell nobody did that.

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Speaker 4: But she didn't say no names.

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Speaker 5: It's not about no, no, no, it's not about saying name. It doesn't matter who it could.

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Speaker 1: Have been with Leary from third grade sayings losers.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that's what the internet is killing her.

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Speaker 4: And Angel asks her, what's one of the wildest things she's ever done? She's the point being petty, truthful? See, I see that's what I have a problem. When you say somebody truth do they not to get would say, but they are not. I know that. But they are divorced. So it's not like she's saying that to a couple that is in a happy relationship and together. She didn't say no names. This couple is now divorced, separated, they don't even probably communicate. So she's just telling, YO, this is the pettiest thing I've done. So I think that Kayla is willing to wear whatever comes with that. Like, Yo, it was petty, I shouldn't have done it, whatever, whatever. But I don't think that he was wrong in saying that. If that's the nicest thing she did.

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Speaker 1: The only wrong part was what Tiana did point out, which was when she said she was famous at the time. That was petty and unnecessarily. I feel like trying to famous I have to call I don't think that's as a friend. That's nuts you care about you know, she was famous at the time about Tiana Taylor, She's no, that's.

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Speaker 4: A bad I get what you're saying, but I don't think she meant it like that. I guess she was saying, you know, at the time, she's she was, she was famous, like she you know, she was, she's popping. I think I think that it was a bad choice of words because it might lead towards like, are you.

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Speaker 1: Saying she's not anymore?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, And I don't think that's what Kayla was doing. I guess she was saying at the time, yes, she was, like she was lit.

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Speaker 6: But but what about the implication that like she pretty much outed Emon And I'm not saying protect Iman in any of this, but I'm saying she pretty much outed the fact that she was he was seeing with me the same time, Like that was intentional too.

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Speaker 7: She said that in there as like.

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Speaker 6: Hey see with her, right, but before he moved in with you, we were still fucking that's she did that on purpose.

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Speaker 7: She muddied the timelines on purpose.

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Speaker 4: I mean, yes, again, telling the story, it's gonna expose some things. People are gonna dig, they're gonna put the puzzles together. But I think Kayla was standing behind again this is just me for what which is the truth? I think she's standing behind it was the truth. They are no longer together. It's not like I'm revealing this in there like a happy I'm like causing turmoil in a happy home. They're divorced, so it's like, okay, like, yeah, this is what happened. I'm sure the reason why they had divorce is because there's probably other stories just like that about Himan and Tianna was like, man, fuck got it?

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Speaker 5: No, of course, And I think I think our point is that, yes, Tiana has a reason to be upset, but the Internet is not killing her because it's Tiana. The Internet is killing her because they're calling her a loser for saying that. That's what that's what the backlashes.

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Speaker 1: She's the loser for saying what the pettiest thing she ever did was there's for doing it, of dressing up as the girl that your man like she said, she said it was this.

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Speaker 4: Is this was the petty I did it.

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Speaker 5: But you keep saying petty and I'm like, no, people aren't saying that that's petty. They're saying that that's loser ship.

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Speaker 1: Petty petty and loser ship is like cousins, Yeah, ends up being losing. They're like first cousins on the immature side, Like, we need to let women know when you do ship like this, it just makes us feel like more of the man. Like if I see one of my ex joints who I left dressing up as the girl i'm with, now you look like the man at that point, Like that didn't hurt anyone but you.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, And I think that was part of the story. She was like it was petty. You know, she gets it, like it was some petty ship she did.

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Speaker 1: She knew what that was, Like they were in the locker room like yo, shump, I know you had it like that, My bad bro, you got them in line like that. That's really how that ship looks in the immature life as men.

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Speaker 7: In Ego's tough Food.

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Speaker 1: I mean, that's a tough look for who she She went on the timeline after she got smoked and said, listen, I was just telling truth about something that was embarrassing, Like I'm gonna continue to do that. I'm I'm not proud of it. It happens, man, and.

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Speaker 5: Don't I don't judge, I'm not. I don't think anybody should completely hold that aga turn judge her for it. Twitter is very mean and they were the ones up in arms, But I mean, we've all done embarrassing shit. I can't imagine me being with a nigga and being madly in love and then the next day like he's all over the blogs with one of the finest women in the world. I don't know how I would react.

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Speaker 1: What's the pettiest thing you've ever done? Well, it's not petty, but embarrassing, which I told early days of this podcast. When my girl had left me, when I was like twenty one or something like that. I took the bus from Jersey City to Hackensack, which is local. It's like a two and a half hour bus ride with a DVD of hers to return, and she liked subway cookies, so I had a bunch of subway cookies and the DVD, which she told me she didn't need back, but I was like, no, I gotta return like she needs.

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Speaker 4: What was the movie Mighty Ducks three?

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Speaker 1: It might have been like Notorious or some stupid shita.

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Speaker 4: You gotta bring my If I bring up with a chick y, you gotta bring the.

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Speaker 1: Way cookies are on fire though, But yeah, that was like and remember I told you all her mom happy to be there, and her mom was telling me like the loser ship I was doing, like yeah, she gave me no. She drove me to like a closer bus stop and gave me the speech like yo, you're doing some loser shit. Get over there. She doesn't want you. You look weak right now. Like she gave me the best mom pep talk and was talking about her own daughter in a a good and bad way, like treated like a piece of pussy and leave like you're caught up on someone that doesn't want you. It's just some pussy. Leave.

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Speaker 4: I was like twenty one, oh yeah, yeah, because at that age you don't know when you're gonna get some again.

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Speaker 1: I don't know now, yelling, why are you making it a twenty one thing? You hold little bit because I wasn't expected.

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Speaker 7: What you mean?

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Speaker 4: You don't know now? It's tough.

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Speaker 1: Toddler, Man, I didn't have a family and not knowing only for baby number two for procreation. That's a ovulation and procreation.

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Speaker 4: That is hilarious.

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Speaker 1: Man, I'm al was saying off off Mike. That was related to the Kailer thing that women never apologize and he can't figure it out. So speaking of ages, it took you this long to realize that it's never gonna happen. No, the generations of men are trying to figure.

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Speaker 4: It out that I don't realize it. But it's just like it's always like, because I'm the type of person if i'm if i'm dating somebody, I'm in a relationship with somebody, and I'm wrong, I have no problem apologizing. I think that like the sooner you apologize, the quicker y'all can get past the situation move forward. So if I'm wrong, I'm like, all right, you know what, my bad. I fucked that up.

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Speaker 1: I was wrong.

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Speaker 4: I don't understand why women can't do the same thing when they're like dead wrong though, like completely wrong, like you got caught doing some shit. You you were wrong. Don't try to go silent and avoid the conversation and avoid having to talk about it and take accountability. Just say you sorry, like, just say you was wrong. You got caught up doing some shit you wasn't supposed to do. There's nothing else you can do.

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Speaker 1: It really has to do with anatomy and DNA. Like the same way you can't give birth is the same way they're wired.

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Speaker 4: You don't know. They don't say that because you don't know who and what identify men are giving birth.

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Speaker 1: These did, Yeah, I don't. We're like like you know, like like okay, you as a straight cis gender male cannot give birth. Is the same way a woman cannot. Apologize. It's just scientifically not wired that way.

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Speaker 4: That's not what Malkola mont Hill thinks. He thinks that men can.

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Speaker 1: In fact that no, he doesn't. He said it.

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Speaker 4: What he said that we can on he said it.

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Speaker 1: Oh that's right, I did today. What you're talking about.

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Speaker 4: He said it. He said men could happen.

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Speaker 1: In the angle. He's saying, I guess, No, you don't guess. This is what's wrong with put some scared of what what are you scared of?

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Speaker 7: Being right?

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Speaker 1: Whoever they are?

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Speaker 4: But yeah, I'm sorry, hey man, I need me to cut you off. I'm sorry, I didn't mean to cut you off. I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: In that scenario, yes, okay, somebody with the reproductive organs that identifies as a man can give birth. I'm talking about like I can't, no matter what I identified. Cool called me, I cannot. A child cannot come out of me, right, That's what I was referring to. I think everyone should be whatever they want to be, love whoever they want to love. Raymond Jay just want a proper quote. That's how I feel, so so Mark, I get it, man, I'm with you. I don't know what cann was talking about.

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Speaker 4: Oh man, yeah, I just don't. I just don't get why it's so hard to just especially when you no. Well that too, but I just don't understand why it's so hard for women to just say I'm sorry. What made you think that?

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Speaker 1: Was it something specific like are you going through that currently? Like you're on your phone some paragraph, not a blue No.

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Speaker 4: It wasn't nothing. It wasn't nothing in particular to me. It was just in reading like a girl that I used to say something she posted and it's like it's always the you know, the the motivational you know, relationships are hard work. They take time, and they yo, just saying.

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Speaker 1: You did some wag shit that got caught in you Sorry, You're like what you posted all this motivational shit for.

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Speaker 4: Because that's all it is.

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Speaker 1: That's their way of saying sorry.

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Speaker 4: That's crazy, though, man, let's just say you. It saves so much time. It saves so much like further unnecessary like not speaking and not being happy and being depressed. If you just take accountability for what you did, especially if you know you're wrong and you got caught doing some shit you wasn't supposed to be doing. I don't understand how you still try to move and and pivot out of say like yo, it's like if you're stealing something and I'm looking at you steal some shit, It's like, yo, what are you doing?

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Speaker 1: I think it's because women are also wired to like hang things over your head and bring up the past and never live shipped down, So they think if they apologize, we're gonna treat them the same way they treat us. So they're terrified to apologize and say they're wrong because they think, okay, now he can do the same matrix tricks to me and bring up the past of when they were wrong, So they try to avoid that at all costs.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but if you're thinking you a somebody that that's what they're gonna do, you just don't need to be with them.

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Speaker 1: Well, then if you think that they're holding woman.

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Speaker 4: If you think that they're holding that for another time, to throw that shit on on the table like a drawer full. It's like, why are you even in a relationship with this person you think they're gonna use that against you in the future.

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Speaker 1: Because I'm attracted to women, that's my thing. So you're saying all women are like that. Yeah, everyone got it. They're all the same, got it.

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Speaker 7: Well, this conversation reminds me of.

00:20:43
Speaker 4: That one time at band camp.

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Speaker 7: Now of a recent study that I just read where I.

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Speaker 4: Thought you about to say that you he conducted. I'm about like, now you conduct the sho l.

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Speaker 1: E s on the weekends. Conducted studies would be electric studies.

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Speaker 6: Well, I guess they'll count towards research. The room who in here, including you, Page, who in here thinks that they are self aware? If you were to raise your head, demeris is railing her way, Page is raising his hand. Everyone's raising their heads. So okay, So just for the sake of it always. So that's five out of five in the rumors self aware. Well, this study says, although ninety five percent of people say that they're self aware, scientifically only ten to fifteen people are actually self aware.

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Speaker 1: Well I told you was only ten to fifteen percent.

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Speaker 7: Damn it, I forgot. I forgot to say the.

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Speaker 4: Percent niggas on to planet this self aware?

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Speaker 1: The fuck ten out of six billion, Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Ten to fifteen percent of people are self aware? Yes, how do you?

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Speaker 1: How did they conduct?

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Speaker 6: This is why I knew Rory was going to come in with data and fuck research and all those things.

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Speaker 1: No, I'm legitimately how to He's a complete opposite. I told that you may want to tell Rory that for a minute, you hold every time that numbers came. There's a lot of fire behind that, especially because I'm asked the opposite to read it says this disconnected dude, you're not selling very self aware right now?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, this disconnect is dude to blind spots, the tendency to view ourselves to view Jesus, the tendency to view ourselves positively in social.

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Speaker 7: Media is cult to self.

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Speaker 6: So those are like the factors that kind of usually you know, deterred someone to believe that they're self aware.

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Speaker 4: Oh, they must have. They must have survey.

00:22:17
Speaker 1: Agin, what's our generations?

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Speaker 4: What's the one right after?

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Speaker 1: You're a millennial too, right, I think it's I think it starts at eighty one millennials eighty one. I think you're the first millennial.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I think the new ones past Gen Z either younger grow or I think they're called Gen Alpha.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, there's nothing alpha about that gender, That's what I'm saying. I was like, they should be called like Gen Beta.

00:22:44
Speaker 1: Well, they're just starting at the top of the alphabet now, so the next generational beta?

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Speaker 4: Oh really is that the news? I didn't know they were going down that route?

00:22:52
Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: What was the first millennial? Like the first iPhone?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, he's a millennial one.

00:22:58
Speaker 4: I was the first. He didn't have faced millennium falcon.

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Speaker 6: So there's two types of awareness self awareness or meaning internal and then there's external self awareness internal knowing your values and goals and external understanding how others see you. To improve in external self awareness, the study suggests finding a trusted colleague or getting honest feedback.

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Speaker 4: So I guess like therapy would be a good thing.

00:23:21
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I think that's where like a lot of depression can derive from, is hyper self awareness. You start feeling bad about yourself because you know too much about yourself.

00:23:34
Speaker 5: Yeah, and self awareness is probably being self aware is probably the cause for most of my insecurities is being hyper self aware of everybody's face when I say something, or like just everything.

00:23:47
Speaker 1: Really just saying that's why it doesn't smoke same, I get so paranoid. But to me, I don't know if that's like an accurate representation of what's going on. I think it just paranoia sets in. It doesn't make you more self aware. It just makes you more paranoid about what you think is happening, which isn't self awareness. Like you're on the couch, fine, no one's really looking at you. It's not self aware. No one's judging you in the corner. They didn't even notice you. But I will now make joint happy. How do they do this bullshit test? They asked ten people and that's how they got their percentage.

00:24:17
Speaker 4: Same same as family feud, the ext the same people, the exact same people, we actual one hundred people.

00:24:22
Speaker 1: They went from the family feud focused group to the self aware focus it was like a whole a lunch break in between.

00:24:27
Speaker 6: It was conducted by an organizational psychologist. But I don't know, yeah, I'm not. I don't see like exactly how many people were pulled and how and how can you to your point? Like how do you quantify if someone is self aware or not? You know, like what's the measuring factor? Just us raising our hands and it's all right, I guess that's okay.

00:24:51
Speaker 4: Yeah, uh, but.

00:24:54
Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean, I guess I'll ask you guys, like if you feel like, because I feel I've been in situations and all of the is that where you might see yourself in a situation and you think like you're reading the situation right, whether it's your relationship with someone or a job or whatever. And then usually for me, at least a moment clicks or something happens and that triggers that like, oh shit, I'm the one maybe not necessarily in the wrong, like oh maybe I'm just like analyzing or understanding what's actually happening a little different than what it actually is going on, Like how do you kind of rewire and reevaluate things even if you feel like you're right? You know what I mean to kind of reset yourself to look at it.

00:25:36
Speaker 4: I mean, I think it's I think it's subjective. It depends on what exactly it is that you're talking about or dealing with at the moment, or who you're dealing with at the moment. I think it's different circumstances for different obviously situations. But one thing I think that I speaking for myself, my self awenness. That's I think that's a lot of reason why I'm always by myself go on, because I know the type of person and I know that you know, like especially now with the world where we live in now, people are hyper sensitive and people have a real high victim mentality. Like there's a lot of people that walk around with victim mentality every day. I've never been one of those people, and I kind of feel left out. People like, yeah, nah, it's fucked up because I'm like, I've never experienced.

00:26:18
Speaker 1: That, all right, So why would you want to isolate yourself in that regard because you like, I've never seen you be an asshole to someone. No, no, no, I'm not going to hyper sens you can't be around because you say shit that would offect people like I don't think you're really like that. No, no, no, outside, I don't puss and some trump stuff. I don't think you're really like an asshole of anyone.

00:26:40
Speaker 4: No, no, no, I don't push I don't push like asshole energy onto anybody.

00:26:43
Speaker 1: I don't.

00:26:44
Speaker 4: I'm not that type of person. But again that comes. I think even that is part of being self aware, is not pushing that onto people and not.

00:26:51
Speaker 1: Being that person.

00:26:53
Speaker 4: Like if you go to a room, like if you invite me to a party and I'm like, all right, cool, because you're my guy, Like all right, I'll pull up. I'll know within the first twenty minutes, like this room is not really for me, but this is my boy. I'm here to support him, but I'm out of here in like ten minutes. I think that's part of being self aware. You know who you are, you know yourself, yeah, and you know where you mix and where you don't mix at Yeah.

00:27:17
Speaker 1: I think that's like the first surface level of the self awareness though, of like who you actually are as a person. I think doesn't just start with social situations in the rooms that you go in and out of, Because in that scenario, like I would know when I wouldn't want to go to a spot that I might even enjoy because I'm in a mood where I feel like down and I'll be an asshole. I'll i will suck the life out of this room with my negative energy. That's bad though, I know when you on that type of time will self awareness is knowing I feel that way and trying my best not to be around people at that time. Yeah, rather than oh, I know, I would either like or dislike that event.

00:28:02
Speaker 4: Like when we were in London at that first event the first night, like I saw it like you had like your meter, your self aware meter was like on eight on eight percent, and like your social media was like on two percent. I was like, all right, we have to get him out of here.

00:28:17
Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, but that had there was a lot of factors into that one. I know. After we went forty five minutes the wrong fucking way. Yeah, uber, Yeah, the meter started to go lower and lower and lower, Like you can try to be off at the hotel. See, that's like we're passing the hotel.

00:28:32
Speaker 8: Cool.

00:28:32
Speaker 1: That's the thing why I don't care to God is that drain you though, well, outside of jet lag and being tired. It was the first night also, it was something I already didn't want to go to. But similar, similar to what you were saying, like right there, all right, we're gonna start it off. You don't even want to promote. No, yeah, so you falsing yourself, because when it comes to work in your career, sometimes you have to force yourself to go do things you don't want to do. In no way did I want to go to that fashion show or do a live podcast. I was exhausted, but it was it was for the for the show man. Let's do it. Going forty five minutes in the other direction didn't help. And then when we got there, I was already pissed off, and then other things started to ensue, and I was like, see, this is why I say I'm gonna stay in the fucking We should have went with your first thought. But I didn't see, all right, maybe I'm not that self aware. I didn't realize that I was coming across that way. I was feeling it. Don't get me wrong, it was I thought I was. I was smiling, I was taking pictures.

00:29:30
Speaker 4: She was feeling it, and I was paused and I could see it. I was like, oh, yeah, no, it's time to go, Like he's and that The thing is we felt the same way like we we we we echoed each other's like sentiments like you like, all right, man, what were we doing? I just think that I handle it better than you.

00:29:50
Speaker 1: I think what was the two or three categories? Julian, Oh, what do you mean in internal internal self awareness? I think I'm very high in how I come I'm across. I think I lack Okay, there is a lot of times where I probably don't realize I'm coming off like how I'm coming off because in my head, I'm making sense in what I'm doing, Like it makes sense in my head, so it's gotta make sense exactly.

00:30:17
Speaker 4: It's just that again, I just, you know, I understand that now. It's it's easy for people to have this this victim mentality and this this hyper sensitive energy that people walk around with every day.

00:30:30
Speaker 1: It's like, I just can't.

00:30:32
Speaker 4: I'm nobody is why do people take things so personally these days? Like everybody takes everything somebody says as a personal dig a personal attack, and it's like that person doesn't even know you.

00:30:45
Speaker 1: Well, this is gonna sound a little fucked up, and I'm probably gonna word it wrong. Everyone in this generation feels like they're important. Everyone feels like their voice matters so much because they're able to post it anywhere they want, talk about anything they want, even if they have no background about it whatsoever.

00:31:03
Speaker 4: I e.

00:31:03
Speaker 1: Podcasters. We all feel like we're very, very important. As my dad says, the moment they put the baby on board sticker, yeah on vans, that was the day humanity died because we made the baby more important than the adult, Like, no, you're just here to work. Everyone feels very very important and like they matter more than that. It's one of my favorite theories that my father has.

00:31:27
Speaker 4: That's why I fuck with Jake, because he's from that claw.

00:31:32
Speaker 1: Yeah, I was born so I would go into the workforce.

00:31:34
Speaker 4: Like your dad feels like babies shouldn't feel like they're more important than adults.

00:31:38
Speaker 1: That we put the babies on pedestals, like they're the most important possible thing to the world.

00:31:46
Speaker 7: Now, Jake was so against that he left.

00:31:50
Speaker 4: Yeah, the more I mean he makes sense, the more Jake, the more Jake moves make sense though, Like the older I get, I kind of understand what Jake was coming for.

00:31:58
Speaker 7: You not think that that's him justifying his actions.

00:32:01
Speaker 1: I love that Bill Burbant when he's talking about his pops and then he's like, then I got a little older. I'm like, this guy's making some pretty good points. He didn't do it in a healthy way, but he's making solid points. They look weird to me at the top, but yeah, he explains it better, but that's his theory. Once that sticker added on there, like, we all have to stop what we're doing for this kid that we don't know that's in the car, Like I have to change my life because there's someone else's kid that has to be the most important thing on the highway. We never knew who the fuck was in anyone's car. You just drove. But that's so to answer your question, I think everyone has a bit of self importance. And I'm not saying you shouldn't feel good about yourself or think.

00:32:38
Speaker 4: Import with yourself. Yes, some of y'all are not important, and some of y'allion.

00:32:42
Speaker 1: And that's where I think mentality and where everything right. Everyone is important, don't get me wrong, but everyone not. Everyone's important in every single part of life.

00:32:56
Speaker 4: I just drove past a few niggas that ain't important today.

00:32:58
Speaker 5: They're important to somebody shit, And.

00:33:00
Speaker 4: That's the niggas I saw, trust me, where they was that in life. That means they pissed like the last person off that was holding them down. That's a fact.

00:33:07
Speaker 1: Like everyone in every situation now feels like, well what about me? We're not talking about you. That's where I think the mentality comes now. And I don't think I probably in a self aware way worded that correctly. People are probably gonna think I'm an asshole. Makes sense in my head, everyone is very much self important. Yeah, self love is great, grace, be confidence within yourself, but also understand that everyone else is going through their own problems, like you're not above anyone else.

00:33:36
Speaker 4: The one thing that I do find myself doing more ad hole that I get is trying like observing and figuring out where or who people think I am in their movie in their head. M hmm, like in that because you know, every day we you walk outside people you just it's like you probably hit theme music in your head when you walk down the street. Everybody has their own movie that they're directing in their head.

00:33:57
Speaker 1: I've definitely had my my AirPods in and did my you know, music video walk to the.

00:34:02
Speaker 7: Train, nothing hits better because you just got the haircut.

00:34:05
Speaker 6: Then getting out the Barberg chair, putting the AirPods in and having that like fresh cut out the shop.

00:34:10
Speaker 4: Walk, that's a good walk.

00:34:11
Speaker 1: You start walking like ten feet told I had that last week.

00:34:14
Speaker 4: It was great.

00:34:15
Speaker 1: Start leaving chicks on red so crazy, and then you.

00:34:18
Speaker 4: Walk past the bus stop and show your reflection and thought, what that's still Julia still is poor depressed guy still is poor depressed guy walking down Orchard.

00:34:32
Speaker 1: Still never amounts to what black magic was. That's black magic. In fact, black Magic's boy right there.

00:34:42
Speaker 6: Well, I wanted to speaking of people that aren't self aware, did you guys see Julia Fox released.

00:34:48
Speaker 1: Julia Crazy?

00:34:49
Speaker 7: Well, no, I'm saying, well, wow, that sounds like I was talking about her. I was saying.

00:34:53
Speaker 4: She went on and said that Kanye dating Kanye.

00:34:56
Speaker 6: Was her biggest regret and she felt like a pond out their entire relationship.

00:35:01
Speaker 1: We felt that way through.

00:35:03
Speaker 4: Really, let me explain something to you. We all knew that you were upon How did.

00:35:06
Speaker 1: You not know that?

00:35:09
Speaker 4: Probably? Fuck?

00:35:10
Speaker 1: Well?

00:35:10
Speaker 4: I was getting that. Did the thing with this is like jams Kanye being your biggest recurt.

00:35:15
Speaker 1: Jam, which but and I don't want to, which I am. Oh cut jam what a one eighty. It went from her in that movie to like, now she was.

00:35:23
Speaker 6: Addicted to heroin, like hone's the worst thing that she was ever involved with.

00:35:26
Speaker 1: Listen, she was a heroineutic, Yes, really that was That was like when George Bush said his worst moment in his presidency was Kanye West at a telethone fuck man who left. That interviewer was like, I can think of one day that was probably a little worse.

00:35:42
Speaker 4: Price stands out a little morning.

00:35:43
Speaker 7: There's a famous photo for shooting.

00:35:45
Speaker 6: Yeah, this was like a big There's like one of those ad things that's her that looks like I started using machines. I mean, I'm not trying to like drag her for a drug use, but she was like using its seventeen. I think she overdosed when she was seventeen. But to say that Kanye is worse than.

00:35:59
Speaker 4: Come on, worse than heroin, I mean different kind of.

00:36:02
Speaker 1: High, because I mean, at least heroin felt good.

00:36:06
Speaker 4: Kanye, Kanye, I'm not even gonna say going.

00:36:09
Speaker 5: To say Kanye felt gooday, not at all.

00:36:13
Speaker 4: He was about to say that your vacation was great to start Earth like, Yo, get out.

00:36:19
Speaker 1: Kanye. What we shouldn't police what makes people feel good?

00:36:22
Speaker 6: You're right about that, But what do you guys think think about this criticism we've been we've seen I don't know.

00:36:29
Speaker 4: We weren't in their relationship behind closed doors, and we don't know what she went through with Kanye, what she had to deal with, So I can't I'm not gonna ship on that, but it is that is kind of crazy to say that Kanye is your biggest regret.

00:36:42
Speaker 7: Yeah, Azalia Banks had a lot to say.

00:36:44
Speaker 4: It's demaric. Can you read that? I don't want to read that?

00:36:47
Speaker 1: Do you have to?

00:36:48
Speaker 3: Girl?

00:36:49
Speaker 1: Girl?

00:36:49
Speaker 5: You literally were contracted for this job through a celebrity madam in Miami. You knew you was there to be a comfort girl. Calling yourself upon is giving yourself way too much credit. You wasn't even on the chest sports. This left them. The eight left myself. How long is this bitch gonna ride this? I ate Chicken alfred O with Kanye and he got me second hand burking from the real, real brick and mortar store ship out.

00:37:12
Speaker 1: Bitch fleu.

00:37:14
Speaker 5: Bitch flew to Los Angeles and was flocking the streets looking for him while he was at Noble with Drake, left myself. These white women are something.

00:37:21
Speaker 1: He was at Noble with Drake. That's that's the craziest part I took out of that all.

00:37:25
Speaker 4: Sentence at that era, When when was this cool?

00:37:29
Speaker 1: Celia just be talking sometimes, y'all okay, But also she'd be rites some time, she'd be writing.

00:37:34
Speaker 5: So does jackuire right?

00:37:37
Speaker 1: Oh my god, she kept broken clock. First of all, how does Zilia know this much about Julia Fox Kanye?

00:37:46
Speaker 5: But I learned his lesson about these white girls. They all have this fucked up sense of racist entitlement and foolishly think there's some special coveted thing to him because they are all white, and not understanding that Kanye got all the white pussy in the world already. Then when their egos get bruised, they go trying to act like there's somehow above him and too good for him. Laft my ass up. These bitches acting like they wrote Jesus Walks.

00:38:06
Speaker 1: Only Ryan can feel that way. Wait, no, no, no, no, I gotta keep reading.

00:38:11
Speaker 5: Ozilia's really good And Julia, you fucking blew up by being a fame whore and interviewing about Kanye every five fucking seconds. I told you to shut up and at least ride it out long enough for Kanye to get a new apartment where you ain't got sneaker boxes in the kitchen, But you didn't listen, dummy, Kanye. As kids, you have photos of yourself shooting Heroin on the internet. Little girls are impressionable. You're a fucking liability, Julia, get the fuck over it. Sneaker boxes in the kitchen is crazy.

00:38:36
Speaker 1: How impressionable are little girls?

00:38:37
Speaker 3: Like?

00:38:38
Speaker 1: Come on, I've been a little boy and saw someone shoot Heroin?

00:38:42
Speaker 4: Oh my god, this last one.

00:38:44
Speaker 5: Like, imagine a dirty white bitch with a needle in her arm and photos of her sucking them gay niggas from Salem Dix.

00:38:53
Speaker 4: I'm done.

00:38:55
Speaker 6: I'm done having the nerve to try the posture like she's above Kanye West LMF a piece of bird ship, piece of bar.

00:39:04
Speaker 1: She hates her. Someone said, well ship the more you.

00:39:07
Speaker 6: Know, Well, didn't she wasn't There an exchange between the two of them and Dams or something like that. They used to be cool together, Julia Fox and his It looks like history. I think that happened at some point. So you guys have to fill me and then that turned.

00:39:19
Speaker 5: Well she did say I told you to shut up, Like basically, I told you to play a round.

00:39:23
Speaker 1: How paid is that, madam? That's giving Kanye West relationships? That's a different level of madam. Why do you say that you think Eliane's pulling those strings? She's I mean, she's queen you know madams. Yeah, but like for like whole ship, not relationships.

00:39:41
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's whole ship.

00:39:42
Speaker 1: That's what relationships.

00:39:43
Speaker 4: That's what Azilia is trying to say that you was a whore?

00:39:46
Speaker 1: You no, I know, but just like, but they were in like a real relationship. Didn't they get married or something that was beyond I can't keep up with these white chicks, man. They all look the same to me.

00:39:58
Speaker 6: Why doesn't Kanye get killed for that? For just because he's so far out there? No one cares he only dates white women. No one has ever talks about that with Kanye.

00:40:08
Speaker 1: I mean, I think at that point, is.

00:40:11
Speaker 7: Is it because of he's so out there that it's like whatever he's getting pretty Uh.

00:40:15
Speaker 1: He's been pretty self aware in his music about that, the point that he said, y'all would do anything for a klondike. I'll do anything for a blonde dyke, which is a wild bar in itself. And also I don't think he knows the definition of dike. There's a few times he's used dike and I was like, someone in the studio should tell Kanye with dyke means or maybe he doesn't. It's lots to us.

00:40:33
Speaker 5: But I think I think it's because Kanye is so crazy that it's just kind of like, let them white women deal with him.

00:40:37
Speaker 4: Child.

00:40:37
Speaker 1: Well he did, I mean, before he got rich and famous, he was stating black women. It just tends to be like that. Amber Amber What Amber? What?

00:40:49
Speaker 4: Ambrose?

00:40:49
Speaker 9: Amber?

00:40:50
Speaker 1: What I mean? Yeah, I don't know where twenty three and me? Is she white? Well, I know she's which has a lot of like Portuguese, I think ancestry.

00:41:04
Speaker 4: Yep, that's what I am.

00:41:06
Speaker 1: Shout shout out to cvs LO love kve Verdians say, but I don't. I wouldn't considered kave Verdians white.

00:41:14
Speaker 5: I wouldn't consider it them like Island in.

00:41:16
Speaker 1: Africa, Well, there's whites in Africa. What am I talking about that part? Look at well, elon fucking alien, where's his birth certificate? Fucking alien is So that's yeah, I guess she was black when she was with Kanye.

00:41:33
Speaker 4: Yeah, so was black when he was looking.

00:41:36
Speaker 6: I was gonna say, Connie does a good job of making every white woman he's been with look black.

00:41:41
Speaker 4: He did it with Kim, he did.

00:41:45
Speaker 1: I suppose I'm not here to victim Blaine because I really don't know what happened between Julia and Kanye, and prayers to her and everyone involved. But I think there is some responsibility going into a relationship knowing somebody is mentally unstable and still dating them and then crying victim afterwards.

00:42:00
Speaker 4: Well, I mean, again, we don't know what Kanye.

00:42:03
Speaker 1: West and his doctors and everyone have told. Kanye himself has said I'm bipolar. Yes, yes, this was well before he started dating this woman. I don't know how much of cry victim you can do when you go into a relationship knowing someone is completely unstable.

00:42:17
Speaker 4: Yeah, you got to expect some unstable shit to happen. Yeah, yeah, I get it.

00:42:21
Speaker 5: Have you guys dated? Have you guys ever did somebody who was bipolar?

00:42:24
Speaker 1: I have? It was a but I have It's not not fun?

00:42:29
Speaker 4: What's that?

00:42:29
Speaker 6: And I know it varies per each case, but is there like a tell you know what I mean, Like when they switch from one personality to the other, Well, that's I mean.

00:42:39
Speaker 5: That's multiple personality.

00:42:41
Speaker 1: It's not like they start using like a different voice in another character. Yeah, it's a drastic mood shift. And sometimes those moods can be pretty fucking crazy.

00:42:50
Speaker 4: And they you know somebody's bipolar, and choose to get in a relationship with them.

00:42:54
Speaker 1: You've done. Oh, I didn't know that they were bipolar. When I found out later into the relationship they weren't. Yeah, that's why I say you should probably get checked out. That didn't go over well. That's like saying, yo, you in your period. I took it to a whole other level, like, yo, you should probably get checked out. Didn't go well? But I was right. Yeah, And and what sucks is when you finally want to have you like I told you some moment, you can't do it in a doctor's office?

00:43:16
Speaker 4: Why not not the time? I feel like that's what the doctors was to high five me, like that was right.

00:43:21
Speaker 1: I helped you, Thanks for having a trust, man, I helped you, like brought.

00:43:25
Speaker 4: Money to your pocket? No, No, how'd that.

00:43:28
Speaker 1: Go with you?

00:43:29
Speaker 4: Demarus? How did you handle that?

00:43:31
Speaker 1: She left?

00:43:32
Speaker 5: No, with uh, I didn't know at first. There were some scares in there and I don't know.

00:43:38
Speaker 1: I don't know.

00:43:39
Speaker 4: Domestics don't care about it.

00:43:42
Speaker 5: Wasn't I would never be with a bipolar man. It wasn't a man.

00:43:44
Speaker 4: A woman. Oh my god, that might be worse than being a bipolar man.

00:43:49
Speaker 5: She was somebody who was aware of what she had going on and she worked her hardest to deal with it in the correct way as far as medication, as far as therapy. So yeah, it's not always easy, and.

00:44:01
Speaker 1: I want to make it clear, like I'm not here saying bipolar people should not get in relationships or be loved or anything like that, but it should be something that you are aware of in the relationship or it's going to go wrong, Like especially if you're going into it knowing their bipolar, you should as a partner start taking the steps to prepare and work with them to be the healthiest option. I'm not saying they don't deserve love, because I know this could get flipped.

00:44:23
Speaker 4: Yeah, I get it.

00:44:24
Speaker 6: Sounds like that's your answer for the question I'm about to ask, But I'll ask Demaris and mal what's the biggest bomb someone dropped into like a relationship after you've already been talking.

00:44:35
Speaker 7: You're like a dating or something.

00:44:36
Speaker 6: What's like the biggest Oh yeah, by the way, then they like say I'm pregnant.

00:44:41
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, okay, it's a good one.

00:44:44
Speaker 1: I'm not mad at that. Classic think I win a girl.

00:44:49
Speaker 4: A girl told me one time because I didn't understand why her and her uh she hated her brother, like hate it. And I like, whenever I met him, I thought he was cool. I'm like, yeah, like, but you always tell like she did not fuck with her brother, and I'm like it must be something he said some shit or did some wax shit. And we had went to her house one day and then when we left, we was in the car and I was like, I said, yo, why like you and your brother's relationship is so because you know, I got sisters. So I'm like, and me and my sisters get like, you know me, our relationships are great, Like we love each other, we crack jokes, it's like a fun relationship. And she just like blurted out she was like because my fucking brother molested me. And I was like, ah, that sucks. I was like, damn, Like I don't even know how to respond to that like yeah, you know what I mean, because it's like I whenever we're around me and like her brother, we hit it off, watched sports, that whole thing. So I'm like, yo, he seemed like had conversations like shit he says, It's like, okay, seem to we level headed. He went to school. You know, he got a couple of degrees. I'm like, okay, not an attractive god see girls liking him. I'm like, yo, why you and your brother don't have a little a better relate And then she threw that on me and I was like, damn, Like I don't even know, like I go punch this nig in his face? Like should I? I don't know what to now. That definitely don't want to be around the family no more. Like so it just that to me was like the biggest like And I could tell when she said it she was happy she finally told me because she can see how much me and her brother was like, I'm like, y'all rock with him? Like oh he cool? Like a fuck with your brother?

00:46:23
Speaker 1: Like That's why a lot of people never say anything to exactly what you just said. It can make everything awkward and weird. That the rest of your life. So that's why so many people, when it comes to family members doing that nasty shit, they just stay quiet because it's like, all right, this is gonna change everything forever, so I'll just be quiet and try to forget about it and just move on. So, yeah, I feel why she didn't say anything. And that's also sometimes when I noticed stuff and my partner won't outright just tell me what's going on, I leave it alone because clearly there's something there, and they'll tell me when they feel comfortable. And yeah, because if things aren't adding up, like why with your family this isn't that And if you don't have a real answer at that time, I'll be like, all right, cool, Yeah, I'm not gonna not even gonna ask about it unless you want to talk about it.

00:47:09
Speaker 4: Yeah, that was. That was tough, But I mean I didn't. I think I handled it well. I was, you know, I was listening.

00:47:15
Speaker 1: That's crazy.

00:47:16
Speaker 4: No, I wouldn't. I wouldn't say. See, that's what you think.

00:47:20
Speaker 1: That's how you think.

00:47:21
Speaker 4: You think I get down like that. You think you think a.

00:47:23
Speaker 1: Girl that I'm dating with everybody got a problem.

00:47:26
Speaker 4: I'm like, that's crazy.

00:47:26
Speaker 1: You want Yeah, I hate this victim mentality ship.

00:47:30
Speaker 4: Well I do, but not in my case. She was that was valid, that was one million per valid.

00:47:37
Speaker 1: I just think going into relationships, everyone should check people's medical charts, purses, purses when you.

00:47:46
Speaker 4: Go to the bathroom, make sure you watch it studio.

00:47:50
Speaker 1: But I know that killed. I know that kills the whole mood when you're talking to somebody. But yeah, like, do you have any weird like medical passion I should know about? Mm hm? Are you mentally stable with you been to a psychiatrists? There's something I should know because a lot of people whish they shouldn't feel this way, but I get it. Maybe a bit embarrassed about some chemical imbalances they have, and it probably dated in the past and people found out and ran the fuck away, so they're reluctant to say certain things. But I think that should be a conversation people should be able to have, especially if it's not just chemical imbalances, if it's herpees.

00:48:24
Speaker 4: Mm hm hm, that's your segue.

00:48:27
Speaker 1: I tried six both sort of a chemical imbalance. I don't get it, but no, I don't real what is herpies exactly?

00:48:43
Speaker 4: Gucci thir leg definitely now is.

00:48:47
Speaker 1: Can I start by saying I had never heard of Gucci third leg until this weekend, and I'm invested. Now, why would you want to hear about somebody naming not in the sex industry.

00:48:58
Speaker 4: So he's in the sex industry, yes, sex content creators.

00:49:02
Speaker 7: He's got only fans.

00:49:04
Speaker 4: Oh, so he's the only fans content creator. He has sex on OnlyFans.

00:49:09
Speaker 1: Yes, okay, content creator, professional content creator? From my understanding, what is a professional content creator?

00:49:16
Speaker 7: He makes money off it.

00:49:17
Speaker 1: From my understanding, he's leading the industry. I mean, he's got Gucci and a third leg.

00:49:23
Speaker 5: He said he had over five thousand body he slept with over five thousand women nice and he said that ain't a lot because like his ex told him, like she slept with over two thousands.

00:49:31
Speaker 4: So mm, when you put it like that, it was the splash Brothers. So over this past brothers.

00:49:38
Speaker 1: I'm glad we didn't talk about this on Tuesday because more more information is developed. But to give a backstory for those that don't know, And trust me, if you don't know now you should be happy you're about to know. You're about to know. Over the weekend, this nineteen year old woman went on her TikTok clearly upset, crying. She said, six months ago, I collapsed because that's what it's called. Not called fucking, it's called collabing. She collabed with Gucci Third Leg on an OnlyFans piece of content which I get, Yes, Verse swaps like feature for a feature on OnlyFans in Yeah, we've done it, We've collabbed. She then found out after the collab that she had contracted HSV two, which is generala herpes. Six months later, she came on TikTok and said she wishes she didn't hold that information back, but she was scared and embarrassed. But he just continued on to fuck a bunch of women for six months, and she started to feel guilty. Everyone should know that he has HSV two and which he then replied, well, let me go on Aiden Ross to clear up these rumors. Yeah, like anyone would, from Trump to Gucci Third.

00:50:44
Speaker 6: Lick And before I played the Dnay Davis was the woman that he shot with, and I guess that day they shot for They shot four scenes that day, so they fucked throughout the entire day, creating contest.

00:50:57
Speaker 4: And this was his pulling up his test results what's the what are you positive for? What is that? Can you read that as you're positive for HSV one?

00:51:08
Speaker 10: Yes, so what is that that means? So positive for HSB one means you have had probably like a clus or mussol and stuff like that. And this is very common in the whole world. Right, two are three people in the world have HSB one.

00:51:28
Speaker 7: Let me look at let me just look it up.

00:51:29
Speaker 1: So I most adult stars, they do not test for HSB one.

00:51:34
Speaker 10: And in the situation, I understand she is a victim, but I'm sorry, Dnay Davis, is not my victim.

00:51:44
Speaker 1: Also, to kind of track a pause, where where do we start? First of all, the sentence of saying I I have HSV one, I don't have herpes is kind of a contradiction in itself. As Demarra said earlier, what do you think that h and hsvans for mm hmm. And also, she's a victim, she's not my victim? Is also an insane fucking sentence to say. In this situation, why word that differently? I mean, she's a victim, she's not one of my victims.

00:52:15
Speaker 4: I mean, that's it. What's wrong with saying that?

00:52:17
Speaker 1: Though he's that's lying you have victims.

00:52:20
Speaker 4: No, it's not he's I know he misspoke there, but what I so, what I took from it was saying like, I'm not saying that you know, yes she contracted this disease, but I'm not the one that gave it to her. That's what I took from that.

00:52:32
Speaker 1: I know he misspoke.

00:52:33
Speaker 4: I'm not just saying she's lying about anything, but it's not me. That's what I took from that.

00:52:38
Speaker 1: I saw a lot of people online because you know, Twitter will become a lawyer or doctor everything when he steps back. Happened, but a lot of people on Twitter, which I believe is completely true. There's only a real certain way with blood work to definitely be cleared of or test positive for herpes if you don't have a breakout. I think you have to request a certain type of blood works a blood.

00:53:03
Speaker 5: Yeah, a certain type of blood test. And on top of that, those blood tests often have false positives.

00:53:08
Speaker 1: Yeah, so so he very much could have HSV two. It's just showed up as a false positive. But again we don't know.

00:53:16
Speaker 5: And on top of that, you can so what people don't understand, and this is why people really need to pay attention in sex ed. So HSV one and HSV two are just two different types of the virus. HSV one usually shows up on the mouth, but there are rare or not so rare instances where if you are giving head to someone and you have HSV one, that HSV one can be passed on to their genitals. So, no, it won't show up as HSV two because that's not the strand of the virus that you have, but it is still considered genital herpes. It's because it's it's a couldtor that you now have on your genitals. It can be transferred that way. So him saying I have hsv V one doesn't mean anything because you could have HSV one and it's just on your penis. And you also had sex with this woman with an open sore. They're both absolutely astronomically insane, like you can see in their footage like it's right there. I can see it through a phone screen. So putting your tongue on it was wild.

00:54:20
Speaker 1: But yeah, people just do like four scenes. I feel like, yeah, start to.

00:54:24
Speaker 6: This on the stream with Aiden, and he also explained that he, uh, it wasn't open sore, it was a cut because he shaves his penis.

00:54:34
Speaker 4: I know some men who did that, but the cut was like that. The cut was like in the upper third of his dick. Yeah, I just have so many How did you attain this information research?

00:54:50
Speaker 1: When he was collecting data on the lower east side of it.

00:54:53
Speaker 6: Was gonna say if he said nothing, if the cut was located lower, like towards the base, I would shoot him bail because, yeah, hair can kind of do this thing. Hair doesn't grow off the tippy or dick. That's fucking stupid. Just you're lying. You're just lying. Like That's why I wanted to make sure I could confidently says full as shit.

00:55:15
Speaker 4: I did always think about that with only what if he was trying to like trim his head while he was like, wow, I was soft, he got distracted closer to the base, right, No, No, I mean if it's not the third leg, it's a soft note. Man. Fan.

00:55:29
Speaker 1: First of all, don't ever look me in my eyes and say not the third lie my bad Gucci third legs that better.

00:55:33
Speaker 4: No, it's not just stop looking at me saying third leg, but it's Gucci. I just don't understand people.

00:55:41
Speaker 1: Many know once OnlyFans like starting it was just girls like touching their pussy and being naked, then shifted to like full blown fucking and porn. Definitely cross my mind of how they were doing STD checks because from my understanding, like with the real porn shit, you have to come in with your results like every single time before a scene for everything rest did I think the week of your shoot? And this is all you know Gorilla style. This is you know, back back to the old days of just you know, we trying to get this ship done. Like it's how hip hop starts shooting and clapping, that's all you know. This is the mixtape days, Like we were recorded in the bathroom type of thing. We're just trying to get a record.

00:56:23
Speaker 4: We're not there yet record place.

00:56:27
Speaker 1: This was havoc making the shook one's drums with the stove like and actually cocking real guns into the microphone. That's what this is gonna do. But so you know, something gave me a hunch that nobody was really asking for for test results in these Gorilla style only fans ship and these people collab but they also fucked civilians. Yeah, so if this guy has actually fucked five thousand people.

00:56:55
Speaker 6: Three thousand by the way, it was, that's still crazy.

00:57:03
Speaker 1: You have to think of what that family tree of three thousand people.

00:57:07
Speaker 4: There's lists of.

00:57:07
Speaker 6: Going around of other women, other content creators that he shot with that are kind of floating around the internet. So obviously the only the woman woman spoke out. But now like he has like a treasure trothe of content. So now people are just kind of, you know, throwing herpies on every single person that he's collabed with.

00:57:22
Speaker 1: Which they shouldn't do. Yeah, that's crazy. But I mean if you think about I don't know Gucci third Leg whatsoever, nor do I know en of the women that he said never never actually one of them.

00:57:35
Speaker 4: Yeah, I never once thought that you knew good.

00:57:37
Speaker 1: I just want to make that clear. I know the fans were waiting for this episode for me to address the rumors of if I knew Gucci third Leg. I do not know the gentleman.

00:57:44
Speaker 4: Oh you sorry, But.

00:57:47
Speaker 1: If he's fucked three thousand people that's in Atlanta, right, I just assume Gucci third Leg is from Atlanta. I'm just gonna guess.

00:57:57
Speaker 5: I wouldn't be surprised.

00:57:59
Speaker 1: There's no way his family tree has not touched your family tree.

00:58:04
Speaker 4: Who family tree?

00:58:05
Speaker 1: I think it's impossible. I'm not saying everyone is herpies. I'm just saying, if he fucked three thousand people in the metro Atlanta area, somehow you have a third or fourth cousin that has been involved in that whole mix. Three thousand bodies. Yeah, damn, this girl got three thousand people in their family trees. He's like, you, guys, don't think anyone in this room has touched.

00:58:29
Speaker 4: That whole Yeah, he was like the he was like the He's like the Genghis Khan of like only fans.

00:58:34
Speaker 1: It's it's the third leg of separation.

00:58:40
Speaker 4: You keep looking at me. That's not a good title.

00:58:44
Speaker 1: That's really he's gonna be in the art work. You're gonna be the third You're gonna be Gucci third Leg. Not even I think Louis. As much as we're joking, this should be a big wake up awareness call for everyone that somebody has three thousand bodies. Like, no one's exempt. I don't care if you're a virgin in fuck once m everyone's fucking everyone. So our circles are not that big. Like, this isn't a sex worker thing, This isn't this is just in general, it's nasty out there.

00:59:19
Speaker 4: It's discussed. Let's play. This was the clip of him speaking on how many women.

00:59:23
Speaker 11: They count, was like three thousand and one hundred. But I was really I ain't feel too bad about it because my ex chick down in the body had like two thousand or whatever. But so it was like when I was dealing with my chick, she couldn't really be like, oh, your body counts too much because her body kind of like two thousands. My body kind of like two thousands. It was like, damn, like, I ain't feel too too bad about it.

00:59:42
Speaker 4: Which generation is he from?

00:59:45
Speaker 1: Is he a millennials? That's an alpha right there? Yeah, alpha.

00:59:51
Speaker 4: Wife and a girl that got two thousand bodies is fucking crazy.

00:59:54
Speaker 1: But porn said, but porn people wife other porn people, like, that's not uncommon. Yeah, and that's and that's like kind of preferred. I think sex workers do that.

01:00:03
Speaker 4: His sex girls is a sex worker.

01:00:05
Speaker 7: I mean for two.

01:00:06
Speaker 1: Thousand bodies, I would who I would hope, I don't know the name.

01:00:11
Speaker 3: You know.

01:00:11
Speaker 6: They say to people like to perfect your craft, you gotta put in ten thousand hours maybe for them, and you got ten thousand bodies.

01:00:16
Speaker 1: I was watching the interview when Tianna Trump was talking about when she fucked Bill Maher, This is like it's out.

01:00:22
Speaker 4: Wait who oh, I think Tianna Taylor, I will tell you wait what.

01:00:26
Speaker 1: Because there's not a podcast where Tianna Taylor is about fucking buildings.

01:00:31
Speaker 4: I was like, what, Like, what is happening? I am I missing all of this.

01:00:35
Speaker 1: But she's discussing that whole thing. But she said her boyfriend dropped her off at the house and waited outside. Like that's a regular thing with in sex work. Waitfriend did what drove her to Bill Maher's house, dropped her off and waited outside until she was done.

01:00:51
Speaker 7: Hmmm, moll thoughts on that.

01:00:57
Speaker 1: Yeah, just call better help man, That's all I got to say. But she in the porn industry. I don't think that that crazy paid. Yeah, she wasn't like talking to Bill Maher he paid.

01:01:09
Speaker 4: Yeah. But it's then I go there for was it the hard questions?

01:01:13
Speaker 7: What is the file?

01:01:15
Speaker 1: Thoughts thoughts?

01:01:16
Speaker 4: I get it, but I guess I'm more so on the side.

01:01:18
Speaker 1: You definitely talked to her ear off though.

01:01:19
Speaker 4: If I'm in if I'm in the porn industry and I have a girlfriend and she's in the porn industry. I would just think that we were both only shooting with each other right now while we're together.

01:01:31
Speaker 1: Am I crazy for thinking that? Yes, because you're also not going into their mind state where they don't view sex the way you view sex.

01:01:38
Speaker 4: Yeah, but I just don't know if just because they'm getting in you off to Bill Maher's house while he thrashes you all over his and I'm sitting outside, Bill, I'm sitting outside on World Star waiting for you to come back outside, Like what am I doing?

01:01:53
Speaker 1: You wouldn't read a book like what am I doing?

01:01:54
Speaker 4: About my girls upstairs getting thrashed by Bill Marrain?

01:01:57
Speaker 1: You know they have those like a chessboards you could attach to your steering wheel. Maybe he was just playing some chess.

01:02:02
Speaker 4: Okay, playing chess in the car on while your girls upstairs getting thrashed. Where are you add in life?

01:02:09
Speaker 3: Like?

01:02:09
Speaker 4: How did you get that to that level?

01:02:11
Speaker 1: I think you're being a bit judgy if they were if they were civilians, yes, I would find that a bit odd. But in that industry, I don't think it's as crazy as you think it is. But I'm just saying we view that way differently. Than we view it because it's their industry.

01:02:22
Speaker 4: I get it. I would just say if I was in the industry and I have a girlfriend, now she's in that industry, we're only shooting with each other. No, I mean, y'all gonna eat you go to Adam twenty two rout No, because he still lets other men.

01:02:35
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, he does reality shows. That was one time he did a reality show.

01:02:41
Speaker 4: They do it. They do a show together where they end up talk with porn stars and it's just women.

01:02:45
Speaker 1: No, it's not that he sends that whole big thing with that guy. He did a reality show with his staff to fuck his girl, and then after that they did an.

01:02:58
Speaker 5: Y'all y'all lame I'm going over there, no jumper. Yeah, y'all ain't never.

01:03:02
Speaker 1: Let me just say you want to funk Adam twenty two.

01:03:06
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's part of that sit.

01:03:07
Speaker 1: I gas like ship.

01:03:08
Speaker 4: I said that, that's part of the job.

01:03:10
Speaker 1: Though it is you thinks Sharp is more hurtight not break baby, definitely hurt. Who the fuck is Brick?

01:03:17
Speaker 4: I didn't know? Sorry?

01:03:20
Speaker 1: Fine, who's Cree the guy five five crab?

01:03:26
Speaker 5: You know one that you guys did that, But it wasn't too bad looking. Who's his name?

01:03:30
Speaker 4: He's no longer there? Oh this is who was trying to put on you Free the guy hm free crypt Mac?

01:03:36
Speaker 5: He could probably sure, he's like he could never mind.

01:03:43
Speaker 1: Five fight crip treat the click like a pinball. He's gonna pour oe and that ship.

01:03:51
Speaker 4: Clip like a pinball.

01:03:54
Speaker 1: God, look like he go crazy. I'm just saying he's gonna scream five five while five or five clip? Oh ship five to guy man three the guy krip Mac man.

01:04:13
Speaker 5: Oh he's in jail.

01:04:14
Speaker 1: Yeah, what did he do? I think he got caught?

01:04:17
Speaker 4: Look at him.

01:04:18
Speaker 1: Just just guess guess what Mac got in trouble for he cripping? He ain't playing cripping right there? Crazy, You don't know krip Mac. See that's what they got the right guy.

01:04:29
Speaker 4: He not. He's not telling us to wait.

01:04:31
Speaker 1: No for you know.

01:04:33
Speaker 4: He did it.

01:04:33
Speaker 6: Two arrests for being a fallon and possession of a firearm and attempted second degree armed robbery, grand theft, and transportation of a controlled substand So he did everything.

01:04:41
Speaker 4: Listen, that's real cripping going on. Like he's not.

01:04:44
Speaker 7: Placing fifteen years Oh damn, yeah for sure.

01:04:49
Speaker 4: Let kryp Mac come home, I like and be a star. He's a star, and I.

01:04:53
Speaker 1: Felt I felt for him because I feel like his ship was just taking off when this whole thing happened.

01:04:58
Speaker 4: But yeah, that's when it happens. Manhen you got one foot in the game one foot.

01:05:02
Speaker 1: Out, It's like he had two feet. He was double dutchy.

01:05:09
Speaker 4: Was twenty toes in the game.

01:05:10
Speaker 1: Sure you've got mal Do we have voicemails? We do?

01:05:18
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01:05:29
Speaker 4: It is on the page. Let's get into it.

01:05:33
Speaker 9: Yeah, So I work with this girl, right, and first of all, I'm all about self love and shit like that and treating yourself and things of that nature. So bullshit is on the way she she kind of takes it to a different level a few times. I've been working with her for about a year now. A few times throughout that year, so just randomly send flowers to herself and like other gifts to herself, Like she'll send them to herself at work. And it is that mental illness or my trippming? Is that a normal form of self love or or my tripleing?

01:06:09
Speaker 4: No, you're not tripping, sir. That young lady is crazy.

01:06:12
Speaker 1: Hold on, she is pretending that, like she's getting surprised at work, like who are these from?

01:06:19
Speaker 4: Yeah?

01:06:20
Speaker 7: Did she write herself a note?

01:06:21
Speaker 1: Because that's the case. Yes, mental illness for sure, to suggests from who, Like if she's like, oh my gosh, I have a secret admirer, she's doing that one hundred percent.

01:06:32
Speaker 4: Writing secret admirer on a card that you ordered to yourself, it's mental illness.

01:06:37
Speaker 1: He's so romantic. Like mental illness for sure. But if she's just ordering herself flowers to have flowers, fresh flowers at work, then she's not mentally ill. Well, then that would make me mentally ill to I send myself. There's like services. I like flowers in the house, so I've done like monthly services different, that's different. But we don't know if she's pretending that they're coming from someone else or is she just ordering her self monthly flowers.

01:07:01
Speaker 5: Well, I would assume that I would assume that she's not because he's he didn't bring it up like this bitch is crazy like making up scenarios. He said, how much love is too much self love? And he said that she's sending them to herself, Like if she wasn't sending them to herself, he wouldn't know that. So he just works with her. So I think it's well known that she's sending them to herself. I don't think that there's anything wrong with that.

01:07:21
Speaker 1: That's a little yeman And this isn't the self important shit I was talking about earlier. That's fine. If you want to send yourself flowers at work, and especially in those fucking dull ass offices, you want some nature around you, send yourself some flowers. Not again, if she's telling him in the cubicle like, yo, I can't keep these these dudes off me. They keep sending flowers. Yeah, that girl is mentally fucking ill. But no, what's wrong with sending yourself flowers?

01:07:44
Speaker 4: Know it's something wrong with sending yourself flowers if that, if you're sending it to yourself and you know that you know these are for me, I've ordered them. But if you're pretending like you said, like they just keep popping up at your job with flowers for you, m I mean just you know, if she gets mad and she storms out of the office, I think that's your.

01:08:01
Speaker 1: Cue to leave too. I think you should leave right after.

01:08:06
Speaker 4: That's all I'm.

01:08:07
Speaker 6: Saying because I'm trying to think. In my mind, this is no different than say someone that's like, Okay, every Friday, I get a massage. It's like it's just treating yourself. Like That's how I'm viewing it.

01:08:19
Speaker 4: Every Friday's massage. Flowers.

01:08:22
Speaker 1: There's nothing wrong with that.

01:08:22
Speaker 4: I'm not wrong with that.

01:08:24
Speaker 1: I mean, it's an expensive habit. Flowers aren't cheap, especially the delivery shit. But I mean, if you got it, why not. I don't think there's anything wrong with that. I think he's weird for thinking that it's odd that a girl wants flowers at her desk.

01:08:37
Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't think that's what it is. I think she's ordering them and then pretending like they're being sent from somebody she doesn't know. She's acting surprise. It's crazy acting surprised when they're emailing you saying it there all the way? What can what can you con track the order?

01:08:53
Speaker 1: I'm trying to think, like what he's outside the receptionist comes, you have another one.

01:08:58
Speaker 4: Guess who yourself. I guess your card is on file.

01:09:04
Speaker 5: No, but no, I could see my I don't like buying stuff like that for myself, but I can see, like, you know, setting that like up every month so that every month like I received followers, and it's like, oh, it's a nice surprise, not surprise, but like it's a nice gift from for myself. Like I don't see anything wrong with that. I think that's nice.

01:09:22
Speaker 1: Somebody got to do it. Shit, you're supposed to wait for a man.

01:09:24
Speaker 4: To do it. Yeah. I bought flowers for myself too. I just bought like three oh's last week. Some fire that flower. Oh man, that flower powers.

01:09:33
Speaker 1: But see what's the difference. That's self love puts it.

01:09:36
Speaker 4: I'm mad at it, but I'm I'm also not acting surprised.

01:09:38
Speaker 1: I am weed. I'm not. Oh, he's so out of touch with the culture. Man.

01:09:43
Speaker 7: I thought you were saying flowers like women.

01:09:46
Speaker 4: No, women are flowers.

01:09:47
Speaker 7: That's yeah, that's what I thought he was saying.

01:09:49
Speaker 1: I think mal bought three women last week.

01:09:51
Speaker 4: He could, I could, but you think I did. That's who we asked. You think I did?

01:09:56
Speaker 1: Working? You know, the same Adam that Julia Fox was in there.

01:10:00
Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't know if I know that lady, but probably do. It wouldn't surprise me found on one of my home finding one of my homegirls was a matter that shit fucked me up?

01:10:09
Speaker 1: She did it? Or did you start to realize it makes sense?

01:10:12
Speaker 4: No, it fucked me up because I didn't recognize it like before she told me made sense. Yeah, I was like, Oh, I thought y'all was I thought y'all was just like taking vacations.

01:10:21
Speaker 6: In Yeah, oh right you So, let me get this. The Madam doesn't put out They just recruit women. And how does that work?

01:10:30
Speaker 4: She's like the GM. The Madam will sleep with a guy depending on who he is and like his status.

01:10:38
Speaker 1: But she's like a female.

01:10:39
Speaker 4: If he owns the yacht, she'd probably sleep with him.

01:10:42
Speaker 7: She's top dog.

01:10:42
Speaker 1: Yeah, like the celebrities. Team will know where the madams are at, reach out to them, and then she'll pass the roster off so he can go through the book and pick which ones like a brochure he wants. Yeah, GM is probably the best way.

01:10:57
Speaker 4: To put it.

01:10:57
Speaker 1: Yeah, gotcha which one she's gonna put on the rating block that night?

01:11:01
Speaker 4: You know you said a general manager? General Madam you know how that go. You've seen a few.

01:11:07
Speaker 1: I feel like madams would be way better to deal with than pimps, just the overall better experience. I think business would go better. Now.

01:11:14
Speaker 4: I know one madame that don't play. She just slapped the ship out one of them. Yeah, she don't play. You missed that flight and she told him it was four girls coming and only one and only three show up. Oh yeah, yeah, she for show slapping the shit out you.

01:11:26
Speaker 1: That's coming out her pay cut. Yeah.

01:11:27
Speaker 5: Sure, I feel like I would be a good madam if it was legal.

01:11:32
Speaker 1: I feel like if you're if you're a whore and you miss your flight, like you should retire. You don't have to do much. All you had to do, you don't. All you had to do was make your flight to Turks. Like you couldn't do any other job at that point. You have no admin skills whatsoever. You missed your flight to Turks to go ten and get fucked.

01:11:49
Speaker 4: And it was and it was a late flight, it was like seven pm.

01:11:51
Speaker 1: You know how early I would be to a flight to Turks if I got free steak, I'd be the day.

01:11:56
Speaker 4: Before free steak.

01:11:59
Speaker 1: You can't every meal paid for at the resort, I would be there. I'd be a JFK the day before third leg, Like I feel like a lot of and I'm not even saying the actual working escorts. Women in general, I think are spoiled and take for granted those trips like that's some regular ship. Can you imagine if somebody flew you out all expenses paid to a resort for you to just relax, would be so I would be so grateful.

01:12:28
Speaker 4: You're getting thrashed.

01:12:30
Speaker 1: The sex is cool, I'm about to say. I mean, is that not it's consensual? Like that's not enjoyable?

01:12:34
Speaker 5: Okay, okay, but it depends on who is with That's what I'm about to say. Like they're they're whorees. It ain't like they going off what their own wants and needs are. It's not like they're going to be pleased, They're going to be somebody.

01:12:43
Speaker 1: Know that. To the guy that's working eighty hours in a mine shaft, like you have her job is okay?

01:12:48
Speaker 5: Have you ever been fucking ass?

01:12:50
Speaker 3: No?

01:12:50
Speaker 1: Okay, just a cree yeah. But like the girl, if I'm madam, that's just crazy to throw at a man.

01:12:59
Speaker 7: But if you if I'm a madam, and I know my roster.

01:13:03
Speaker 1: Light's getting and then also had a full resort, all expenses paid, first class trip. That that's a job, thank you. Then you're taking for granted everything, but you factor you.

01:13:15
Speaker 4: You see what you're doing is you're banking on everything being like great, what if you get there and it's like this hideous investment banking from China that doesn't smell good. His breath stinks and he's all over you. He's trying to like kiss you in your mouth and like man's sucking it. That's not enjoyable for you as a woman.

01:13:34
Speaker 1: Sometimes you have to work a holiday. Sometimes you gotta work a double when you somebody, Like in every profession, there's always days you don't want to work.

01:13:42
Speaker 4: And I was not the most three shifts in the stock room on Christmas before I fly out. Okay, some hideous, unattractive woman with bad breath and a stink butt try to sit on my face because she owns a yacht.

01:13:56
Speaker 1: Okay, this is gonna sound, this is gonna sound.

01:13:59
Speaker 6: Uh.

01:14:00
Speaker 1: I'm not talking about those that are getting shitted on by sauty billionaires. They're earning their keep. I have respect for those women. That's that's a day's work. She came home with calluses and dirt on her hands. She was shitted on. She got all she deserves, every dollar. I'm talking about the women, and it's gonna sound kind of gay that are flown out by these amazing NBA players, Like, is that that bad of a fucking job, fucking NBA player and be in Turks for the week.

01:14:27
Speaker 7: You're talking about the same crop of women.

01:14:28
Speaker 6: By the way, the women that got shipped in Dubai are some of the people that walk the Victoria's secret one way.

01:14:33
Speaker 1: Okay, so those are their half days and Dubai is their full days.

01:14:39
Speaker 4: Father's hell your daughters, man, I agree. Just hug them and hold on to them tight. Hug him and hold on to them tight.

01:14:46
Speaker 1: What was the question y?

01:14:48
Speaker 4: Yes she is you guys have a mental illness. Yes, that girl is crazy.

01:14:52
Speaker 5: She does not have a mental illness.

01:14:53
Speaker 1: All right, buy yourself some flowers so you don't have to get shitted on in Dubai.

01:14:57
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think you should buy yourself flowers. And when she gets hurs you kind of look at her like me too, somebody loved me. Now you got a flower war at work?

01:15:06
Speaker 1: Flower war it's like bottle wars. Yeah, like I get flowers too, No, why not? I don't know if it works that way. Yeah that I don't know if the fellers we need off flowers many flowers too. I agree, yeah, flowers, I like what you does.

01:15:22
Speaker 5: I bought them man flowers to be fair. I was in a relationship and he bought me flowers every week. I always have flowers, so I always felt like men didn't get like enough flowers, so I bought him flowers. Granted, I bought him stuff all the time.

01:15:34
Speaker 4: Flowers, crab grass, crab grass showing up with crab grass in a vase.

01:15:41
Speaker 1: But you pulled it out of the you know what, like dirt.

01:15:44
Speaker 4: Still, the marriage had dirt up.

01:15:47
Speaker 1: Paul was like, this is sweet you.

01:15:48
Speaker 4: She dropped it like this.

01:15:50
Speaker 1: You can make it grow. It's another project for you. Now what kind of flowers you got. Here's some more ship you can do for something you can work on. Why does all women's gifts and more ship I have to do work?

01:16:04
Speaker 4: They give his work for us.

01:16:06
Speaker 5: I always felt like that, like when my mom would like, buy like a grill for my dad, like you buying ship for him to cook.

01:16:13
Speaker 1: Pick Thank you for this chore that I now have.

01:16:19
Speaker 4: Remember, girl bought me a supreme a drill set. I said, just because it's supreme, that bitch, I'm not drilling up these fucking drapes.

01:16:26
Speaker 1: Get out there.

01:16:27
Speaker 5: That's fine, that's fine, that's odeed, that's fine.

01:16:30
Speaker 1: But I feel like all men, I'm sure you have it on display now though that's something to saint.

01:16:35
Speaker 5: I feel like all men should have a nice drill set, but supreme, I got mine, you said, what I.

01:16:41
Speaker 1: Got mine at lows?

01:16:42
Speaker 4: But it works.

01:16:43
Speaker 1: I don't want the Supreme drill set. And she got has some stock eggs. Why are you shop shaming? Mmm? I got him.

01:16:52
Speaker 5: I got him roses and some flowers. I think I know it was roses, and I think there were like two some flowers in there. And he left the ship. He was like, oh, thank you, but like, you could have bought me this, this, this, this and that, and I'm like, you said, you could have bought me a stripper.

01:17:05
Speaker 1: Oh bring your cute girl with the fat ass in it, Jesus flowers. You could have gave me, had him and just been quiet for the afternoon.

01:17:16
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's that's better than flowers for me. Suck me and shut up dot com?

01:17:22
Speaker 1: Do we have another that's your only fan? Slash suck me in shore we go.

01:17:32
Speaker 7: What's up?

01:17:33
Speaker 5: What's something?

01:17:34
Speaker 8: All my name is? We're gonna call me ka calling from the Bay Area or what one of your older yes listeners a little bit older than all very younger heart though. So, the situation I'm calling about is the person that I've been dealing with for a very long time, me that person. We're not official, we're cool with that, but he's had some friends who don't know that I'm dealing with him that have tried to get at me, and I've shut it down point blank.

01:18:03
Speaker 5: Period.

01:18:04
Speaker 8: The problem is I didn't go back and tell him immediately about the situations. So one particular situation he found out on his own. Another situation I told him later on down the line. With both situations, he was very upset at me because he felt like I should have told him off rip about what happened, and that he felt, like you know, with situations like that, he felt like he can't trust me if I'm not telling him right away. I get his logic partially, but I also feel like me not telling him was to protect his friendship, and I feel like I should get some type of credit because I didn't entertain the situations. So I just want better clarification or better understanding from you guys. How am I wrong in this?

01:18:49
Speaker 3: All right?

01:18:49
Speaker 1: Thank you? By well, thank you for that call.

01:18:52
Speaker 4: First of all, I think it's you're wrong because well, I granted you're not official, because I think that's her sticking. They were not official, So does she owe him that to tell him that if you know they're not a couple officially, But you would be upset if the roles were reversed and one of your homegirls was trying to talk to him and he didn't tell you about it and you found out however you found out, So that's how you can It's that simple. If the roles were reversed, you would feel some type of way if one of your homegirls tried to talk to him and he didn't tell you that you got bitches in my face smiling, I look stupid. It would have been all of that. So yes, you're wrong for not telling him. And just because you're not official doesn't mean you don't older person honesty and to be forthcoming with information like that just because you're not a couple.

01:19:43
Speaker 1: I have a bunch of questions, but I see Damarus like Mayweather on the ropes, bobbing and weaving over there during that whole entire exchange. No, I mean, I get Mom's point.

01:19:52
Speaker 5: I think her intentions are what's important, though, because like sometimes it's like, yeah, I'd be mad about this and I'd feel some type of way, but it mean that your intentions were bad. Her intention I don't think her intentions were bad. I think her intentions were Okay. Nobody really knows this, and this might cause a rift in their friendship. I don't want him acting funny towards his friend. I shut it down. There's really nothing to know, So I'm gonna be quiet.

01:20:14
Speaker 1: If you that.

01:20:15
Speaker 5: Overprotective of a girl, do you need to let your homies know that she off limits?

01:20:18
Speaker 7: All right?

01:20:19
Speaker 1: First of all, First of all, first of all, if you did not, I have protected to take the Demeris rowls, I thought you were gonna go a whole different route. His homeboys was comfortable hitting you up because I said he told them you were a slide.

01:20:31
Speaker 4: No, see, you always go how you know that man told him?

01:20:34
Speaker 1: Do that? That don't mean that they don't know that that she's in a relationship. I don't know that they're in a relationship, and very vocal that I'm not one of those people. I've had friends that have even asked me like, Yo, what's up, it's cool whatever. I don't like to do that type of shit, but I'm not going to pretend like that's not a common thing. Yes, if those are his action.

01:20:55
Speaker 4: Any fit in that to me, don't do that. Don't do I'm not gonna let you get that off. You told me to stop leaving money bags to somebody's pictures.

01:21:01
Speaker 1: That was my ex girlfriend.

01:21:02
Speaker 5: You still believing him too. I just was her picture the other day.

01:21:04
Speaker 1: Do I I'll be forgetting who's in the wrong here, I'll be forgetting. I also did jokingly say that I really don't give I know that. So we're gonna assume. Let's just assume for the sake of this conversation that him and his friends are actually real friends. Right, Okay, if that's your real friends, they are not hitting on the girl you're talking to, unless y'all have had a conversation of ya. That's for the team, like do what you want.

01:21:30
Speaker 4: No, No, But if they don't know that they're dating exactly. They don't know that they're dating. His boys don't know that he's dating her.

01:21:37
Speaker 1: That doesn't know that they're serious. I'm sure his friends know he's fucking. They've been dealing with each other for a while.

01:21:44
Speaker 4: She's yeah, but even even if even you fucking the girl, sometimes she'll still try to holler at her, that's what you're doing.

01:21:49
Speaker 1: That because because I'm saying she's a slide, I'm not saying exactly. You know, she's not my girl, I know, but he has made it clear if those are his real friends that that's just something like it don't really matter. I think they would be comfortable. I'm not mad that they would be reaching out to her because they know that's just somebody he fuck every night.

01:22:08
Speaker 4: That could be the case.

01:22:09
Speaker 5: That could be the case, but she didn't paint it like that. But also girls, sometimes women are not.

01:22:14
Speaker 4: People.

01:22:14
Speaker 2: Really.

01:22:15
Speaker 4: You know what she's doing, she's keeping up, she's keeping the door open. And because it's like she's gonna use that as well. If you don't want niggas ouland at me, then should make me a girl.

01:22:25
Speaker 5: But she well, how is she going to use that when she never said anything? The dude like he eventually found that out anything like she used it like, but.

01:22:32
Speaker 4: I'm saying you found it out. And now her response in that conversation can be, well, if you don't want your boys trying to holler at me, then telling I'm off limits, telling mam your girl, Yeah that's what I said. How about you tell them like yo, me and homie is dating, Like, get out of here.

01:22:48
Speaker 5: I'm not you think I'm gonna tell your friend now I'm off limits? When your friend not telling you I'm off limits, that don't.

01:22:56
Speaker 1: Even But that's entertaining the friend after you know, that's.

01:23:02
Speaker 5: Going out terrible, that's going out horrendous.

01:23:04
Speaker 1: But might as well dress up as him for Halloween see black.

01:23:09
Speaker 5: But I don't feel like it's not my job should tell It's not my job to tell your friends, like because I'm not I don't know, I never know where shit is. And I feel like if your friends feel comfortable hollering at me, just from my personal experience, I'm not as old as her, but from my personal experience, if a man feels comfortable hollering at you and you talking to his homeboy, then it is like Rory said, like either he completely doesn't know which means that men don't talk about you to his friends, or he does know and he don't care because he know his homeboy don't really rock with.

01:23:36
Speaker 9: You like that.

01:23:37
Speaker 5: Either way, you need to get the fuck up out of there or ask or press him, because I would immediately press him, like, Yo, why is your homeboy trying to get at me? The fuck is going on?

01:23:44
Speaker 4: Like why should have that should have been the case. She should have immediately brought that up just like that, Like, Yo, so why are your old boy dm me?

01:23:51
Speaker 7: Like not only one?

01:23:53
Speaker 1: Multiple?

01:23:54
Speaker 4: Yeah, but either she got that snap back, she got o She a little older to that thing. She know how to put the chicken on frying go upstairs and rock you to sleep real quick, go back downstairs before it burn, tuck you into ooh that old that grown, that's sophisticated. She'd have seen some summers for show. She put that chicken.

01:24:16
Speaker 1: She has scars on her knees.

01:24:17
Speaker 4: Oh man, she knows how to go upstairs. I got seven minutes to rock this nigga world and go back downstairs a lot in seven.

01:24:23
Speaker 1: Minutes, That's what I'm saying. It's a long ass time.

01:24:26
Speaker 4: Hell yeah, when that thing warm too, She come there, sit on you like that, and then go right back downstairs. You start looking around like what is life?

01:24:34
Speaker 1: You curl over, starts sucking your something. You kid, you double wrapped the blanket over you.

01:24:40
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's what you start. You get on Snapchat while you under the blanket, Like, Yo, I don't even know what's happening right now. This just rolled me to sleep and she's downstairs finishing finishing dinner.

01:24:50
Speaker 1: You're taking na tomorrow?

01:24:53
Speaker 4: What she's mill prepping right after putting me to sleep? Man, Listen, if I was the Homies, I might have to hit up too. I don't want to get meal prepped ship?

01:25:02
Speaker 1: Fuck it?

01:25:02
Speaker 4: What not prep my meals?

01:25:06
Speaker 1: To answer a question I think she should have told him from Yeah, Man, always, I would still have that conversation with him, like why do you because you know what's felt comfortable?

01:25:14
Speaker 4: You know why? You know why because I've seen this happen. Dudes have tested the chick. I know dudes that be like, yo, hit up, see what she do? Like, let me see what she do. I've seen I wouldn't do it, but I've seen.

01:25:25
Speaker 1: That multiple times. I've seen a very common thing, and I've always found it odd.

01:25:28
Speaker 4: It's no, it's odd, but I've seen it like dudes, like all right, I want to see if she if she's going or.

01:25:32
Speaker 1: Not because it's kind of gay. Which friend are you picking? Like now you're thinking about Now you're thinking about which friend you're gonna send to really test her. That's why I've always found that odd, Like now you don't.

01:25:43
Speaker 4: Get at your friends like I'm trying to trap someone.

01:25:46
Speaker 7: It's just that's so lame because it's like that.

01:25:49
Speaker 4: But I'm saying that that's probably what this could have been, Like I want to see if she's going to be truthful me and forth coming to tell them, like yo, he tried to holler at me, like.

01:25:57
Speaker 1: But she did say.

01:25:57
Speaker 5: She did say she shut I think the most important or in part that everybody's overlooking. Yes, she didn't tell him, but she said I shut it down immediately, because that's what's important, telling you or not telling you, that's her intentions, Like she said, I didn't want to be awkward. I didn't want, like you know what, to cause a riff and friendship, like I know how that can be, especially if you continue to be friends with the nigga, because then it's like if I tell you this, and you continue to be friends with him this like I told you for no reason, and now shit awkward with us and we can never be around you know. So I get her good intentions, but she shut it down, and that's what was most important. No, I'm sorry, this can't happen.

01:26:27
Speaker 4: I've done that. I've done that to girls. I've literally text ooh, I'm telling when a girl DM me that ain't supposed to be doing me, ooh, I'm telling Ooh, I'm telling so child as a man could lead a whole account. I want to tell him, oh, you're trying to fuck me.

01:26:44
Speaker 1: I knit that whole shit in the blood early with my friend group when they found out I wasn't the cool, like, yo, it's it's for the team, let's have orgies. There was two occasions when I had friends reach out to chicks that I was just you know, like just fucking no real ship, and they came to me and was like, yo, your your friends would be hitting on me. I said to all them, I like my hose, it's not for the team just because I'm not wife and doesn't mean that y'all can do that. I'm not one of the She's for the team, people crazy, I like her, don't do that. I like my hose as Wow, y'all like my hose. What's the homies response today? They laughed at me rightfully.

01:27:20
Speaker 4: Yeah, you gotta laugh. You gotta be like, what how you just she for everybody? No, she got it right now. But it's like, that's like renting the content.

01:27:28
Speaker 1: I love this car, fair but fair. But while we're in this city for this time, that's my rental car, okay, and it's a one seater Okay.

01:27:38
Speaker 4: I'm not mad at that. I'm not mad at that.

01:27:41
Speaker 1: I was that same for the team, I respect, and first of all, we're here for the weekend, so like I respect, I'm taking Saturday taking Sunday.

01:27:46
Speaker 4: That's gross, small window. I respect it that I respect. Like city.

01:27:54
Speaker 1: To ship like.

01:27:56
Speaker 4: Rody o, no roady, I ain't tripping like niggas love.

01:27:58
Speaker 1: But we would go back to those cities though.

01:28:00
Speaker 3: Yeah, them niggas stop booking Houston losers. It wasn't the one time we was going there, Like every few months. We was doubling back, not even for a show.

01:28:14
Speaker 1: Just like research, we would purposely do connecting flights research, there's directs to La but sometimes you gotta have a layover. Sometimes sometimes it was more expensive for that. I get it, but I've always been Maybe that's like the beta mailing me. I don't know if we're all friends. I don't do the for the team's thing. I feel you and vice versa. Like I don't funk with somebody else's ship, even if they say that's for the team. All right, Well, I'll be on the bench for this one.

01:28:42
Speaker 4: There's mad players out there picking.

01:28:46
Speaker 1: So many other ways that friends to bond.

01:28:49
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm not trying to like, let's do crossfaits together or something. I'm not trying to checks that my homie sleepid. I never was that type of guy.

01:28:56
Speaker 5: All Rory friends are like black. So it's like if she like like me, Like, why you think she would like you?

01:29:03
Speaker 1: Like you think every girl I've slept with only sleeps exclusively with white guys. No, But I'm just saying they treat roar me like the same way we would treat a white girl in the hood that lived on a block.

01:29:13
Speaker 5: Pass her around, you got to braid her hair and let her say the word.

01:29:16
Speaker 4: Yeah, I've never been with a I've never been with a red head. Let me see what that's about.

01:29:20
Speaker 5: All the black men I know loves white, white, red headed women. It's like the red Headed Woman, though only only redheaded white women. They loved them for some reason. I've never understood.

01:29:30
Speaker 1: Too much of me. Can't get into it. You're not saying they're not beautiful. It's just not fire crotch. The fire crotches. Now, Yeah, that's like HSV three.

01:29:40
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01:29:50
Speaker 1: We were a show. What a show? Drake came out, Drake did a full interview. He addressed everything, he addressed not like us. He leaked the new disc track that's going at Kendrick Lamar live at the show. Yeah, I guess if you missed it, you missed it. We'll be in Atlanta. And he said he's gonna do it again in Atlanta.

01:30:07
Speaker 4: Yeah, he's going to follow us the rest of the rest of He'll do it again.

01:30:10
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01:30:19
Speaker 4: We will be in Atlanta November twenty second, and then finishing out the year home New York City December fourteenth at the Gram Seat Theater. Tickets available now. Hope to see all there. Let's have some fun, Let's have some laughs. He's getting cold very fast. I just wanted to throw that out there. Yesterday was kind of like a wake up call for me. I was like, shit, it's like fall fall. Yeah, but yeah, everybody, be safe, be blessed, and we'll see you in a couple of days.

01:30:44
Speaker 1: I'm that nigga. He's just ginger.

01:30:46
Speaker 4: He