The One About Lucky Number 13

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Speaker 1: O m G.

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Speaker 2: What a weekend?

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Speaker 3: What a week We made it through the rain.

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Speaker 1: Have you ever heard the Mariah Carey song? Can I sing something please? I was just like, I can make it go the rain. I can't start up fucking You know what all I'm grateful for when it rains is that it doesn't feel like just another day. Sure you love the rain, though, oh love the rain? Was it too much?

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Speaker 4: Though?

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Speaker 3: Last time?

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Speaker 1: There's no such thing. When I first so I bought a home.

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Speaker 5: I bought a home in La congratulation.

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Speaker 1: And I was looking as it was raining at my pool, and I was like, you know, I love the in but if that thing starts flooding, we're screwed.

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Speaker 3: So I called.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, who does one call when they're worried about something like this? Because we're just a bunch of chicks in the homes, you know. And so I called the realtor and was like, what do I do? And she's like, well, like it has a drain. But if you ever have something happen where you're worried about flooding, like you need to go to home depot get some sandbags. I'm like, who do you think you were talking to? I call my mom and she goes, we're not doing that. We're not doing that. You have insurance. I was like, okay, that's fine, Like we don't do masculine things, but I did. I had eighty t come and you know I'm not messing around.

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Speaker 4: You're not messing around. Also, if we look this way, guys on the cameras and Ocean are here.

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Speaker 1: Just sorry, baby welcome, Ocean said to me when I told her we were coming to record the podcast today. She goes, Mom, you say a lot of bad woods on the podcast. My mom's and Gigi's gonna wash your mouth out with SOLP. Honestly, she better better, she better.

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Speaker 3: This is a cuss free episode right here.

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Speaker 1: What mom? No, But that's what we say. We're a household full of threats. That's what we do because the name of the GAMEE is making everyone for fear us. But like, don't call us on the poker face, don't call my bluff because there's nothing.

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Speaker 2: It's kind of like when I'm barking.

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Speaker 1: If someone really were to go tos, it would be like, and this is where I run. Where are my hope? Guys are talking about? Oh so I'm like, I love apartment living for one reason and one reason only, and that's because I like the amount of like security that you have to go through to get to one's apartment.

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Speaker 2: And where I was living.

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Speaker 1: Before, it was like gate after gate after gate, and you need a different code for each gate, and you need a different code to get into the place, to get into the elevator, and then you gotta get up to the top floor and choose my apartment out of all the apartments that are up there, which there's a lot. So I just I liked the odds of me getting robbed versus not getting robbed, Like I feel like the odds are in my favor. Now we are in a home where I'm feeling a little exposed.

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Speaker 2: We got a gate, got a gate. We're all good.

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Speaker 1: We got the codes and on codes, on codes, but I'm like, we need to be stacked. So I just want to shout out adt because they came in and I'm not even joking you, you guys, the amount of stuff that they were, Like, I think you need this, and here's why, Okay, I don't mess around with safety. I got a kid, I got a mama, like sell me on anything, Like I don't think of them as like used car salesman. I'm like the breakaway window stuff. So if someone tries to break the window instead of opening it, like still ringing to the police. All right, there's movement in the house, and that person weighs over twenty five pounds, and I've set that to away. We're not home calling the police.

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Speaker 4: Right, what if they weigh under twenty five, then.

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Speaker 1: Who's coming in to rob me? Who weighs less than twenty five pounds?

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Speaker 4: That's true, And if they do, you could self defense.

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Speaker 1: I feel like I could take that motherfucker.

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Speaker 2: Anyway.

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Speaker 1: Being a homeowner is very strange and weird, but also awesome.

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Speaker 4: And exciting and congrats because literally, what a what a freakin'.

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Speaker 1: Boss bitch, move right to home?

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Speaker 4: I mean, that's incredible. I got too homes?

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Speaker 3: Is that a song by Kevin Gates?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 3: I got two homes?

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Speaker 2: I like it and Ocean loves it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, if you say my new home, she does.

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Speaker 2: And yesterday like rainbows.

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Speaker 3: Running around the house too.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she was talking about rainbows because she's got a producer. John bought her a bag of skittles. Thank you for that producer. Anyway, So I don't know what the point of that was that I was telling you that we bought the new home the rain, so as long as it didn't flood. But also for Super Bowl Sunday, I was really really excited to fill the home full of people to watch the game. And for a moment, I'd invited like Easton and his friends over some of my friends. They like the party, they don't want to come to a house, but like the Bow and the Stass, They're totally down to come to the house and have a chill time. So a week and a half ago, I invited them to come to the house, and then I was feeling a little stressed. I'm like, I feel like I'm not prepared to like host anything. So then everyone a borts mission, mostly because I cancel. I canceled it that she does cancel.

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Speaker 5: And when she stresses, the one thing that you don't do is add more to it. So she goes so she canceled Bow and Stassy. So when she did that, I was like, I'm not gonna throw more on her and bring my friends. So I made other plans and then we're on our way home and she's like, well everyone's canceled on me, and I was like, whoa, let's get this straight. So then she immediately takes Bow and Sassy on the phone and she goes, they're coming.

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Speaker 3: So I was like, all right, I'll bring the homies.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so everyone came over. We had a stacked house. Lisa was a savage. She spent the entire week moving her Utah house because they Houston and my mom sold the Utah house, so they spent all week moving in Utah. They got in Saturday night and Lisa pulled together a fantastic Super Bowl Sunday spread aw for everybody that she did. Easton was a tremendous help. That's so fun.

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Speaker 3: It was nice, got some pizza. It was Costco was a ship show. If anyone was at that, it was a nightmare.

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Speaker 4: I love Costco, but it's a ship show before events and anything.

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Speaker 1: Well, especially when you're choosing Super Bowl like the day of Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Well we had no choice. We got in Saturday, no I know.

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Speaker 1: And I told everyone the night before that I was like, Okay, I feel like I feel like we can pull this together. The game was a little snoozy until it totally wasn't snoozy at all.

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Speaker 4: I gotta say, I don't think it was snoozy the entire time because it was so close.

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Speaker 3: But that was such a boring game.

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Speaker 4: I was just like into it. Haven't you ever watched a super Bowl where it's like it's like, oh, they're gonna win. Clearly this is boring by like halftime show you're laying you.

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Speaker 1: Know, most super Bowls and games. I'm creating my own personal roster, so I don't really care what the score is.

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Speaker 2: Am I gonna be.

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Speaker 1: This game? It was a little snoozy, even though it was like a close game whatever. And I was kind of sitting there thinking like, I love Usher, but I don't know that I'm excited for him to be the halftime performer.

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Speaker 3: And I was on, here, what is it Usher?

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Speaker 1: Or well, are you joking?

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Speaker 3: Well, I don't know. I was thinking it was I about.

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Speaker 1: To slap you.

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Speaker 2: It's Usher.

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Speaker 1: But everyone says, just like when they say we're going to the club.

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Speaker 5: Ah, they are, Okay, I learned something today, It's okay, you're stupid.

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Speaker 3: I need to kind of get a little more.

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Speaker 1: And I'm joking, but I was actually really really pleasantly surprised. I thought the halftime show was iconic when Ludacris came out and litl John, Right, Litil John looking kind of fine?

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Speaker 3: Really is off white? That was off white?

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Speaker 1: Was it?

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Speaker 3: LITL John's usher's like black and blue?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 3: That was Oh shut out?

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Speaker 1: That's also good? Right, that's awesome. I thought the whole performance was amazing. Her coming out.

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Speaker 3: I did like it more than and you thought you would.

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Speaker 1: I mean last year was what Rihanna?

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Speaker 4: That might have been my top What is your all time favorite super Bowl performance? Because mine might be Rihanna. For a while it was the Britney Spears and Aerosmith that was like iconic, But now I think.

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Speaker 3: He was like flying in on the Oh it's so fucking.

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Speaker 4: Good, her so good.

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Speaker 2: Sorry, sorry, it's fine, It's fine, It's fine. Justica too.

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Speaker 1: No, my most favorite game and halftime performance of all time was San Francisco Baltimore and Beyonce was a performer. It was like, that was the most fun I've ever had for a Super Bowl because my sister in law was born and raised in San Francisco, so she's hardcore forty nine ers. We love the Baltimore Ravens. And then like my idled the icon the Queen of All Queens. Is the halftime performer done done, nothing will ever be back.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Oh, but then there was the Doctor Dre fifty. That one was that was one of my most favorite halftime performances. If we're strictly talking about the halftime performance that that was legit.

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Speaker 4: Kendrick, Oh that was good. Wait, maybe that's one of my top.

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Speaker 3: I don't know, I don't even know who played in that Super Bowl.

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Speaker 1: And Fifty coming down like such a beefcake was one of the biggest things.

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Speaker 4: I regret what Fifty said that?

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Speaker 1: Well, yeah, because it was like the iconic in the club where he his first single where he drops from the ceiling, but he's he looks his body's a little different now hot, still very hot.

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Speaker 2: Get on top of me either way. I'll take it.

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Speaker 1: Then, I'll take it now, I'll take you five hundred years ago.

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Speaker 4: Don't care, get on top of you. I feel like you should get on top of him.

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Speaker 1: I'm horny today, I can tell Wow, that's amazing.

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Speaker 4: This will be a fun episode.

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Speaker 2: I put together my vibrator drawer in the new house.

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Speaker 4: Okay, why and when and for what?

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Speaker 1: What do you mean?

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Speaker 3: For what?

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Speaker 4: Well?

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Speaker 1: What do you mean?

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Speaker 3: Was the one thing she was afraid of. It was we were clearing out her house and she goes, no, one go through that drawer.

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Speaker 1: My bedside tables used to be massive in the apartment and the room was tiny, teeny tiny. But I've got this window in my bedroom. So the way the bedroom situated is my My night stands have less like drawer space, so one of the night stands is just strictly for her pleasure.

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Speaker 4: That's great.

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Speaker 3: It is how many does one knee? Are you joking? No? You guys, how many toys does one knee?

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Speaker 4: At least a few? Because you're in like a different mood every time. Sometimes the ones I don't the ones that scare me are the ones that look like bunny rabbits and like they're like, I don't those because I get scared. What I mean, they're like they're like they're like big, and they've got raw ears ears. They're like they're like like.

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Speaker 1: Jessicauld dry it like this, and then they've.

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Speaker 3: Got like, oh is that for the button?

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Speaker 2: Oh I have one of those?

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Speaker 4: Oh is that the if you can see these are the vibrators?

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Speaker 1: I don't like, Oh, right, that is?

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Speaker 5: And then I got what about the one because the one that scares me, it looks like it.

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Speaker 1: That I got.

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Speaker 3: I don't know which one. I don't know that could take out.

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Speaker 2: Can I show you at the office the purple one.

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Speaker 3: The one that you turned down. You're like, I don't know about I was like, that is not is a weapon. I saw that. I was like, there's just no way, no, well, that is a weapon.

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Speaker 5: And that's when I said, That's when I said, there's no how do as a man looking at that?

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Speaker 2: How do we you can't shot?

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Speaker 5: And then I saw one that had like an orchid tail and I had no tail, and it was you told me it was for the clip.

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Speaker 2: Was does, well, that's on the dildo.

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Speaker 4: How many arms does that thing have?

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Speaker 1: So it's just like the long part like that, yeah, and then it has the thrusting motion.

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Speaker 6: Okay that it got.

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Speaker 3: It's got this.

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Speaker 1: Beating that like moves right, and then it's got this other piece that vibrates for the.

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Speaker 2: A man cannot compete when you get this.

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Speaker 4: I have to be fully honest, La, I don't know how that even goes near your body because I've seen Lala's vagina and she's got.

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Speaker 1: The teeniest, tiniest.

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Speaker 4: Little villa and it's I do not know how that toy even is anywhere near that.

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Speaker 1: If you need to throw up, I totally get it. My baddies and I forgot you were here. All right, let's get back, Let's get back to the super Bowl. Okay, okay, So how do we feel about the commercials?

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Speaker 3: You guys? I thought they were good. I thought they were good. I liked the Dunkin Donuts one with.

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Speaker 1: I liked the Dunkin Donuts one too.

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Speaker 5: Maybe a little cheesy, but everybody that was in it was great, And like Jlo looking at Tom and just saying, but you can stay.

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Speaker 4: What was that, by the way, was that like you're good at singing? Or is that like you're hot?

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Speaker 3: He's like the DJ and he's just hot.

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Speaker 4: Oh spicy?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, what did you think?

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Speaker 5: I was a little underwem you were by just that one or all of them.

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Speaker 1: Just I feel like halftime commercials back in the day were.

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Speaker 3: So you didn't miss the commercials, you'd miss the game to go to the bathroom.

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Speaker 2: Super Bowl exactly.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I just don't feel like you have iconic people in them, Like I thought that the one with Ice Spice was so stupid.

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Speaker 4: I don't even know if I saw that one.

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Speaker 3: I don't know if I did.

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Speaker 1: With the drink, the what brand, I couldn't even tell you. I thought it was Sprite, but it's not. It's a different lemon lime drink.

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Speaker 4: Can we talk about what type of budget Verizon had to get Beyonce?

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Speaker 1: Well, I want to talk about this because I was wondering how much celebrities get paid and it said there was like a baseline of ten million dollars, and I'm like, I just don't buy it. I just don't. I'm sorry, I don't think Ice Spice is getting paid what Jennifer.

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Speaker 2: Lopez is getting paid?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Or Messy?

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Speaker 1: Yes, right, exactly. So let's use that as as the example. Who was that for michelob.

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Speaker 3: Uh No, let me see, I'm pretty sure it was, Yeah, I think.

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Speaker 2: It was, And who was in it? Who was in it?

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Speaker 3: Messy Messi? And I don't even know Sadakis?

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Speaker 2: Right, Jason Saidaikis was, wasn't he?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: I just saw Messi and I literally looked up immediately how much he was getting paid for this that commercial, and I didn't even see anybody else he got paid.

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Speaker 3: I'm going to google that real nice fourteen million, fourteen million, four to thirty second.

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Speaker 5: He gets paid fourteen million for that thirty second and that and they have to pay for this spot.

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Speaker 3: Ah what like think of that.

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Speaker 5: They just had to pay him to use that and now you still got to pay for the spot. And I think the spot's like seven million for how much was.

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Speaker 2: It it was with Dan Marino?

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Speaker 3: Do you know how much a position was like a commercial spot?

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Speaker 1: I don't know exactly, like how much it costs to get a Super Bowl spot? Yeah, I don't know that, but I do know that the halftime performers do not give a.

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Speaker 3: Million for thirty seconds.

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Speaker 1: Seven million dollars for thirty seconds. That's like pocket change for somebody people for these brands, it's like that's just not even a thought. But the super or the halftime performers don't get paid. They only have their production cost covered, which can run up to like fifteen million dollars, but.

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Speaker 3: They don't get paid. But think how many people are today playing like Usher?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, that's true.

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Speaker 3: Like now I loved his set, No, it was great, and I thought he did well.

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Speaker 4: I didn't admit this at the beginning of the show. I didn't watch the halftime performance. How messed up is that?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I got that messed up, and then I went outside and played basketball mm hmm.

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Speaker 1: On the reel though. I had a call time for something on Sunday, and I said to Jessica that Super Bowl Sunday, like we have to re like, I'm not doing this until six pm on Super Bowl Sunday, And so we started work at six am. Wrapped at three, Jessica says to me, I think I'm just gonna like go on a hike, and I got depressed for her. It was so depressing. And then people that were on set. I was like, I hope you guys can like go and enjoy the game now, and they're like.

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Speaker 4: A couple guys I heard talking a couple of sound guys, right.

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Speaker 5: Yes, But then Super Bowl hits different because you were talking to one of my homies and we said that we stopped watching football in sports when we moved out here, right, That's what.

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Speaker 2: I was going to talk about.

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Speaker 1: So I was saying, it's weird because so many people in LA don't really watch sports. And I remember growing up in Utah Easton, you were in the same household, so you know, like it was Monday night football, Thursday night football, Saturday was for college, and we had Sunday football, like it was constant, and then most nights during basketball season basketball was playing.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Like I grew up in a very like sports heavy household. When I moved out to LA, I just stopped watching because it was like no one cared about sports. And so I was talking to you East and a couple of your friends, and they were saying, what after.

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Speaker 5: Moving out here, you just kind of stop watching because most games, And this is how I felt, because most games are like East Coast and then there's only a couple over here, but like East Coast, they started like four, yeah, and so I'm not watching a basketball game at four. So once I get home and I'm like relaxing, like there's only one game on, and if it's not a team I'm interested in, I usually won't watch or I'll just have it background.

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Speaker 3: But that was just like to the point where I.

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Speaker 5: Don't know, I'm more go, go go, I'm going to your place or doing stuff with friends. So it's just like I've fallen off of the sports, Like I don't care as much to go and watch sports. I like I'm doing other things, and it was like, I feel like in Utah there wasn't as.

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Speaker 3: Much going on. It was also frigid, frigid, so like you don't go out, you stay inside, or you go to a bar.

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Speaker 5: And you watch sports. Here it's like you go on a hike after or you get outside. And I've lost touch with sports, I really have, Like I'll look up scores and I would.

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Speaker 1: Like to not though, but I would like to not. I like the way a sport on the television makes me feel. I like the vibe of the household. Very Hi, hi, goof.

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Speaker 2: So you didn't watch the halftime.

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Speaker 4: I didn't watch the halftime because I did end up going on a hike, came home, got some stuff situated, and then turned it on right as it was the halftime show was ending. But that was great because so that's why I didn't think the game was boring, you guys, because I didn't watch the person watched.

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Speaker 2: The second and the second half is when.

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Speaker 3: It popped dot.

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Speaker 1: I was like, I didn't think it was boring at all.

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Speaker 2: It was so boring.

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Speaker 1: And then Stossey was like, Messer is getting like it was six thirty, it was time for his bath and Bosart putting this stuff away, and I was like, where's bo. Kansas City finally scored and he was putting baby stuff in the car and she was like, I'm the worst wife. Don't tell him. I was like, well, he's gonna walk in here and probably see the playback. So it was like the interception for then I thought so bad.

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Speaker 3: He takes his hat off and he goes, yeah, I don't give a shit.

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Speaker 1: I was like, I can take you home Boa. He was like I know. He had Taylor's a Taylor Swift shirt on. Everyone at my house wanted the Niners. This is how I look at it Easton because Mom was like, well, we live in California. I'm like, it doesn't matter. That's like the University of Utah not making it into something. And then it's that team versus b YU. Are gonna be like, well I really want b YU.

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Speaker 5: Now anybody plays b YU, I'm rooting for anybody opposite team.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that makes sense.

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Speaker 1: So Bow had Taylor's Swift shirt on, and then he had a Rams hat the colors that said f the Niners. Oh that's funny because I've stopped going to nine Ride Rams games when they play the niners. It's just it's insufferable. It's just I like how you do his voice. It's hilarious.

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Speaker 3: I love him.

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Speaker 1: He doesn't sound like so we can agree that snoozy first half. Pleasantly surprised by the halftime show. Commercials could have been better, but iconic people, so we're gonna let it slide. Except Beyonce's variety. No budget in the world.

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Speaker 4: Oh you got to look it up.

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Speaker 1: It's like I didn't.

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Speaker 3: It was really good.

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Speaker 4: I had to say that must have been. That's another thing too. How many shooting days at least a few, so you've got beyond I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I just did you see Beyonce in the box?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: No, Oh my gosh, it looks so good. She's got this blonde and the way it was it was like bombshell hair, Like, oh my gosh, you are like really hitting different right right, Okay, so game ends. I didn't watch overtime.

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Speaker 2: I got no.

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Speaker 1: I got the most excruciating headache that I had to go and sit in hot water.

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Speaker 4: That's wild.

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Speaker 1: At that point, I didn't even care who won, who lost. I just had to like get rid of it.

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Speaker 4: It was that bad. We talked about it earlier. Why why do you think it was that bad?

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Speaker 1: I didn't drink enough water. I get headaches like that. But obviously I saw this morning that the first thing Travis Kelsey said to Taylor Swift, she love it? Do you love Taylor Swift? What's your favorite song by Taylor Swift?

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Speaker 4: Can you give us a sample?

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Speaker 1: Can you sing it?

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Speaker 4: I say, let's shake it off? Right?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 1: Is it?

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Speaker 3: Is it? Oh? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I got nothing in my brain gap. That's what people say, shake it off.

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 1: So after he's done giving his speech or whatever, where he's.

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Speaker 4: Like, you gotta fight for your rat to Bard.

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Speaker 1: By the way, I had no idea he's a ginger. You didn't know. I've had no idea he had red hair.

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Speaker 2: But it's the thing. Still hot, still hot hot.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I saw the way the sun hit the beard, and I was like, oh, we're a redhead. Yeah all right. He said, come here, girl, so hot, so I turned off my bike.

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Speaker 4: But my god, the hottest thing a man can say to a woman, in my opinion, is come here. It doesn't even have to be girl. After even though that makes that hotter, come here.

00:24:01
Speaker 1: Come here, you come here, Come here, not come everywhere, but I wanted to know Easton because I missed overtime. What is this whole thing about Taylor Swift's favorite number and thirteen.

00:24:19
Speaker 2: Being in the mix?

00:24:20
Speaker 5: Well, I also fell asleep, okay during overtime, but I saw that Taylor Swift's favorite number is thirteen, and then everything connected to this conspiracy. So Taylor Swift, this is These are her stats for thirteen.

00:24:35
Speaker 3: Okay. Her flight to the super Bowl was thirteen hours. Okay. I believe it was from Tokyo or something like that.

00:24:44
Speaker 5: Me and John were talking about it that we don't know, but the flight was thirteen hours.

00:24:47
Speaker 3: We do know that it was her thirteenth NFL game.

00:24:51
Speaker 4: Okay.

00:24:53
Speaker 3: They were playing the forty nine Ers four plus nine thirteen. Oh, super Bowl fifty eight five plus eight. Wow.

00:25:02
Speaker 5: And then this is where it gets crazy. On the last play of the game, this is what I woke up for thirteen. The last play of the game was snapped at six seconds. It was first in three and they got the three yards for the touchdown. If you add six three three one, you got thirteen.

00:25:25
Speaker 3: I got it.

00:25:26
Speaker 1: I will take your word for it.

00:25:27
Speaker 3: That's thirteen. Does that equal thirteen? John Tick six. There we go.

00:25:32
Speaker 2: Oh mg, that way sixty six six three.

00:25:36
Speaker 3: So yeah, it was snapped with six.

00:25:38
Speaker 5: That's nineteen, no six plus three, oh plus three plus one thirteen.

00:25:46
Speaker 4: I was going, yes, okay, can I be? Can I be like a devil's advocate for a second.

00:25:52
Speaker 3: Yes, don't piss me off.

00:25:55
Speaker 4: You could kind of make that like I could go, I could have done that with like if those numbers didn't work, I could say the guy who scored the touchdown, his number was eighty five, Like, I feel like you could make it work.

00:26:09
Speaker 6: No shit, just yeah, you can make it work in anyway.

00:26:13
Speaker 5: If it was just that one play equal with thirteen, it would be like, okay, but it's crazy that the forty nine ers fifty eight, her flight her thirteenth, and it's just very very weird how that all comes.

00:26:25
Speaker 2: You're not a true swifty Oh no, yes I am.

00:26:28
Speaker 3: Yes, everyone's new favorite number thirteen. All the Swifties we were at thirteen.

00:26:34
Speaker 2: I don't really have a favorit written over. Really, you was eight for a while.

00:26:39
Speaker 3: Eight. Let's see with it.

00:26:41
Speaker 2: Then let's stick with eight.

00:26:42
Speaker 4: Yeah, eight, because Kobe in infinity and my birthday month is eight.

00:26:48
Speaker 2: All right, Well, let's let's stick with it.

00:26:52
Speaker 1: All right, moving on from super Bowl talk, let's jump into reality television.

00:26:58
Speaker 3: Oh my favorite.

00:27:00
Speaker 1: Yeah, because we didn't get to talk at all last week, no episode because we could not make it into the office. And yes, those of you who have to chain their tires because of snowstorms and blizzards, we don't know how to drive in the rain.

00:27:15
Speaker 5: And it was also the one thing that moving from Utah to here and being like they're idiots, this isn't it's built for weather there it is.

00:27:24
Speaker 3: They don't.

00:27:25
Speaker 5: We don't have drainage for all the rain that we're getting. That's the one thing I found out. So it's not like we can't drive, it's we literally can't drive because the city is.

00:27:34
Speaker 2: In you guys.

00:27:35
Speaker 1: I was going over the hill after like the storm had calmed, and on Mullholland in every single canyon there were like boulders and like houses kind of in the middle of the road.

00:27:48
Speaker 5: Remember when you told me to leave your house. Yeah, when you were like, I'm worried, I want you to leave.

00:27:52
Speaker 3: Now.

00:27:53
Speaker 5: When I was leaving, I was passing and they were closing down the canyon like they were putting as I was about to like I was going to the freeway, but I drove past and they had like blockage because it was like rain.

00:28:03
Speaker 3: Shit was in the road.

00:28:04
Speaker 4: It was horrifying. I got stuck in a puddle, which, by the way, I know I've always heard turn around or whatever if you see if it's raining for flash floods. But I legit was driving home from the gym, and I was like, ah, that puddle doesn't like I had to drive through. It doesn't look too bad. I freaking almost got stuck. It went like whoom. My car went right in. And then I was like, oh my god. And I was pushing on.

00:28:25
Speaker 2: The Patriot out.

00:28:26
Speaker 4: Yes, the Patriot, my bottom bitch.

00:28:31
Speaker 3: But did is she here today?

00:28:32
Speaker 1: She is here the Patriot?

00:28:35
Speaker 3: She is a Patriots.

00:28:37
Speaker 1: Yeah, so let's talk about it. What should we start off with? Should we start with Miami? Okay, so not vander Pump first.

00:28:43
Speaker 2: Well, let's we'll do vander pub last. Okay, all right, So they went. You guys know, I love a moment with a higher power.

00:28:51
Speaker 1: So a new episode airs tonight, so we'll do two weeks ago. Alexia wants to take everybody to Guadalupe, which is Jesus's mama, and she says that Guadaloupe is the reason why Frankie is okay, Like she attributes Frankie being okay to Guadalupe and with everything that Gerdy is going through. She takes the group there and they have a really beautiful moment. Actually, like even Gerdy and her confessional was like something happened in that church that I cannot explain and I will remember and cherish it forever. And I really like those moments on reality TV shows because it's such a heavy environment at all times that sometimes we forget, like when there's the bickering as outsiders we're watching a show. Like there are times where I'll have people come up to me when a season's airing right and they'll be like, for example, like fuck Shina or fuck Katie or fuck James, whatever it may be. And I'm like, huh, please don't talk about my friend that way, Like, yes, we have our ups and downs that you watch on television, but like you don't get to say that about my fucking friends, you know. Yeah, So it's nice when you see that these people go at each other and then you have a moment of them being like no, matter what goes on, this is a moment that like forever, when this is all done, I will hold this close to my heart. Anyway, So that happened, Love Guadalupe. I want to go there. I mean church was stunning.

00:30:21
Speaker 4: Yeah, and it's just I've heard that there's a certain sort of like I don't know why, but like spiritual power there.

00:30:28
Speaker 3: Yeah.

00:30:29
Speaker 1: But Julia had a different experience, so Easan. I don't know if you probably didn't know this, but Julia the last time she was in church was when she was begging for answers because she had a son. This woman came to her door to take care of her son. It's like a nanny. And I believe it was six weeks I don't want to misspeak six weeks later. Yes, So she said, I remember going to church begging for answers and I never got them. The only thing that kept me alive from not taking my own life was my little cocker spaniel. So she said, I have my animals. That is my church when I'm around them, and for me, it's like your higher power can.

00:31:16
Speaker 3: Be anything, right.

00:31:18
Speaker 5: Yeah, you can sit down in the park with your animals for an hour and that's you going to your church as long as you just take time to believe in whatever you believe in and preach it or not even preach it. Let me put it this, like take time to sit down and feel it or what's a good way to put this, just like.

00:31:37
Speaker 1: Get in touch with it.

00:31:39
Speaker 5: Yeah, like taking taking time to get in touch and to feel whatever.

00:31:45
Speaker 2: Whatever you can't explain connect.

00:31:48
Speaker 5: Connect to whatever you are doing. If you take the time out, doesn't matter when it is, but that is your church. I don't care what you believe in or how you believe in it, but if you take the time and do it, that's for me, that's a huge you know, like, Okay, I can respect you because you take that time. And that's what I like. I loved like hearing her because I actually did like feel it when she was like, my animals are my temple. Yeah, I was like, damn because my dogs when I wake up any day, like I take ten minutes and I just lay in my bed with them.

00:32:17
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a feeling you can't really explain.

00:32:19
Speaker 5: I can't explain it, but like there's a lot of feeling him and I feel like my dad because they were a lot you know, so that yeah, like feeling and when she said that, like I got emotional. Yeah, he was like damn, Okay, there's people that also do that. So I'm glad that she said that and all of that.

00:32:36
Speaker 1: Yeah, we're not going to all find answers and no you can't. That's what we talk about that in AA a lot. Like when you go to AA, it's very heavy God talk and sometimes it turns people off, but you have to kind of put your guard down to hear the message because it's like, hold on, we're not talking about God in the sky. We're talking about something that you feel is more powerful than you.

00:32:57
Speaker 3: Could be the tree, your definition of God, right, it.

00:33:00
Speaker 1: Could be your animals. It doesn't matter. When we're talking about God. That is a personal thing to you. And the moment that someone brings that up when they're talking, you know exactly who your God is.

00:33:11
Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, yeah, I've heard what I say. I'm gonna butcher it, but God is the name, guys, I'm wanna butcher it. It was something like God is the name, is the blanket term for an energy to put around it energy and can't describe something of that.

00:33:31
Speaker 3: I like that, you know what I said, You not knowing what you were saying.

00:33:37
Speaker 2: You didn't butcher it, you recreated it. If that's not it.

00:33:40
Speaker 1: I love that this podcast we can go from like coming all over our faces to like talking about God.

00:33:48
Speaker 4: Do you like to come on ladies faces?

00:33:49
Speaker 1: He said, Oh no, I don't want to know. I don't want to know I didn't do that. That's Jessica. Okay, so let's move on to Lisa. Lenny comes with an offer to Lisa. He's going to buy her a home. It has a gorgeous view. However, it needs to be renovated. She's about to sign the deal. Everyone's on board. Lawyers, Lenny, Lisa. She gets a phone call. Cameras are not allowed to capture the phone call because Lenny wouldn't allow it, and comes with this, there's strings attached.

00:34:24
Speaker 2: The only way I'm going to do this for you.

00:34:27
Speaker 1: A man can never reside in the home with you permanently. And she said, right, how sick? And she goes, well, what about your mistress? And he goes, well, Lisa, like I'm paying for this stuff, and it just it's just wild to me how quickly things can change.

00:34:51
Speaker 2: One minute, you're.

00:34:52
Speaker 1: Like sleeping next to this person who you're in love with, you have a family, you create this beautiful line.

00:35:00
Speaker 2: In the next it's like found a new one. Get the fuck out. Yeah.

00:35:05
Speaker 1: Oh, and I'm still gonna control everything because I've got the money, but like my mistress is gonna be around and like kicking it with the kids. But like not for you, only for me, because why I'm rich and you're not.

00:35:16
Speaker 3: It is disgusting.

00:35:19
Speaker 1: Yes, but the thing is we can't. We can't make people undisgusting, right. We can only control what we can control. What can we control, We can control ourselves. So people can call me wounded all day long. And you're gonna find love, and you're gonna find this and X, Y and Z. Let's remember humans are humans, Okay. So for me, it's like, yes, live your happily ever after, believe in that wholeheartedly, but always make sure that you're teed up on your own because this guy could die, he could lose his job, he could leave you. There's a million in one scenarios we could come up with. He could be so dude, for all the money in the world, you better.

00:36:03
Speaker 2: Be prepared to step up to the plate.

00:36:06
Speaker 1: So that's just another reason why I tell bitches, stack your freakin' coins.

00:36:11
Speaker 4: Yeah, preach.

00:36:14
Speaker 1: Larsa says to Lisa that she would regret if she lost Jody because Lisa is needy and no other man would put up with her crap. Lisa takes offense to this and calls Larza bully. I really find it very interesting, and I think we've talked about this before. When women have been in long term relationships, they go south. I believe we've spoken about this in another episode, but I'm gonna talk about it again because it's relevant here. And then they meet a guy and they're like, he just made me believe in love again. I'm like, give him fifteen years. I'm sure they'll fuck you over in fifteen years. All right, Well, she was. She was with Lenny for fifteen years. It's kind of like when she says, you know, we love Dan. He's way better than standbal likes as long as you know. He hasn't h had sex with one of her best friends, so he's winning. And it's like, well, it's been three months, let's give him ten years. I'm sure in some way drives me crazy if I were to meet a man right now and let's just say we're filming and they were like, has he made you believe in love again? It's like, well, I mean I we're like having a good time.

00:37:28
Speaker 3: I enjoyed it.

00:37:28
Speaker 1: I'm not an idiot, Like tomorrow could be different. Do I hope that this is a different situation? Yes, but like people are people, so like, let's just stick to the now.

00:37:39
Speaker 2: Right now. I'm happy, but I'm not.

00:37:41
Speaker 1: Gonna say he made me believe in love again.

00:37:43
Speaker 2: He's so great.

00:37:44
Speaker 1: I'm going to give him some years because I'm sure he'll do something to piss me off.

00:37:48
Speaker 2: I'm not sure i'll do something to piss him.

00:37:50
Speaker 3: Off to you know. I was going to say, you'll give him the reason because I'm.

00:37:52
Speaker 1: A real gen at the beginning, and then I'm not all right moving on? This is my favorite. Shit hits the fan on the gondola, and sure does Jessica go for it?

00:38:06
Speaker 2: Take over?

00:38:07
Speaker 1: Shit does hit the fan.

00:38:09
Speaker 4: I have a couple things that I focused on for that, right, So Lisa throwing food to.

00:38:16
Speaker 1: The dogs off the boat, m m mmmmm.

00:38:19
Speaker 4: Okay, So quickly in my brain I thought, oh I might do that too, just a little chicken or like something I know the dogs can have. And then that switched because I'm like, oh, that's actually very ignorant, and like you could tell the gondola driver was very uncomfortable with it, and she really doubled down.

00:38:41
Speaker 1: I think it was the doubling down that was hard.

00:38:43
Speaker 4: That's what it was, versus being like, oh my god, I'm so sorry. I wasn't even thinking, like what am I doing when I'm idiots.

00:38:50
Speaker 1: Like I did when I see dogs, I want to throw them treats, And I wasn't thinking and that was an ignorant moment.

00:38:54
Speaker 2: I'm sorry.

00:38:55
Speaker 4: Yes, yeah, So that was something where I was like eugh, and I had immediately switch. And like I said in our Bonus episode last week, one of my biggest pet peeves non negotiables is like when people don't take the not the help, but like the employee or whatever into consideration. Like you saw the gondola driver. You saw how he was reacting, like look at him and be like, oh my god, and like take that into consideration.

00:39:21
Speaker 1: And just read the gondola.

00:39:25
Speaker 3: Yes, read read gondole.

00:39:30
Speaker 4: I I mean, I have like points, so if I'm skipping around too much, just tell me, no, go through your bullet points. I put the Lisa yelling scene gave me so much anxiety. I agree with LARSA. Seems like Lisa losing it over the juice boxes. Oh, yes, something much deeper, which we end up finding out it is. But I'm sitting because I'm making notes in real time, and I'm like, something's going on. Lisa's losing it over a juice box. Where did they even get the juice salted me?

00:39:58
Speaker 1: And I was like, then, can I tell you my daughter assaults me every day, every damn assaulted.

00:40:06
Speaker 3: But I felt like.

00:40:07
Speaker 4: My heart went out to her because she's losing over juice box. I have done that before? Are you kidding me? Where I'm I'm like in an argument with Kyle over some and I hear myself. I'm like, you know, and you don't you put my socks in that drawer and you don't care, like they obviously go in the top drawer and it just shows you don't care.

00:40:25
Speaker 2: And He's like, you're lose.

00:40:27
Speaker 5: I can put myself in her spot, and even drunk yunk me, like, going through drunk.

00:40:32
Speaker 1: You is a real special thing.

00:40:35
Speaker 4: We've all done it before, right, There's something deeper and you just the one little thing throws you over.

00:40:40
Speaker 5: Well, yeah, so the juice box for feeding the dogs, and then the feeling ganged.

00:40:45
Speaker 2: Up, and then she also has a lot going on a house.

00:40:47
Speaker 1: Yeah.

00:40:48
Speaker 4: So then she starts she breaks down over the signing of the divorce papers, and so I then I was like, oh, there it is there, it is there, it is cry it out. Yeah. And then the last bullet point I made was island of the doll. I thought was creepy. And I know it's a but I might be being completely ignorant by the way.

00:41:06
Speaker 1: This might be some sort of like beautiful, I know.

00:41:09
Speaker 2: Like they explained it. Yes, the little the little girl.

00:41:12
Speaker 1: Yes, I thought it was pretty drown in that lake yeah or whatever it was river is it a river?

00:41:18
Speaker 3: Yes?

00:41:18
Speaker 4: So yeah.

00:41:20
Speaker 1: And the man who lived there and watched it was traumatized and he kept seeing this girl in his dreams. So he put dolls all around so that she, when her spirit came back, had something to play with.

00:41:34
Speaker 4: Creepy and it's a beautiful it's not even a beautiful story. I'm sorry, just cream me out. It's the fact that the dolls were naked.

00:41:42
Speaker 5: It's the fact that they were hanging from their head like if he were just to like put them up in a different placement.

00:41:48
Speaker 3: It wouldn't be as guys.

00:41:49
Speaker 1: They were naked, they had no lives, they were missing eyes, they were it was they put flowers up.

00:41:56
Speaker 3: Yeah, how long had they all been there? Like? Was this in nineteen fie?

00:42:01
Speaker 1: I don't know. Marisol was like, it smells like death. I want to get out of here. Everyone was really creeped out.

00:42:07
Speaker 4: I didn't like that.

00:42:08
Speaker 1: So there's that, all right, Well to piggyback off of that, let's hear it. So in last week's episode, they go to the Gondolin and picks back up where the dolls are.

00:42:23
Speaker 3: Everyone is losing.

00:42:26
Speaker 6: They're showing Gernie and she's sobbing.

00:42:29
Speaker 1: She's got mascara everywhere. She starts throwing up. People are taking. Then they flash the lars and she's like taking what.

00:42:39
Speaker 2: Marisol's like, it smells like death.

00:42:40
Speaker 6: We gotta get out of here, and she's like running to the boat and then uh, Adriana is walking trying to like knock crack her hills and they're like we have everyone, let's go, and everyone's.

00:42:50
Speaker 1: Like Adrian and she's like, it's so weird. They're all losing their goddamn minds. The gondolin, and then as Gurnie's.

00:42:58
Speaker 6: Vomiting, the gondola pulls around and the mariachi bands on it, and then a dog starts barking in the way that they edit it together, and then they flashed to alexis professional.

00:43:08
Speaker 2: She's like, it's very chaotic.

00:43:12
Speaker 1: I love the bros so much, Marisol and Alexia. They give me all that.

00:43:18
Speaker 2: It is just such a vibe. I'm like, make me a bros.

00:43:21
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, make me a brose okay. So that was really funny. I was dead over that.

00:43:30
Speaker 2: It was last week's episode. Not much happened.

00:43:32
Speaker 1: Julia spells Adriana's name wrong on the sign for her performance. It says Viva Audriana, but it has an e instead of an eye and is for her performance in front of two hundred thousand people and Miami on faih yah, fai ya whatever the song is. The song's lit, but I don't really remember the tune.

00:43:56
Speaker 2: So that was funny.

00:43:57
Speaker 1: But then it pops off because the key key and Lisa's situation on the gondola is addressed. Kiki opens up and she's like, what you don't understand is when you said, like it's just chicken. I'm feeding these dugs. What they're eating is better than what they're being fed. Kiki starts opening up about where she's from in Haiti. She was kicked out at fifteen. She's very vulnerable, and she was like, no one ever asks me about anything. I listen to y'all's problems all the time. I also have issues. She was kicked out at fifteen, Like I said. They show photos of her going back to her childhood home. It is very much like those homes that we saw.

00:44:35
Speaker 3: When they were They were all talking very lowly about yes.

00:44:38
Speaker 1: And so she says to Lisa, like, I know that you're going through a law, but you need to remember like you have your health, you have beautiful children. Money is not everything. Remember that. She's like, I have two children. I don't have a husband. Like no one asked me, do you know what my sons? I love when these women now are saying, like you what is my kid name? Yeah, and they're like, I can't imagine filming a television show with someone who didn't know my child's saying I really can't, And Lisa responds, it is not my job to heal your childhood trauma. I fucking asking loses her mind. Kiki, she Lenny leaving you is your fucking karma, and I'm like, oh shit, we have gone there. I love Kiki so much because, you know what, there are times and I know you'll see this season on vander Pump where I obsess over my situation and again there's things that people don't know that we won't get into. But at the end of the day, it's important when someone like Kiki comes into the mix and they can remind you you're healthy, Okay, you live a beauty life, and yes, this is not an easy time right now, but let's remember that the dollar amount and where you're living is not everything. Because to see some of these women take it out of Miami a lot of these places where they're like, I just can't live in five thousand square feet and I'm like, you fucking out of touch, bitch, Like really, it is so off putting and gross. Yeah, So I love when someone like Kiki points out, like, you've got a beautiful life and right now it's fucking rough, but it'll be fine, right right.

00:46:40
Speaker 4: Yeah.

00:46:41
Speaker 1: For me, that's my mom when I start like obsessing and she'll obsess with me, but then she brings it back to like, but let's focus on the positive.

00:46:49
Speaker 2: Ocean's healthy, You're a healthy Easton's healthy.

00:46:52
Speaker 1: We live a beautiful life, Like look at the things we get to go and do, look at what we get to experience, Like all is good.

00:46:58
Speaker 2: This part will work itself out right, So there's.

00:47:01
Speaker 3: That this too shall pass me. That's what I live by.

00:47:09
Speaker 2: She each was a little snoozy, funny.

00:47:11
Speaker 1: Erica talks about merse and the purse that becomes and becomes like the most. She's so drunk and knows everything about everyone. Everyone's sitting there being like, how are you so smart? She knows everything about all of these like historical moments in European history, American history? What's her name? Kyle Richards is like, she's like a drunk rain man. She knows so much, very intelligent, and you know what She's like, I've had the luxury of being around like really smart people, and I'm like, so have I, but I don't retain shit. She's very Yeah, I'm telling you someone who can be around smart people and absorb and retain Like for me, you can tell me all the smart jargon in the world. And it's like, did you see real now that I retain that I retain anyway. So, but we are getting into this last episode the aired last week. It'll come on tonight, be h new episode. Kyle is starting to open up about her marriage. Anyway. You want to move on to Vanner Pump, sure if you would like to, Yeah, let's do it.

00:48:20
Speaker 3: You tell us where you want to go.

00:48:23
Speaker 1: Well, you guys, go for it. I mean what you have notes?

00:48:26
Speaker 3: Just I do.

00:48:27
Speaker 4: I have a lot of notes. So this is the scene, not this most recent or I'm sorry, not this most recent episode, or you're wanting to go back two weeks.

00:48:34
Speaker 2: Yeah, just to see I have not much.

00:48:37
Speaker 1: Not much happened in last night's episode.

00:48:40
Speaker 4: How are you feeling about the past two epps?

00:48:43
Speaker 1: You guys am always real and I'm always honest. This season snoozy right now? Just two we'll wear three episodes in now. No, I'm saying past two. The first one was not the premiere. The premiere was great. Yeah, the last two episodes are snoozy. I feel like I have to acknowledge that because I don't want you guys to think that I'm living in Lalla lander hustling you. I want you to remember we're trying to repair something that is very, very broken.

00:49:11
Speaker 2: So the last two episodes are.

00:49:13
Speaker 1: Very much setting the groundwork for what the season is going to be. Like two weeks ago, it was Tom Sandaval heavy. We had to see where he was at, right. I loved watching the scene between Lisa and Tom sand of all, and him being like, I just want it done. I want to move on, and I think we need to like, yes, he did this, but you guys, it's.

00:49:41
Speaker 5: I agree he did this, but the one thing that he does need to do is take ownership. It is like the James thing their conversation he brought up, let.

00:49:50
Speaker 1: Me tell you something, he's and this is a tough, tough, tough pill to swallow for people. Okay, And it took me a really long time and a lot of talking to people because scan of all, it had nothing to do with me. Yet it triggered me so fucking much because I couldn't believe it. I couldn't believe he did this to my friend. But I couldn't believe he sat across from me and said all the shit he said to me. Let me tell you something, He's not taking accountability and ownership because he does.

00:50:17
Speaker 3: Not regret it, and he didn't come out and say that.

00:50:21
Speaker 1: But I think in a way he's saying we don't have control over other people.

00:50:25
Speaker 3: No, not at all. I'm saying on his end, he just needs to take it accountability. He is like when James he brings up Kristen, it in his.

00:50:34
Speaker 1: Mind, he's like, I, Kristen was my girlfriend and you fucked her for him. It is the same now me when I hear it, I'm like, you gotta let it go. I stand behind everything I said at the reunion, you gotta let it go.

00:50:48
Speaker 2: But what I've learned.

00:50:49
Speaker 1: From dealing just with needing to heal and let go is I can't control how other people see things, oh for sure, Nor.

00:50:59
Speaker 2: Is it my job to shed light.

00:51:00
Speaker 1: I can sit here and I can tell you how I feel all the livelong day, but your perspective is gonna be different than mine, and I have to make peace with that or I will be banging my head against a wall.

00:51:10
Speaker 3: Yeah, emotions are personal. That's why you talk about him, correct feel each other. So yeah, that's one thing.

00:51:15
Speaker 1: Though it is very annoying.

00:51:16
Speaker 5: It is annoying as fun to watch it, and all you have to do is take a little bit of accountability that he is not taking.

00:51:22
Speaker 4: He didn't on It was funny because he was on Nick Viel's podcast. Both the Tom's were a couple, and it's a theme in his life. And I'm not like it just it's just something I'm noticing with these scenes and him not taking accountability clearly, always always churning it on someone else. But the Nick Viele podcast, he was on it, and he was super late. Sandoval was super late. Schwartz was there, Sandoval was super late. Immediately, when he's questioned about being late, he goes, well, Nick, you were on my podcast a couple months ago and you were hours late.

00:51:54
Speaker 1: And Nick was like, no, I wasn't. What are you talking about.

00:51:57
Speaker 4: He ends up pulling up receipts and he wasn't late, like Tom was just like making it up.

00:52:02
Speaker 1: In accountability and they kept it in the episode.

00:52:05
Speaker 4: And then also he's not he didn't take accountability, and I do like credit to Nick Fayel. He was kind of pushing him back on this. He's like, dude, you're just not. He wasn't taking accountability on that episode. He's not in these episodes, and it sucks because a big part of me was like, oh damn, he's going to come back. And I get it, he did the apology to Sheena last season, but like he's going to come back and he's going to be on this like working on himself and growth and blah blah blah, and it's like not happening something.

00:52:33
Speaker 3: All he's saying is I want it to be over.

00:52:34
Speaker 5: It's like, well, then, yes, I tell you steps towards that.

00:52:38
Speaker 1: That, Yes, that, and I think you guys will see that. I think right now it's like very much. We're filming a reality TV show. I can't make something out of something it's not it's awkward. We're not hanging out with him at this point in time. So yes, it's a little bit like anything happening. Well, let me tell you something. The group is extremely fractured. Three episodes in, movement starts happening, time starts passing, perspective, Lisa steps in and shed some light. Things do start shifting. But yes, I just wanted to acknowledge that, and it is very annoying. It is very annoying I.

00:53:21
Speaker 3: Can only imagine coming from That's.

00:53:22
Speaker 1: Why I say, you know what, I'm gonna make peace with the fact that you see things differently than me. I'm not gonna hold anything against you. You stay over there. I'm gonna stay over here just so you know, wish you nothing but the best. I don't want to light you on fire anymore. It's a little bit just like here you are here, I am.

00:53:38
Speaker 3: Yeah, he moves goofy and you stay away from it.

00:53:40
Speaker 4: That on the yes, on that note, I do want to I know it's further down the line in the most recent episode. I do want to touch on the trigger warning, the suicide part, because I found that to be like, that's something that like if people know me, they know like that's a I have a deep history with stuff like that in my family. So when he said I was sort of in that Lisa Bot of like when he when someone says that you you have to I mean, I've learned you got to take it seriously. You know, you can't really just be like, well, he's just trying, and maybe they are. Maybe they say things, but that's.

00:54:12
Speaker 1: Not judging jury on if you mean that or.

00:54:17
Speaker 3: No, no, no.

00:54:18
Speaker 5: So that was a thing, but like Alsa said, she'd rather reach out before before it's too late. Is it something? And look a fool if it isn't. I'd rather look a fool then it'd be too late.

00:54:32
Speaker 3: What I think she said?

00:54:33
Speaker 1: Yeah, well, I think that after that conversation, that's when certain people's feeling shift this season.

00:54:44
Speaker 4: Yeah, because I can imagine. I mean, I can't imagine, but when everyone's against you and you're getting threats and you're getting I'm sure the way that can take you to a dark place is probably pretty quick, especially if you're maybe alone or you were sharing this with someone and then that someone maybe stops talking to you, which is what we kind of learn he hasn't talked to Raquel, and so who knows. But that is that's fragile.

00:55:14
Speaker 1: And let's just go off what he's saying is actually the truth. It sounds that he was very much in love with Raquel. I'm going to take my own personal feeling away from it and what I have experienced in my life and take it for just face value. And what he says, it seems like he's bummed that things happen the way they did, but he does not regret it because he feels that he was no longer in with Arianna.

00:55:44
Speaker 2: He was disconnected in his mind.

00:55:46
Speaker 1: He tried to have conversations with her that she maybe wasn't accepting. I don't know if that's true. Again, this is just what he's saying. And he had found his person in Raquel. Yeah, so he doesn't.

00:55:57
Speaker 3: Regret it, and that's fine.

00:55:59
Speaker 5: But take the accountability and say, I really did this in a shitty way, and I should have done this in a very different way.

00:56:05
Speaker 3: And that is accountability because.

00:56:07
Speaker 1: I wish it would I wish I would have gone about it differently, but I'm sorry. I love her, and shit happens, and like, at.

00:56:13
Speaker 5: Least you can be respected because you're being honest. But when you're tiptoeing and shit like that, I can't come to you with like vision that you're not gonna fuck me over because you're not even being honest in anything or taking accountability. So what everything that you move about is silly to me, right, I don't take you serious.

00:56:31
Speaker 3: Yeah, And that's the one thing. Take a bit of accountability.

00:56:34
Speaker 5: It might suck for a couple of months, but you'd be in a fucking better spot than you are right now, and you probably have some good homies too.

00:56:41
Speaker 2: Yeah.

00:56:41
Speaker 1: No, I agree with you.

00:56:42
Speaker 4: That's like the whole This is the first step is admitting you have a problem. It's like, we get it. You're suffering mentally. Take accountability, and then let's work for it.

00:56:52
Speaker 5: Yeah, if you come and cry to me and be like I fucked up and I did terrible. I need to I need help. I'm taking accountability, I would say, let's do it.

00:57:00
Speaker 4: So onto a lighter topic.

00:57:02
Speaker 1: Let me tell you.

00:57:03
Speaker 4: Let me tell you when I gasped audibly.

00:57:09
Speaker 2: At this scene.

00:57:11
Speaker 4: I'm going to preface this by saying I I fucking loved it.

00:57:16
Speaker 1: The scene.

00:57:16
Speaker 4: I've never seen that music video with Sheena. So we are watching and Kyle and I are on the couch and we're just like, kind of, you know whatever, it's fine, and then that flashback of Sheena and the like spanking, and I went and.

00:57:32
Speaker 1: Kyle goes dead serious, he goes, was she in a porn It was a little porny, By the way, I remember ever seeing this music video Gravo, that's a bad She's like when I was taking her hair.

00:57:47
Speaker 4: When I tell you I have never lost it, I was like, what the fuck was that? And the boldness of the editors to flash back, Oh, the editors are so.

00:57:58
Speaker 1: Bold, I mean, that was incredible.

00:58:01
Speaker 3: A bold.

00:58:03
Speaker 1: Ship porn. Oh god, it was good. That is so funny. I'm totally fine leaving it on that note. Okay, I hope. And then what what happened last night? We just get invited to last night? We talked a little bit, Yeah, the Tahoe thing.

00:58:20
Speaker 4: We talked a little bit about the Lisa.

00:58:22
Speaker 1: Okay, so we've covered it all. Do we have an ache and relief of the week?

00:58:26
Speaker 2: Everybody?

00:58:27
Speaker 3: And relief?

00:58:29
Speaker 1: Who wants to start?

00:58:30
Speaker 2: I can start us or Easton?

00:58:32
Speaker 3: Go?

00:58:32
Speaker 1: Are you ready? I don't know if you were teaed up.

00:58:34
Speaker 5: No, My ache and relief is the same, Okay, I like this. My ache is Utah is done. We're out the state of Utah.

00:58:44
Speaker 4: Oh I thought you meant a basketball the state of Utah.

00:58:48
Speaker 3: We have moved. We have one place left in Saint George's but wants to hang on to it. But this is second.

00:58:54
Speaker 5: But the house in Salt Lake City is gone, and that's a whole lot of memories and things like that. That's a huge ache. But I'm excited to go back. So it's like an ache and relief. I'm excited to go back.

00:59:06
Speaker 3: And enjoy, enjoy.

00:59:07
Speaker 2: You don't have to go back and painting homes.

00:59:09
Speaker 5: When I'd go back, I was repainting fences, I was nailing shit into walls for different things.

00:59:15
Speaker 3: So I'm excited to go back.

00:59:16
Speaker 5: But it was an ach and relief, and also for my mother, who I'm very proud of, who did a lot of work and a lot of throwing away, and I know it wasn't easy.

00:59:25
Speaker 3: For so shout out that. Yeah.

00:59:27
Speaker 1: Well she called me, and I know she called you Jess as well, crying because she was like, you know, some of this stuff was my mom's and it just feels so final that she's gone.

00:59:35
Speaker 2: I'm like, Mom, she.

00:59:36
Speaker 1: Died like twenty years ago. Great if it didn't. If it had, it didn't feel final by now.

00:59:42
Speaker 3: I don't think it.

00:59:42
Speaker 1: Ever will if we haven't accepted it yet.

00:59:45
Speaker 3: She told me too, She was like, are you sure, like you don't want anything.

00:59:48
Speaker 5: I was like, Lisa, there's no memory of me seeing this, and she goes, but we'll put it in storage. I said, if you die and that's in storage, that's going delinquent. No one's yeah, going right gone treasure.

01:00:02
Speaker 3: Yeah.

01:00:02
Speaker 1: I'm excited because my childhood baby grand piano that my dad bought me, I finally have a place for in the new house.

01:00:11
Speaker 2: This is exciting, so it's on its way.

01:00:13
Speaker 5: A lot of stuff from Utah's come into the house too, so I think that will help.

01:00:16
Speaker 2: Yeah, Jess, what's your ach and relief?

01:00:19
Speaker 4: My ach and relief is the same thing. So with Lala mentioning she moved into a new house, we will be moving out of our current offices at the end of February. That you guys have seen on vander Pump Rules that we recorded as the three of us the podcasting together one. Yeah, and you know what, it's such that we like made friends with like Action Park and Loon and it was such a fun space. But I've never felt more not done with the space, but like it's.

01:00:46
Speaker 2: You can say that, yeah, so you feel done.

01:00:48
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's time. It's time for us to be out of there. So yeah, ache that we're moving, but relief that it's time.

01:00:55
Speaker 2: It is time.

01:00:56
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm finally creating roots of my own in la. You know, I've always lived in an apartment until I got involved with my last whatever and then moved back into an apartment. And now it's like, Wow, we're really creating a life.

01:01:15
Speaker 2: We've bought a home.

01:01:16
Speaker 1: That I'm going to fill with children and family and our stuff.

01:01:23
Speaker 2: It is crazy.

01:01:24
Speaker 3: So it was weird being there watching the Super Bowl. I was like looking around, I was like, We're like, this is it.

01:01:30
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's exciting, pretty amazing.

01:01:32
Speaker 1: My eche of the week is Kevin O'Leary from Shark Tank said families need to have five million in the bank to survive no matter what happens. Well, Kevin O'Leary, I don't know if you've been out in the streets. It's kind of hard to just like get five million dollars to just sit in a bank. So maybe if you feel that way, you should hand out five million dollars everybody in that way, we're all gonna be okay forever. Please don't say stupid shit, but I'd love for you to invest in the new company that I'm creating day because I'd really like to have five million dollars so I can survive you anything and everything.

01:02:06
Speaker 2: Just another out.

01:02:07
Speaker 1: Of touch person, out of touch, just like just a quick five milk because you could survive anything for safety. Shut up, shut up a billionaire.

01:02:15
Speaker 3: Yeah it's always the billionaire saying stupid shit.

01:02:18
Speaker 1: It really is, like, get back to where you came from.

01:02:22
Speaker 3: Have you forgotten how much is milk? They don't know how much milk.

01:02:28
Speaker 1: Inflation isn't real. Milk is only like twelve dollars a gallon. Shut up anyway, My relief of the week is Amber sent me a text while we were moving and she was like, hey, Riley wants to call you. And I was like, great, I'd love to say what's up? Riley calls me She goes, can we take Ocean to the movie Migration? And I was like, oh my god, do you know how helpful that would be for me right now because I have been moving with a toddler, like packing her up from apartment to house, apartment to house, take her to the movie just for her to I texted Amber and I was like, how's the movie going?

01:03:06
Speaker 2: She goes, well, she told me how bored she was.

01:03:10
Speaker 1: So we're at the house building a fort and I was like, thank you so much. So the relief of the week was Amber taking my daughter. Love that. Okay, we've got like a real good model.

01:03:23
Speaker 4: You've got mode.

01:03:24
Speaker 5: They came over for the super Bowl yesterday.

01:03:29
Speaker 4: It's so fun.

01:03:29
Speaker 3: It's I like them. I like their energy.

01:03:34
Speaker 1: Yeah, she texted me the other day she was like, Hey, I'm running to Costco.

01:03:37
Speaker 2: Do you need anything.

01:03:37
Speaker 1: I'm like with you, we really, we really have a special thing going.

01:03:42
Speaker 3: You really do. We do.

01:03:43
Speaker 2: It's excellent.

01:03:45
Speaker 1: Anyway, thank you guys for listening to another episode of the Give Them All Up Podcasts. Reminder a new episode drops every Wednesday wherever you get your podcast. Uh. The video of this drops Fridays on YouTube at nine am Pacific time. And also a reminder, we do bonus episodes.

01:04:01
Speaker 2: Audio and video drops.

01:04:03
Speaker 1: Every single Monday. You're welcome.

01:04:05
Speaker 4: Have the best day, Love you bye.