Big Bank & DJ Scream - FAMILY OVER FRIENDS!

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Speaker 1: Big Bank and DJ Screen bring you Big Bats, the hottest podcast in the streets. Visit the new website today www dot Big Facts pod dot com live and first Class Sounds is the voice of DJ Screen. Time for another episode of Big Facts. What's up, Big Bank? What's up? Jade? We're here. Look, it's officially November, so all that means it's officially coffing season. You don't seem too interested in coffing season, but this is what the people wanted to talk about. But November kicks off coffing season, which is, well, there's a definition out there or what coffing season is, and there's my definition. So I think from the female perspective is when you get bulled up in November and when you get cold, so you don't have to be cold, you'll be warm. You can cover up with whoever you want to cover up with. All that type of ship coffing season, right. But me, the way I see coffing season is strategically, in November, you get bulled up so that you make sure you've got somebody eat Thanksgiving plate with, make sure you've got your Christmas gifts, make sure you got your Valentine's gifts. Because cuffing season is February, So cuffing season is it? Talk to us and let us know a little bit about covering season. I feel like it's almost like some gold digging ship. Yeah. I kind of feel the same way because it's like a lot of people that cuff cuff for a profit, whether it's like a material profit or some sort of somewhere to live profit or you know, some sort of game, you know what I'm saying for them, and then after the cuffing season is over with coffing season is technically longer than the fifteen cuffing season technically last until it gets back warm outside, and then these niggas don't have to try to find somewhere to go. So do you think the nature of a female is to just to be a little uh more, let me respect for word free when it's like warmer outside, like they're just a little more free. And then when it when when it gets a little cooler. Yeah, most definitely. I feel like most, well not even most, but a lot of females are more receptive to the cuff or the cuffing season in the colder months because you can't hang outside. You can't it's like less hanging when it's cold. How you feeling about already? See your covering, mind your around? Yeah, no, for sure, were cuffed in. We're cuffing life. But for the people out there that's still in the field, what would you say, So, what would you say right now to one of your homies, like, man, I just met me a good one bro the other day. You wouldn't think of your head a little bit like down. It's kind of a little bit of what you called a uh coincidence, Thank you. It's a little bit of a coincidence that you just met her this time of the year. What would you tell your homie? Hose hose around, hose holding all your round? So what it is, he knows what he got. He might he might be the same way for the season. Yeah, man, could be on some cuffing season ship too. They might want somebody to spind on you know what I'm saying. But but but speaking of that, so if we are talking to the homies, because I'll be talking to my homies when they say I'll be watching for what I call the flags, Like they'll say, man, that just meant me a bad one. She find she did, she did, she did they say all the wrong ship, like they don't say none of the wrong ship. I'm like, bro, what what is like? What kind of person is she? My nigger? Like? Is she's solid and she have you talked to her? I don't know? She fine though, bro, Like she's probably the finest one I ever bad. Do you feel like when you tell your homies, like if you're gonna really funk with a chick, not just some someone smashing ship, but if you're gonna really funk with him, did you give him some game on how they can identify the proper one or a good one. To me, it's like relationships. I don't talk to people abut their relationship because that's the touches ship. It is what I'm saying. Relationship and religion, politics, like you gotta stay out the folk mix. You know what I'm saying. If you come ex me, then yeah, but I ain't just gonna call you and be like, bro, what it is you got? I ain't gonna do that, you know what I think? Because I might not see what you see, but I hinted it, hinted it. You know what I'm saying, Like you know what you got or whatever? But yeah, some things might like this ship though pain freaks with me. Like I tell, like any of my niggas that asked me for like relationship advice or whatever, as long as she's productive, and I just I feel like, as long as she's productive and she can bring something to the table that can help you guys grow together, then okay. All the rest of that ship might be what do they bring it to the table, because a lot of women feel like bringing good sex to the tables, bringing something to the table sex. I got nothing to do with somebody that can produce like that can if she got sucked up, like can hold you down or can figure out a way to like make that ship work. You see what I'm saying. Like this like sex and looks and like all of that is cool and it's like a part of the Asian But the biggest factor that I try to like tell people is like what can they do if it all falls down? What if they take really good pictures on Instagram? Man, ship don't mean nothing. I'm saying that could be productive ship making a lot of money. I mean yeah, like I don't know. I mean, I'm not knocking it, but I mean, at the end of the day, Okay, okay, table. You know what I'm saying, here's the table? What needs to be brought to the table? Like what the man ship? What what needs to be at the table? What's the ship that I listened to the viewership? What's on the table? You know what I'm saying. I feel like um insight like insight like meaning as in, there you go. You can lead the person on the right way, you know what I'm saying, Like you could tell them the right thing to do so that they won't crash out type ship. I think that's important for me. And moral support most definitely, like especially like when you're dealing with like black men, because they have a lot that they have to deal with and they have a lot going on. So if you have somebody that doesn't really give a funk about your internal issues, then like you've already lost. I feel like that's real insight, moral values. Ain't nothing wrong And bring some money to the table. I mean not saying that day one they need to be checked up, but it ain't nothing wrong with bringing some money to the table. But why would you why would you deal with somebody that's not bringing money to the table? I mean, everybody you know we've all been broken at one point. So at the point where you broke, should you not be trying to date and fun with people like you? Just so if you broke, you shouldn't be trying to funk with nobody. How how can you even how can you even focus on anything but trying to bring yourself out of the brokenness, like like real ship, like if like like if I'm fucked up or if something's going on and I'm trying to like get back right or whatever, I can't think about nothing else. I can't think about sex, I can't think about a nigger. I can't think about nothing. I'm thinking about, okay, what I'm about to do to get back right? Like nothing else is even like a thought, Like I don't even have the stomach for it, Like you know what I'm saying, Like I don't know, I agree with you, But it's a lot of broke people, fucking hell yeah, broke people. But I think fucking and trying to beship because it takes effort to be in a relationship. I'm saying to take it, take it. Take the same energy it takes to be in a relationship to get money. You know what I'm saying, all this ship is and you gotta be focused to really be in a relationship and to please that person. You gotta be focused because you gotta to me, you got to learn them. Yeah, and you gotta be able to, uh, what's the world. You gotta be able to like quality time and spend time. You gotta be able to go outside yourself and just let whatever they think in fear matters when you know what I'm saying, When you're trying to get your bank roll, nothing shipping out of but the bank bro Yeah, you get what I'm saying. So it's like it's hard being broke trying to be in a relationship. It's basically impossible. I agree, Yeah that it ain't. I can't do it. I agree. There are people trying. You can come up, you can be on on your come up, I ain't even try. Like real ship, like you get a part of relationship is having something coming keep trying to be you gotta have something in common, like, hey, we broke, we got to figure out how to get this money to get for that. But if your dad, if your dad as broke and then somebody else dead up, it's kind of like if that ship gonna be hard too, because that one person might always be pulling the weight. You think what I'm saying, So, I don't know. I don't see some broke people come up together. Not not saying that, I'm saying that's what I mean. That ship is mad difficult, like and you could be broke, rich, whatever. If your mind set sit on that person, you can be with that person. But I feel like you can because it's homeless people that living boxes together that are happy. True, Well, I feel like if you you can't, y'all just gotta be on the same page. Like she said, If y'all both homeless in the box and y'all accept that that we're gonna be together, that's what it is. But if you're trying to come up and he's been trying to stay broke, she trying to come up, and you're trying to stay broke, it ain't gonna work. You gotta be. You gotta have a say that's it's gonna build. It's gonna build a resentment from the person that's trying to elevate because it's like, like you said, they're always pulling the weight, but they're gonna start thinking like damn, like like, what then are you gonna do to help me? Like I can't always do everything, you know what I'm saying, Like, and that's gonna start, and it's gonna snowball, and it's gonna get bigger and bigger too. Like one day you just be like, funk this ship because you can't even stay in the person no more. Now, Big Facts Big Facts Questions, you can hear the set questions at Big Facts Pods, Big facts pot dot Com. Questions at Big facts pot dot com. So should a woman stick with a man if he has a long prison bid? And should a man expect her too so he's up the road? I feel like if you don't put yourself in the situation that you don't left this woman out here and there's nothing you can do for her, you should just try to figure out a way to coexist. You can't be worried about her pussy while you behind balls and can't do that for a pussy, you know what I'm saying, Like, if you can, if you can get more support for this woment or a letter here there, or for it all fitted all, or whatever it takes for you to your book, you should appreciate her. Yeah, you get what I'm saying, you should appreciate her for even acknowledging you while you go. Y'all have seen Nikolas trying to be in a full relationship. Why they're imprisoned, that's impossible? What what what? What kind of what? What? What kind? What kind of number? We're looking at though, Like should she hold it down for anything over night? And you know what I'm saying, I'm just being hun like they they may something surprise you, but I'm saying, in your mind and heart, if you've finn't do nine days between you behind them balls, you can't get back out here. Yeah, to see I feel like this though, I feel like that all depends on what of the relationship and the type of bit that she was in the depth of the relationship that y'all had before the nigga got locked up, and also like the circumstances surrounding the lock up, because if a nigga was just out here while in tripping doing dumb shit, you were telling the nigga whatever whatever you got to tighten up. The nigga just didn't give a funk and just threw his life away. I'm not saying, like, leave the nigga, you know, support the nigga, like Black said, But at the end of the day, okay, my nigga, Like, okay, what the funk? Like, what do you want me to do? But if it's a nigga that like was doing what he was supposed to do, you know what I'm saying, to feed the family, you taking care of like all of the ship. Like I feel like there's a certain obligation there to make sure that every step of the way, like this nigg is covered. And at the end of the day, if you do decide to move on or you know, try something new or whatever, I feel like you owe it to that man to at least give him the benefit of the doubt of knowing, like, hey, this is what's going on. How do you feel about it? Whatever, whatever, If it was a solid nigger that was doing everything that he was supposed to do before the bid, But you got something that we'll run a good woman off being locked up, being secure. You know what I'm saying. You gotta put in your head that hey, man, I ain't gonna bare to stop what she gonna do. Yeah, because I should have drawn you crazy up the phone when I need her to pick up. But you can't call all day expecting you know what I'm saying. If I need you, you there. That's about. That's all the nigga should be worried about in that situation. Like that's with anybody, not even with a female. That's with your family, friends, who ever, if you dare when I need you, I can't stretch you out about the situation I'm in. I put myself in. How do that work with the kids? How did that work with the kids? Like she she got the kids and you you, the person that's incarcerated, might be a little torn as far as like, man, I don't want the wrong nigger around my kids teaching them some you can't, won't ship If you can't you love the folks out here like you can't control ship. I usually gotta put in your mind whatever. Whatever whatever I get from this person is a plus. What I would get from the streets is a plus. Regardles because you're in a different world right now. You get what I'm saying. So anything like I've seen niggas out there on the phone when I get out, you know what I'm saying. You ain't doing that and make your time worse. You know what I'm saying, Like you all day you're waking up thinking about this person or what she's doing or Dan, she didn't pick up the phone to day, Like you can't control the pussy while you're on the streets. So why happened when you get out if she don't move on to a whole new situation. Let's say it's not twenty year, Let's say a nicolas on like five years, three to five, something like that, and then you get out, she got the kids, she with a new nigga. It seemed like it's working out right, But you home, I didn't see. I didn't see some situations where niggas came home and everything changed. So anything is possible. What you may change, you may change is and she come back to you or she just she come back to the nigga that just got out, Like and you know what I'm saying, It ain't really like, it ain't no transition, it ain't no discussion like you know, boom, you gotta go yeah, Like you know what I'm saying, because at the end of the day, like again, it goes back to the circumstances and the situation and the depth of the relationship. Before the nigga went to jail, right, basically was he shipped real love never died? Yeah, So how important is it to, like, you know, teach your woman, empower your woman to be able to get her money, and and and and move on on on just in case, just in case, something worth worth happen to the man, whether it's prison or other unforeseen circumstances or whatever the case is, Like, how important I think that should be the cardinal role in any relationship, which is which is like, and it's not even about teaching your woman. It's about you guys teaching each other how to manipulate several bags. So just in case, in the event that something happened or something goes wrong, it ain't even got to be the nigga go in the jail. It can be whatever the nigg is doing. If it doesn't work, then okay, there's another stream of income that you guys have already like put together. So if this ship falls through, then we still got this, this, this and that to like lean on or whatever. And you aren't gonna be the homeless cup on the box. Ain't again going hard on the homeless couples. We love them, Yeah, we love now we love them. I give him money every time I see him, so you should definitely. I I just feel like you can't spit up when you put a person in a different situation, you can't predict the outcome of how they're gonna act. You get what I'm saying, Like, if I just up and put you in the situation that you didn't actually be in, I'm gonna be upset with you the way you react to it. I shouldn't be upset to you the way you react to it. It's just like, right now, I come to motherfucking smoking a staking as sicker. I can't say that you don't supposed to be coughing up man what you're doing. I can't say that you don't supposed to feel like I'm doing something wrong, or you don't want to be in this room because I'm smoking a cigar. You get what I'm saying. You change the environment. Yeah, once I changed the dominamics of the situation, I gotta roll with however, or I gotta be able to sell fuck you, or I gotta roll with however you want to the situation to be. You get what I'm saying, Like, if safe, instant and then gets sick or something and Beach don't want to God damn wipe your ass a change. Hey man, you need to get you a nurse. You can't. You can't be mad because that's something she never did. You get what I'm saying. That make sense? I feel all that, but I kind of disagree with that. I disagree with it too, but I'm saying I disagree with it too, but I'm saying you gotta be able to accept it though. Yeah, I'm not saying it down and depressed like oh I did all this ship. I can't believe this bitch let me while I went to jail. Hey man, believe it, yeah, because it happened. Okay, Okay, I see what you're saying. I ain't saying it's right like she right, But I'm saying if you don't, if you're not able to cope with certain things, it only brings you down further. That's what I'm saying. To depressed, you get depressing because think about situations where it's just your people and they disappoint you and you can't let it get you too down. You know what I'm saying. It's kind of like, well, this is an individual everybody's an individual. We don't know what's inside of them. We know I'm long enough to live by a cold and all that ship. But if some ship just happens, it might not even be no extreme ship. You can't just yeah, And like I hate to always sound like the real nigga advocate or whatever. I just I just like I've seen some ship like throughout my life. And it's like when like when you're dealing with these these females, like, man, she can go, she can go either way, and that should just be crazy. It's like that should just be crazy, Like how do you like like it's some it's some real Like it's some real animals out here that really don't give a funk about nobody but themselves. And I didn't see some niggas, like some good niggas like fall down by the wayside, because his downfall was this no good bitch like for real. That go back to what I was saying. That gets what he's seen all the simes before he put himself. You knew that that one's gonna be there. She would just find as hell. That was her attribute. Yeah, exactly, she bad bro. He knew that that wasn't gonna be that no matter what he did for what else is yeah, keep going. You know what I'm saying, real Jade is like that nigga got money, my sister, my niece or something. Cap he get a bunch of money. That means he ain't gonna cave your head in the concrete and abuse you and like we don't. You know what I'm saying, Like, yeah, you're right. And then if you put yourself in a situation to be vulnerable to that person and he's like, how you mad at them? Mad at the people? They showed you all the signs of the person that they was. You know what I'm saying. It's just like me saying I go to a strip club three times a day every day. How are you gonna be Did you know I go to strict club three times a day before I met you? I met you in the strip club. How are you gonna be mad at me? If you find out on sucking a scripple? M that's just real straight up, like this is what I do. Yeah, it's like, you mean a strip in the club, you fuck you sucking h But this is my later. Now you're a stripple, but you're mad at me cause I'm sucking other scripples, scrappers or you mad at your girl. You like you meet a scripple in the strip club, now you don't want this hole the dance no more. Yeah, that's a good one. That's that's a bad one. That's a bad one saying it's it's the same ship though, like yeah, you'll need to go to the club every day trying to get bitches. Okay, now when he here in the club by y'all together, it'll be difference if he stopped. But this is what he's doing on a regular Like, this is what I do, So the same behavior is what it is, Like I'm giving you the sign of this is what I do basically. But then but then, but then, like on the flip side of that ship, like I get what you're saying, but like if this is what you do and this is what it is, whatever, whatever, but we agree to be in a relationship, Like, bitch, you're not gonna keep fucking strippers and we're in a relationship, Like it is what I'm not saying you're gonna keeping I'm just saying like if it, if it does happen, how is you surprised basically like what I'm saying, if somebody gonna chea, they're gonna cheat. But if the man always in the strip club or the woman always in a situation around a lot of niggas, I think that statistically is more likely to happen. Not saying that well, but statistically it's more likely to happen. Man, if if I got you that way, you can be got that way again. That's what I'm saying. That makes a lot of sense because if you met her in the strip club on throw some stunt and ship. I'm just saying that. I'm saying like I'm just saying, like, listen to what I'm saying. I'm just saying like if okay, that's all finding good. If I'm a stripper and I work, or you a nigga and you got to the club by the time, whatever, whatever, that's cool. But my nigga, the day that we make the agreement that we're gonna be whatever the funk, we're gonna be like bitch, no like like no, like that type of ship will get your head knocked off, like for real, like like stop playing. If that's the case, then we need to unagree to be whatever the funk we are and go back to just whatever. Homeboys, homegirls, you know whatever. Like most human beings are greedy and they want they cake it ones that agreement with what you're saying. But I'm just saying most human being. I ain't just saying men or women are greedy and they won't they cake and eat it too. That's just where we are, you know what I'm saying. It's just a different world to like. Like she said, agreement, agreement, don't mean the agreement might just mean I want to pay the funk you when I want to suck butter. And a female will agree to something that they really don't agree to. Get what I'm saying, Yeah, we're exclusive. We exclusive. I'm telling you this so you don't fun nobody else, or you can you know what I'm saying. I could be on I can kind of control, not control or control, or I can have full access to you and control your access mentally to other people. You're preventing them from spreading their wings. Basically, like I want to lock you down in a sense of want, I want nobody else to funk. I ain't ready to completely funk with you, but I don't want nobody else. That's why everybody say they in a relationship that they don't want nobody else to funk the person. You get what, I'm not really a lot of times until it becomes that when you meet a person, all right, I'm just I'm just working with you for three or four months or whatever, and then I started saying, hey we locked the in shout. You know what I'm saying, I'm basically saying I don't want you can nobody else? You base saying you want me nobody three four months, I still don't know you. You get what I'm saying. No matter what, I still don't know you. I'm just saying, like I often starting this ship row, so you don't need to be sucking about that else wrong basically so you know who kid it is. Yeah, I'm just saying, well, rubble, that's what Nigga's saying. Like when they're saying they in the relationship to you day it's the truth. Like, but how all this is gonna disappear the person that I am? Like, all these fun is in my d M, all these numbers, I got, all these goddamn superheads, I know, all these throat goats and the ship I know like, how the hell I'm not she hit me and be like, I'm in town. You know what I'm saying, I'm in town. Like, what the funk nigga's got them? It's gonna be a fit to fit to send the fact because I still ain't really locked in with this hit. I've just been over here funk with you, but I don't fully trust you yet. Just because I said we're gonna relationship talking out, it's all. Look, I want to touch on something that he's said, right, so about the raw sex ship. I know this is kind of like going off the topic, but are you guys familiar with soul ties? Sex and soul the interchanging the souls when you have sex and etcetera, etcetera. Who care about that? I'll say the average nigga, Now's what I'm saying. They don't give a funk because they don't fully understand what it is. But when these niggas walking around mad about these bitches, this bitch, fucking this nigga, I can't do nothing about it. He can't get the bitch off his mind. He wants to kill everybody about this bitch. That's because, my nigga, you are soul tied like you are stuck to this bitch, like and a lot of people don't. A lot of people don't fully understand how deep that raw sex ship really is. Like that ship is like some crazy ship, and like that ship is really not something to be taken lightly or played with because like you, because like you got pieces of people like inside of you. And that's why people be like fucking tripping all the time because they got all these motherfucker's like just running around in them. Like that's ship crazy. Man. But the average niggah, if he do drugs, he could overdose. He don't give a fuck. If you do this, he could like you know what I'm saying, Like that's but that's good information. I think that's good information for people who haven't heard about that. Yeah, like you gotta you gotta be careful, like you gotta be careful who you do it with because it's like, man, that's it can fuck your world up, like for real, for real. Yeah, now that's real, that's real. Another thing to talk about. Everybody used the word rich. What is rich? What are we aiming for? Because everybody is aiming to get some more money. For sure, we all want more money, but you can see a lot of people that got a lot of money. You got the money, they still ain't happy or that. Like, honestly, there's people who have more money than me, but they call me for like insight or happiness. They're not happy. So you want to know my definition are rich? My definition of rich is when you're in a mental spe ace where I don't want to say you're necessarily comfortable with life, but you're satisfied with yourself and the progress that you're making. You are able to accept other people's opinions and criticism, but you don't allow it to alter. Like you can accept it and take hey to it and digest it, but you don't allow it to alter or affect your everyday living. So it sound like you're saying that you have peace with yourself. Yeah, most definitely. Now there is a certain aesthetic of you don't want to be in your house at peace with yourself and your lights in your water, and your bills ain't pay, so there's no I mean riches like riches like in an overall total thing where like you're completely and totally comfortable beinging, like you're able to pay your bills, you're able to sleep at night, you're able to wake up in the morning and understand that whatever happens throughout this day, it's gonna happen regardless, And all I can do is just live my life the right way, the best way that I know how, and try to navigate through the day. Like you're not You're not like stressing about basically, you're not stressing sitting around stressing about ship that you can't control. So that's that's It's like you think, you think more of a state of being, Like it ain't about having a lot of money, but it's the state of being. But in turn, in that state of being, all of the rest of the stuff is gonna fall into place. Okay, mmm, I think you can't never be really rich unless your mind it at peace. You know what I'm saying. You can be straight, you can you know what I'm saying, Like because I know playing people with money and I've had too much money in my lifetime. But it's like when I was broke, broke broke and didn't understand the value of money and didn't uh have all these responsibilities they come with having money, I was happier, you get what I'm saying. When I was just running around got them all I needed was gotten him. Me and Chante had got them twilled all the rent. You know what I'm saying. Living on stationating ship, it didn't matter because I ain't. That ship was taken care of. Like, but now it's like when you put yourself in a position that you the man or the boss or whatever you you got your family, that ship is stressful, you know what I'm saying. When everybody looks to you to make sure they're straight and you knowing that it's really probably no love there, that's stressful. Like, but if I ain't got to do for nobody but my people that I know loved me, and you know what I'm saying, the little ship that Nikola's had to do, and it's not stressful because it's like whoever deals with me, whoever fun with me, is genuine because I'm not giving y'all ship, Like you're giving ship to people you never know if they love you or not, you know what I'm saying. And that's a that's a stress factor for niggas everybody. Like we're just talking about that ship on club about last night, I had a room to y'all didn't come in. I had all paying down room. Yeah, you had a room. Now had saving meat um metro, all of in the had like fifteen women. Rachel shout out of rage. Yeah, but it was like it's not even with the money, Like it's the same. The fame with the money makes it worse. I think you got faming money at the same time. You can never be completely rich or happy faming money at the same time, it's hard to be complete. Like if you just got money and no nobody know you and all that ship, you can be like fame with the money, you gotta deal with everyday ship like everything is on the microscope. You get what I'm saying. So it's like it's gonna always be something to throw you off from me and completely happen. It makes sense. No that that that makes all the sense in the world. That makes all the sense in the world. So what y'all say at this point in state of life, what y'all tag yourselves as rich? I don't give a funk about being completely happened. I want to I'd rather not go back to where I was knowing you get what I'm saying. I'd rather deal with these problems there with the problems. Yeah, I rather deal with these problems with the paper then to be broke. Then they go back to because I didn't know that there was a situation I was in eating blogan sounds, and I didn't know that was because I didn't know this what I know Now you get what I'm saying. Like when I was doing that ship, I was the happiest I could be because I didn't know. Yeah, I didn't know that roaches didn't supposed to be in your House'll you get what I'm saying. But I don't want to see no motherfucking roach. And there's like I'm gonna them nell jump up and run out that motherfucker, right, you get what I'm saying. That's different. But they're like man, man he pets back then doing pets, Like man, who if y'all ain't got roach in y'all, y'all, something wrong with y'all from where we come from. You get want to say everybody had roach. You might. You might be sitting watching TV and the roach a cross across TV. It didn't matter the problems like some Nashy motherfucker's you see a roach. Now you get what I'm saying. Yeah, Like just trying to make up analogy of the ship, more money, more problems. Yeah, hey man, but we rarely did with the problem. We're dealing with them. We're taking them. You know what I'm saying, I'll come with it. This is what we signed up for us. So it is what it is, you know what I'm saying. Yeah, I feel I feel like it is a it's a mindset and in a complete spiritual set of being rich, like it don't take you got to have enough money to where you ain't worried about money. Yeah. But like Black said again, just to touch on this, it most definitely is like a place to be in when you have to question whether or not the people that expect you to do for them, whether or not when you do for the people that expect you to do for them are really genuinely like do they really genuinely love you? It's like this, It's like it's like this, it's like this screen like and this this it is to for a lot of people like you, I could be in a situation, right. That's why I fought with Jake because she don't agree with everything I say. You're dude, you get what I'm saying. Like everybody, like all my friends now or people that I deal with. I deal with people that it's mostly it's mostly conflictual, Like it's mostly conflicts like we we damn sit on the phone all day and go back and forth until one of us understanding all that. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. You don't give a funk about me. You get what I'm saying. You don't give a funk about me. You just give a funk about my status. You don't want my you don't want the way that I feel. You don't want to say something that will make me cut you off. I can't deal for me because you think that I'm that type of person that will cut you off if you disagree with it. I don't know me exactly, you know what I'm saying. Like, so that's a scary thing, like you got motherer be around here, Yeah, bro here here, but then to leave and get in the company like that nigger stupidest fuck. Tell me I'm stupid. I won't sunk up. Tell me I'm stupid, Like you know, if I funk out, won't none of us eat? You don't You're gonna let me walk walk walk walk into it? Got them lions then, yeah, instead of got that I'm saying like, hell no, bro, you don't know everything. It's some lions. And now you get what I'm saying. I respect that person more, you know what I'm saying. Then to be like here, yeah bro, And then I go to a screen like and Jay stupid has she's been walking there, and get ate up by them lying yeah, that's the worst ship. People swear. They tell you they'll tell you they love you, tell you on with you for life. Who my bro? But then but then at the same time, they're only telling you that just so you won't look at them convenience. Yeah, and they saw that they can keep the ship going so they can get more shit out of you, Like if it ever come a time that they feel like ship, I'm straight. Now they're gonna show you what it is and you gotta pay attention to all. Now they're gonna show you they ain't gonna be no sign. Then they're gonna you're gonna really get who they are. I don't need you no more. Fuck you. I'm to the point. Now they're gonna you're gonna be like, it's gonna be all type of ship. They's gonna come back up like like that time I didn't agree with you when you said this, Why you didn't say that? Then yeah, you get what I'm saying, Like I remember this, Like none of this ship don't come up after they feel like fuck you, or even if they don't, even if they don't like until they feel like I got enough nuts to say fuck you. But even if they don't say it, like when that time does come, when they show you like it's fuck you, like for real, for real, then you're gonna start remembering like the signs that led up to all the ship, like damn, I remember, so this time you really didn't and I wasn't tripping like you know, okay, it went like this and like blah blah blah, like all the ship is gonna start running back down of like all the times that they were doing suspect funk you ship before you like really understood like it's really fucked me for real. Like So, so we talked a little bit about reading the person you're gonna get into relationship with, whether is male or female whatever, like the male reading the female, female reading the male, whatever the case. Maybe how you what do you think is a good way to come to read the You gotta always say, you gotta read the circle. You gotta learn the motherfucker before you say you love him. Mm hmmm, Because at the end of the day, like friend, relationship, whatever, you gotta know what you're getting into. But what some of the ways you do that? Like what do you just let time run his course? Let's say you meet a home girl, like what does it take to be Not that it's an application, we feel that, but what does it take to be jade? Home girl? What does it take to be baked? Homeboys? Like they didn't really got home girls or home homies. I'm done with that ship. You've done with that ship being the partner we famie. One of them ain't know in between either we can do beings together and they ain't know inmost of the we ain't gotta be friends to do bes or we're famil ain't know homeboy, homegirl apolicip So the bank circle closed mine too? Now you my ship band clause? Okay, well it's closed. Well we can't give good advice on how to gonna make y'all some good friends and some good people out there? Bad makes me do friends? Now, Like I'm not like, let's break down the friend what is the friends. I think. I think I'm gonna be real, Like there's people in the last five years that I meant to have become friends like a friend to I think it's about your knees, right, So for me, it's like, you've got to show me a different perspective of some of me, some ship that I don't know, not just financial, but just as a whole. Like if I already know a bunch of ships, we're not feel you're not, Fenna be telling me a bunch of ship already know you see what I'm saying. But if you, if you, if you, if you, if you, for my better, for me being better in my way of being your family to me, that's what okay, So so exactly you get what I'm saying. You gotta But do they become family day one? No, I'm saying they don't. They still they associate and they grow to a family. I get what I'm saying to me, friends, they need to take that word out addition there because friends all friends turn the enemies facts most of the time. Friend ain't name of the motherfucker want to be in your being in the tell of the other friends. Bank is preaching real ship that's all friends do. We're not family. Didn't that mean there ain't no law to them? Yeah? Yes, friends are just friends like people you're talking to on goddamn club. You're don't promote that. I like that before that ship for that ship turned into goddam too overpopulated. They just got out of entry people that. I like it as it is right now. Once he turned into the other ship. I'm but it's just like just saving all the ship we talked about in the club, as all the women who are talking. I go till another mother in another room where we talked about like we just talked about this, but family, I'm not if you come tell me some screen I can see to you as family. You know what I say, even though we do beings together. Who city from you come tell me something? It's not for Jay is because you didn't tell it to me in front of Jake. You ge know what I'm saying. But if a friend come tell me something, I don't give an who I tell you, Like mother, you get what I'm saying. It don't matter. You're like the way I say, they need to take their friendship. Addition, I agree, man, I agree with that thousand percent people friend friend, friend, friend, and then you know the people that every day is like this my friend, this is my friend, is my friend. They always got a new friend, like they always got some new people around friend friend, friend friend friend. But the thing is, like you're saying this is like you're kind of setting yourself up for that disappointment. Yeah, what is the definition like until we until we got them get a full definition and rules of friends. I can't definitions of friend for us. Just this curious with Webster's niggers niggas, Like we've been going through so much ship, like how may you trust a friend? But that they don't say friend, they say I think, and the coaches is partner death lang, I mean the Potner's telling on poplers. I mean the Potner's sucking each other them bitches and ship. So you said that the definition is a person who knows whom has a bond mutual affection, typically exclusively sex or family relations. Okay, that's the Webster's on Google definition of friends. I want you for that. Friends believe books, man, self help books all they got in the diction there. And I don't want to hear that ship. I don't want I think I think I think it's gonna be different from for me to for me to talk to someone whatever that becomes in associates, for me to sit down and spend my valuable time to talk to someone, it got to be worth it. Let's see, Like with me, I don't, I don't. I can't really speak for nobody else, but with me, like I've been crossed out so many times by friends until like I'm scared. I'm I don't want to say I'm scared of people, but it's just like I'm leary of any type of mutual bond because it's like at the end of the day, like like like how long is it gonna be before that mutual bond turns into like some snake ship or you know what I'm saying, How long is it gonna be? It's really like to me, like how long before? So like before I even deal with that, I'll just rather like whatever business we're doing or whatever we got going on, like okay, let's let's stick to that. And then outside of that, like okay, if we gonna eat or something, that's cool. But at the end of the day, there's no type of like yeah, yeah, it's never gonna be like you never got to preset yourself. You know what I'm saying, You gotta just preset yourself to everything. Because the reason why I say that I don't got friends because if I, if I consider you as a friend, I you speak certain ship for you. You get what I'm saying, basically saying like I speak lords. It like everybody had their own definition of real. Everybody got their own definition of friends. Everybody got their own definition everything. You get what I'm saying. So my definition of friend is family basically. So that's why. So if I can't trust you, I can't funk with you. Yeah, I've never been trust a friend. People that got friends, they can't trust. Like if I can't, if I can't trust you out, if you're somebody that I really love, then I'll try, but after like the second time or whatever, Like I can't funk with you period, like because at the end of the day, like that's always gonna that that doubt of the trust is always going to cloud my judgment when it comes to you. So before I sit around and try to figure out every time we interact or every time we deal, like is this really what it is or is it some other ship? That you're just trying to tell me or whatever I just right or not, I'm cool. The reason why I say fun friends and deal with feminine and dubi is because we all are emotional them a motherfucker. So if you do some ship to me just because I know you, I'm not. I can't get upset because I have not accepted you as a friend, right, you get know what I'm saying, Like I know a million motherfucker's Buildian properly, But I can't get upset that you're doing some pussy ship or I can't like I can't if I'm sucking a bit on the side. I can't get upset that she's sucking another nigga because I haven't accepted you as family or as my wife. So I can't be mad at you for whatever you're doing. Friend. Yeah, straight up, I'm gonna be mad at you because you you put once you put too much on yourself with people. Once you put too much in a person, you got you got yourself away to be let down. You get what I'm saying, deprecious people, So I can't especially sometimes to be happening in waves Like mother have ten friends, All ten friends go bad on them. You see what I'm saying. It's like I can't be letting down by family because I love you, even if you let me down unconditional. Yeah, if you let me down still like damn nigga, but I love him. But a friend, I'm gonna want to do something to you thinking that you're my friend. So I might was gonna etch that out of my my vocabal business if you let me down. It's just business. I can't be mad, you know what I'm saying, Like that was his business is you know what I'm saying. That makes sense, the sense we're skipping over. You got your associate, especially in the industry ship, it's kind of like you got your associates, you respect them, you see them, it is what it is, and you got your family. I don't think it's definitely no room for no friendship in the industry because that's what do you call it? A capitalist game, So whenever they can get a lot of these people and industry frand is an oxymoron, right exactly, it don't really exist. Like you got your family, the industry socis and it ain't nothing wrong with associatest, there's nothing wrong and none of that ship, Like like problem people listening to this ship. I thought I was banking friends. If you you know what I'm saying, you are. But I'm telling you I don't have a I don't. I don't look at friends as friends, right, I look at Okay, this is a good associate. But like, like I always tell niggas like just a real nigga. He's a real nigga so far. I like that. You get what I'm saying because you always got a chance to do some bit shit. You ain't a real nigga till you die that way. You ain't solid till you die that way because you always got a chance to do some pussy ship. That's a female even with female Like I tell my wife, bit you ain't shipped to one of us pass away and you with the ship to the end, anything could happen. You can wake up tomorrow and be tired of my bullsh didn't do some bullshit. So hey man, you gotta prove to me that you solid forever. That's what a friend relationship kids whoever. And I'm gonna do the same thing, like I'm big on that. I'm gonna go out of my way like a nigga could get locked up, right by the time you call your mama, a call home, and they're gonna say Bank called and checked on you to see if you need something. No, you ain't gonna have to be able to be saying like But on the other hand, nigga's wait to see, like, Man, I hope they're gonna call me. Hope you don't need no matter hoping. You know what I'm saying, I'm already extending my courtesy because I thought we was friends. You get what I'm saying. You're gonna already know that this is gonna already Damn Bank already called. Ain't even made it the booking it. What's what's what what's the level of those family ties of because we see it in mom movies, right, what's the level of I don't know if I'm saying this word right, irreparable reparable thank you? What reparable damage? Meaning this and you love them? But what's what's the level of irreparable damage to the point where it's like that love can turn to hate? You gotta watch the Guy father Guy Fathers like the life guideline for Yeah, man, a line man, a line of standard and you gotta you gotta erase the line and just know it is what it is. You know what I'm saying, Like with the family, even family crosses now, but it's like once you didn't put that family ship in there, it's like, okay, I can't take it to way. I take it to on associate. So it's like I can cut you off and you can get in touch with safe things. I had a goddamn brother something that I don't deal with, but he can always call my wife and get done what he needs done, but not me on funk with you get what I'm saying, Like it might not be me call your girl to see if you need it now, it's gonna be chante call like do such such needs some help, need our help. But I don't deal with you because whatever you did. You get what I'm saying, It's gonna be somebody in the Jade gonna call to see this like it's been time a little one problem been locked up. I don't even talk to these nigga fuck y'all nigga, but they might be talking to Jade on the phone. Should be like when the lawyers this will okay, do it, but I ain't dealing with them because they don't. You know what I'm saying, Like, you're gonna know that I don't approve of the person that you are at the time, but that I'm not leaving you to dry or leaving you for dad. But you're gonna know like you need to reconsider. So next time this ship don't happen. That's a level of no return. Though, yes, I definitely if you put me in a situation that you feel like I feel like you just don't give a funk about me, then that's no level of return. But if you do some ship that I can see you just an idiot, you know what I'm saying, Like right right, what I'm saying, But you do some ship that was malice? Fuck you? You get what I'm saying. You do some ship like whatever, call me an or whatever, or we get into heat the argument to the point, I can't be mad at you how you felt. You get what I'm saying. If you steal from me or if you got them in my life or my family's life in danger, there's no coming back because everybody get mad and say ship that they don't mean. You know what I'm saying, Like, I can never unless you say some ship pertaining to that could lead the harm in me. You get what I'm saying, Unless you drop a clue that like you really like trying to do something to me, or you really are really does not give a funk about me, then yeah, bitch like it's over, like the point of no return, the point of no return. But you gotta think when you got a truth, a true fu nigger, I ain't even gotta see it. You're gonna see it, yeah, Like God, don't put it on your heart and see it before they even said, because they're gonna try to keep it. My motherucker just saying, bitch, fuck you ja like I called j bitches everything out of mind? Fuck you fun. You're doing late, the big fact. But when you just ain't you know. But then I called ten minutes later, Hey can you bring some food? You know what I'm saying, because it ain't she knowing. I'm just wearing my emotions at that time on my sleeve. But if I just be quiet like and be like screen, they just keep being late and ship. Really that's a fun to me. You just want to say, because I admit that to you, I'm telling you if you been late, because I don't want you to be late. I want you to be professional. You what I'm saying. But if I'm telling telling everybody in the room, but huh, that's fun ship to me. You get what I'm saying. I really want to see her. I really want to schneak and see her like fail. Yeah, if I want to see you win, I'm gonna tell you, I'm gonna curse you out. Mother's who got you? Get what I'm saying. That made sense to me in the world. They make all the sense of the world. That's that's that's that's back into family ties. You know what I'm saying telling people what it is definitely because it's like at the end of the day, I hate to like again be the real name advocate or whatever. But like when like when Black tells me ship, like the ship that I take from him, I don't take from nobody else because it's like, at the end of the day, I know for a fact, this is one of the only people that really loves me for real, and it really has always had my best interest at heart, and it has never taught me nothing wrong, and that it's always gonna make sure that I'm straight. So like the ship that he says to me, like even like if we're in front of people or something like, people might look like damn like, you know what I'm saying, like damn like. But it's like at the end of the day, it's like there's there's no offense because at the end of the day, I know like he's saying that because he cares, like genuinely and like for real and like it's a whole it's a whole different ballgame when you're dealing with somebody that you know one million percent has your back, and if you're taking it, if you're on the outside looking and you take it like I'm against her, you be against it. And I'm gonna show you if I'm with him, right, get what I'm saying, you be against my the person that you feel like, you be against it, And see if I'm with him or not. You get what I'm saying. That's just how I look at ship. But at the end of the day, it's like, motherfucker's don't give a funk, bro, So why should you? Why should you? That's all I was gonna say to man, Can all this you know, the stand solid, the stand all of the Can that be stressful when you're the only, not the only one, but one of the only few that gives a fun But guess what, everybody got their own definition of solid, right, I could be a fucking nigga's eyes just because on my on my definition of solid, you get what I'm saying, like, So there's no definition. There's no definition of solid. Like you think a nigga, I think he's a fun I think that I honestly know when I'm doing some fun shit. Yeah, you get what I'm saying, Like, But I taking some niggers and look in the mirror and be like, man, I ain't right. No, it ain't nobody out there like man, I think it is. Agree. Man, I think some niggas that can't okay, let me tell you they can't even look in the mirror because they know they ain't right. I'm talking about people who ain't right. We don't even just talk about solid niggas. These are niggas who just know they ain't right. Lenna, tell you why that why they why they don't why they don't feel like they ain't right, because they're gonna always have a reason why they did whatever. They're popping a girl Because this nigga always been hating on me, you know what I'm saying, like names and ship and always been hating on me anyway, they stitched on the nigger gonna tell on me. They always got the excuse why you did something? What else said? Robbed them something. I don't know if there's some bullshit after nigga file honey couldn't do it, Shi, I had to go get it. Yea, that's sad. Nigga's always nigga in the mirror, and they justified in their core and their core, they have justified that the ship that I be on, it's it's it's a it's a it's a reasoning appropriate reason. That's scary. That's really scared. Dumb is fact though people do that ship every day, bro. And then you got you got motherfucker's that they may know. But guess what pride get in the way. So I gotta cover the suck like like like, bro, I'm gonna keep going hummer. I ain't in it, ain't into in the art of clearing up ship. Feel how you want to feel about me? Like if a nigga can come tell you something about and you got your own relationship with me, but you feel yeah, you're a bit straight out. Cain't no nigga telling me shit about you because I don't know what y'all went through for you to feel this way. You know what I'm saying. I can only deal deal with Scream High. I deal with Screen, Okay for nigga just saving the nigga, say Screen because he wouldn't do my mixtape. I don't know what reason why he didn't do your mixag right, he I probably called him a mixtape. He didn't do it, and he gave me a legitimate reason. He probably feel like he don't owe your explanation. So now I gotta feel like this man is a funk that never did nothing to me. He'll fun nigga because you say you got niggas, you got niggas, you got niggas that are spread that you'll fuck nigga knowing that you know he'll fuck niggas, thinking that I need to beat him to the point, m Nick, I ain't gonna tell them about your whole as a fund, just that you get what I'm saying to me. I ain't trying to persuade people. I get what at the end of the day, if you know they're gonna see it on their own. Yeah, you get I'm saying, I don't have the broadcast. Well, I gotta tipps say now that makes sense. That makes sense a lot, a lot of a lot of just you should talk to the if I ever had an issue with a person that I know, because sometimes you just don't know. People just got issues with you, and you hear from everybody else there's an issue, But I never heard this. I'm gonna tell you maybe it's an African to me. I'm gonna call you, bro, facts, I get the funk out of here. Facts. What's African? Gun? I'm gonna call you facts. Hey, do we have a problem? Facts? You know what I'm saying, But you got to its just really disagree. Let's let's how have it gonna got? Niggas ain't doing that because at the end of the day, they're knowing it's a problem, knowing that I'm the reason for the problem. I don't want to stand up for the the reason of the problem. So I need to go on to spread whatever I'm aa spread. So I need to come over here with these other three or four pussy ass niggas to make it seem like he's a nigg and then we got to get three or four more pussy has Nigga's like, you know what I'm saying, like talking out, talking out to shoot it up. That's too much energy. Facts, not for, not for, not for. I'm just telling you, I'm just like talking out, like playing telephone man, and you gotta leave it, leave it up. That's what it is. It is what it is, like I ain't got time to everything. You don't tell them a call and me like, bro, he's saying that because nigga fu all y'all, nigga, why is he telling you? Why is he comfortable enough to tell you to pick up the phone? And and the crazy thing is that ship has worked because you get on the phone and then you get the talking or you face to face and you see that it's really some petty and ship with me. But see like with me, when I hear ship like that, I don't even care to hear the explanation or the reason like fuck you okay, that's how you feel okay, fuck you, or that's how I hurt you feeling whatever, or this that whatever, the third I don't even have time to even try to process that ship or even deal with you to try to figure out. So, okay, you over here with the rest of these pussy gass niggas like and that's it, man, It's just like this man who got time father. It's a lot of energy, and that energy due you only get so much energy. It's just like a female you broke a hard or whatever, and that's she gonna tell everybody in the world it's you some bullshit. Yeah, okay, bitch, I broke your heart, cousin, you ain't ship or whatever whatever reason I help. Why am I thing to go back? But is that an they get excuse though? Yeah, it is, it is, it is. But guess what. I ain't going to go back and try to justify though. Yeah, I don't say what you don't say. I don't give what you do. You know what I'm saying basically what I say. They just say, you're right, guess what you're write about what you're saying like like I was just asking them on on the club house again, bring that up like like, because it's always like nigga saying women don't do this, like we kill saying ain't You can't name a woman that will blak a nigga from zero. But you can name men bring women from zero, there's some woman that, there's some woman, solid women, how minute, what's the present the majority that I'm saying like that, like basically sure, hello, Basically basically we're saying a nigga can't even be in the same spots as a female with money. And when he broke, he didn't even damn nes see them but already broke a hole, gonna be around already, Rishni. Yeah, that's a big difference. Like you can pull up at Matt, don't see hold them. We got the little blue pants on a liking fat no matter how my money you got, but a bit you can see a nigga. Oh you know what I'm saying, masculin nigga with the beard working it back Donald and be like you, Matt Donald. But she could really to be attracted to this nigger. But it's just like it's all status. You get what I'm saying. It all status with women and men. But that's a whole another show. We're that's a whole show, but it is it is like basically, what I'm saying is I don't justify if I do some that what I did, Fuck you, I did it because it's fun. Everybody in the world has straight up everybody because everybody didn't want her right in the world has done some bullshit, maybe even not purposely, but we've all done some bulls. It happens. Now if it keeps happening, you become a bullshit you keep doing. I feel like you gotta you gotta get certain people out of your mix that make you bring the energy. You get what I'm saying, Like if a person that always makes you, if you ain't and f street talk, I'm saying, even a regular relationship, like if I'm a relationship with the mother I wake up any more, Like but you don't even like the way you sleep, you gotta remove yourself from that ship. You know what I'm saying, Like did Bi been Snoran forgot? Now seven years you've been with on the eighth year and you don't like that ship. It ain't that you don't like the snorts, you don't like her. You get know what I'm saying, Like everything is to start just getting on your nerd like God put certain ships in us called instant Get what I'm saying. So if if if if I was just cool with you doing whatever you've been doing jade or whatever whatever. Now I just can't take it no more. It ain't I just done. It's like I'm just fed up with you. You get what I'm saying. It ain't like all of a sudden because this ship being going on and I got telling female meeting nigga and feel like eventually, like that you meet my smoke cigarettes, Eventually, I'm a sire smoke cigarette. Eventual, if I complain enough, I'm gonna he's gonna stop changing. No, bitch, thirty years later, don't still smoking cigarettes. And they're starting to get to you more and more and more because but you never liked it. You get what I'm saying. You never ever liked that. You just thought I was gonna change it, or you thought they you were going to be able to change him, and it didn't work. Facts, that's the same thing dealing with homeboys, partner's friends or whatever. Like I know this niggas a lion age nigga. Eat on myself to hear line age nigga, I'm gonna wait to tell the wrong lie and be as mad as I could be when I could have been removed myself. I'm waiting around this lying ashe No, that's real. That's real. That's good game on big facts. Past the bank man, give it a past man, snoke men blunt, I got him in Big Backwood Man. I don't. I didn't feel like driving this ship. Didn't. I just felt finding No, I don't know, I don't know. I don't know. Screen like and I'm see I'm a Gemini song kind of slight retard Tomorrow, I might yeah, you know what I'm saying, But the day and then we're doing this ship earlier, so it's like a friend tomorrow might feel like, well, that are my friends, right, Like, you know what I'm saying. I can't consider you his family yet, but you But y'all get what I'm saying that, I get it. I get what I'm saying. I think. I think it's just a guideline for people to people be really and I've been hurt. It's kind of like, uh, it's stopped you from being hurt because you put so much into everybody. That's how I am like, yeah, with you, that's why people. That's why people too, Like I'll be telling Jake Jay, you get so mad at people because you're thinking of what you would have did for that you would do like, hey man, you gotta take that out. Yeah, you gotta take that out for the simple fact of you don't know what the next person is thinking of, how they feel, how they was raised, or that marvels. Because you got some people that don't give a funk about nothing. They just want to go up, like I don't give a funk. I go up like who I leave by the way, so I don't care Like this industry ship will show you that I meet managers and lawyers and ship every day to be like, oh no, he never had plans on zero to a hundred with you, I get a zero to twenty with you, four with the next person for the six. You know what I'm saying, Some people not trying to build all that all the way. So when you when you and this ship and this for anybody, any manager of lawyers, got them producing thing. You gotta get out of what you can get out of the ship to right then so you can keep going up no matter what. You know what I'm saying, like real ship like because there's so many build a people in this ship that are never possible because they holding on to what they went through with with with the first or second situation. You get what I'm saying. Even rappers like you can't be mad about you can't feel like I ain't signing no more major label because this label didn't do exactly what you want them to do. Or I can't feel like I'm finning not help this producer this artist because this producer, this artist felt like they didn't want to work with us on the real ship all on with you like you're trying to. You're trying to you're trying to goddamn feel like you're in a relationship with this person or song. It's all business, no matter how you felt though, if you spent your last dollar, no matter what, it should still business. So it might make them, folks better business sense to go on on. You get what I'm saying. How you mad what you didn't? You didn't secure You didn't secure yourself enough that you elevated. Also, you get what I'm saying. That's your that's your issue. That's not the issue. Okay, the whole time you play, you're all in, all in the artists. You didn't make no connection to bab to do this again for another artist or the whole time it's right, Yeah, the whole time you you you signed to death Jam or whatever your artists, you signed the Deaf Jam or Epic or Universe or whatever. So all these people that they introduced you to, even though she didn't work out, you didn't maintain those relationships. You didn't maintain a relationship. Just in case you do, you don't deal with epic anymore that you can call these people's and you know what I'm saying, based off of your your face like nothing else. Like it's called being smart, networking, planning, having goals. That's the thing. Though. People stepped into so much ship without a goal. They don't even know where they're going, just jumping in. It's just like you're in the marriage, all right, we got friends together, all right. When y'all break up, the friends gott to choose. That's crazy. We're in the marriage. Got now depends on who was wrong? It's who friends we're gonna be. Yeah, But I think that's for anything, because I know, like when I when I'm like, I don't want to say friends with people, but when like I deal with people or whatever, and then me and people don't deal anymore, Like na, bitch, all of my people that came with me are leaving with me like I don't want no, there's there's no that. But you can't say that's right. Though I'm not saying this right. I'm just saying that's that's what, that's how I feel facts. If it's wrong, it's me me too. Ain't in the middle, hey man? You know you too? Yeah, everybody ain't no god period. Sometimes I'm just saying, at the end of the day, if I don't funk with him or I don't funk with her, when y'all get together, y'all mad through me, like like I ain't going for it. Yeah, that's real. But what about the situations where you feel like, see what, put yourself in their shoes and then they choose the side. But then the niggers get back cool, Oh, I don't choose sides. That's why you're just saying, hey man, the end of the day, like like, if two of my associates stop dealing with each other, I'm like, I'm in the middle, nigger because I thought with you, like I said, you can't tell me nothing. Now, let you just don't get some ship to our associate that you know just wrong. Then I gotta choose side or her side. But if you y'all, that's y'all, y'all need to work it out for what I almost be like, Man, that's ship that I'm gonna be telling both y'all sameything, that she ain't really worth whatever y'all going through. Like y'all need to tightening it you wanna say, But then the end of the day, I'm gonna bag up from both of y'all because I I can't make you feel like this and make you feel like that. But it's still what's up? What's up? You can't never pick a side in a dispute that you know nothing about exactly. That's real. That's real, good game, good game on Big Facts man. Make sure y'all check us out Triple W dot Big Facts Pod dot com. Questions at Big facts pot dot com. That's an email now if you've got some questions. I want to hear us talk about some ship. We talked about some ship, y'all sinus to day, so we appreciate that. Any final words Bregrean's history, Um, let's say something. Jade just don't be a funk nigger, don't be a fun name. But we can't say that though, because what's what's the definition of every bout. They guy their own definition of everything. Yeah, and then we definitely can't trust the definition and the definitely the definition can We can't even we can We can't even the way that we was taught. We can't even say that it was right. We can't even say, like, that's just a whole another spirit, everything that's going on. We can't even say that we're living right. We can't even say that we're supposed to be in marriages or we're supposed to be one person. We can't even say that women might supposed to have tend niggas and niggas might supposed to have tend bitches. We we can't say but, but, but but but it makes sense. That's like saying, oh my goodness, nigga's the same as a fun boy using the dirty South. You just don't like it, but get what they but they got it. They got it in the Urban Dictionary. But just they have a um sentence. It says that fun nigga always talking ship, but always talking ship. That means he'll funk nigga though, well he faked that nigga that I don't like. It's always talking ship. I can't go for that though I can't go no no I. It might be some good niggas that I call fuck nick he's just a nigga to meet. Most niggas have a basis as to why they are being called the fun nigga, Like there's a solid foundation of reason why this nigga is being called. I could call a nigga nigga because, like I said, I call it nigga fu nigga because he didn't do a verse for me? Did that make him a fun That don't make him nigga? He just choked, not he's just like That's what I'm saying. But I could do a verse. I could do a verse for a nigga when I'm hot, then when he hot, he don't do a verse for nigga. I could really, in my heart feel like this nigga fuck. But you're not gonna feel like that. I'm saying hypothetically because the word n is just loosely used. Somebody thinks everybody that's like the word friend is loosely used. For sure. For sure, That's what I'm saying. So you can't call it. You can't. You can't just say you can't say a nigga just a nigga. That's your opinion, like a nigga like to see. I said all that to say I can feel like a nigga fuck nigga, but I ain't even try to convince another person that he's at my opinion. Yeah, yeah, I feel like you're for my own selfish reasons. I can't make you be a fun nigga scream when y'all ain't had no problem. Yeah you get what I'm saying. I might be the guidelines of defining a nigga vary from person to person. Yes, that's why I say. Everybody got their own opinions. Where the fun. He is a person that I just don't like. But I can't make you not like this person. I don't know what this man. But if you do not like a person because another nigga told you not to like the person, then you are they. That's our opinion. The novel is coming. Yes, So in closing, I would just instead of saying, don't be a nigga, I would just say, don't do ship or anything to anybody that you don't want done to you, doing to others as you would want them to do to you. That's the proverb. Yeah, say yourself, stay true to yourself. You gotta do that. Sometimes I've been in situations like, hey, bro, that's your problem. I don't have no problem with him exactly. You just gotta say that ship. I don't have no problem with Yeah, you just gotta clear the air, like and I don't want to hear that ship whatever nigga trying to come paint a pitch of me. I hear him out and be like, how that some fun ship? You know what I'm gonna tell you when you come tell me like and then got dam being got them saying even to get back with us on this nothing about the endorsementship screen. We don't know these folks situations. I'm gonna tell you this, but I've been hindish nigga. Bro, we don't know what's going on in any personal life until we see this person, they say they reason, or we see the person, they'll be like ship, but I just want sunk with it. And then you're fun because you could have told me, but it'd be like, Bro, I had fucking corona. Bro. Yeah, like just for you, just for instance, this is my last little suggestion, I mean example or whatever, like um, a friend of mine like I had a contractor that was doing some work on a friend of mine's house for me or whatever, and they were supposed to have come back to do some stuff whatever, whatever. I haven't been able to get him on the phone. I was niggering them, like nigga, like you know what I'm saying that, you know, like what's up, like you know, calling whatever whatever. Come to find out, man, the man had cancer and like was still on chemotherapy, was still going through the treatments whatever, whatever, but he was just finally able to get back to where he could talk and respond and all of that. Ship and even though he was still going through the chemo and all of that, he was trying to like get out there now that he was able to move a little bit. And then I had the damn. I had to really like apologize to him and apologize like to the universe because I was so upset and angry because I felt like this nigga was ducking me. But at the end of the day, like this nigga really was like to die, like and even though like I didn't know, so it was just like okay, whatever. I just felt really bad because it's like again, like you said, like you never know what's going on with people or what they're going through. You got niggas, You got niggas like just having you make up the ground for him. And you know what I'm saying, I ain't post it on my pay ain't posting this ship. Nigga, seen some ship to post. So it's my duty to explain that you brought from the dot the ground him instead of just like I ain't even respond to it. But I'm gonna niggao ya a lot of that because I'm I'm I'm what you call I'm fasting from the ground, right. But see that, nigga, I don't break my fast to post your ship. You don't know what's going on with my life. But see that Instagram ship. That was a whole again, that's a whole another show because that Instagram ship really be hurting these niggas and these bitches hearts, like for real, for real, like like like man bro, like this ship, crazy man, this ship, this Instagram ship starts so much ship bro, Like, I don't give a funk. I'd never sent the nigga post. I don't care. The only time I would be offended maybe if my motherfucker just blocked me, or some ship like damn, you wanna block me? Like that's some different ship, But I don't care if I don't give a about that is. How do you know when the person blocked you. Sometimes you go to the page of your block that ship happened to me before. Maybe it's like I've gone to like tag somebody in some ship or at somebody or something, and then it's like the ship pops up, but he says nothing, and I'm like, oh, I know. I don't go out of my way for you. I'm gonna me that's exactly what it is. If you don't do exactly what they want you to do. Whoever they Maybe he didn't post my ship, he didn't play my ship, he didn't do this ship. If you don't go out of your way inconvenience yourself to make the situation better, you are exactly So that's why we do have to watch fund Nigga novel coming soon. Nigga novel coming soon. Make sure y'all follow us at Big Facts Pod, Triple w dot Big Facts Pot dot Com. Questions at Big facts pot dot com, go to that Apple that Spotify comment like, subscribe to all that good ship and we out with the merchant. The Merchant, Triple W dot Big Facts pot dot Com hoodies coming to I need, I need, I need a remobile, the guy. I need everything, like for real. Then that's the request. We need big socks, mittens need we need them. We need the hats, scheme mask shots, the shot too. She gotta maskee mask for the winner. Now we need to schem add the kind that covered like this with the with the little shot on the inside for the corona mass about to get worsh Yeah, like she did. 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