Girl, What You Say?

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: ​"Hello and welcome to The Girl, Which Way?! Podcast. The show that exists because
life is a journey but you still need direction.
Grab your girls and get ready because each episode we will be talking about our real life issues, answering questions, and building solid relationships with one another as we heal and learn.
I'm your host, your girl, Shaleea Venney and todays’ show is all about your words! We’ll discuss the ins and outs of manifesting, meditating, and how our words impact our lives.
Topic #1: Duration
: Manifesting
Main point:
Everywhere you look, there are successful people and dreamers all talking about manifesting the life you want. They make it sound so appealing and attractive. They make it sound so easy. Here you are dreaming of a better life while they are living theirs. They all seem to share a common belief in the power of their thoughts and abilities and you think, What are you doing wrong?  How do I unleash my manifesting abilities? Do I have any?
Wait, what is manifesting again? Essentially,
manifestation
is bringing something tangible into your life through attraction and belief. The operative word is belief.
When you hear someone saying they are manifesting love or a job or a house or whatever they want, it just means, they have envisioned their ideal situation and they believe in it wholeheartedly. They are actively waiting for it to happen. Manifesting is making everything you want in your life a reality... using your thoughts,
actions
, and beliefs.
Topic #2: Duration:
( Meditate on What?) The problem or the prize?
Main point
Know that we know what manifesting is, let’s talk about meditating. You might think of meditating as getting in a quiet place alone and focusing your thoughts and energies on the thing that concerns you. Do you realize that we are meditating all day long? What is something you think about constantly? Do You know what’s wrong with thinking about something constantly for most of us? We don’t think about anything good. When we are thinking about something on a continuous basis it’s usually because we are worrying about it. Did you know that worry is a form of meditation?
You know how you’re worried about that thing that you’re worried about? How many times per day or hour do you think about it? The what if this and what if that? Sis, this is meditating. To Meditate literally means. To Think deeply or focus one's mind for a period of time on (something). What are you focusing on? Where are your thoughts? Are you focused on the solution or the problem. The problem of course! I am sure. We all do it. It’s not even a real problem, we are pressed about hypothetical situations. Perceived threats not actual ones. We are seriously wasting valuable time worrying about things that might happen, BIG maybes. What if I don’t find this or that? What if I lose my job? What if he’s cheating? Am I good enough, what if I can’t ever afford that house….. O-M-G! What if everything works out? What if you stopped overthinking and shifted that negative energy to the positive? What would happen then?
The way we speak to ourselves and over our lives has everything to do with how well things go for us. There is no point in trying to manifest if our thoughts aren’t strong enough to sustain the vision. Disbelief will kill the dream. The Bible tells us that faith comes by hearing, the universe says speak it into existence. Whichever one you believe in, they’re both right. WORDS HAVE LIFE. You will have what you say. If you say you’re going to be sick, yes you will. If you say you can’t afford it, no you can’t. If you say what you won’t have, you won’t have it. Sometimes you’re not failing because you can’t succeed, sometimes you’re failing because you can’t believe. If you don’t believe deep down in what is possible, you won’t be able to bring it into the tangible reality. Make sense? Half of the battle is in your mind. Your mind and your thoughts are so powerful. You will never do anything or have anything without being able to see it in your mind first. What do you see? What are you telling yourself. What do you believe? Good or bad, now look at your life and see where your beliefs have taken you.
Topic #3: Careful of what you say- how to speak over your life.
Main point
Manifesting, meditating or both. Understand that you don’t get to just sit back and wish for it and wait for it to happen. Faith without works is dead. You’re going to need to see it through. If you are wondering how to take your manifesting and or meditating to the next level.
Here are 5 Things to Consider when You are Manifesting and Believing for Something
1.Write the Vision and make it Plain-
What do you really want? Manifesting is the time for you to be fully specific. If you want your dream job, what is your dream job? Do you work long hours, weekends, what do you wear, what do you do etc? Want to find your soulmate? What makes him your soulmate? How tall is he, what color are his eyes, is his voice deep? What’s his personality like, how does he wear his hair? You’re going to need to be specific about what you  want. You know the expression, be careful what you ask for? This is that- only, be careful what you don’t ask for. You need to be intentional.
2.
Meditate On It, Pray On It- Vision Board IT.
Now that you know what you want, and you’ve written it down, speak it into existence. Any negative speech stops now. Start speaking positively over your life and your goals. Pray about it, meditate on it, write it on your vision board or somewhere you can see it everyday so that it can be real to you. It doesn’t matter what method you use, do whatever works for you. Whatever you do, Believe with all of your heart and be glad about it as if you already have it.
3. Put that work In!
If you stay ready, you don’t have to get ready. Don’t just put something out into the Universe or Gods ears and think you’re done. Do the work. You want to land that job, work on your resume and interview techniques. You want your soulmate? Are you ready to receive him and all that he will bring into your life? Have you done the work on yourself? You have a dream? For example, you want to be an actor, are you practicing monologues and facial expressions. If you ran into that director In the elevator right now, could you do a quick pitch to land that role? You have to be ready. Sharpen your skills and be ready. Sometimes we pray for an opportunity but if it presented itself, we would fail and miss out because we’re inadequately prepared. Don’t be that person. Preparation is essential.
4.
Shut UP!
One of the best ways to mess up a miracle is to talk your way out of it. Your thoughts and anxiety ruin everything. Here you are thinking of how impossible it sounds, you don’t deserve it, how dare you dream this big, who do you think you are? YES WHO DO YOU THINK YOU ARE? Because whoever she is, you are correct. If you don’t believe you are deserving, you’re not. You have to align your thoughts with what you say you believe. There can be no half stepping.
5.
BE HAPPY!
Good vibes, positive vibes. All the goodness your heart can handle. Do good, be kind, help others. Dance, laugh, play. You need to radiate positivity. There is no room for Debbie Downer around here. You’re going to need to focus on being what you say want. You want love? Be loving. Kindness attracts kindness. You get what you put out. Be grateful! Be thankful for where you are and what you have now. Gratitude goes a long way. You can very well be happy with where you are and also looking forward to what is to come but if you’re just unhappy with where you are and see what you want as a means to make you happy, that’s not going to work. You gotta find a reason to smile even if it’s not that easy at the moment.
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( Conclusion ) Dreams are attainable. No matter what anyone tells you. Our thoughts, speech, and actions make all the difference. Your words propel you more than you’ll ever know. Be kind to yourself. Be gentle with yourself. Speak positively over your life and your desires. Meditate on your dreams and solutions more than you do on the problems. Words have life babe! So speak the life you want into existence and do the work until you are living. Manifesting and mediating is all about your will. Go and get what you want. It’s out there just waiting for you to be claim it.
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Remember, good better best, never let it rest, till your good is better, and your better is best.  Until next time.. Your friend and motivator- Shaleea Bye
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