#55 - The Whole Show Talks About What Happens After The Show

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Speaker 1: Welcome to episode fifty five of the Bobby Cast. And we did this once before as a group because we're in the radio studio right now, and so everybody where's lunch Fox restaom oh he laft Okay. So we did this once before a show and we were like, hey, what happens before the show happens? We did it like one morning, so I thought it would be fun to do what we do after the show? Had to do the show like what happens with the life because everybody was wonders, like, what what do you do at Where is lunch Fox restaroom? That's what he said. I gotta go, He'll be back, I hope. So it's the show ends at there. So the show ends at ten, then what do you do? Okay, Well, here we go. Why are you laughing? Listeners care? Because I think I don't know, we're not like real people because they don't. They just hear us on the radio for a few hours and then like to disappear and then come back in the morning. I'm curious why lunch Box is so excited about this. Me too. So the show ends and we can start with you, lunch Box. No, don't just start with me. I want to I want to start with the most important people like you, Like you're the one that's the busiest, so I'd like to start We're the one that's the most exciting. I'm also I'm also the host of this, so I choose you first, Like I'm I'm curious to know munch Box like real, like real talk talk today and today's the Thursday. What are you gonna do? As soon as the show ten a m. Shows over? What do you got? Uh? Today? I mean, I really will go home and I will crash out. Do you go home and eat lunch first? Most days I go home and eat lunch first. It's just it really depends on the day. I mean, typical day, I'll stay here for about thirty minutes just chatting it up with people around the office. Just walk around and say, hey, how's it going, you know, talk to Eddie Ray, I mean work stuff. Do you even go up stairs and talk to sales? Go up and talk to sales, hang out, high fives. Some people just check how they're doing, uh, interrupt their work day? And then I like that though, right because it's kind of boring up there and they're working behind their cubicles and they don't get much excitement. But when radio star walks up, they're like, yeah, so you go and you play grab butt for thirty minutes. Yeah, grab button. But I don't really think that's useless work. I do think that's actually good for morale, for sales and like our show. Yeah, that's what I'm saying. No, but I'm but I'm trying. No, I'm serious, because you know I go up there and trying to butter them up. You won't give me an endorsement. Let's do this, that's a way to do it. Yeah, had worked that well, but it has had endorsements couple but anyway, anyway, so I do that. Then I have to look at the clock and the side. Man, do I want to wait this next twenty minutes until somewhere opens the lunch or the eleven o'clock? Goodness? I stress every day because if I'm done with stuff, good work, man, I don't know what to do for lunch. I'm like, nothing open till eleven that has lunch, So you just had to kill time or you just had to go home and eat later. And you don't want to eat breakfast for lunch, right, People on the show. With our schedule, we wake up so early, lunch comes away earlier, and you don't eat breakfast again. You don't need to breakfast. Is like if your first breakfast way early and then it's lunchtime, it just happened to be a couple of hours earlier. Like you don't want to go and have scrambled eggs for lunch. Bit I totally fail you on that one. It's so and so. But when I'm leaving the work, I always go down the downstairs garage and I say, bought the cats that live down there? Uh by? And are you is that where you park? Park downstairs? You come to really every day every day the spot bigger sponsor downstairs, so you don't ring up the car, are they they? I haven't leave me a spot. I don't have my own spot because nobody has their own spot. Nobody does, but we're here so early that it doesn't matter. So like if Amy or not or Eddie has Yeah, I'll have spots that we kind of have. It's like back in school when you would sit in the same desk and it was just understood that. So I have a spot and I pulled up in if somebody's in it, I get irritated. I'm like, absolutely spot, Okay, can I ask a question about that? Because there's two spots that like, there's two parking spots that are up front, and so do you care which one I like that second one from? If it's a third one, I'm okay with it. But if I don't have a spot where I can pull out frontward and everybody blocks it just to block it, I do get irritated cause there are two other people that park where you part, right, But it's just like you think it didn't matter, like Eddie is right by the gets so upset. It's just that I'm so into have it. So lunch box, you take a nap from probably Levin if I eat lunch, you know. Yeah, And I'll take it for two and two and a half hours hopefully three hours, I mean, and just depending on the day. And then I'll today I'll go to h kid Power and volunteer today. Yeah, on tier to day. Every Thursday is my volunteer day. And how long do you do that? For an hour and a half from four thirty in the afternoon until six at night. I mean it's a long time, uh kind of right right in the middle of the day. Right in the middle of the day kind of interrupted my TV watching, Like if I take a long nap, I won't get to watch any TV. But what will you do at kid Power today? I'll hang out with my little mintee like his name's Christopher and I just hang out and we will work on a project and we'll kind of project. You know, we're building blankets for like kids in the hospital. It's called the Linus project. If you look it up, google it. It's a whole thing where you weave these blankets together. And then we do that for a little bit and then we'll play games just sort of like interact, kind of like buddy time, like play some connect four, some hot wheels, And do you guys ever hang out outside of the program? No, he's allowed, uh not that I know off. Okay, So you finish that, Yeah, and then I'll go home and hopefully the wife will have dinner ready, and uh we'll eat dinner and I'll watch some TV. What time do you go to bed? It's in thirty eleven. Do you need at least four good hours of TV a day? Yeah? I really like to. It really makes the day a lot better. It lets me unwind from the stressful things of life. Was your dad a big TV watch at night? Like would you come on watch TV for hours from bed? No? Not that No, because we were never home. We were always at the sports fields. Like we were never We never watched TV as kids because we were always at the ballpark. Why now, why don't you go to Like, well, I don't have kids, so I can't go hang out the ballpark. You can't know teeth keeps, dude, that's true. No, keep he always coaches some ball. Let me tell you. And you do sport? You do? You play wreck stuff. I didn't play wreck. Yeah, but I don't have anything tonight. Um, but yeah, I mean that's my day. I mean that's basically what I do. I mean, I got a lot of a lot of stuff going on. You kind of do, but then he acts like he doesn't. But then he gets mad because he's acting. It's very confused. No. No, because you guys say I don't do anything. You say you don't do anything. I don't do anything, and so I went through my name and nothing. No. You you're the one. We're constantly like you do things. We want to know more about your volunt on the air, like tell us more about this kid power and you're like, I just going it's over and as a kid, and we're like, come on, tell us more. People want to know more. I mean that's what I do. I mean, they they run a program for the inner city youth that gives him a safe place to go after school and it tries to teach them about life and making better decisions and holding them accountable and making them responsible. But when you come in and go I took a three hour nap yesterday, Well, I'm just doing that to get a reaction from us, because from whatever it is, like Eddie, with kids, I mean, with other work stuff, we don't take three hour naps. But that's just you messing with us. You guys, go to the top board. I gotta be honest with you. I slept for three hours. That's what I do. I don't have a lot of responsibilities like you guys. Eddie has kids. You have. I mean I can't even list the whole laundry list of things. I mean, book, podcast, You'll have to go ahead, okay, thank you. I mean you have everything, and so me. I got Rex Sports TV. It's stuff. You have, sales, you have volunteering events. Yeah, I think this whole You do that a little bit. And you're a husband too, Yeah, damn one good husband. Yeah, that takes time. That takes time, but that ain't till after six. Yeah, that's when that happens. That's when that happened. So what do you do after the show? And used today as an example, Amy, today I will do I typically do yoga every day, but I don't know what time it's going to be. Sometimes I get an early class. Hopefully by noon I'm in there. If not, then I have to hit up a four thirty. But then that sets my night back completely because I have to be finding down for bed. My husband. I like to eat dinner about four thirty or five. Yeah, so if my day gets shifted, like sometimes if I go to a yoga class, it's late, Like sometimes I just have to go home and sort of prints off and then I get in bed and start working and then I'm like, well, okay, no dinner tonight or something. He well, because then it gets late and I really am trying to be better about Well you've been saying it too. We put sleep on the back burner for so long. It was always like gotta work out, gotta work out, gotta eat right, gotta work out. But really, I listen to podcasts, I've read in books, I see articles sleep sleep, sleep, So I really this year have been trying to make sleep a priority and it's not always easy, but I just know overall for my health it's going to be better. And so I try to be like in bed at seven, if I can be a sleep by eight, then I know I'll get that like seven seven to eight hours and I'll get that sleep is the most important thing. You go sleep, eating right, then working out in that order, right, and I'm working out first, working out it's always first, And I would just encourage people it's just not always the case, like we've got to be arrested. And then knowing that I've got kids coming soon and I don't even know what sleep is gonna look like, then I'm like, can I start saving up my sleep? Point yes? And like getting sleep now, which speaking of the kids, like right now, that's that's a lot of stuff. I need to text my husband and see if he scheduled the appointment. We either have an appointment today or tomorrow. I don't know when he officially scheduled it. What do you do as soon as you leave with the kids? The kids? What do you mean the kids? Like kids school? One of the school we're I guess looking at schools are gonna have to go to because they're going to be delayed. I mean, I don't even know what great they're going to be in. I'm trying to figure that out. I don't know how to do it. How are they gonna to how do we do the tutoring? And then when will they graduate? Like how long are they going to have to be in the grades behind? Like when are they going to be able to catch up and be with their peers. That's kind of a tough thing because obviously they'll be tested, yes, and you'll see where they fall on the testing. But what if they test back a couple of years. There's so much bigger than everyone else. Especially your daughter is pretty tall and she's tin Yeah, I know, I don't know, especially once we start feeding them right, and that stuff I've been reading up on is their nutrition and their digestion. They've got really poor nutrition at the orphange right now. Now they get calories, yes, they always have a meal, but is there nutrients in those calories. No, you worry about they're gonna get sick with with good food. Yes, I know that they will. And that's something I'm having to prepare myself for because I don't just want to like throw them into our way of eating. But I know that, um that That's another thing I've been studying up on is how to integrate them into how to eat we eat because we eat pretty healthy and lots of greens and veggies and they're not used to that and that will rough up their digestion for a little bit. Um and so and and I know which we were talking about parasites on the show the other day. I know that they have. I've heard from many adopted parents when your children come from well wherever, but I know people have adopted from Haiti. When the children came, they had major stomach issues and bathroom time was an absolute nightmare. So I have that to kind of look forward to. But um, I just know there's gonna be a lot of different challenges. So the food stuff, yes, will slowly start to change that and hopefully get their systems working cleaned where they feel good and then when they feel good, they can perform better at school and they'll eat right and they'll start to grow, like right now. Actually they're small for their age. If you were to look at my son and compare my daughter and compare them to other ten and six year years old six year olds, like, they're really tiny. So when we start feeding them properly, they may grow a lot. Their hair is sort of discolored from um the lack of nutrients, so their hair may start to change and their skin color apparently their skin color is gonna get a lot darker once we start feeding them. Right, So today you're going to the school, I think, so I'll text him it's either today or tomorrow. And I'm sort of nervous about that. The guys of everything you just talked about not knowing where to put them. Yeah, I've never done anything. It's like, I don't know. I feel like when you give birth to a child, you kind of have a few years to figure stuff out. It's the same. But now I'm like, these are they talk They have minds, and I mean, I know babies have minds, but you know what I mean, like they are little humans and they and all of a sudden they're going to be here. They've already been wired to a bit. Yeah, and there. I know they're in school the orphanage, but so different than the school here. So I know, I hope sort of actually schedule wise, we're doing it today because tomorrow I got to deal with the situation where I my husband I are selling a house right now, and I've never done that, and I didn't know when you sell it, you sell the appliances with it. I guess the big ones and then if you negotiate the small ones. Yeah, I guess the washer and dryer were negotiated in the deal, but that would be negotiable, right. Well, I sold them, so today I gotta be we're kind of getting those back or we have to buy new ones. But I rather get those back because they're not like officially sold sold. They were just taken away to be sold. So I gotta somehow tell my husband we gotta go pick those up. And they're not light, you know, And I had him I thought I was doing him a favor actually because I had them taken away while he was gone. Yeah, need help. A lot of my days are spent sort of, um cleaning up maybe messes that I made. UM, so I'll do that's on my list I don't take naps really, honestly, I can't say never that would be I can't be um definitive about that. If I need a nap, I will lay down and take it. And some days, yeah, you absolutely do. But I don't have a scheduled nap because I you know why, because I want to go to bed at eight o'clock. I want to be so tired that I gotta go to bed. Don't you felto if you don't take any sort of that, because I'll try to get in thirty minutes if I can that you perform better later if you get a little nap. I know. My husband tries to tell me that I'm so because I'm so bad at the power naps, and my husband calls on combat naps, and sometimes he'll be like, just come late with me twenty minutes. We'll set an alarm. Well, he's good about it, and he will get right back up. But I lay there and I'm like, oh, I can't really go to sleep, And then by the time I finally get to sleep, I feel like that twenty minute alarm is going off, and then I'm like snoozing on my nap, and then that's not productive for me at all whatsoever. So, um, a lot of kids stuff that I work on. My husband and I are really involved in stuff at the orphanage in Haiti, and I probably get about ten emails a day regarding stuff we have going on there. So my husband and I work on that. When you eat lunch totally different times. Again, it depends on when I take yoga, Um, right after the show, if I'm hungry, if I'm gonna seems like your life, like your personality all over the budd Yeah, I have nothing. They checked out a long time ago. We were talking out what you do today, and you went into a whole thing about your kids, which I was, by the way. Yeah, well I guess well, I just your day is tiring me. But my I am my day preparing for my kids a lot of that stuff. I'm not just trying to wing it when they get here. I spend my day, um, grabbing coffee with people that I know in my life that have adopted from Haiti or have children of a different ethnicity. Like I'm trying to figure that out. I'm reading articles and stuff my adoption agency has given me to prepare for that. So I mean I'm I'm getting nervous, so I'm not gonna lie, So why don't I don't want to come off like I feel like I'm super excited to be a mom and I've got like I've got it all together. I'm so freaking out. That's I think everybody thinks you are, you know, because everybody thinks everybody would be totally totally and I think it's just natural. So we just you're just natural. We assume anyone will be freaking out. Um consistent things that I do, walk my dog, and I take a bath, EPs and salt every day. Are you guys laughing? There's more now at seven o'clock. I haven't even of philosophy stuff, just stuff she doesn't and time sensitive because of what she's going through it right, I'm trying to give you stuff that is consistent. And I just told EPs and salt, bath shoes, brush my cheese. Yeah. OK So okay, let me take a second and talk about one hundred flowers. One hundred flowers right now, let's talk about what they have going on. Thirty six dollars for thirty six Swordby roses are one hundred flowers friends are giving our listeners right now, if you're listening to this third six Storreby roses, but thirty six dollars, just one dollar arose. You just pick your delivery date. One eight hundred Flowers will handle the rest and Mother's Day's coming up. And these are the perfect way to surprise all the moms in your life. If it's your wife, your and your sister, your actual mother. There are a lot of mothers to remember and remember all these flowers that says say are guarantee to make your smile. One eight hundred flowers. 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So we schedule once s times twice a week to talk and that will last like today, we'll talk because there's been there's some stuff around here, more stuf, like new stuff show wise is happening, like not not this show and not the Bobby Bones Show, the Morning show, but another show that I'm gonna be doing, So I'm doing another show, but that we'll have to talk about that today, so I'll have that. Um, I'll just go I'll just run through today because I pulled up my list, so I'll do that. It might be it might be the audio, what it might do the phone screener And like a producer, I have a stylist coming to my house a mostly I heeart festival next week and so that's on TV. So I had to hire a stylist to come in. Like, first of all, she goes to my closet because I don't want to just buy new clothes every time. So it's intimidating. It's actually nice because at first they were like high stylists they just come with a bunch of new clothes and they're like, you know, it's all this money for these new clothes, and you it was terrible because you know what they're gonna bring you, and so it's terrible. So I was like, this is how I started with a stylist. Let's go to my closet first and see what we can match with other new stuff, because I'm not trying to buy new clothes all the time. I don't even were that many clothes. Like I have nice clothes and then I have rest clothes and have like two sections. And so she'll come over today. So I have a stylist coming over. I'll do that for probably hour and a half. I'll eat lunch and because we're leaving to go to Austin and being in Austin next week, have to get a haircut, have to work out today, Um I was sprayed. I'm just like a lot of self grooming. Well because the next week, because there's no time we have to go We're flying to California for stagecoach and so I can't do it this weekend and we come right in here for one day and we go to Austin for a week um, I have to go to the record label today for an hour and a half meeting over there. I hate your life. And then tonight after write a thousand words. I tried to do a thousand words every day, write it for the stupid look. And sometimes I have thousand words to me. Yeah that's seven pages. Just that's seven pages of word document because I'm writing the second book. So I tried to a thousand words every day. Sometimes I can't and it doesn't come out. Sometimes I'm like, I try, and I'm like, when do you relax, like seriously relax, Like because I know you say you have all this, you have to relax, like you're gonna go nuts. Like I'm I'm going nuts right now because of you. But I hate none of this. Sometimes I get tired, but I hate none of it. Downtime with like Golden Girls and stuff only on Sundays. Only even watch Golden on Sundays because it comes on TV Land in the daytime, and so on travel days when we'll come back from working on the weekends or if I'm doing stand up and when I come back, I'll land and Golden Girls and Reba are on pretty much all day, and so if I get in at two pm, and I have two to eight, all right, work on the next day show that will be on Golden Girls in Rebo. That's on time I get to watch it. So but I will try at the end of the night to watch it one episode of something, So that's probably it, like like an hour episode or a thirty minute or if there's enough. If it's not nine o'clock, I'll watch an hour one. But if my girlfriend wants to come over, it's a whole different game. Now, got to stay up later, Yeah you do, okay, all right, But but that that's a thing too, where it's like you can't. She didn't just come over and it's like, all right, good to see you. Go to sleep. Like we have to talk, and I like talking. I understand what I mean. That's part of human thing, talking to talk. Let me say this life is better with a girlfriend, but it is. It is. The days are longer. It's another layer. It's the days are longer. They're not longer. When it's lonelier. No, I get way more stuff done. That's why I had to put the role in, Hey, you can't. We can't stay together all the time because we just want to hang out and talk and last I can get more stuff in. So it's like last night she had a charity event that she was doing, and so I finished with work probably eight forty last night. I find it, finished writing it, got off reading some show stuff, and she was leaving the charity event close to nine, and it was right at the borderline up. I don't know if she should come over or not. Yeah, that's late, and so she came over, and then the heat was my room broke. The air broke, so I had to go down to a bedroom down below, and then the dog and it's just the whole thing. So there was another hour. Probably stayed up because I had a girlfriend, where normally if I was gonna stay up, I just worked or watch the TV show or something, you know what I mean. I got, But I do think life is better. It's just harder. I didn't used the word hard. It's less productive, okay, depending on what you're looking for. It's less professionally productive. Thank you to have a girlfriend. It's better for my cup of heart. And here's the thing about relationships. At times, you're just like right, yea, it's just like I roll over and I got like I get pushed off the bed almost every night, like if she stays like, I'm on the edge of the bed me too, man, I feel you, and I'm like, but listen, I say, there's like nine eight percent of time it's great, right, yeah, of course, and probably not the time. I'm just saying high so she don't yell at me later. But it's not even about her. It's just a fact of having I'm just so used to having my own space all the time. Like to think about sharing a checking account, or to think about sharing debt, or to think about sharing something further than you have to go home now is crazy to me. Think about getting an animal together, well, it hasn't even brought up. I never brought up. I'm never getting on the dog after the dog because this dog, I can't imagine it only this dog ever. So it's like me, if you ever die, you guys all have quit radio. I'm the only guy you work with. Everybody calling that I'll check in on that. I'm so this dog. I don't want to have any of the dogs because I feel like i'd be cheating his spirit, dusty spirit. So it's just sometimes it's hard, like I don't get it I don't get as much good sleep because again I'm on the edge of the bed with that dog and a girlfriend. I have a humongous sleep number, and I'm talking about I'm taking off like a tenth of it, and I'm on the edge with my left dog that's up on the left side of bed. My left arm was like hanging off the side of the bed. And I'm like, why are we so close to the edge of the bed. We have a whole bed. But everybody likes, God, this is bizarre to me, Like how are we all still friends? Like our lives are all so different. But you got two kids, Like, yeah, I hear you talk about like sharing. I don't know what That sounds terrible to me, Like, dude, that's what I've been my life for. Like, but you got year old. Yeah I was young, but it's a decision that you made. The one thing we do have in common is that bed thing. Man, we end up at the edge. I hate it. Do you keep your kid in the beds to no shows up? Sometimes maybe twice a week at like we in the morning, No, that's his rude. What if he needs something he knocks? No, No, it's unlocked. We like freedom in the house, you know, like you want to come in, we're here, but you can knock and then come in. I'll teach them to knock on him they come in, So just close the door, not lock and lock it. They have to No, we leave it open. So two times a week. Three year old comes over about two times a week. We just find him in the bed in the middle between us and he sleeps in the middle of you too. Oh my gosh, he loves it. It's like my dog. It's the same thing, kid and dog, kind of feldy sometimes. Now we have a dog too, So so do you ever just put your three on the kennel and leave for a few hours? I wish, say, I get my dog is on room and it has an open kennel, I need to leave, and he just chills. I had a question about that. Do you still have the show in the morning for him? He used to leave a radio in there. There's no radio, Mike, right. No, there's a lot of crap in that room because we had to build because that room is bigger than it should be, and so I had to build him like this fake fur filled wall because he he can he can actually get out and walk around because there's no cage door. But the room was too big and he was just like doomed it. So we had to I had to like take a radio and boxes and like build another wall inside of it. But now that it doesn't stay on, because I used to think that was so cool that you'd leave the radio show on for him, I'd be gone all longer. That's something that goes and walks the dog now in the morning. Twenty bucks a day expensive, and I try to hire like friends to do it, but they wouldn't do it like normally. So finally three dog walkers in. Yeah, it's hard to be consistent. You gotta hire someone every day. Twenty bucks a day? Are you kidding me? But that's why I spending money on my dog. I don't really have any super crazy No, none of us have any crazy lifestyle habits. Not yet. Eddie scambling, that's it. It's not even that much. That much, it's not it's like twenty bucks a week max. If I gam like this week, I didn't gamble. You talked about being in debt twenty grand a day. You're still gambling, Yeah, trying to get out of that debt. You're trying to gamble out of Okay, let me maybe put then why not just take out a loan if you want to go hard like I believe in going hard? No, no, I don't even put this in my head because let me present the scenario. It's philosophical scenario to you. Okay, I believe in my life you go as hard as you possible, plan of something, or don't go at all. That's it, and you're gonna fail a bunch of times. But you should go as hard as you can or it's not worth going. What I see with you and just generally you like to do just you just like to get bye. Yeah, just generally, it's kind of your mentality. You like to just be in the middle, get by. I like that. What if just for once you went hard, and what if you take out a loan for twenty and you bet it Unrulette, red or black? Real talk it, you'd be out of debt, dude, real talk. I love that idea, and I really really be you'm talking about it's go hard to go home. I'd buy a boat. No, no, no, you wouldn't have any money be even see. I love the idea, I really do, but I can't with kids. I just I'm a I'm a different person than because I know a lot of having kids. Listen, what if you're a forty grand in debt? What did with I'm getting paid off this point? No, no difference. There's a big difference. And that's my point. There's no difference. Neither one of them are getting paid off by Eddie's true. Eddie doesn't pay off a hundred our bets much credit card. We pay off a lot of debt, and it's like been really it's something that's really hard for me because you see any kind of extra money we make, I'm like, yes, we got extra money, No, we don't. We have to put it in debt. Then what do you pay that double payments? We we've don't. I don't know. I'm trying to figure that because we just changed a couple of months ago. We used to do like an extra hundred or an extra you know whatever, and now we've kind of bumped it up a little bit because we just gotta keep moving on it. So that's that's just how it is in our our family. Man, what's that interest rate on a on your I mean, could would it be cheaper? I don't know anything about this me. Now, you got me thinking a loan, it's not cheaper. Why not get a loan to pay that guy and then pay that other loan guy, pay that guy and that one up. People do that with the what's it called snowballs, like Dave, Dave, Yeah, where you take one credit card, pay credit card that we did that. That's why we paid off our lowest one. You show you snowballed it. That's it, right. So what happens in a snowball is you pay off the load, the very smallest debt that you have, because when you pay that off, it feels like you've accomplished. Yes, So then you pay off the you and you pay all the minimum everything else. You pay the maximum on the lowest yes you can possibly pay. And it slowly builds, and if you're seeing success, it helps you stay motivated. We've seen major success. It's just kind of heartbreaking, you know, as soon as we just feel like all right, let's go get some nice to eat, or like no, can't be responsible and be like um, you know, strict about it because it's hard. But the gambling. Back to gambling, it's really the only thing that I like to do outside of anything else that we do that and playing golf. That's not true. You go on the road and play shows. It's fun. Now, that's work. That's not come on, but it is because you know, you go to get paid. And like, if we didn't get paid, I wouldn't go. We did it for two years and it was like and that was hard. That was really hard because I loved doing it. And then after a while you're just like, man, this is just golf. Keep paying golf, you get paid. If I have free golf, I'd go what what like? If I if I had free golf, You're right, I'd probably. You were playing music way before the Raging Idiots for free, and while we were trying to make money. We didn't make a lot of money. We weren't very successful at it, but we made a record and we tried to We didn't know what we were doing. We're so dumb. But Eddie's Man was called rum Tied. Yeah they were good, Huh. I thought we were good. You know, we wrote all our songs and it's me and my brother and two other like childhood friends. And do you think you were good now? Looking at real bands, I think the songs were good. Yeah, I think we weren't very good, like you really did. Your songs were really like songs. Yeah, I think I thought they could have been. You still have them, so could you like pitch your songs? Don't we worry about that. I've been working on something maybe like they still around ound, you know, and I wrote most of them. So yeah. One time Eddie had a new record right rum Tied was the band, and I was like, okay, cool import in the air. Eddie was working for the show and I was like, hey, dude, I really like this one's song. I'm gonna play it on the area. It's the one that he did. It's like the only one he didn't write it. I didn't know that it was one that I didn't even like, one that I didn't write. And it was like, thanks dude. Yeah, he was like, I didn't write or even like that one. There's three really good ones on there, and he picked that one. I'll talking about Blue Apron for a second, be guys. You know, even like you know, Dirk's was in the last episode, Dirk's uses Blue Apron in his house. Because all these meals are so different. 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You're gonna love how good it feels and taste, and you're gonna be all make his home cooked meals and food that you probably never get to have either. Blue Apron dot com slash Bobby. Blue Apron is a better way to cook all right back at it, Uh, okay, So your day Eddie, real quick? My day real quick? Um, Like today, for example, Amy and I have a couple of videos to shoot afterwards for a client that today, we'll do that and then I'll be here for about another I feel like Ammy doesn't know what day. Like Amy talked the longest and I don't think she knows what a day because basically give us every possible scenario. I might have an appointment, I might not. I might go to yoga, I might not. That's true Honestly. When Bobby talked about meeting with Mike, I was like, oh, shoot, I need to meet with my with Pitt's another producer about my podcast, Like I definitely just you're right, my mind is all the replace. But that's you so welcome to my day, can you imagine? No? I kind of feel like I am for five hours a day and that's just five hours. I know, sorry, and I don't have to deal with like a count and stuff with her. Amy's my favorite person, but holy cow, and people we first start people like, oh, you guys are stealing together. I was like, if you guys had any idea when we first started this show. For ten years, people are like, oh, you guys are secretly like together, courtly together, and we would just be like if you had any idea like how good friends were about, how we could never ever ever be together never's how different you guys are. It's like, how so you would never be you can never date me because I'm not so, I'm not good enough, I'm not awesome, ja am I horrible person? Know you're actually all the opposite all that, but it's just just so over the place. All I was saying was we're on such whatever Eddie tell us about your day. Yeah, it's so rude. You had to make it personal, trust me. All I was saying was people thought for a long time that there was something like secretly and we had some secret life. And her husband's never he's actually in the military, like serving and he was never around. But they thought, oh, that was just like a thing and so but it was like, man, if you knew, like we would drive each other crazy. And we spent a lot of time together anyway. But she's again the closest friend I have on the show, and a group of already close friends, but I just couldn't take them. Maybe we do this at this time or this time, and like, you know, I used to work out with your trainer and I had to stop because it was like a scheduled time. The same time, I was like, I can't commit to that, Like I may just be able to go when I want to go, Like I can't commit to like workouts at a specific time because he has to block his schedule. Yeah, and the client, I felt bad because I would constantly be texting him, like trying to move some stuff around, and then it just wasn't fair to him. And I know how busy he is that I was just like, you know what, I just gotta I gotta quick. Pain was like I really liked Amy, but man, she's all over the place. And I was like, I know, but there are times like Amy just goes, she goes, and you don't know what direction she's going. You gotta put up walls on the opposite Sometimes he's got knocked down walls for me. We work well together, Okay. I would never date you thinking about how you sold the washer and dry Your husband is gonna be so mad. I had I would just be like, oh my goodness. All the time. She's like forgetting her wallet and cars ease all the time. I would just be like, divorce that stuff. I do. I think that my husband there's some prose to being married to me. Oh yeah, you're a fantastic person. You are. You're pretty, I said, and I worked great together on certain things. Yes, but yeah, my do I make it a little more complicated or do I make it exciting? You know, it depends on how it depends on how you like. For me motto when we first got married, his life is an adventure. Yeah. Remember this year's is be cool? Every year? I don't remember that. We talked about it on the show Cool the beginning of the year, because that's when my husband and I designate the little motto for the year. Why does it be cool because all the crazy stuff happening. Yeah, we just last year we were so stressed out with adoption stuff and my husband's work that we just weren't that cool. I've noticed you cooler this year. Well, I mean just within our you walk around and you're like, snap, No, It's one of those things we can kind of stay to each other, like if we can feel a fight coming on or something, or like remember, be cool, hey man, hey, you slam poetry at the house. So the Wars said that the man, why don't you understand stand? Cool? Cool? Maybe I'll try that. Um, we'll just so you know. I am fund to date too, you are. I'm miserable. I don't know how my girlfriend dates me. I'm miserable. I have always like four o'clock, three o'clock, one o'clock, eight o'clock rock. Yeah, dude, like all the show. She's pretty structured too. She's very structured, so y'all have that in common. I drive her crazy. I don't know how she deals to me. I'm miserable to date. She's patient. Yeah, I don't know who's personality would be worse to date so far away on the spectrum, I don't know whose personality i'd rather date. Like the structure they take care of you. I mean that is just a weird because you both are opposite ends of the spectrum. Nuts like so organized and nuts all over the place, and I'm pretty all over the place. But Amy takes it to a whole new level. Amy lives in an a world. Yes, butterflies everywhere, But that's just you. You are who you are. Yeah, don't change me, Nope, not trying to prob Yeah, what else do I do today quick, today, real quick. Yeah, video with Amy. I have to edit it, so I'll probably take about an hour, and then um, I have a meeting with lunch Box and some clients. After that, you have a video with me. We have a dog video that we do every every week. Yeah, I do that, and then I'll probably I'll leave here maybe about eleven thirty noon, and then I get home. My wife's cleaning up every day. When I get home, she's cleaning up. So I cook lunch for both of us. We eat it. I do for both of us. Yeah, So I have to be back by noon, that's the latest. And then um, I'm gonna take a nap, maybe two hours. Then I wake up in time to go with my wife to pick up the boys. They get out of to one of them at two, one of them at three, come back, take them to the gym practice. I'll work out a little bit, and then tonight we have date night because we go out of town tomorrow and so we'll pick up some sushi, maybe watch I don't know, maybe thirteen Reasons or whatever. I don't know. Oh my gosh, Spurs game exit. So I have to have the gym stuff and date night done by seven because the Spurs she does, and she tries so hard to get into sports, and she supports me all about the Cowboys and the Spurs, but she can't sit and watch a whole game. She can't. She tries, and last night she tried to watch some Predators with me and she ended up on Facebook. So, dude, kids don't get out at the same time. No, they get at well, well, mine's in preschool. Preschool further apart. Okay, good, I hope mind get out at the same time. Yours probably will put them in the same grade you want. You want to just keep ten year old in a six year old, We're just gonna get I just I'd like to pick them up at the same time. Let's keep it convenient. Second, Hey, so what do you think about my day? Do you like my life? I think it's all life is different. I love that you go with your wife to pick up your kids, and I love that you cook lunch every day. That's that's kind of my thing. But day was a busy day for Eddie. I mean, you've loved because we didn't get to play basketball or nothing. No, usually they just kind of hang out me lunch box and Rage just kind of talk for a little bit and catch up on each other's lives after the show. Yeah, we spent a good, solid thirty minutes on that. I look forward to that too. Have you guys just talking had this conversation where you guys get you make Amy jealous when you guys do this because that's in the morning, I know. But Amy's social time is with me. Yeah, like period, and what's that like? Amy, it's not very social. It's it's not in this building. It's not social. Amy travels with me and I get work Bobby and work. Bobby is like not, I can't even be like so as your morning. There isn't time. You know, there's no time. I get it. There's no time. I know. I've been better since the last time we did this. Yeah, boy, we don't do We don't have our thing like they have. We still haven't do do our morning like we haven't come up with our own morning we do it. I've been like, hey, how are you and you've been like good at that. Yeah, but I wanted to do like you need that, you need that kind of momentum for the morning like ours is there? He is, coach, Yeah, and it brings everybody up. You're like, all right, let's get this day started. Yeah, that's what we do. Know. You guys are like, all right, Amy, read this, let's get this day started. Let's get to work. It's not that monotone. It's not that. It's not that you're acting like it's chilling there. It's very like raised like at and you're like this, where are we at? Where are we at? I'll do it, yeah, but not in a bad way because I have like fifteen pieces of paper in front of me. I don't know what any of them means, and so I should do like, listen, we have time. I'll just do it. Do do diditial do the next thing? But my memory never lasts beyond like five minutes, meaning on that stuff. So you suck with something he cares. It's it's interesting in there though, too, because he's just turning on that work brain and I watch it go and it's so crazy because he'll be recording liners or some other city and like say, there's ten of them and on the fifth line, or he'll be totally off topic, not even related to that. Ray pull this clip of that like something for the show. Later in the day, he's already thinking about five different things. But he's also able to do the liner and he it's all, it all makes sense to him. Here's the thing about Bobby, do that always ten steps ahead of well, maybe thirty steps ahead of us, but like just in general, always ahead? And how do you do that's not? What is? Your brain's gone? Oh my god, you're always thinking about stuff when talking. I gotta eat, Like right now, you're thinking about what you're gonna do tonight. Absolutely, a thousand words. Absolutely, I'm not thinking about they just stay up there natter what I just wanted? I could, Wow, you really hold mind to that? Huh no kidding, I haven't even thought about it. I bought the Steve Martin Masterclass. What is that? You know? What you know? Master classes? Yeah, it's you get like um Reba did want to buy country music? The chef that the God's mean ramsay, one about cooking, uh, Eron's working. One about screenwriting and so someone who's fantastic is and it teaches you how to do it. And so Steve, Steve Martins was on writing comedy. And so I bought the class online and I saw it's like to read and learn. Yeah, and so there's work books that come with it in video. Wow, so he's like your professor kind of. That's pretty amazing. Physical work the PDFs, that's amazing. You download them and you work along and yeah, and so it's yeah, I mean I paid for it. I would you fail. They make me take it again. But it's it's really interesting because the thing that he's like, he's always like and I do it anyways, Like when you're doing this, you should be thinking about the next thing. You should be so normal and things that you do every day that you're thinking about other things at the same time. And I'm like, that's crazy, becau I'm already think aboutying another master class. Soho, I watch this one exactly what. I love Steve Martin so much this Let me tell you about this guy real quick. First of all his books, my favorite book I recommended on this podcast before his books born Standing Up that one Howard Stern book, Um Outliers. There's like my face like I love those books like life changers for me. But um, Steve Martin was the biggest comedian in the whole world. And not only did did he just started the kid working at Disney and he wasn't a comedian. He just want did ridiculous things and was like, it doesn't matter for the punchline, it's when many people laugh. So he started doing these ridiculous things and he got to be I would compare to like Kevin Hart right now as big as you possibly be, right massive is selling out stadiums, like first real comedian to do that at that level. And he just quit, but didn't tell himbot he retired. He never did comedy again. He still hasn't really like that why I don't know him as a comedian because like I was before us, you know him as being an older man in movies, but he was the biggest and comedian period and was like broke all the molds of what you could do, like playing a stadium, which is what he was one of the first ones to do. Was crazy because didn't have the technology and sound to do that as a comedian. So anyway, I just like to hear other people's perspective, and obviously his is a little dated. But creativity is creativity, regardless of it comes from. How hasn't he had like white hair his whole career? Yes, Like I think that's why we think he had done early early on but he was Yeah he had white hair and days. But yeah, he just quite would be like Kevin Hart, just never saying anything about it, but he just stopped to and stand up. Because what Steve Martin would say was it. It would take me, he said, it take me a year to develop this act a year, and I would just be working so hard to get this one hour done. Take me a whole year of writing and performing and performing and performing, and then you would do it and put on TV and that's done, and you've got to start over, and everybody just feels like you're just putting up. But it's just a grind. But anyway, he made blue animals on stage and that was funny, like he just did things you weren't supposed to do, and not that you weren't supposed to, but nobody did it. So anyway, the match classes are cool. Yeah you can. Christina Aguilera will teach you to sing, Kevin Space, you'll teach you to act. Yeah, that's amazing. Rusher, we'll teach you the art performance. I'd love to learn from him. And you have kind of card to pay off, you know, I'll stay away from these ahead. Nothing I was gonna ask how much a master class is nine? But the whole thing lessons you have to be disciplined digital music to you have to sit down and do lessons. Okay, is there a radio guy in there? No, there isn't. But don't we don't. We shouldn't take that. You Hey, you get that classes every day? Talking like maybe instructor needs to get one. You got one every day, right, I know you're taking. I'll take ninety bucks please. Actually we get paid to learn, That's true. I'm teaching the worst class ever. I'm paying you guys to come to class. All right, what is there stuff? I know we probably have to wrap actually seventeen minutes ago. Go ahead. Well okay, so is there something like if you wanted us to, you know, brush up on something like, what would you tell each of us to like? Oh, like if I had to make you take a master class? Yes, easier amies would be focus like one of these because they bring on these like a psychologist or someone who could teach the art of need therapy. Well, I think we all need there, I agree, But it teaches the art of like zeroing in focusing or I just give you pills, which you do, have you just don't take anymore. Yeah, oh no, no, don't. You can tell she stopped taking them. Yeah. I don't like the way they make me feel like, yeah, I know I need that Amy. I like you more like this than on pills. You guys. Natural amy is way better. Okay, what are you just reverse psychology? You are way better. It's like natural, Bobby, Like, it's way more home runs. But some days I just coming out. I'm just terrible. I'm awful. So there's a masterclass I can take where they make me focus. I would like, make you watch something where someone's like teaching you the art of focus. I think I get a trainer, do you know. They could come over and I'll be like, they're like, what do you need. I'm like, I need you to help me focus. It would be a master class on that, okay, focusing for lunch Bob. Yeah, that's what I'm saying. Tell him, there's not much you can teach me. There isn't. That's the things he's a natural. It's just you know, wow, um you know what, Yes, you're a absolutely right. It would be a kind of no, no, yeah, you nailed it. It would be like a one of those like a stylist or someone who actually would show you not to have crazy style, but to have a sense of professionalism in your appearance, just so you would know, just so you would know, like when you go on a work appointment, not to wear a free, oversized sweatshirt that says spam on it. You know, it's just things like that little thing. But but it is what makes you. It's somethings what makes Amy Amy. I. I would actually wouldn't make you take these classes because you wouldn't be who you are. But if if it was like find something, because that's that's your biggest knock is that you don't look what a client wants to have representing them. I mean, when I need to go to a big event, I can dress up. You can't. But every day, that's why people are like, why does he do it? A little bit more is that every day I'm in a you look like me today, I'm in a pair of blue paint, little long sleeved white shirt today. What is different between his and mind? Because it's inconsistent. I don't look like this all the time. That's the difference. Yeah, you wear that sweatshirt every that one single sweatshirt okay, but take out the obvious one. Please take that one out? Well, what's the obvious one? What happened? But no, that was dumb, Like give me one, give me that over the top. It's so over the top time, give me one that. Like, dude, you need to work on this and you'd be perfect. You guys are so good at being you because I would say, because Eddie is such a type B personality, like just go with the flow. But that's just you. I wouldn't want you to change. I wouldn't want Amy to like really be like me. I wouldn't want Lunchbox to change. Like I really wouldn't want you guys to change. We want to do whatever we can do to change to make you better. But wouldn't the reason that we all work together because we are. We all just kind of fit and don't fit at the same time. That's why I wouldn't want you guys to change. Well, yeah, but you're you're taking this master class like not to change. You are just to you know, sharpen your credit make us better. Okay, Eddie, what would I do for you? Sharpen us? You're looking deep. This is getting k awkward. You're looking at me my eyes. Your struggles are You're never on time. Okay we already said that. I know, but I'm just talking this out. Yeah, you have to just accept it. You're never on time. Okay, maybe like a maybe you go to like that one of those truth tellers who like make you tell the truth. I tell the truth all the time, because I think sometimes the times I don't tell the truth is just like I'm joking, it's for like shock value. That's it better than I deserved. I think sometimes that's a little over the time. You're right, but I do like doing it. Lunch Box. Do you think that Eddie sometimes goes overboard with how like much he loves to be a family man and the family stuff that he do it like loves it and it's like over the top. Yeah, he tries to sell it, I think to himself too, a salesman. There's a reason for that. There's a reason that there are certain things that you have to kind of polish a little bit because life isn't the life isn't perfect. It's always good. And and here's the thing with my family. When I talk about my life, I don't want to offend my wife or my kids, So that's the only reason I'm careful with what I say. That's it. Other than that, if they weren't listening, I'd be like, I don't care. Yeah, this is the way it is. I'm tired of it or whatever. I change this. Yeah, but it comes across as disingenuous. I just don't want to spill their business. I don't want to make any by mad either. No, it's not that. It's like the thing with you and your girlfriend, like it's interesting. She's like, you know, would be answering to you. We knew all about your your life, me and my wife and my kids, but you do. For the most part. The only thing that I can't or will not do is say something like really negative about them. Who does that anyway? Like what well, like if I said, like any of us, come on here and bash what you need to do, though, you've got to use the radio to get through to your wife, Like you drop hints like hey, this needs I wish this happened more around the house, and that when the wife listening to me, it's like it's an indirect line of communication, like it's an earworm. You have a chance to like he may be the master class because the way you talk to your wife lunchbox on the air. It's crazy. I would never do that, lunch box. Do you ever go home? Is this radio show ever caused a fight between you and your wife because you crazy? I've I've had relationship to break up because the show. Yeah, And that's the thing. I can't get it. Come on, I can't break up. You're gonna break up. This is like early earlier, right, that's what I'm saying. I mean, I said I'm gonna break up. I'm married, I got two kids. I can't break up if it's you, like really, it probably a physical fitness thing, like I just want to give him an answer. Physical fitness, that's my answer. Yeah, because it's like you're like skinny on the top part of your body and then not like on some part it I'd be like gonna have a big butt. No like not. But what he's saying, I got wet and now I'm just saying it would be like work out the right way he does body pumps. Now I'm kind of my own trainer. Right, you're saying I'm not doing it right. I'm saying, you all do your things wonderfully, but you put me on the spot said, it's like, dang Eddie's looking skinny. He's shoulder you like skinny from from your head to your nipples. So you're saying it's big nipples. Okay, okay, I get you that gut, but anything about the nipples. Guy has a little poop. I'm just saying, you can work for the same amount of work. You can do the right thing. No, I know what he's saying. What's he's saying. He's saying you can wear a brawl. He's saying you could be more effective with your time working out. The time working out. He's saying, you can learn to do it in a way where it'll affect your don't waste your time more squats, more crunches. Okay, whatever, your your own trainer. You know my own trainer. Maybe I need to invest in the trainer. We're all like online or goodness, We're like, we went over twenty four. Do you want to tell me that I don't want to need to amy you can even though I didn't suggest this, that I'll take the heat to go ahead quickly. Oh yeah, I didn't know we were going to come to you. I didn't know I was gonna come to you guys. I don't want to Oh my god, I didn't even want to sign you guys. And I struggle with all three of you. But and you guys all have your immediately. Okay, um, i'd like you to take a masterclass on communication. Oh my good. Yeah, he's gonna get another one being late complete we all wrote communication there it is, and a master class for make That's why I have more game, more communicating. You need to communicate you. I've checked out. Oh you think it is bad, now give me give me another year. This is what happens. We all end up mind reading and we're terrible at it, and it gets really weird. I'm gonna be what they're gonna get worse. I'll be a ghost in the shadow at the same time around here. If this gets worse, I don't know if we can. I don't know how. You definitely can wait, okay, hold on, Also one, why are you signing multiple master classes? I don't like this, but I didn't like it to begin with. I get free. Well, just in tying in with communication. It would be like how you view communicating with friends. It's like, oh, we texted, it's all good. Yes, I love that's the best way to talk. It's like, no, when's the last time, Win's last time you and I went grabb dinner? Everything? Yeah, exactly, never never wear the third because I care about our friendship. Because my friends hold on hold one to hang out. We don't have fun boyd. She's worried about having dinner with you, You ain't worry you head dinner with me, and my defense to that would be over the well, Eddie, I don't. I guess I've known you maybe for ten years, only worked with you for four lunchbox over the however many years, eleven years we've worked together. I we've never really hung out like that. That's why body and I have like I'm saying, like, hey, my friend Devil's Advocate come in. Yeah, do you mind if he walks in the room. You're busy, friend, he's busy Devils Advocates coming in for a second. I'm busy right now. That there's so when your husband was always gone, I guess he was always hanging out with you this guy, okay, okay, making sure you weren't, you know, I know, I just see it changing even more. I mean now that my my husband's definitely me home war because he's switching up the way he works. When the kids come and time and talk all the time, she's gonna be great. But yeah, yeah, we don't even really face time. And then when my kids come, like and to hang out it's fun. It used to be fun with staying out. You're gonna have to like get to know my kids. Are you just excited to meet them? Oh yeah, I'll probably never go to Haiti though, now that they're coming, you've dodged Haiti, like I know because I don't of course. But and she turned this into a feel good like, oh you're gonna like my kids, instead of getting back to the Devil's advocating. No, it was just that we used to hang out a lot more. One wouldn't haven't been much work to do. And secondly, when you have in here, I don't want you to be lonely, so I would just be like, now you have a girlfriend, I don't even have time for her sometimes and you can, I know, so you definitely don't have to if I have a girlfriend, have time. We all be going to dinner all time. But this is when I get my feelings hurt though, when you say, like, oh, I got a double date with me and so and so I'm like, man, I've had entire life, it could have been. Don't had a roll of double dating for a little bit with multiple people my entire life? One I can tell you who with You've gone out with me and my husband and you and another girl? H Oh years ago? Okay, yeah, years ago? Yes, years ago? Okay, Yes, there's a reference that's years ago. Okay. So you're talking about double days recently? Yeah, okay, Because Lindsay and I've been together for a year, I've only been on two or three I think three three. So Edie, are you saying you want Lindsay Bobby to go on a double date with you? And it'd be cool. I think it'd be a cool idea. We had fun one too. We should go on up triple You guys ever get jealous to Eddie to hang out all the time for work, But we hang out all the time because we're stuck together and we enjoy hanging around each other. So it's like we're hanging out. Yeah. I feel like if you, I feel like y'all get that bonding time and you'll have all these inside jokes. But those some of those go way back though, yeah, and you'll have yeah, yes, all your travels and see the word experiencing the country together. Yeah, like I don't obviously I don't have a talent to offer to perform if I mean, if I did, that would be cool and I would enjoy that. And yeah, So we haven't been on the road in you because I've just been doing stand up by myself. So we're doing I think we only have like five raging indios all year, So that's been, that's gone. There has been many as many as I joked, I miss them. We've had a lot of space, and I would say that, like I miss a lot of that. But like I'm I miss you. Like you say, oh you're close. How much we hang out in your brain? It's just like we're just close, oh my brain, we're always the same closeness if we don't see each other. For like my friend Courtney, I haven't seen that dude in the year. I know he's just I'm close to him as I could be possibly because it's just my dude. He always been, might do whatever he needs whenever he needs it. We have all the history. That's just like points acquired points. So you guys are very high up on that highs anybody the point mead, we all work differently in our own heads. Maybe just dinner once a year or something we do that. I got Mike to last Mike hang time. You guys hang out all the time. Yeah, are like doing stuff. So so we would have to come is the next great radio star? Yeah? I love he'll end up having his own show one day and it won't even It'll be different than radio because radios we changed so much. But yeah, of course, like he's Mikey's like my little protegee, really really hold on. But he just said it would be different than what we do. It's different that he's going. He First of all, I think Mike has the work ethic, the drive, and the dedication it takes to achieve that. Yes, so yeah, I think Mike's if someone, if I were to bet on somebody to go with their own and host and lead their own show, does Mike d think that he's like you or he could? I feel like similarities. We grew up the same way too, Like we have even like background similarities as from Mexico. No, I don't know him, you know, I don't. We both grew up pretty rough, so you know and and that way. I think people grew up rough in lots of different ways. We grew up without any money, so we relate on that level of like dang. Like one time I made him go to the freaking doctor. He was like, we don't got the doctor. I was like, I was like, I was like, dude, I just want to go to doctor either, Like until my mid twenties, I wouldn't go the doctor because we didn't go the doctor as a kid, wouldn't go to dentist, would do any of that. And I was like, you gotta shake that right now. And so I was like, already called and pay for the flu shot. Go get a freaking flue shot. And so I was like, man, we don't go to the the doctor. I'm from, Like, yeah you do now, So yeah, I just kind of see the same. Just remember to communicate, Mike, because you're a group of friends. You do this. Within ten years the same show, they're all gonna be like, why don't we go to dinner anymore? Too busy, man, I'm not to look at I'm about to look at my deed differently. Now, what do you mean it could be your future? Boss? Is that what you're saying no, no, no no, no, no, no no. I just did not realize he was Bobby Bones Jr. I just did not know that. I don't think there's such thing as Bob. There's not because you've never talked to me. He's communicate, But Mike doesn't talk really talk to me all the time, you know, I mean to us, what to me? No, no, Mike never talked period, never, like the most quiet person ever. And he's come out of a shell in the past year or so. I think, and he can say I think the weight loss. I think him just being comfortable around people, he has made a huge difference. Did you agree with that? He never someone work? But but you can't ask a guy to do it for twenty four years, to be an introvert so much and never talked to anybody because of how you feel that people are looking at you and then all of a sudden be like boom, turn it on. It took me years. But Mike used to be on radio too, like he had his own podcast. No no, no, he was on Kiss Fly. He had a weekend show on Kiss. I didn't know that. So anyway, all that to be said, I will in my head we are all still the same level. It doesn't take more dinners or less than take any epic deserts or salads. I'm just saying what happens over dinner's conversation and catch up like we do in the morning. I know there's things we don't catch up on the show. There's things we don't talk about that I think about all the time. Like what we've been at a time for half an hour? Guys, Okay, I'll tell you what like I genuinely right now, it's like eleven o nine right, we've we finished when the show was over? It so um what you send me a date? Oh my goodness? And we can were scheduling a date. I have to schu everything in my life at this point, every single thing to I get it. Like my calendar. Are you asking me out? No? I would never date you. My calendar is so crazy that I have to schedule and go this time here for friend time. Let's do it after I heart. If you'd like to schedule some friend time. I would love to schedule some friend time. Can we do the quadrupled No, because then you can't really focus on friends. I would love to schedule some friend time. Okay, I'll get with my assistant. No Morgan, Morgan speaking up. I've never even met your assistant. I don't even know. I was just telling something. Someone the other day asked me about her and I was like, I couldn't even tell you what she looks like, which is that My friend thought that was crazy because she's like, what you and Bobby are so close. I'm like, I've never been to your house. I thought you'd about your close friends. Is it in Amy's wedding? She had mal and I shouldn't have been a wedding because I wasn't. Amy got married friends right, But Amy had guys on her wedding, so she's she's prone to break the rules when it comes to general until it comes to us and and you guys can't come to the party. So you were on the road doing accommodation and we didn't know that you could have canceled it. Hey call me people, set up some friend time, and we'll converse like friends. Well, so how do I get in touch with this person? I have people call yours, he'll reach out. Don't don't call her hair? Does she have I I really don't know because because I just I really when my friend asked me about whoever Bobby is hired. I just knew nothing and that and it just dawned on me. I was like, I really don't know. I don't because me and I always knew Morgan when she was handling that stuff. But then Morgan got moved up, right, she's running the show, right, so Mike's moved up and out, and so now there's somebody else managing it, and I just the point is, I don't know what you even think I would know who she was or what she looked like, or even I think I know her name because you said it on we were FaceTime the other day. But that's about it. But I don't see why being who cares who she is? Well, I'm about to have to schedule dinner through her. I know, it doesn't a little bit. I'm kidding, like, we can just tell me when you want to know. Yeah, all you have to say is, hey, let's well figure out a time. All I'm saying is everything's good. I was like, I did not understand. I was just unit, there's like a master calendar. There is, There is absolutely a master calendar. Ogan Jessica, my sister has and then and they all have the same calendar. They all know where I'm going to be, where they can work together. That's what I'm saying. If I just go through you, I don't know if it will make the master calendar, and then you might not show up because you've been double booked. Okay, how awaysh up? Thank you? Okay, have a great day. It's a busy one. Can't wait to catch up. You got it. Let me know what day and I'll have my sister right with your her sister, and then what colors are here? How long we been together? Thirteen years? No, I've known you for like twelve and a half, but worked together like it's like it's like five and a half. I come to work with you for like a year and a half. After we met her lunch, he's checked out. Oh yeah, he's I have got to naps. Should we give one eight hundred flowers or blue apron? Another shout out, all right, okay, bye, gotta go, I got videos to shoot. Okay, you're the reason this thing went private, just so you know, Yeah, I got to be home. Suggestion of Hay left play the master class game that was that was hurt and then it turned into beating on Bobby. It always turns into Bobby. You're the villain. But we're gonna beat you up even more than you beat us up. Turn yourself into the victim. Yeah, I love bit sometimes but okay, mistake. Yeah you like you're saying, dare you say it again? They stick this in your face? Wow, man, that was a strong one. Put your face right in my whoa nothing, there's just a beat to act like you heard it. I knew exactly what it was. I was playing. Oh you were playing wrong? What some music, Mike? You do? Do do that over? This thing went almost forty minutes. But it's good. It's like a little therapy session. Yes, so we're good for a year. We'll get un tell us like, listen another one. But see now I know Amy, her cup isn't full of Bobby time. Hello. We all told you that. I didn't say anything except bunch of hawks and I said that too. We get hard. We'll hang out this weekend. We get our California together, and then we can travel in the world. Amy, I used travel the world and we to be my companion on Southwest because so much and that's not anymore. I know. I'm sorry, sorry, sorry, Charlie, all right, we're gonna go Upcept two five is over. If anyone's still listening, there's a one dude out there. Thanks man, all right, good bye, Thanks guys, You over.