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Where the sexual and spiritual come together. Sex and relationship coach and vaginal weight lifter Kim Anami gives you the sex education and orgasms you never had. www.kimanami.com
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Published 2026-05-08

Love Bomb Me

15 min
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Apparently, there’s a new term for “not giving a shit” as a seduction strategy: Being “nonchalant.”

“I don’t care if you like me. Maybe I like you, maybe I don’t. I’m here. Sorta. But…I could be anywhere else, with anyone else, doing anything else.”

Wow. What a turn on. Be still, my beating heart.

*Woman faints from all the emotions this stirs in her*


In this episode:

  • Normalize love bombing
  • The Neil Strauss and Dan Bilzerian “school of dating” for cowards and retards
  • Indifference as a seduction strategy
  • Is it possible to give “the ick” to someone by showing them too much love?
  • Chintzy vs. generous fuckers
  • A woman’s egg choose the sperm it wants—out of millions of options. IT KNOWS.

COME TO ANAMI LAND!

We’ll be opening our private, exclusive Anami Land membership community in the coming weeks.

 

Meet high-level, Anami-esque friends and lovers.

 

Looking for more outrageous, wild and brave humans? Find them in Anami Land.

Go to kimanami.com/anamiland to signup on the waitlist and be notified of when we open the doors.

Published 2026-04-30

Narcissists: Everyone's Love to Hate

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It's always their fault. 


Everyone’s got a narcissist story these days. IT’S ALWAYS THE FAULT OF THE NARCISSIST! 


Someone said to me a few years ago that a narcissist is essentially someone who hasn’t healed their trauma. And they aren’t interested in healing it. 


But what if this isn’t about how evil and awful the narcissist is? What if it’s about you and the 8000 red flags and signs you ignored, telling you this wasn’t right? 


In fact, that’s the only thing it’s about: How you chose wrong and how blaming someone else is keeping you stuck in a cycle of victimhood and re-traumatization. 


In this episode: 

  • The price for being a victim and not taking radical self-responsibility 
  • Scorpions gonna sting. Narcs gonna narc. Do you play with them anyway? 
  • Why is there “chemistry” with a narcissist or someone who may not be good for you? 
  • Does that mean that all “chemistry” now can’t be trusted? 
  • 99.9% of relationships have this flaw 
  • The most important juncture in any relationship 
  • The reasons why people stay where they know it’s not good for them 
  • How to break free and choose better: and choose YOU. 

COME TO ANAMI LAND! 


We’ll be opening our private, exclusive Anami Land membership community in the coming weeks. 


This will be a place for people who’ve taken our salons to keep going in there work. And for those of you who’ve been hovering on the outskirts of Anami Land, it’s open to you too. 


People have been asking—begging—us to create a dating site for ages. 


This will function as that, a community for like-minded Anami enthusiasts—singles, couples, men and women—everyone looking to take their lives, growth and relationships to the next level. 


Go to kimanami.com/anamiland to signup on the waitlist and be notified of when we open the doors. 

Published 2026-04-17

F*ck Yes or F*ck Off!

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In a conscious, Anami-style relationship, the only acceptable answer to any invitation from your partner is: F*CK YES!!!

Would you like to learn how to have better sex? F*ck yes!

Do you want life-changing G-Spot, cervical and squirting orgasms? F*ck yes!

Would you like to be able to become a multi-orgasmic man, fuck for three hours straight and learn to separate orgasm from ejaculation? F*ck yes!

Most relationships are held together by their collective—and TACIT—that is, unspoken—agreement to stagnate together.

In Anami Land, we have a pact to GROW together.  The kinds of things I talk about—what BECOMES the NORM around here—is the stuff of legends.

  • Women having a hundred orgasms in a row
  • Couples having 72-hour sex dates
  • Men being multi-orgasmic and able to orgasm without ejaculation 
  • Couples having sex from across the room and across the planet (my specialty, haha) 

These things ONLY happen when both people are ALL IN.

It’s f*ck yes! or bust. 

In this episode:

  • How to change a stagnant relationship from “maybe later” and “we’re too busy” to “fuck yes!” 
  • Starting a relationship with “fuck yes!” ​​​​​​​
  • How I train myself for “fuck yes!” moments 
  • The day I caught 35 waves surfing 
  • Living in Anami Land means a perpetual “fuck yes!” 
  • “Bare minimums” in Anami Land: HINT: transcendental, multi-million-dollar-deal-generating blow jobs 

Coming Together: Registration closes tonight at midnight PST!

My quintessential mind/body/spirit Tantric and creative genius spiritually orgasmic portal for couples to come together emotionally and sexually. 

You'll learn: 

  • How to create a conscious relationship that elevates you into the highest, most evolved versions of yourselves 
  • And generates the most quantum, life-changing orgasms: G-Spot, cervical, squirting for her and orgasms without ejaculation for men. And anal for both of you. Because don't you know? You can find God up your ass. 
  • Learn how to use your sexual energy to pro-creatively build your lives with 
  • Lifelong passionate intimacy becomes your daily reality: the stuff of Well-F**ked All Star legend 
  • My step-by-step techniques for cathartic and blissful yoni and lingam massages
  • How to clear space, communicate openly and have the tough conversations in your relationship that remove blockages and clothing. Instantaneously. 
  • The ins-and-outs of sexual reflexology.  The ultimate therapeutic healing every time you have sex and touch each other. 
  • How to use different sex acts to make more cash. Eh, not that way. But through activating your energy channels and learning how to shape matter, space and time. Yes, that's what we do here in Anami Land, mf. 
  • Why most women don’t achieve the "I saw God" vaginal orgasms and how they can. 
  • Super stamina techniques for men. 
  • And much more 

Fuck yes, we're in!

https://kimanami.com/lovers

Published 2026-04-09

From Divorce Court to 4-Hour Sex Dates

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In today’s episode we interview a couple who have had the most dramatic—and fastest—turnaround I’ve ever seen. 


They were in a *beyond* sexless marriage. 


They were intimate 2 or 3 times—a year.


In the span of a few hours they did a massive 180 and they’ve been full speed ahead ever since. 


 It’s never too late. If it’s possible for them, it’s possible for you too.


In this episode we’ll talk about the two most important things they did. Also: 

  • The power of “all in”
  • Sex 2-3 times a year for over a decade
  • From divorce court to 4 hours of sex 
  • A life-changing Tantric retreat
  • Tossed the Viagra and Cialis
  • Healing each other through intercourse
  • Past issues and resentments evaporating almost instantly
  • Staying together “for the children”? 
  • That person really needs a cock up their ass
  • Surrendering and vulnerability as a man
  • At age 64, the plan is to “fuck until the day I die” 

COMING TOGETHER FOR COUPLES is now open: 10 weeks to gourmet, life-changing sex!

In my online signature program for creating conscious relationships and quantum sex, you’ll learn:

  • Sexual reflexology of the yoni and lingam
  • My prescription guide for different sexual positions to heal various ailments
  • Tantric and Taoist techniques to harness your sexual energy and use it for healing, rejuvenation and creative genius
  • How to have multiple, full-body and energy orgasms
  • Supercock stamina techniques for men
  • Amplifying masculine and feminine polarity to increase your chemistry attraction: going from buddies to headboard slammers
  • And all my secrets to coming together

Signup now.

As in, our genitals are oracles. When they speak, they reveal our innermost truths. 

We can have conversations with our own genitals. What’s even more fun, is having them with our partner’s genitals.

In today’s episode I speak with Well-F**ked All Stars and Coming Together Alumni Carla and Pracarsh about their relationships with each other’s cock and pussy:

How they grow and shift and change, depending on how much they open and how well they are loved. And when asked, what they have to say.

In this episode: 

  • An Anami-inspired marriage 
  • Only dishonesty can break the relationship
  • Our genitals size and shape change as we release any stuck energy in them
  • Blocks malform your body
  • “His cock keeps growing bigger!”
  • Conversations with cock
  • Godly energy in our genitals
  • Sentient breasts
  • Genitals demand coherence and honesty. Otherwise they shut down.
  • Yoni massage and jade egg to unwind a “hard” and closed vagina
  • Genital curses
  • Alchemizing past wounds together through sex
  • “Vibrations of energy come from my yoni all the way up my body and I get transported into different dimensions.”

Says Carla: “Being in a conscious monogamous relationship where the container is sealed between you, has seriously been one of the most healing and beautiful experiences of my life.”

COMING TOGETHER FOR COUPLES SALON

EVERY couple can be having hours of sex, energy sex, multi-orgasmic sex, 20, 30, 40 orgasms in a session sex, and be turned on by each other for decades. 


it's the Anami Guarantee. 


I walk you through how to get there, step-by-step, in the Coming Together for Couples Salon. This is my 10-week online program for couples where you’ll learn everything from: 

  • How to have wild, 10-hours long Tantric sex 
  • How to communicate from the heart and genitals to achieve deep vulnerability 
  • Guided lingam and yoni massage 
  • Techniques to achieve all the deeper orgasms in women: G-spot, squirting and cervical 
  • Achieving superstar stamina in men and have full control over when you orgasm 
  • Or IF you do: I’ll also teach you how to orgasm without ejaculation 
  • Feminine and masculine polarity to amplify these energies in your life and bed, This is the secret to the hottest—and lifelong—sexual chemistry 
Published 2026-03-27

Squirting Saved Our Marriage

41 min
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One of my absolute most favourite concepts in ALL of my work is the idea of:  Fuck them until you change them. 


Our sex acts have the power to transform us. But only when they hit a certain level of Anami gourmet-style sex. 


The big barometric question I always ask people about their sex lives, and the way you can tell whether you’re having Anami-style gourmet sex or plebeian junk-food sex, is: 


Does sex change your life? Do you feel energized, rejuvenated, euphoric, healed, transformed and like you’ve seen God? 


If not, you’re doing it wrong. 


Anything other than that isn’t hitting the mark. At least in Anami Land. 


In this episode we speak to Well-F**ked All Stars Jared and Vi:

  • The emotional catharsis of squirting
  • Healing and alchemizing past trauma through sex
  • Male G-Spot liberation
  • Orgasm without ejaculation for him 
  • SHE LOVES HIS COCK. Can’t get enough of it.
  • From religious suppression to: “if the entire bed isn’t unusable with wetness after we’re done, then it was a small session.”
  • 3-hour sex date impact lasts for a week 

COMING TOGETHER FOR COUPLES SALON 

EVERY couple can be having hours of sex, energy sex, multi-orgasmic sex, 20, 30, 40 orgasms in a session sex, and be turned on by each other for decades. 


it's the Anami Guarantee. 


I walk you through how to get there, step by step, in my Coming Together Salon. This is my 10-week online program for couples where you’ll learn everything from: 

  • How to have wild, 10-hours long Tantric sex 
  • How to communicate from the heart and genitals to achieve deep vulnerability 
  • Using your sexual energy to alchemise ALL of your relationship and personal issues 
  • Step by step guided lingam and yoni massage 
  • Techniques to achieve all the deeper orgasms in women: G-spot, squirting and cervical 
  • Achieving superstar stamina in men: being able to have full control over when you orgasm 
  • Or IF you do: I’ll also teach you how to orgasm without ejaculation 
  • Feminine and masculine polarity to amplify these energies in your life and bed, This is the secret to the hottest—and lifelong—sexual chemistry 

To signup, go to kimanami.com/lovers

Published 2026-03-20

Bring Back Manly Men

23 min
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A few weeks ago I put up an Instagram post comparing the male models of the 90s to male models in 2025. 
https://www.instagram.com/reel/DU_J5P8EVHN/?igsh=dDU0Y2xjbW1qNmY1

It went mega-viral. 


Putting them side-by-side made the differences SO much more dramatic. 


Juxtaposing these legendary men with imposing jawlines and ravishing bone structure with the mincing, fairy-like, pre-pubescent unf**kable boy-children. 


What happened? 


Where did all the testosterone go? 


In this episode: 

  • The old Rat Pack vs. the new Rat Faces 
  • Who would you rather: Henry Cavill or twink Timothee Chalamet? 
  • Is hormonal birth control destroying women’s ability to choose masculine men? 
  • The only “toxic” masculinity is the LACK of it
  • Casting directors can’t even find masculine looking young actors anymore 
  • Are we all being gay-frog boiled? 
  • How to avoid xenoestrogens
  • Building dopamine and testosterone naturally 
  • Coming out of anti-masculine programming and the resurgence of the manly man 
  • Using sexual energy to increase your masculine power 


COMING TOGETHER FOR COUPLES SALON

For more on how to build your masculine smolder—and for your woman to cultivate her feminine surrender—check out my Coming Together for Couples Salon which opens in early April. 


We deep dive into all things masculine and feminine energies to create the hottest sexual polarity and chemistry. 


In the meantime, you can signup for my free Coming Together 7-Day Sex Cleanse. 
 
 Each day, you’ll receive an email with an assignments to deepen into each other, sexually and emotionally.


Side effects of this Sex Cleanse may include: 


~ Ejaculate-soaked bed sheets

~ Broken bed frames

~ Being fully energized by each other's life force energy

~ Clearing of relationship blocks

~ Stronger stamina

~ Feelings of safety and security

~ Sky-rocketing libidos


Signup today.
https://kimanami.com/lovers

Published 2026-03-13

Orifice Selection: A Guide for Men

22 min
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Hell hath no fury like a woman underf**ked. When you have an underf**ked woman on your hands, you’ll know it. 


Because she’ll MAKE you know it. It will be loud and clear. 


Her underf**ked behavior is a cry for help. A cry, which distinctly says “F**K ME.”


Men THIS is your job. THIS is your raison d’être. 


So… how do you f**k her? Do her moods merit different techniques? Indeed they do. 


I’ve got you. In this episode: 

  • Signs your woman is underf**ked 
  • Which orifice and when? 
  • Sex is medicine. Oral is medicine. Anal is medicine. 
  • Throat-gasms for the win 
  • What to do when your woman nags and belittles you 
  • Ideal frequency of sex 
  • Ideal duration of sex 
  • What to f**k IN and what to f**k OUT of each other
  • Junk food vs. gourmet sex 

The Coming Together Salon for Couples is coming soon! In this 10-week online salon you’ll learn:

  • How to harness the healing and creative power of your sexual energy
  • Sexual reflexology maps of the genitals
  • My sexual position prescription guide
  • The full orgasmapedia—all of the life-changing vaginal orgasms for women
  • Superstar stamina techniques for men to last for hours and how to orgasm without ejaculation.

The salon begins in April. In the meantime, signup for my FREE 7-Day Sex Cleanse and to be notified when the salon opens for registration.

https://kimanami.com/lovers

Published 2026-03-06

5 Superpower Couple Problems Worth Having

15 min
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Being a well-f**ked couple isn’t all fun and games, you know. There are some serious issues that come to pass, and I’m here to help you through them.

In this episode: 

  • The 5 biggest well-f**ked couple problems
  • Navigating life and hotel rooms with a prolific squirter 
  • Which private island to have your sex weeks at 
  • What to do when people keep throwing cash at you 
  • Dumping your underf**ked friends: it’s okay. You’ll find new, well-f**ked ones in Anami Land 
  • Setting and keeping the bar high: your moral and ethical responsibility to guide the underf**ked out of their morass and stupor of underf**ked blindness and into the light 

We can get through this. Together. 

 
***

Signup for the free 7-Day Sex Cleanse

A weeklong sex date. Anami-Style. Each day, you'll receive homeplay to deepen into each other emotionally and sexually.


Side effects of this 7-Day Sex Cleanse may include: 

  • Ejaculate-soaked bed sheets
  • Broken bed frames
  • Being fully energized by each other's life force energy
  • Clearing of relationship blocks
  • Stronger stamina
  • Increasing trust, intimacy and openness
  • Sky-rocketing libidos

Signup here.

https://kimanami.com/lovers

Published 2026-02-27

Underf**ked Orcs vs. Kim Anami

32 min
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Someone alerted the “All women need HRT!” community that I put up an apparently oh-so controversial post: 

That I don’t take HRT. 

They came RUNNING. 


A gang of underf**ked orcs, rabid, foaming at the mouth, grunting and panting, clambering over the hills and mountains to arrive at my page and tell me HOW DANGEROUS IT WAS THAT I WASN’T TAKING HRT AND I WAS SO LUCKY THAT I DIDN’T HAVE SYMPTOMS AND JUST WAIT UNTIL MY VAGINA FALLS OFF. 

In true Anami-style, I took down each of these underf**ked orcs one-by-one. 

We even held a “Who wore it better/ who would you rather f**k” poll?” 

Frumpy HRT doctor or Hot asf no-HRT Kim Anami? 

In this episode: 

  • Whiners get bitch-slapped.
  • Are menopause and perimenopause entirely Nocebo effect? 
  • The New Yorker columnist who “racismed” me 
  • Is simply “being a woman” a lifelong pathology that requires medicating from puberty until death? 
  • Is Serena Williams a great tennis player because she’s lucky?
  • A crash course is standing your ground against mindless, NPC, underf**ked orcs 
  • A woman who knows how to live in a female body: me 
  • Victims vs. victors. Whining vs. winning 
  • Being well-f**ked makes you wittier, smarter and hotter. It’s just a fact. 
  • It also makes you not get menopause symptoms 

My original post that started all the controversy:

https://www.instagram.com/p/DUQ41LgkQrd/?igsh=MWVmNDBzdzY3MThhdg==


My responses to the underf**ked orcs:
https://www.instagram.com/p/DUlnn2ejxmU/?igsh=MWl1MjR4ZDJyOXdtNg==
https://www.instagram.com/reel/DUqqrIQEfrZ/?igsh=MW00MzJ5c3o3bzR6Zw==

Check out my new Psychedelic Menopause Substack: 
https://psychedelicmenopause.substack.com

Signup for my upcoming Psychedelic Menopause Salon waitlist: 
http://kimanami.com/psychedelic-menopause 

Published 2026-02-06

My Body, My Oracle vs. My Body, My Enemy

69 min
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Listening to the wisdom of the body and healing thyself is the ultimate flex. Not your peptide and supplement stack.

In an era of every biohacker selling their supplements and peptide stack, every integrative and regular physician flogging their HRT and TRT, I’m not even remotely interested in their offerings.

What’s always fascinated me, is the idea that I can source this healing power from within.

Taking a pill or a drug?

Not a flex, in my world.

It’s the opposite—dependency and a cop-out.

The sales pitch that you need a medication, supplement or machine in order to feel good, forever and ever—and you can’t ever be without it?

This is the ultimate snake oil.

I’m inspired by the notion that we have the power to heal ourselves.

Everyone can.

THIS is the true flex in my world and in Anami Land:

 Connecting with our own bodies and highest wisdom as the oracle. As allies.

 Rather than an enemy and something to be subjugated.

Today’s episode is a replay of the Insta Live I did last week, with an additional introduction from me. We talk: 

  • A body glossary of reproductive issues and their symbolic meanings
  • Exiting the “age of apology” and normalizing greatness. Not me though, muthafukkas, I never apologized. Unless you count this, the greatest non-apology EVAH! 
  • Winning, not whining 
  • Vaginal electrocution and lube forever OR being hot as fuck and rocking bikinis and surfing big waves at age 55. You choose.
  • Body-positivity vaginas and cocks or superior, cosmically enlightened ones
  • The slow tiptoe and MLM scheme of outsourcing reproductive power, starting with Pap Smears and “abnormal cells” and ending in C-sections 
  • The root cause of ailments like incontinence, IVF, PCOS, difficult periods and menopause 
  • Why didn’t her Oura ring stop her from having a C-section? It knows everything, right? 
  • Abortion-rabid “feminists” as the most self-oppressed women in society 
  • Flute-playing, articulate vaginas that make a man ejaculate or stop him from ejaculating—the ultimate “flex” 
  • Shooting ping pong balls is the normal, healthy baseline and minimum skill for all vaginas 

To receive access to my FREE masterclass: We Are the Elite! We Are Kung Fu Vaginas, click here

 


My vagina does amaaaaaazing things. 

Sometimes people see me doing phantasmagorical things like: 

  • Dead hangs ab exercises, whilst also lifting 11lb. With my vagina 
  • Lifting pieces green coconuts, bunches of mangos and Venetian chandeliers. With my vagina. 

Of course, we want women to realize that the BASELINE is not peeing their pants and vaginas falling onto the floor—yes, vaginal “prolapse” effects 50% of women after childbirth—but that the BASELINE for ALL vaginas, everywhere is to:

  • Shoot ping pong balls
  • Give hand jobs
  • Make a man orgasm or stop him from orgasming with their flexing power alone
  • Have ravenous libidos
  • Lubricate and ejaculate profusely 
  • And be multi-orgasmic 

If your vagina isn't doing these things, it's under-performing. Beyond the physical, there is also an energetic function to the vagina related to: 

  • Femininity 
  • Creativity and manifesting ability
  • Her self-expression in the world 
  • How deeply she surrenders to life, her partner and God  

In today’s episode, we’re talking to Well-F**ked All Star Dr. Beth. She’s a chiropractor, women’s pelvic health specialist and big proponent of the jade yoni egg. 
 
Through using the jade yoni egg, she: 

  • Healed her prolapse
  • Cleared the residue of suppressed childhood sexual abuse
  • Went from clitoral orgasms to G-Spot, cervical, nipple, anal and of course birth orgasms and squirting on demand 
  • Went from chronic yeast infections to never having them again
  • Has sex almost every day, even with 5 kids and still breastfeeding her youngest
  • Had an orgasmic free birth at home. Look ma! No doctors or midwives!
  • She and her husband use their sex life to attract and manifest things in their lives 

Vaginal Kung Fu is open for registration NOW and it closes January 30th at midnight PST. 


In the salon, you’ll become a maestro of all things vaginal and sexual. You’ll learn: 

  • My step-by-step guided vaginal weight lifting routine 
  • Yoni massage to de-numb and activate your vagina 
  • Quantum techniques to clear your blocks and illuminate your sexual shadow
  • Breast massage techniques to tone, lift and enlarge the breasts 
  • Natural birth control and detoxing off The Pill 
  • How to make menstruation and menopause the energizing and rejuvenating portals they were meant to be  
  • How to give a vaginal handjob 
  • How to use your sexual energy to heal yourself, including my sex position mood guide. 

Signup now! Vaginal Kung Fu

Published 2026-01-23

From Zero to Multiple Orgasms in Weeks

42 min
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For 50 years, Sonja hadn't enjoyed sex. She didn't get what the big deal was. But she was hopeful there was one.

She took Vaginal Kung Fu and within weeks had an avalanche of orgasms: G-Spot, squirting, cervical, anal, nipple and full-body. 

Making up for lost time. 

She proves The Anami Guarantee that EVERYONE CAN. At any age and every stage. 


In this episode:

  • Waking up and de-numbing the vagina
  • Sexually dead after menopause? Bullshit. Just getting started.
  • What if his cock doesn’t reach my cervix? Dick math to the rescue. 
  • What is the ideal cock size if women are totally honest? 
  • The good stuff is in the vagina. The best stuff is at the cervix.
  • The yoni egg becomes your lover
  • How to f**k the shit out of her if you are less endowed as a man (it’s not being “good at cunnilingus”)
  • Two-pump chumps make women hate sex
  • 1 in 100,000 people are well-f**ked
  • The life-changing power of cervical orgasms
  • Choosing which orgasm you need based on your emotions and what needs healing

VAGINAL KUNG FU: Doors close January 30th midnight PST.

In the salon, you’ll become a maestro of all things vaginal and sexual. You’ll learn:

  • My step-by-step guided vaginal weight lifting routine with the jade yoni egg.
  • Yoni massage to de-numb and activate your vagina
  • Quantum techniques to clear your blocks and illuminate your sexual shadow
  • Breast massage to tone, lift and enlarge the breasts
  • Natural birth control and detoxing off The Pill
  • How to make menstruation and menopause the energizing and rejuvenating portals they were meant to be
  • How to give a vaginal handjob
  • How to use your sexual energy to heal yourself, including my sex position mood guide.
Published 2026-01-16

Create Your Dream Life with Your Vagina

51 min
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I often say that my vagina created my life. I've learned how to tap into the power of my sexual, pro-creative energy and use that to “birth” my life and projects with. And so can you. 


In this episode: 

  • The fastest way to achieve creative genius
  • What it really means and looks like to “magnetize with feminine energy”
  • Using your vagina and sexual flow to manifest in your life 
  • “My vagina is my doctor and business advisor” 
  • How to do Anami salons as a solo person. People always ask if they need a partner—you don’t 
  • The best psychedelic trip: vaginal orgasms 
  • Well-F**ked All Star Ondrea on the road to surrender and living in feminine energy

My legendary Vaginal Kung Fu Salon is now open for registration. 


In this 10-week online salon, I've compiled the best of my 30 years of sexual and vaginal experience (!) to take you over the edge into a lifetime of bliss. We cover everything talked about in today’s episode, from yoni massage to how to use the jade yoni egg, to activating your feminine energy as the receiver in your life—all of which bring you into your creative genius.


You'll learn:

  • How to have a toned, orgasmic and ecstatic vagina;
  • How to channel your sexual energy into creative power
  • Step-by-step instructions for your vaginal weight lifting practice, thereby putting yourself in the running for the Guinness Record for world’s strongest vagina;
  • My guided routine for giving yourself, or having your partner give you, a healing and activating yoni massage.
  • How to give your man a hand job. With your vagina. An essential life skill for all. 

To signup, go to Vaginal Kung Fu

http://kimanami.com/vaginal-kung-fu

Published 2026-01-08

Coming Off HRT with Vaginal Kung Fu

63 min
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Look ma! No hormones! 

These kinds of stories are my favorite. The ones that showcase the direct impact that being well-fucked, awakening your vagina and activating your sexual energy has on your life.

Milena had PCOS and was experiencing “peri-menopause” symptoms in her 30s.


She was, of course, bombarded with the allopathic narrative of “There is no cure for you. All you can do is learn to manage your symptoms with drugs. Forever.”

No thanks. I’ll pass on the snake oil.

She found my work, and dared to believe that she could heal herself.

Or more accurately, that her vagina could heal her.

And it did.

In this episode:

  • Do shamans have HRT in the jungle?
  • Hot flashes, irritability and sleep disturbances—gone!
  • No more hormones or even herbs—nothing but good fucking
  • PCOS remedied through using the jade egg
  • Finding your inner sex monster underneath “I’m just one of those people with a low libido. I’m just not that sexual…”
  • Evaporating a UTI instantly with VKF tools
  • The life-changing power of vaginal orgasms: G-Spot, squirting and cervical
  • How a control freak surrenders
  • Squirting across the bed as #goals. Oh, and squirting is not pee! Just ask anyone who has ever squirted.
  • Lubrication went from Sahara Desert to major waterfalls
  • “We have more sex when we need more money. It always comes.”
  • Time flies during a 3-hour sex date
  • Breasts increasing more than a cup size
  • Weight loss from trauma shedding—literally losing pounds of belly fat overnight
  • Our kids tell us: “You look like two horny teenagers!”

My legendary Vaginal Kung Fu Salon opens for registration on January 14th.


In this 10-week online salon, I've compiled the best of my 30 years of sexual and vaginal experience (!) to take you over the edge into a lifetime of bliss. 


We cover everything talked about in this episode, from yoni massage to how to use the jade yoni egg, to activating your feminine energy as the receiver in your life—all of which bring you into your creative genius.


You'll learn:

  • How to have a toned, orgasmic and ecstatic vagina
  • How to channel your sexual energy into creative power
  • Step-by-step instructions for your vaginal weight lifting practice
  • My guided routine for giving yourself, or having your partner give you, a healing and activating yoni massage.
  • How to give your man a hand job. With your vagina.

Go to Vaginal Kung Fu to get on the waitlist and be notified of when we open the doors. In the meantime, you’ll receive my free masterclass: Manifest Men, Money and Miracles with Your Vagina. 

We need love too! 

It’s really hard being in this category. 


Seriously, it is. 


A lot of hard work. Like, every day. 

Hours spent surfing, swimming, going to the gym, running, fucking, doing inner emotional processing, clearing blocks and having orgasms. 

Being a visible minority like this is tough, but there are a lot of benefits.

 

I'l tell you all about it in the episode: 

  • Being fit and well-f**ked as the ultimate status symbols  
  • Where did all the “fat acceptance” people go? 
  • My primary love languages—that no one ever talks about 
  • Are toned arms a sign of privilege?? 🤡
  • Flab on the body = flab on the mind 
  • The formula to being well-fucked
  • Lube and the downfall of America 
  • Former alcoholics and drug addicts make the best fitness rock stars 
  • The spiritual cost of shortcuts and Band-Aids 
  • Join the legendary league of the well-fucked 

The elite club of well-fucked people trains here:
https://kimanami.com/sexual-savant-salons/

Published 2025-12-19

Study Bros and Hormone Hoes

26 min
Open

Study bros, hormone hoes and biohacking bitches vs. my orgasms.

“OH LOOK A NEW STUDY CAME OUT AND NOW HRT IS REALLY ACTUALLY SAFE!” 

“Look at my peptide stack!” 

“I need all these machines and tests to tell me what’s happening in my own body” 

“I give my blood away in an ancient ritual every month to a stranger to be DNA and data-farmed and I call it empowerment!” 

Not even remotely interested. 

I f**k and heal myself instead. 

In this episode: 

  • Is “biohacking” just…taking drugs? 
  • Are all the “study bros” alpha males or just beta bitches? 
  • Hire a whore/commission a “study” 
  • Pledging allegiance to the gods of “science” 
  • Hey there’s a new study vindicating HRT. Are you excited?!?
  • Internal reliance vs. external outsourcing
  • Is taking drugs for your entire life a solution or a Band-Aid? 
  • The magical f**k rules over all 
Published 2025-11-07

Should Love Feel Safe?

17 min
Open

On the heels of my last podcast, talking about intense chemistry and whether it’s a green or red flag, today I’m talking about the idea that relationships ought to be “SAFE”. 


I hear this word tossed around A LOT now. 


Everyone's talking about nervous system resetting and how SAFETY is the holy grail we all ought to apparently be looking for. 


I don’t think it’s safety we’re after. It’s something else entirely. 

Published 2025-10-24

Is Chemistry a Red Flag?

13 min Transcript
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Is heart-fluttering chemistry necessary or is it "toxic"?

Lately, I’ve heard some people say that chemistry is DANGEROUS! TOXIC! Run away! Red flag! 

Ridiculous. Tell me you’ve never had life-changing sex before without telling me. 

Chemistry is the reaction. The friction, the spark. You need it in order to create any kind of growth.

“Meh” isn’t chemistry and “meh” isn’t going to change your life.


In today’s episode: 

  • What is chemistry? 
  • Why it’s essential in every important relationship in your life  
  • When chemistry actually can be a red flag 
  • Intensity and passion vs. “calm” in relationship 
  • Safety and risk in relationship: no risk, no reward? 
  • The ideal conditions for relationship alchemy 
  • “But we’re such good buddies! We make such good partners!” Yeah, but are you fucking each other? Ever?
  • The root causes of reproductive issues 
Published 2025-10-07

Why I've Never Dated

20 min
Open

I’ve never dated anyone. Never been on a dating site. 

My experiences in the early stages of romance and relationships have always been intense, wild and unmistakable. 

I’ve seen something reposted a few times lately, an idea that people seem to be in awe of, that’s been the story of my life: 

“What’s crazy is that real lovers don’t even do talking stages. All it takes is one good date and suddenly y’all are together every day after that.” 


Yeah. This is how it’s always been for me. I EXPECT big love, big feeling, a whole-hearted, whole-vagina, whole-soul response to someone. 


Nothing less. Why would I waste my time on anything BUT that? 

In this episode:  

  • Since I don’t “date” here’s what I do instead
  • The morass of modern dating and my advice on how to navigate it 
  • Humans vs. superhumans
  • Jen Okazaki weighs in (iykyk) 
  • When you know you know 
  • People who marry for every other reason other than deep passion and what they look like 5, 10, 15 years down the road—I would know because I see them all the time 
  • Recognizing soul mates—or at least the people who hold vital learning for you here and now 
  • Shakespearean-Romantic-poet-epic-saga-love and nothing less 
  • Courage and boldness in love 
  • Death by a thousand cuts of cowardice 
Published 2025-09-12

Be a Man with a Plan

85 min
Open

“Be ready at 8. I’ll pick you up. Wear a cocktail dress.”

Is music to a woman’s ears. 

And her vagina.

IT NEVER GETS OLD. 

Be a man with a plan.  Take the lead. Initiate. Be bold. 


You can—and ought to—do this throughout your relationship. This applies to early stages all the way through 30 years of marriage. Be the man so that she doesn’t have to be. 

I’m speaking with Well-F**ked All Star Jim in today’s episode: 

  • Orgasm without ejaculation and sexual mastery earns your woman’s respect
  • One of the most fantastic examples of a man with a plan. Ever. 
  • Men and purpose. Why you need it and how it transforms your masculine self. 
  • Turning around a polarity dynamic and seizing the lead as the masculine 
  • Self-love is the biggest block you can clear to quantum leap your growth

Sexual Mastery for Men is open NOW for registration!


In my 8-week online signature salon for men, you’ll learn: 

  • How to last longer in bed
  • Orgasms without ejaculation 
  • How to use your sexual energy and relationship as a power source in your life 
  • How to achieve the deeper, vaginal orgasms for women. 
  • Organically grown cock lengthening and strengthening exercises 
  • How to lead and occupy your uber masculine and alpha self.
  • And much more. 

This ultimate Supercock training. Everything you need to Dickmatize your woman and dominate in your life.

Sign up now at kimanami.com/stamina 

Published 2025-08-29

9 Qualities of a Modern Alpha Male

27 min
Open

I’ve forever been a champion and aficionado of the re-emergence and love of all things holy, fuckable and wild: 

The alpha male. 

There’s been so much noise and distortion over the past decades on “toxic masculinity”. 

The only thing toxic about masculinity is the absence of it. 

In this interview with Ben, our Well-F**ked All Star we also spoke to last week in part 1 of our conversation, he speaks on his journey to define and embody the modern alpha male. 

In this episode: 

  • 9 qualities of the modern alpha male 
  • The price of admission to true masculinity 
  • Are alpha males born or made?
  • The vulnerable and tender masculine
  • Keeping your woman well-f**ked: an essential alpha male characteristic
  • THE #1 trait of an alpha male

If you’re ready to tap into your alpha Supercock energy in all areas of your life, check out my Sexual Mastery for Men Salon! In my 8-week online program for men, you'll learn:

  • Orgasms without ejaculation: every man can
  • How to last longer in bed and have complete control
  • How to use your sexual energy as a power source, increasing your vitality, confidence and cash flow
  • Organically grown cock: boost your length, girth and strength
  • Orgasmapedia: the guide to all female orgasms
  • Owning your dominant, divine and dark masculine energy. Alphas for everyone. 

Everything you need to level up in your sexual mastery and dominate in your life!

Signup now

Published 2025-08-22

Softcock to Supercock

50 min
Open

Forgettable to formidable—how a once underwhelming 🍆 became a bedroom and life force majeure.

**

The cock is the ultimate barometer of the man. 

When a man is fully occupying his masculine power and his sexual self, we see this reflected in her erection: 

Strong. Unwavering. Solid. Rising to its full potential. 

Bursting at the seams. 

When a man is shying away from his true nature and strength, we also see this in a cock that limp, lifeless, un-occupied, soft and weak. 

Like begets like. 

Strong, sexually aware man = strong, sexually sentient cock. 


In this episode:

  • Four essential qualities of Supercock
  • Well-F**ked All Star Ben’s journey from Softcock to Supercock 
  • Religious upbringing and shame 
  • The only acceptable answer is “fuck yes” 
  • Is your cock small? 
  • Sex week in Puerto Rico and sex on a jetski 
  • Occupying your cock 
  • Cock worship: “She cannot get enough of my cock” 
  • Growing cock. Organically. 
  • Orgasms without ejaculation
  • “We can f**k for a couple hours now”
  • Communication during sex 
  • Anami Alchemia Sex Nectars and Crystal Elixirs for breakthroughs
  • What to do when a woman is in her masculine 

If you’re ready to become a legendary Supercock slayer in all areas of your life, check out my Sexual Mastery for Men Salon!

In my 8-week online program for men, you'll learn:

  • Orgasms without ejaculation: every man can
  • How to last longer in bed and have complete control
  • How to use your sexual energy as a power source, increasing your vitality, confidence and cash flow
  • Organically grown cock: boost your length, girth and strength
  • Orgasmapedia: the guide to all female orgasms
  • Owning your dominant, divine and dark masculine energy

Everything you need to dickmatize your woman and dominate in your life!

Are you a Supercock? Take the quiz to find out

https://kimanami.com/stamina

Published 2025-08-15

10 Steps to Sexual Mastery for Men

16 min
Open

These are the essential skills that every man needs to be a well-f**ked man, and to create a well-f**ked woman. 


The good news? They are all learnable. 


From cock size (yep, adjusable), to marathon sex to mastering the mighty and elusive female orgasm, it’s all here.

My Sexual Mastery for Men 8-week online salon is the ultimate guide to living, loving and f**king in a male body.

We cover:

  • Orgasms without ejaculation: every man can
  • How to last longer in bed and have complete control
  • Organically grown cock: boost your length, girth and strength
  • A penile weight lifting routine
  • Orgasmapedia: the guide to all female orgasms
  • Embodying your masculine energy to lead in your relationship and your life

Are you a sexually masterful man? Take the quiz to find out!

Go to: kimanami.com/stamina


Published 2025-07-11

Wealthy and Well-F**ked

15 min
Open

My vagina makes money. 


In this episode: 

  • How I went from hand-to-mouth to creating my business empire
  • The relationship that changed everything for me 
  • The biggest thing I did in my business to make it rain down in cash 
  • Why being a well-f**ked woman is your biggest money maker
  • What the universe wants from you in order to become mega-rich

Everything you need to master your sexual healing, self-expression and yoni cash manifesting skills is in my Well-F**ked Woman Salon, which is open now and closes for registration tonight! 


In this 10-week online salon, we cover: 

  • How to use your sexual energy to manifest men, money and miracles in your life
  • Step-by-step instructions for the deeper vaginal orgasms: G-Spot, cervical and squirting
  • Breast massage to tone, lift and activate the orgasmic potential of the breasts
  • How to transform challenging menstruation, PMS and menopause into blissful portals
  • Natural lubrication from the inside out
  • Cock whispering tutorials in oral and manual pleasure for him 
  • And much more.

Go to kimanami.com/wet to register now. 

Published 2025-07-04

Honesty: the New Lube

62 min
Open

“An increase in wetness to tsunami proportions.” ~ Joanne

“Now all I have to do is talk to him on the phone and I’m dripping to my knees.” ~ 61-year-old Michelle
“I am constantly aroused and wet. I love my juices and can have an orgasm without touching myself.” ~ Tia

How do you like them tsunamis? 


This is the normal state of vaginas for EVERY woman. 


One of the Anami cardinal rules is: No Lube for Women. Because all women, at EVERY stage of their lives, are capable of producing their own natural lubrication.


In this episode: 

  • The only physical reason why you may not be wet 
  • Is lube really a girl’s best friend? 
  • Connection + flow = wetness
  • How long can you go without sex before it impacts your relationship?
  • Are you surrendering or sabotaging?
  • Can you pick your vagina out of a lineup?
  • Loving your man’s cock into growing bigger
  • “What makes a woman irresistible? Self-love.”
  • The newest and best beauty injectable 

My legendary WFW salon is open for registration NOW!


In this 10-week online and in-your-bed immersion I've compiled the best of my 30 years of orgasmic experience (!) to take you over the edge into a lifetime of bliss.

You'll learn:

- Step-by-step instructions for the deeper vaginal orgasms: G-Spot, cervical and squirting

- How to transform challenging menstruation, PMS and menopause into blissful portals

- Self-pleasuring 101 and how to channel sexual energy into creative genius
- Natural lubrication from the inside out 

- Using your feminine essence to build a life of flow, ease and pleasure

- Breast massage to tone, lift and activate the orgasmic potential of the breasts

- How to give your man enlightened blow jobs and hand jobs

Signup at kimanami.com/wet 

Published 2025-06-27

Yo, Libido! Wherefore art Thou?

48 min
Open

Every woman has a high libido. Every woman—once sensually switched on—is an endless well of insatiable desire and pleasure. 


I guarantee it.

What does it take to switch her on and make her come alive? 

In today’s episode we talk all things libido boosting.  I assert that once awakened, women are actually more sexual than men, with greater appetites and MUCH greater stamina. 

Well-F**ked All Star Teresa joins me and we talk: 

  • Living at an 8 or 9 sexual simmer as a woman’s natural state 
  • The connection between libido and your life purpose 
  • “What do you want for Xmas? More orgasms”
  • Using Meditate, Masturbate, Create to channel your sexual energy into your life, business and cash flow 
  • The source of a low libido is anything but physical. Meaning postpartum, menopause and any other physical condition are not the reason 
  • The hallmark of the well-f**ked woman: not giving a f**k 
  • Business opportunities falling into one’s lap—because “the lap” is what attracts them 
  • From 20-minute sex sessions to 3-day sex dates 

The Well-F**ked Woman Salon is now open!  In this 10-week sensual mastery program for women, you’ll learn: 

  • Self-pleausring 101 
  • How to use Meditate, Masturbate, Create to channel your sexual energy into your life and projects 
  • How to boost your libido naturally 
  • How to have all the deeper vaginal orgasms: G-Spot, squirting and cervical 
  • How to use your feminine energy to achieve in the world 
  • How surrender is the most powerful tool you have for linking up with the cosmic and creative flow of the universe 
  • Natural birth control and hormone free solutions for difficult periods and menopause 
  • My full tutorials on cock whispering, including my oral and manual playbook 

Signup at www.kimanami.com/wet

Published 2025-06-20

Vixen in the Boardroom

70 min
Open

How do you actually achieve things while you’re in your feminine energy? How do you especially do this in a situation, like a job or workplace that is typically dominated by men? 


Annette, our Well-F**ked All Star articulates it so well. 


She works as a CEO in high-level positions and she’s found how the more she’s connected to her feminine—and her sensual, wet and orgasmic, no-panties wearing self—she’s more successful and achieves more than ever.


In this episode: 

  • Leading from the heart and feminine
  • New corporate dress code: miniskirts and no underwear
  • Feminine energy evoking masculine leadership and protection 
  • Before Anami Land: one orgasm. After Anami Land: “50 or 100 orgasms in a play session. I can choose cervical, G-spot, clitoral, or breast orgasm. I’ve even had neck-gasms!”
  • “My breasts are bigger; my waist is smaller. My hair is shinier.”
  • Doing intimacy work solo when your partner refuses the call 
  • Self-prescribing specific orgasms for different emotional states
  • The secret to blissful, sexier-than-ever mid-life and menopause? Being well-f**ked. “I’m 49. I’m coming into the land of perimenopause and menopause, and the whole world will tell you that this is a time where I should be drying up and nothing should be happening for me, but it is the opposite. I feel more youthful and gorgeous than I ever have in my life.” 

The Well-F**ked Woman Salon opens next week June 25th! In this 10-week online salon for all things female sexual mastery. We cover:
How to boost your libido, clear your blocks and become a sexually insatiable woman

  • Feminine energy and flow: from lubrication, libido and ejaculation to leading with your feminine 
  • The full orgasmapedia of vaginal orgasms: how to have G-Spot, cervical and squirting orgasms.
  • Enlightened blow jobs, deep throating, and manual techniques to make you a champion cock whisperer
  • Self-pleasuring 101
  • Breast massage to tone and lift the breasts
  • Taoist techniques to convert sexual energy into creative energy
  • How to use your sexual energy to heal yourself and your body
  • And much more!

Still unsure if you're ready to dive in? Take the quiz to find out just “How underf**ked are you?"

No matter what stage you're at, there's always another level to go.

www.kimanami.com/wet

Published 2025-06-13

5 Steps to Remove Painful Periods

77 min
Open

For many women, their periods are agonizing experiences. 


For a week out of every month—and longer for some women—they suffer excruciating, fetus-position, vomit-inducing, can’t function, pain-killer guzzling pain. 


This has become normalized for so many people. But it’s not normal. 


What’s “normal” is a blissful, transcendent, portal-opening, inner wisdom downloading and sensual experience and some of the best sex of your life. 


Yes. THIS is normal. 


In this episode we chat with Well-F**ked All Star Tia, who went from having fainting, vomiting pain in her periods, to them now being blissful and psychedelic. 

  • Periods as the ultimate power portals 
  • Your womb and vagina creative conduits
  • “I don’t need chocolate. I need to get f**ked.” 
  • 5 steps to transform your periods into bliss
  • Your psychedelic access point 
  • The relationships between unresolved trauma and painful periods 
  • Period sex as the greatest healer 

In The Well-F**ked Woman Salon, you’ll learn my full orgasmapedia guide to all the deeper vaginal orgasms, including G-Spots, squirting and cervical. This is the ultimate guide to being well-f**ked, f**kable and unf**kwithable at any age and stage.

In this 10-week online program, you’ll learn all the tools you need to channel your sexual energy and use it for it’s true purpose: as pro-creative energy you can use to heal, alchemize and build your life and body with.

You’ll learn:

 - How to attain the deeper vaginal orgasms: G-Spot, cervical and squirting

- Self-pleasuring 101 and how to channel sexual energy into creative genius and cash that falls into your lap

- How to transform challenging menstruation, PMS and menopause into blissful portals

- Using your feminine essence to build a life of ease and pleasure

- Breast massage to tone, lift and activate the orgasmic potential of the breasts

- How to give your man enlightened blow jobs and hand jobs

The salon opens for registration June 25th. You can check out the free preview video series and be notified of when the doors open by going to The Well-F**ked Woman Salon.

Published 2025-06-06

50, F**kable and UnF**kwithable

22 min
Open

A new epoch is upon us. There are f**kable 50 year olds on TV and in movies. 

From some big-name actresses to some online “influencers” there is a small cadre of women changing the narrative. 

Including me.

When the previous role models women have as 50-year-olds are Carrie Bradshaw wetting the bed, getting hip replacements and being frumpy as f**k, someone has to show them what else is possible. 

IT ME!

In this episode: 

  • 4 things I do to stay f**kable and unf**kwithable 
  • I’m HRT free. What am I doing different? 
  • Aging tropes that are *aging* and how I rewrite the narrative 
  • Anami style: bold living at any age and stage 
  • How I got down to my high school weight 
  • The x factor 
  • My top protein sources 
  • My exercise formula 
  • Difficult menstruation and menopause are caused by ONE main thing 
  • The psychedelic portals of menstruation and menopause  

Follow my new Instagram and TikTok for Anami Style. This new account focuses on fashion, fitness, food, health, travel and bold living at any age and stage.

@anamistyle on Instagram

@anamistyle on TikTok

In The Well-F**ked Woman Salon, you’ll learn my full orgasmapedia guide to all the deeper vaginal orgasms, including G-Spots, squirting and cervical. This is the ultimate guide to being well-f**ked, f**kable and unf**kwithable at any age and stage.

Check out the free preview videos series with techniques to have full-body orgasms and to be notified of when the salon opens.

www.kimanami.com/wet


Published 2025-05-26

I'm so F**king Hot for Myself!

37 min
Open

“I can’t wait to come home and… fuck myself!” 


 “I daydream all day about fucking…myself!” 


“I’m counting the minutes until I can get back into bed with…myself!” 


“I get wet just thinking about fucking…myself!” 


I LOVE THIS so much. 


One of the things we LOVE hearing about in the journeys of our Well-F**ked All Stars is when they fall madly, passionately in love with each other.  And themselves. 


When they describe this smouldering fire of self-love and desire, they use the same kind of language and energy as if they were talking about the relationship with their lover: 


Especially from women—men seem to have an easier time and much more permission to develop a sexual relationship—read: wanking—with themselves.


Many women have never put their fingers in their own vaginas. 


Many women think that self-pleasuring is boring and just “not for them”. 


Many women have no idea of the geography of their own anatomy, or what turns them on. 


Know thyself. The keys to the queendom are found… in your vagina. 


In this episode: 

  • The ultimate “love yourself first before you can find a parter”: loving and knowing your vagina
  • 5 tools for mastering self-love and orgasms
  • Doing Anami work alone 
  • Raising your frequency to attract a higher caliber partner in your next relationship 
  • The catharsis of vaginal orgasms: forget therapy and go f**k yourself instead 
  • Working hard at manifesting and achieving vs. getting well-f**ked and being magnetic instead 
  • The life-changing benefits of f**king the shit out of yourself

Join your squirting, orgasmic, well-f**ked women tribe.

In the Well-F**ked Woman, which is my 10-week online Salon for all things female sexual mastery, you’ll receive my full tutorials on:

  • Increasing your feminine magnetism and charisma
  • Enlightened oral, manual and deep throating techniques to make you a champion cock whisperer 
  • The full orgasmapedia of vaginal orgasms: how to have G-Spot, cervical and squirting orgasms
  • Self-pleasuring 101
  • How to transform challenging menstruation, PMS and menopause into blissful portals
  • Breast massage to tone, lift and enlarge the breasts
  • Taoist techniques to convert sexual energy into creative energy 
  • How to use your sexual energy to heal yourself and your body 
  • And much more! 

You can check out the free video preview series and take the quiz and find out ARE YOU UNDERF**KED?

Sign up NOW for my free video series to become a Well-F**ked Woman!

Published 2025-05-16

Why I Love to Be F**ked Soft

12 min
Open

I’ve connected as deeply with my partners in a wild, intense, thrash of an encounter as we have in hours-long micro-movements. 


Slow. Soft. 


Maybe even more deeply in the softness. 


So many people rush through penetration. The average sexual encounter is—actually the majority of them—are under 10 minutes. 


ANYONE rushing through sex is afraid of going deep. Of really connecting and being seen. 


In slower, softer sex, there is no hiding. You reveal—and your partner sees—every millimeter, every cell of you. 


It’s like being split open and every dark nook and cranny of your being is exposed to the most radiant, healing light. 


These multi-hour experiences have been some of the most powerful of my life. 


Hours go by like minutes. Nothing is rushed. Everything is savored. We enter into a trance and connect in multiple dimensions. 


It’s interstellar sex. 


And I’ll tell you all about what that’s like for me in today’s episode. 







A soft fuck is usually by default a slow fuck. 


A soft and slow fuck expands time. 


Nothing is rushed. Everything is savored. 
 
 Hours go by like minutes. 


We enter into a trance and connect in multiple dimensions. 


It’s interstellar sex. 







Published 2025-05-09

Why I Love to Be F**ked Hard

12 min
Open

Sometimes—oftentimes—I need to get really pounded. 


I need to get thrust all over the bed, I need to be grabbing sheets and bed frames and chair backs for ballast so I don’t go flying.


I need a man to show me just how wild and powerful and relentless he can be.


I especially need the hard stuff when something is stuck in me and I’m looking for a way to dislodge it.


It could be a specific emotion that’s just lingering below the surface, like anger or sadness.


I need someone to hold me down and fuck me.


The best lovers do this for each other.


You hold each other down and love the fuck out of each other.


And fuck the shit out of each other—and by this I mean headboard-slamming sex and I also mean that by fucking each other with such intense love and admiration, you literally fuck the demons out of them. 

Published 2025-05-02

5 Ways to Become a Multi-Orgasmic Couple

70 min
Open

Coming together: the holy grail of being sexually in sync for a couple. 

It’s easy when both of you are having dozens of orgasms in a session. 

In today’s all star interview with Chris and Sara: 

Chris: “I can orgasm without ejaculation dozens of times in our sessions. We had one four-hour session where she had 37 orgasms. The G-spot, it’s my best friend. I can’t believe how it’s orgasm after orgasm. I fucking love the G-spot.”

Multiple orgasms indeed. 


In this episode: 

  • 5 ways to orgasm together 
  • Transitioning from clitoral to G-Spot and cervical orgasms 
  • “Anal play was easier than we thought!”
  • Orgasms clearing ancestral trauma 
  • The power of worshipping your partner’s genitals 
  • Having two hours of sex every day 
  • Embodying more masculine and feminine energies 
  • Your orgasms are a barometer for your connection 
  • Slowing down in sex to awaken 
  • Evolving from technique into pure flow and intuitive sexual brilliance 
  • Bringing back the primal, throw-you-down attraction

EVERY couple can be having hours of sex, energy sex, multi-orgasmic sex, 20, 30, 40 orgasms in a session sex, and be turned on by each other for decades. 


It's the Anami Guarantee. 


I walk you through how to get there, step by step, in the Coming Together for Couples Salon. This is my 10-week online program for couples where you’ll learn everything from: 

  • How to have wild, 10-hours long Tantric sex 
  • How to communicate from the heart and genitals to achieve deep vulnerability 
  • Step by step guided lingam and yoni massage 
  • Techniques to achieve all the deeper orgasms in women: G-spot, squirting and cervical 
  • Achieving superstar stamina in men: being able to have full control over when you orgasm 
  • Or IF you do: I’ll also teach you how to orgasm without ejaculation 
  • Feminine and masculine polarity to amplify these energies in your life and bed, This is the secret to the hottest—and lifelong—sexual chemistry 

To signup, go to kimanami.com/lovers


Published 2025-04-25

Cock Cured My Depression

45 min
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Cock is medicine. Sex is medicine.

But not just any cock or any sex. We’re talking high-caliber, high-performing cocks full of love. Well-occupied cock that knows who it is and what it’s here to do. Cock that obliterates a woman and slays all her demons.

The kind of cock that replaces addictive behaviours, loses weight, turns anger into patience and depression into action.

I speak to my clients—and I know from my own experiences—that the stuff they've struggled with and applied so much willpower to—with no success—and tried so hard to fix with their minds and best efforts...all of that fell flat.

Until they got well-f**ked.

In today’s episode, we’re speaking with Well-F**ked All Star Keisha.


I LOVE her story. She shares openly about the impact of being an underf**ked woman who was about to start taking antidepressants.


And then some Supercock came along. And all was well in the world again.

In this episode we cover:

  • “I was a raging bitch and a ballbuster!”
  • What a woman wants her man to do when she’s emasculating him
  • “Birth control sent me into the depths of hell”
  • A numb vagina meets a jade egg
  • “I had a prescription for Zoloft in my hand”
  • Diving deep into stuff they never talked about in seven years
  • Sobriety as a tool to go deeper
  • Arguments cease in a well-f**ked world
  • Restoring the natural masculine/feminine polarity
  • How long can you go without sex in a well-f**ked relationship before you notice the disturbance?
  • The healing power of yoni and lingam massages
  • Tossing the vibrator forever
  • Multiple G-Spot orgasms for her
  • His orgasm is “a thousand times more powerful than it was before.”
  • The better option to prescription antidepressants or hormones or weight loss drugs
  • “Every time, it gets better. Every time we think that the last time was the best time, then the next time beats it.”
  • Two people coming together as one person

THE COMING TOGETHER FOR COUPLES SALON IS NOW OPEN!

10 weeks to gourmet, life-changing sex!

In my online signature program for creating conscious relationships and quantum sex you’ll learn: 

  • Sexual reflexology and massage techniques for the yoni and lingam 
  • My prescription guide for different sexual positions to heal various ailments 
  • Tantric and Taoist techniques to harness your sexual energy and use it for healing, rejuvenation and creative genius 
  • How to have multiple, full-body and energy orgasms 
  • Supercock stamina techniques for men 
  • Amplifying masculine and feminine polarity to increase your chemistry attraction: going from buddies to headboard slammers 
  • And all my secrets to coming together

https://kimanami.com/lovers

Published 2025-04-18

21st Century Tantra

18 min
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Sometimes people ask me if I can recommend a Tantra teacher. 

I tell them I am one. I’ve been studying and practicing Tantra for over 30 years. 

Just because I dress well and don’t wear sarongs as an outfit in public, or hold my hands up in prayer all the time, doesn’t mean I don’t do Tantra. 

I do a modern, sophisticated version of it. I remove the fluff and cut to the chase. 

Don’t let the lack of incense and Mrs. Roper caftans fool you. 

In this episode: 

  • 6 steps for creating a Tantric relationship 
  • Healing sexual positions and sex as medicine 
  • Slow sex to go deep 
  • Vulnerability is the best armour 
  • Quick sex as a fear of intimacy 
  • Tantric telepathy between lovers 
  • Building up your pleasure endurance. How good can you take it? How much ecstasy can you receive? 
  • The #1 most important sexual skill men can cultivate 

My Coming Together for Couples Salon is Tantra 101 and Tantra 1001 nights. In this 10-week online salon, you’ll learn: 

  • How to harness the healing and creative power of your sexual energy 
  • Sexual reflexology maps of the genitals 
  • My sexual position prescription guide 
  • The full orgasmapedia—all of the life-changing vaginal orgasms for women 
  • Superstar stamina techniques for men to last for hours 
  • How to shift unconscious patterns that keep repeating once and for all, so that they never repeat
  • How to transmute your sexual energy into more cash and abundance in your lives 

Registration is open now until. Signup: https://kimanami.com/lovers

The ultimate goal in a well-f**ked couple is to be open to each other all the time. Always humming with erotic energy. 


Knowing looks. Skirt raises. Come hither fingers. A gentle ass braise as you walk past. A five-minute make out session before dinner. A blow job in the car on the way to the dinner. 


This is what it looks like when your well-f**ked energy now fuels your lives. 


In this episode, Ida and her partner went from lackluster sex to an elevated sex life that is now able to: 

  • Heal her sexual trauma 
  • Grow his cock 
  • Make them richer 
  • Instantly remove her chronic vaginal pain 
  • Transform him into an alpha male 
  • Ignite her inner insatiability, so she wants sex all the time 
  • Have her find God
  • Drop excess body weight 
  • Calm their children and have them be better behaved
  • Harness this energy to achieve their dreams and goals

Everyone can have this in their lives as their daily reality.

It’s the Anami Guarantee.

***

My Coming Together Salon for Couples opens for registration next week! 


You can signup to our email list to be notified of when the doors open. And, you can receive our free 7-Day Sex Cleanse and get a leg up on all the practices in the salon. 


This 7-day sex date will give you a taste of what we do, with emotional and sexual homeplay for the next week. You’ll learn: 

  • How to keep the simmer going 24/7
  • The almighty G-Spot + Squirting 101
  • Powerful stamina techniques for him 

Signup here:
https://kimanami.com/coming-together-couples-salon/

Published 2025-04-04

How to Transmute Sexual Energy as a Couple

88 min
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Through my work, I’ve seen people self-heal everything from fibroids, cysts and endometriosis, to erectile issues to difficult periods and menopause and depression to massive weight loss (orgasms over Ozempic, yo!).

How?

By transmuting their sexual energy. They learn to consciously harvest this energy and direct it into their bodies and their lives.

We’ve seen people revitalize their careers, magnetize massive business opportunities and boost their income exponentially.

Remember our Multi-Million Dollar Blow Job episode? How could you ever forget? 

We’ve also watched people alchemize their trauma—even deep sexual abuse—through this work. 

THAT’S how powerful it is.

You can do every one of these things through the power of the holy fuck.

In today’s episode, we’re speaking with Well-F**ked All Star couple Colleen and Jessie.

They’ve learned to consciously direct their sexual energy and use it for everything from physical healing in their bodies (deep throating for the win!) and channeling this energy into their careers to make more cash.

We cover: 

  • Life with three young kids and daily sex 
  • Religious upbringing: Sex is God’s gift vs. it’s shameful and bad 
  • Alchemizing stuck blocks 
  • Throat and voice restrictions 
  • Radical honesty
  • What happens when a masculine woman meets a man more masculine than her? 
  • “He’s got it. He’s got me. I can completely trust him.” 
  • Daily sex. At least once a day. 
  • “The day normally starts off with some sort of blow job. That’s the wake-up.” 
  • Plugging into each other for energy 
  • Well-f**ked parents = well-behaved children 
  • “Even though there’s a storm of life going around me, I have a centering point. My penis is my centering point.”
  • “Colleen might have had a rough day and she’ll say, “I need to suck your cock for five minutes and then go make dinner.”
  • Band-Aids and quick fixes vs. permanent healing

Signup for the free 7-Day Sex Cleanse.
A weeklong sex date. Anami-Style. Each day, you'll receive homeplay to deepen into each other emotionally and sexually.

Side effects of this 7-Day Sex Cleanse may include: 

  • Ejaculate-soaked bed sheets
  • Broken bed frames
  • Being fully energized by each other's life force energy
  • Clearing of relationship blocks
  • Stronger stamina
  • Increasing trust, intimacy and openness
  • Sky-rocketing libidos

Signup here.
https://kimanami.com/lovers

What happens when you say the magic words? The ones that open hearts and legs? 


Your whole world and woman change. 

She transforms from tight and tense and naggy to open, flowing and free and your biggest support and secret weapon in all of your life. 


Try having a productive day at work when you’ve just had a massive fight with your woman that morning. 


Now try having a productive day at work when she’s woken you up with a blow job. 


Getting and keeping your woman sexually and emotionally open and available to you is the life, business and high-performance hack you never knew you needed. 


**

Join my free 7-day Sex Cleanse for Couples!


In this 7-day relationship renewal sex cleanse, you and your partner will explore:

  • Foreplay for epic sex
  • How to open her up, and keep her open
  • The art of all-night love making
  • Occupy your masculinity and your cock 
  • What weekly 3-hr sex dates will do to your relationship
Published 2025-03-11

How to Invite Your Partner into Anami Land

13 min
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So you’ve discovered Anami Land! And now you want your partner to as well. 


How do you get them onboard to create your most epic sex life and fulfilling relationship? One where each of you is having life-changing, psychedelic orgasms and using your relationship as the power source that fuels your lives and elevates everything in your world. 


In this episode I’ll walk you through how to bring them into the fold, including: 

  • How to frame the conversation to open them to these ideas, rather than trigger their defences
  • Moving out of the norm of mediocre relationship into being the most well-f**ked couple around 
  • A curated list of podcast episodes to share with them
  • What to do if they resist the call 

In addition to the podcast episodes I’m suggesting, which you can find on this page: 


kimanami.com/invitepartner

You can also signup for my free 7-Day Sex Cleanse that includes exercises you can practice together daily. 


Are you into group sex? Are you having regular threesomes? Is your girlfriend involved in a secret relationship you just can’t compete with? You may be a cuckold to your partner’s vibrator. 

In this episode: 

  • Relationship crutches
  • The problem with vibrators 
  • Are you a cuck? 
  • If you’re having sex and you need to reach for your vibrator to “finish the job”, this is what you need to do 
  • Why do all the lesbian "sexperts" deny the existence of vaginal orgasms? 
  • How to bring a vagina back to life 
  • Building trust and intimacy 
  • We want it primal and messy yo 
  • The only time I ever recommend using a vibrator 

For the ultimate on vaginal self-knowledge, check out my Vaginal Kung Fu Salon.
https://kimanami.com/vaginal-kung-fu/

And, to deepen your intimate connection and truly come together, check out my Coming Together for Couples Salon.
https://kimanami.com/coming-together-couples-salon/


You can find information on both of these, plus free video preview series with exercises you can practice tonight:
https://kimanami.com/sexual-savant-salons/

You’ll see my full array of offerings in the sex school everyone ought to have had. 

Published 2025-01-31

My Yoni Manifested a Man

38 min
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I often use the phrase #poweredbyvagina to describe how I have created my life and manifested my desired reality. From my vagina!


By using my sexual energy as the PRO-creative power source it is. 


Being underfucked isn’t just NOT having sex. It’s not having any clue how to tap into and HARNESS your sexual energy. When people are chronically underfucked, they’ll manifest all sorts of symptoms. 

  • Depression 
  • Anger, irritability 
  • Career and financial stagnation
  • Weight issues, from all the “baggage” you are carrying 
  • All reproductive ailments are symptoms of stuck sexual energy. And I mean all: Difficult periods, PMS and menopause, growths, cysts, PCOS, endometriosis, low libido, lack of lubrication, not having orgasms, or only having clitoral orgasms, erectile issues in men. And the list goes on. 

This is when newly well-fucked people begin using phrases like: 


“It just came to me.” 

“It fell into my lap.”

Because your lap is what attracted it! 


Today we’re talking to Well-F**ked All Star Rosie. 


She’s a manifesting maven. She manifested a year-long work sabbatical, an adorable French apartment, and a scathing hot new man. All from her turned-on vagina. 

**


Vaginal Kung Fu is my legendary 10-week online program is where you learn to awaken and activate your vagina so that it functions as your compass and attractor. 

Registration is open NOW and it closes tonight January 30th at midnight PST. 


In the salon, you’ll become a maestro of all things vaginal and sexual. You’ll learn: 

  • My step-by-step guided vaginal weight lifting routine 
  • Yoni massage to de-numb and activate your vagina 
  • Quantum techniques to clear your blocks and illuminate your sexual shadow
  • Breast massage techniques to tone, lift and enlarge the breasts 
  • Natural birth control and detoxing off The Pill 
  • How to make menstruation and menopause the energizing and rejuvenating portals they were meant to be  
  • How to give a vaginal handjob 
  • How to use your sexual energy to heal yourself, including my sexual position mood guide. 

Signup at Vaginal Kung Fu

Published 2025-01-23

From Painful Sex to Squirting + F**king All Over the House

50 min Transcript
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From never having touched her own vagina and having it feel like "shards of glass" when she tried, to leaving pee pads in every room so she and her husband can f*ck and squirt all over the house. 


Kids happily playing? 


Let’s dash into the bedroom and squirt it all out. 


In today’s episode, Vanessa shares her transformation from sex-fearing Christian and non-self toucher to squirting and yoni-sunning and vaginal orgasm queen. 


She also experienced: 

  • Her breasts becoming fuller
  • Well-f**ked weight loss: “Lose belly fat overnight!”
  • Manifesting cash through sex dates. She and her husband even tried an experiment to see how much they could manifest after each sexual encounter. 
  • Finding her “take no shit” voice in her vagina
  • Getting wet only from the sound of his voice

Vaginal Kung Fu is open for registration NOW and it closes January 31st at midnight PST.

In the salon, you’ll become a maestro of all things vaginal and sexual. You’ll learn:

  • My step-by-step guided vaginal weight lifting routine with the jade yoni egg.
  • Yoni massage to de-numb and activate your vagina
  • Quantum techniques to clear your blocks and illuminate your sexual shadow
  • Breast massage techniques to tone, lift and enlarge the breasts
  • Natural birth control and detoxing off The Pill
  • How to make menstruation and menopause the energizing and rejuvenating portals they were meant to be
  • How to give a vaginal handjob
  • How to use your sexual energy to heal yourself, including my sex position mood guide.

To signup for the salon go to kimanami.com. Look for Sexual Savant Salons and click on Vaginal Kung Fu.


The cervix is where Lucia—and many other women, including me—have found God. 

God doesn’t hang out in the clitoris. Nah. The clitoris is for girls, amateurs and sexually inexperienced and underf**ked so-called sex experts and doctors. It’s child’s play. 


Women f*ck in the vagina, and orgasm via the cervix. This is the zone of self-mastery and god-realization. 


People often ask me if they need to be partnered to go on this journey of sensual exploration. 


Absolutely not.


In fact, being single—unless you have a very switched on and connected partner—will get you there faster because you aren’t negotiating and adapting to another person’s energy and karma, especially if they have resistance. 


In today’s episode, the epically well-f**ked—and single—Lucia shares her journey on finding God in her cervical orgasms and using them to alchemize, heal and fall in love with herself. 


My Vaginal Kung Fu Salon is open for registration NOW and it closes January 31st. In this 10-week online salon, you’ll become a maestro of all things vaginal and sexual. 


You’ll learn: 

  • My step-by-step guided vaginal weight lifting routine to de-numb and activate your vagina so you can make the transition from clit-aholic to cervical orgasm superstar 
  • Yoni massage to resensitize your vagina 
  • Breast massage techniques to tone, lift and enlarge the breasts 
  • How to make menstruation and menopause the energizing and rejuvenating portals they were meant to be  
  • How to transform and alchemize your sexual energy to heal yourself and tap into your creative genius 
  • Natural birth control and detoxing off The Pill
  • And how to give a vaginal handjob  

Signup at Vaginal Kung Fu

Published 2025-01-10

My Vagina Heals Everything

64 min
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Your pro-creative sexual energy and your orgasms are the key to shaping your world. In Anami Land, we’re all about CONSCIOUSLY using this energy to grow and heal and create our lives.


We see people heal their reproductive issues—everything from PMS and difficult periods to ovarian cysts in women and erectile dysfunction and "beta male syndrome" in men to weight loss in both sexes—and they find they can work through much deeper psychological and spiritual themes ranging from sexual abuse to depression. 


Your sexual energy and sexual self become the way and the truth. 


In today’s episode we’re speaking with Jenna. 


She’s an alumni of my Vaginal Kung Fu Salon and has had some epic experiences with her psychedelic oracle vagina that has been the pathway for her most profound healing, transformation and of course, life-changing orgasms. In this episode: 

- Growing into and owning a woman's body
- Yoni gazing and the psychedelic portal opening 
- Releasing trapped memories in the vagina with the jade egg 
- When it's time to go: leaving a relationship that no longer supports growth 
- Solo and multi-orgasmic 
- Well-f**ked weight loss 
- Breast size changing 
- Healing abortion residue 


  • (06:45) - Intro and background story. Puberty to discovering sexual self and shame.
  • (14:23) - Self-healing journey begins
  • (20:55) - Yoni gazing
  • (31:51) - Leaving a relationship not growing and doing the work solo
  • (35:57) - Unlocking memories in the vagina with the jade egg
  • (40:52) - Becoming multi-orgasmic solo
  • (52:50) - Breast transformation and growth
  • (57:17) - Healing abortion residue

My legendary Vaginal Kung Fu Salon opens for registration next week!

This is your step-by-step guide to learn to harness all of the creative, orgasmic and healing potential of your vagina.
 
All of the practices Jenna talks about for cultivating her feminine energy and awakening her vagina to be the ultimate truth-teller and divining rod are what we do in Vaginal Kung Fu


From the jade egg vaginal workouts, to the breast massage routines, self-pleasuring practices and vaginal reconnaissance, it’s all here. 


Plus, all of my quantum techniques for you to clear blockages, dive into sexual shadow work, reset your nervous system from the deepest possible level and and clear the channel so your vagina can function as your ultimate GPS in your life. 


And of course, orgasm giver. 


All this and more in Vaginal Kung Fu.


To check out my free video series “Magnetize Men, Money and Miracles with Your Vagina” and to be notified of when we open the doors for registration, go to Vaginal Kung Fu


And you too, can have a super magnetic, gushing, lubricating, ejaculating, self-healing, creative-genius producing vagina! 

Published 2025-01-03

HRT: Should You Take It?

31 min
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This is a question I get asked ALL THE TIME. 


In the allopathic world, the dominant narrative is that women MUST be hormonally medicated from puberty until death. 


Women are waking up to the idea that *maybe* this isn’t true. 


I am going to make a definitive statement here: 


Menopause is a scam. 


It doesn’t even exist in other cultures. They don’t even have a word for it.


In today’s episode: 

  • The manufacturing of menopause—and the exact date on which it was “created” 
  • Who bankrolled the menopause agenda? 
  • Rigging “studies” to show favourable outcomes on HRT 
  • The six root causes of “menopause” symptoms 
  • How to be rid of any menopausal issues with NO hormones or medication 
  • The spiritual portal of menopause: its true purpose
  • Is menopause really meant to be a giant f*ck fest with women wetter and with higher libidos than ever? 

My Vaginal Kung Fu Salon program opens in two weeks!

In my legendary 10-week online salon, you will learn to master all things vaginal and sexual. Including and especially:

  • How to live an HRT-free life and be wetter and more libidinous than ever.
  • How to supercharge your pussy with a jade egg vaginal weight lifting practice.
  • Self-pleasuring and yoni massage techniques to de-numb and awaken your vagina
  • How to clear decades-old sexual blocks that prevent your from expressing your true sexual nature and self
  • And much more.

To signup for my free video series, How to Manifest Men, Money and Miracles with Your Vagina AND to be notified with we open the doors to the salon, to to Vaginal Kung Fu.

One of the most common recurring ailments for women in the reproductive realm is yeast infections, BV or bacterial vaginosis and UTIs—urinary tract infections.  Where do they come from? Is there a holistic solution to them? 


In this episode: 

  • The root cause of recurring infections 
  • The natural remedies for eradicating them permanently 
  • The Infection Fairy strikes again 
  • Lube is NOT a girl’s best friend 
  • The vaginal voice: how to hear it more clearly 
  • How to feng shui your yoni 
  • 5 qualities of an ATOMIC pussy! 

My legendary Vaginal Kung Fu Salon opens for registration in January. In this 10-week online program, you’ll become a maestro of all things vaginal and sexual. 

You’ll learn: 

  • My step-by-step guided vaginal weight lifting routine with the jade yoni egg 
  • Yoni massage to de-numb and activate your vagina 
  • Quantum techniques to clear your blocks and illuminate your sexual shadow
  • Breast massage techniques to tone, lift and enlarge the breasts 
  • How to make menstruation and menopause the energizing and rejuvenating portals they were meant to be  
  • How to give a vaginal handjob 
  • How to use your sexual energy to heal yourself, including my sex position mood guide. 

To be notified of when the salon opens and also receive my free series “How to Manifest Men, Money and Miracles with Your Vagina”, go to Vaginal Kung Fu

What am I most famous for? 

Lifting a surfboard at Venice Beach, a chandelier in Piazza san Marco in Venice and a piece of the Berlin Wall. At the Berlin Wall. 

With my vagina. 

A lot of you have heard of me because… my vagina precedes me. It travels around the world, surfing, sunning, orgasming. And lifting objects indigenous to various regions. All to showcase just what vaginas can do. 

It’s my assertion that the NORMAL healthy baseline for EVERY vagina is to be able to have multiple orgasms on demand, ejaculate across the room, have a ravenous libido, shoot ping pong balls and lift household furniture. 

Yes. This is NORMAL. EVERY vagina can. 

In this episode: 

  • Eliminating 20 years of urinary incontinence in one week 
  • Why are 60% of American women incontinent? 
  • Why Kegels DON’T work and what does 
  • Why are so many women deathly afraid of trampolines? 
  • Numb vagina = low libido 
  • Vaginal orgasms come easily with a strong vagina 
  • Powerful vaginas ejaculate across the room 
  • The number one physical reason for lack of lubrication 
  • Every woman can shoot vaginal ping pong balls. I guarantee it.
Published 2024-12-13

10 Biggest Sex Scams

27 min
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In my work as a sexologist and a holistic sex and relationship coach—indeed, as the pioneer of the genre—I’m always coming across serious myths and misinformation online about all things sexual. 

Some of it is truly shocking! 

Not only is this information totally wrong, but I’d venture to say that many of these concepts and their attendant so-called “remedies” are massive scams. 

We have an epidemic of snake oil sellers these days. 

Join me in today’s episode as we unmask some dark corners of the internet and unveil some of the true criminals and purveyors of sex hoaxes out there.

Published 2024-12-06

Why I Love Period Sex

12 min Transcript
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I’ve had some of the best sex of my life during my period. What makes this psychedelic portal so sexy and sacred to share with a partner? 

In this episode: 

  • 7 reasons why period sex is THE BEST
  • Are women more ravenous during their periods? 
  • It’s psychedelic, baby! 
  • Cervical portals and inter-dimensional travel
  • Masculine warriors and blood 
  • The male/female sexual quid pro quo 
  • I can’t stand it when he showers 
  • Taboo-smashing for the win 
Published 2024-11-22

No Nut November: Blue Balls or Ballistic?

10 min
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No Nut November: A worthy pursuit? 

We discuss: 

  • Semen retention 
  • NoFap 
  • Orgasm without ejaculation 
  • The remedy for “blue balls” 
  • To porn or not to porn 
  • Running marathons—and even ultramarathons—after sex, giving a whole new twist on “Have LOTS of sex before the big game” 

If you want to dive deeper into the whole Orgasm without Ejaculation topic, also check these episodes where I interview a Well-F**ked All Star who mastered the technique: 

Semen Retention: What’s All the Fuss? Season 6, Episode 25 

All Men Can Orgasm without Ejaculation: Season 4, Episode 28 


And of course, check out Anthony’s episode:

Marathon Man, Marathon Cock: Season  5, Episode 26

And of course, I deliver the goods on how to DO this in my Sexual Mastery for Men Salon and in the Coming Together for Couples Salon.


You can find my full salon programme here. You can signup for free video series and get on the waitlist to be notified of when we open each of these salons again.

Published 2024-11-08

Reproductive Rights on the Line?

38 min
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Who's yo daddy?? 

“Oh no! Some old men won’t let me use my uterus the way I want to!” 

Every few years, this issue becomes a hot topic, and people get their panties in a bunch. 


Why on earth did you give your reproductive power to a bunch of old men? And to be fair, some women too. 

It always floors me to hear so-called feminists and “women’s rights activists” who claim to be all about women’s empowerment, lament how they have no power.  Because they’ve given it all away. 

There is another approach. 

You can maintain your reproductive sovereignty and control over your own body.  Let’s discuss: 

  • The illusion that someone else controls your body 
  • The constant in-doctor-nation telling women they need someone else to tell them what to do 
  • What does it look like to be an actual self and sexually empowered woman. 
  • Owning and taking responsibility for your reproductive and sexual sovereignty—the opposite of OUTSOURCING it to imaginary authorities.

NOTE: this episode is the audio replay of an Instagram LIVE I did. You can watch the video here

Published 2024-11-01

F**k the Pain Away

12 min Transcript
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Sex can be used as an escape, to make you UNconscious. 
 
Or, it can be used to bring you MORE conscious and elevate you and every part of your life. 


We’re all about orgasmic enlightenment in these parts.  


Sex is alchemy. It’s transformation. 


It’s taking your base parts and fusing them into gold. 


You can use sex to help you to move through challenges and emotional and physical pain.


In this episode: 

  • How I f**ked my way out of a brutal breakup 
  • Metabolizing stuck energy to lose weight 
  • Conscious vs. unconscious sex 
  • Science agrees: f**king your pain away is backed by “studies” 
  • How I created one of my most signature pieces of work; via my vagina 

Find my step-by-step, Meditate, Masturbate, Create sequence here


Published 2024-09-13

30 Years and the Sex Is Hotter than Ever

43 min
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One of the biggest sex and relationship myths out there is the notion that lifelong sex is an impossibility. 

In today’s episode, I’m speaking to Well-Fucked All Star Jeff, of the Well-Fucked Couple Jeff and Jen. 

They did a year of Anami, where they signed up for all of my courses and dedicated themselves to up-levelling their sex lives. 


They’ve been together for 30 years. And the sex is hotter. Than. Ever. In our conversation he shares what Anami Well-F**ked Way of Life concepts they’ve taken on and now live by. 


We talk: 

  • Scheduling sex dates and multi-day sex weekend adventures 
  • Communication = lubrication 
  • Making your sex life a priority and realizing how much it feeds your entire life 
  • Overcoming Madonna/whore
  • Losing weight on the Anami Sex Diet: Minus 46 well-f**ked pounds
  • Male G-Spot orgasm accelerator  
  • Superstar, unflappable stamina 
  • Alpha male, alpha female: how do you keep polarity going? 

SEXUAL MASTERY FOR MEN begins this week!

In my 8-week online program for men, you'll learn:

  • How to build Superstar stamina to last for hours.
  • How to own your masculine power and drive and use your sexual energy to boost your business and income.
  • Master everything from communication to vaginal orgasm techniques to make your woman well-f**ked.
  • How to use your sexual energy as a power source, increasing your vitality, confidence and cash flow
  • How to “man up” in today’s anti-masculine climate.

Plus, you'll receive my G-Spot Ecstasy Salonette as a special bonus at the end of the salon.

Jump in. You—and your woman—will ride this wave for years to come.

Sign up here.


Published 2024-09-06

The Pussy Whisperer

27 min
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What Is a Pussy Whisperer? 

A man who knows his way around a woman and a pussy.  He coaxes that pussy into openness and orgasms. 


In today’s episode we have a compilation of some great Well-F**ked All Star pussy whispering clips and they’ll share their own secrets to success. 

And I’ll give you the 7 Golden Rules of Pussy Whispering.

**

If you’re ready to become a legendary Supercock slayer in all areas of your life, check out my Sexual Mastery for Men Salon, which is open NOW! 


In my 8-week online program, you'll learn:

  • How to become the ultimate pussy whisperer
  • Superstar stamina and breathing techniques to last as long as you want 
  • Testicle and cock massage for boosting testosterone and increasing length, strength and girth
  • Tutorials for bringing her to G-Spot, squirting and cervical orgasms 
  • How to occupy your uber-masculine energy in bed and in life 

And so much more.


Signup now: Sexual Mastery for Men. 

Published 2024-08-30

Semen Retention: What's All the Fuss?

42 min
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No, men, I am NOT coming for your orgasm. In fact, I want you to have better, bigger, wilder orgasms that get you high. 

And also: 

  • Make you more money and advance your career 
  • Make you more alpha and less beta
  • Increase your Axe-Factor attractiveness to women
  • Boost your fitness and make you able to pump harder at the gym
  • Make you into a legendary Supercock who can go for hours and deliver multiple, life-changing orgasms to your woman

You in?

So how do you do it? Orgasm without ejaculation.

Yes, you can. Every man can.

In today’s episode I speak with Sexual Mastery for Men alumni and Well-F**ked All Star Todd. He mastered orgasm without ejaculation in the salon and now has:   

  • Unlimited stamina
  • Whole-body orgasms that last for hours WITHOUT ejaculation: “I thought my head was going to explode!” 
  • Three-hour continuous orgasms with his woman and five hours of aftershocks

TODD: “It got to the point where the sex could be better every time; even if you thought it was the best sex you’d ever had, the next time would be a level beyond that. Unless you experience it, you don’t even know it exists. I mean, it’s just crazy, the level of energy you can cultivate.”

If you’re ready to become a legendary Supercock slayer in all areas of your life, check out my Sexual Mastery for Men Salon!

In my 8-week online program for men, you'll learn:

  • Orgasms without ejaculation: every man can
  • How to last longer in bed and have complete control
  • How to use your sexual energy as a power source, increasing your vitality, confidence and cash flow
  • Organically grown cock: boost your length, girth and strength
  • Orgasmapedia: the guide to all female orgasms
  • Owning your dominant, divine and dark masculine energy

Everything you need to level up in your sexual mastery and dominate in your life!

Signup now

Published 2024-08-23

The Real Reason Your Woman Won't Have Sex With You

13 min Transcript
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There are a LOT of potential reasons—plural!—why your woman doesn’t want to have sex with you. 


Contrary to popular social programming, women are sexually voracious. Insatiable even. 


Once you turn them on and open them up, they are a well that never runs dry. So why isn’t your woman voracious with you? 


Find out in today’s episode. 

Sexual Mastery for Men is opening for registration at the end of August.

In this 8-week online salon you’ll learn:

  • Superstar stamina and breathing techniques to last as long as you want: a minimum of an hour—some men master this in a few days
  • Testicle and cock massage for boosting testosterone and increasing length, strength and girth
  • Tutorials for bringing her to G-Spot, squirting and cervical orgasms
  • How to occupy your uber-masculine energy in bed and in life

And much more!

Go to Sexual Mastery for Men.

You can take the quiz: Are you a Supercock? And receive the sexual mastery for men free video series and also be notified of when the salon opens.

Published 2024-08-16

"My Cock Doubled in Size!"

40 min
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What happens when you inhabit your masculine strength and power? You also inhabit your cock. 

Because you know—what you focus on grows. 

As you show up in your life and you start bending it over and pulling it by the hair and having your way with it, life opens up to you. 

Your woman opens up to you. 

When you put in the time and effort to transform yourself from a Two-Pump Chump—or whatever underfucked version of yourself you are—into a Supercock, your entire life changes. 

Just ask Ethan.

His wife was going to leave him and that was the kick in the ass he needed to get in gear. And did he. So many epic life changes in a short period of time: 

  • “I more than doubled in size and became solid as a rock”
  • From lasting 2-10 minutes to 1 hour within weeks 
  • Constant nagging to daily shagging
  • “Banking” sexual energy and feeling like going to the gym after having sex 
  • From beta boy to alpha, masculine man 
  • “10 kilos fell off me and I went from a gut to abs in weeks - no diet change.”
  • Prioritizing gourmet sex and three-hour sex dates—with four kids
  • Manifesting a salary raise of double. “Was this because of the two and a half hour sex date the night before??”

ETHAN: If you bend her over and do it properly, you get a happy wife.

KIM: How often are you having sex?

ETHAN: Exorbitant amounts. Is that a lot?

Find out what it's like to be a Supercock, in bed and in life. In my premier guide to all things sexual for men, you'll learn:  

  • What supercock lovers know that other men don't;
  • The various orgasms for women and techniques for how to get there;
  • Daily practices to open your woman and keep her sexual simmer going;
  • How to increase your sexual stamina so that you are able to go the distance with her;
  • Cock lengthening, strengthening and pelvic weight lifting exercises to "super-size" and increase your—and her—orgasmic pleasure;
  • How to occupy your masculine power in life, bed and cock;
  • And much more!

Take the quiz 'Are you a Supercock?', and get notified when the salon opens! 

Published 2024-07-19

5 Tips for a Magnetic Feminine Aura

15 min
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How to be irresistible. 

What’s the milkshake that brings all the boys to the yard? How can you draw good things to you in your life? 

In our Well-F**ked all star adventures we hear of men crossing eight lanes of traffic to ask a woman for her number. Or making websites just to ask them on dates. 

Yes. All true stories. 

So what is this uber-attractive quality and how do you get it? It’s definitely something you can create within yourself. 

But it’s not any kind of 8-step beauty routine or gua shua secrets or special hair serum formula. 

Nope. It comes from within. Deep within. Like, vagina deep. 

In this episode: 

  • 5 keys to creating irresistibility 
  • Magnetic vaginas for all 
  • Eau de Well-F**ked Woman: the ultimate perfume 
  • Vaginal orgasms and the secrets of the universe 
  • Magically attract bucketloads of cash, men and jobs without doing anything “different.”
  • Feminine flow: doing less and creating more 

If you’d like to go deeper into all things orgasms, signup for my free Orgasmapedia series where you’ll learn about 9 different types of orgasms EVERYONE can have. Go to kimanami.com and you’ll see the signup there. 


Come one, come all! 

Published 2024-07-12

Orgasms vs. Ozempic

23 min
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Who does it better? Ozempic? Or Anami-style gourmet sex? 

In today’s episode: 

  • Anami Weight Loss Recipe
  • My secret to a flat belly 
  • Which orgasms are best for weight loss 
  • The alchemy of orgasms and their trauma-clearing potential 
  • Featuring Alexa who lost 76 pounds: “The weight just dropped off”. She also evaporated a throat and vaginal cyst 
  • And Robin who lost 60 pounds through alchemizing her issues: in her bed and vagina. 

Anami-style alchemical sex transforms your excess “weight” faster than anything else. Come and get it. 

** 

In the Well-Fucked Woman Salon, you’ll learn all the tools you need to channel your sexual energy and use it for it’s true purpose: as pro-creative energy you can use to heal, alchemize and build your life and body with. 


You’ll learn: 

  • How to have the life-changing cervical, G-Spot and squirting orgasms. 
  • How to own and heal your dissociated parts 
  • How to become unfuckwithable 
  • How to transform your sexual energy into creative energy 
  • Self-pleasuring practices so you’ll never be underf**ked again 
  • All of my cock-whsipering tecnqhines to bring your man to his knees 

And much more. 


The Well-F**ked Woman Salon is open now! And then it’s gone again until 2025.

Signup now


Published 2024-07-05

60, Rich and Ass-F**ked Across Alabama

49 min
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It's never too late to be a multi-orgasmic, lubricating and ejaculating well-f**ked woman. 
 
Today’s Well-F**ked All Star is Michelle. At the age of 60, she left a stifling 40-year marriage. A year later, at 61, she’s the most well-f**ked she’s ever been in her life.

I LOVE hearing when people have the courage to leave something that deep down they know isn’t good for them. Despite finances, social standing, children, public opinion. They do it anyway.

If you find yourself in a situation where you aren’t sure you have what it takes to propel yourself into a new life, this episode is for you.

This woman is wild as f*ck and has some of the best sexual descriptions I’ve ever heard: “There was always a gallon of lube by our bed.
Now, with my new man, all I have to do is talk to him on the telephone, and
I’m dripping down to my knees. “What the fuck is that?” I mean, it is absolutely amazing.”

We talk:  

  • Radical income jump during the WFW Salon: “I had a $100k month!”
  • Being a strong woman and needing to be “taken” by an even stronger man
  • Two-hour blow job sessions: “I’m loving it. I’m dripping on the bed!” 
  • First ever cervical orgasms at age 60 
  • Processing 41 years of trauma and anxiety through the healing power of sex 
  • Getting ass-f**ked all over Alabama 
  • Non-negotiable “Fuck Fridays”
  • Leaving a 40-year marriage to become a well-f**ked woman 

“I’m 61, and I’m telling you, it’s never too late to go grab it.”

In the Well-F**ked Woman Salon, my 10-week, online signature salon for women that shows you how to be well-fucked at every age and stage, including menopause and far beyond:

We cover much of what Michelle and I talked about:

  • How you can be dripping wet just from hearing the voice of your lover
  • Surrender to activate your feminine magnetism and generate cash 
  • My cock whispering secrets to ecstatic blow jobs, deep throating, anal play and manual techniques to bring him to his knees
  • How to have the deeper vaginal orgasms: G-Spot, squirting and cervical
  • And much more!

The salon begins next week!

Are you coming?!

Published 2024-06-28

Squirting to Manifest Your Life

67 min
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One of the holy grails in the sexual queendom is squirting. This is a necessary life skill for women and one that ALL women can cultivate. 

The Anami Guarantee is that EVERY woman can hit the ceiling with her ejaculate. 

Her “amrita” is like cosmic manifesting dust that gets shot over her whole life, imbuing it with a kind of radiance and magnetism that draws everything to her. 

Once you awaken your vaginal superpowers, and you “come to” within yourself, the world “comes to you”. 

Today’s guest is our youngest ever all-star. She’s 22 and she started this work with me last year when she was 21. 

I felt like I was talking to a younger version of ME!  She blew my fucking mind and she’s bombshell as fuck. 

Indomitable. 

She’s dropping non-stop bombs in our conversation. We talk: 

  • “I have attracted so many men in my life it's actually crazy. They gravitate towards me and I do little to no effort.”
  • Falling in love with her breasts and how they grew a cup size.
  • “I can have an orgasm without touching myself.”
  • “My libido is higher than ever. I just feel constantly aroused.”
  • “My income doubled and without really trying or wanting to."
  • The power and confidence of unfuckwithabiltiy and how it silences the naysayers 
  • “I sunbathe naked, in my garden and topless on public beaches and lakes. People are staring, but I simply don't give a fuck anymore.”
  • Being guided by your “pussy spark” of turn on 

And of course, the magical secrets of squirting and how your literal juiciness creates your life. 


This is a mind and vagina-blowing episode. Hands down, one of my favorites. 

Tia started her journey with me in the How to Be a Well-F**ked Woman Salon. 


This is my 10-week, how to live, love and orgasm in a female body education where I've compiled the best of my 30 years of orgasmic experience (!) to take you over the edge into a lifetime of bliss. The sex school everyone ought to receive, but did not! 


And it’s open for registration now! In it, you’ll learn: 
 
 - Instructions for the deeper vaginal orgasms: G-Spot, cervical and squirting

- Self-pleasuring 101 and how to channel sexual energy into creative genius and cash that falls into your lap 

- How to transform challenging menstruation, PMS and menopause into blissful portals

- Using your feminine essence to build a life of ease and pleasure

- Breast massage to tone, lift and activate the orgasmic potential of the breasts

- How to give your man enlightened blow jobs and hand jobs


The salon only runs once a year, and it’s open for the next two weeks! 

Come and get it.

Published 2024-06-21

Sex Dates Make Cash

52 min
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If your orgasms aren't changing your life, are you even having sex?

In Anami Land, your sex dates become sacred, set-in-stone, non-negotiable parts of your life, because you know the benefits they bring. They are your sanctuary, refuelling station, anti-depressant and anti-anxiety pill, creative inspiration and cash generators all at once. There is no better all-in-one panacea. 


Once you realize that if you are feeling tired, or sad, or overweight, or broke, the best remedy is to orgasm your way out of it, you never go back. Because you see how your sexual energy impacts every part of your life. 


In today’s Well-F**ked All Star interview, we’re speaking with Maureen. She originally found me because she was looking for an alternative to the menopause narrative and wasn’t interested in taking hormones for the rest of her life. 


We explore: 


Great sex = more cash. Want abundance? Have better, Anami-style sex. 

  • HRT, organ removal and menopausal woes vs. being well-f**ked and multi-orgasmic in Anami Land 
  • Why isn’t everyone having G-Spot orgasms? 
  • Sacred sex and God: growing up in the Bible belt and deconstructing childhood beliefs and reconciling being a voraciously sexual woman with the her spiritual path.
  • Passing on healthier sexual ideals to our children 
  • Oral sex and swallowing fluids leading to bursts of creative genius 
  • Surrendering sexually and spiritually: same same 

Sign up for my FREE 7-Day Bombshell Bootcamp!

Increase your sexual magnetism, orgasm potential and unf*ckwithable factor! You'll learn: 

  • Reclaiming your sexuality through self-pleasure
  • Becoming a master of your sexual energy, using it to magnetize the most potent opportunities
  • The truth to achieving financial success as a female
  • How ‘cock love’ can transform your relationship and your bank account
  • How to embrace your breasts and bring them back to life as an orgasmic pleasure source
  • All the deeper, life-changing, soul-stretching vaginal orgasms
Published 2024-06-14

When You're Anal, Have More Anal

43 min
Open

We’ve all heard the expressions: 

“Tight ass.”

“They’ve got a real stick up their ass.”

This is legit urban slang meets deep psychological truth. 

These people actually DO need something shoved up their ass. 

Anal orgasms are very similar to cervical orgasms in women. 

They are transcendent, deep and cosmic. 

In men, the G-Spot is the prostate gland, conveniently located in the ass. 

It acts as a turbo-booster, deepening the pleasure and the physical—and emotional—intensity of orgasm. 


In Anami Land, we look at how to use sex acts as ecstasy AND consciousness-expanding vehicles.

In today’s episode we chat with Well-F**ked All Atar Natalia from her native Poland.
She was a woman who didn’t think The Anami Guarantee, which is “All orgasms for all women” would apply to her.  

She was wrong. 

In this episode: 

  • Anal sex as meditation, to amplify creativity, confidence and flow and the ultimate public speaking tool 
  • Falling in love with cock: “Oh my God, I really want to give him another blow job!” 
  • The pussy barometer and GPS guiding you toward all things good 
  • Cervical orgasms and deep emotional release. Who needs therapy?

My legendary WFW salon opens at the end of June. In this 10-week online program, you’ll learn all the secrets of anal, cervical, breast and throat enlightenment. We also cover:  

  • Self-pleasuring 101
  • Cock whispering oral and manual pleasuring techniques for your man
  • Breast massage to tone, lift and activate the orgasmic potential of the breasts
  • How to use the power of surrender and your feminine energy to manifest everything you want in your life, so that it feels effortless and like it’s falling into your lap—because your lap it what attracts it! 
  • And much more. 

To check out the free preview video series and be notified of when we open registration for the salon, go to How to Be a Well-F**ked Woman.

Published 2024-06-07

Become Unf**kwithable

66 min Transcript
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When you give yourself ALL the fucks, you have no fucks left to give. 

I always say that one of the hallmarks of becoming a well-fucked woman—or a well-fucked man—is that you reach the pinnacle stage of not giving a fuck what anyone thinks of you. 


You have such clarity in your own truth, AND the confidence to act upon it in your life, that you give zero fucks about what anyone thinks about you. 


You aren’t TRYING not to care. You just DON’T care. 


All of your fucks are directed to the right place: you and your partner. 

That’s it. That’s the magic secret. 


WHY is this? 


In this episode: 

  • Why being well-f**ked makes you unfuckwithable 
  • No apologies, muthafuckers 
  • How I’ve dealt with troll and underfucked orc attacks
  • Making unfuckwithable choices, like knowing you have to leave a relationship, still loving them, but finding the strength to leave anyway 
  • Energy orgasms without touch 
  • Breast massage unlocking feminine energy 
  • Revenue tripling within a month from sexual awakening 
  • Attracting the “no excuses” crowd 
  • The lie of menopause 
  • Listening to the fourth brain of you pussy-gut-pussy

My legendary How to Be a Well-Fucked Woman Salon opens in a few weeks. This is my 10-week online program in all things female sexuality where you learn how to give all the fucks to yourself and your partner with: 

  • Self-Pleasuring 101 and how to channel sexual energy into creative genius
  • Cock whispering oral, manual and sex position techniques
  • Breast and yoni massage routines 
  • How to surrender and inhabit your feminine energy to build a life of ease and pleasure
  • How to transform challenging menstruation, PMS and menopause into blissful portals
  • Step-by-step instructions for the deeper vaginal orgasms: G-Spot, cervical and squirting

And through all of this, become utterly UN-FUCK-WITH-ABLE. 


You can check out the free video preview series and take the quiz and find out ARE YOU UNDERFUCKED?
 
Go to How to Be a Well-F**ked Woman

Published 2024-05-31

Ageless and Fit as F**k

20 min
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I’ve recently been on a transformative fitness journey and am now in the best shape of my life.

Today’s episode is a personal share on:

  • How I became fit as f**k
  • All things aging, or rather, anti-aging
  • My personal heroes
  • My diet and exercise routine
  • 80 is the new 50
  • What I say to people who ask me to post pictures of “normal” people’s bodies

*** 

My legendary Well-F**ked Woman Salon opens for registration at the end of this month. This is the Anami guide to ALL things “as f**k”: 

  • Orgasmic as f**k
  • Feminine as f**k 
  • Sensual as f**k 
  • Creative as f**k 
  • And of course, not giving a f**k

In the meantime, you can check out the free How to Be a Well-Fucked Woman video series and take the very enlightening quiz: Are you underf**ked? 

“Shadow work” is a hot topic these days. 


The reason why I say that sexual shadow work is THE most powerful shadow work—and I’d assert the only shadow work anyone really needs—is because there is SO MUCH taboo, repression, misinformation about all things sexual.


And it runs SO deep.


Whether it’s outright physical violation, genital mutilation or absorbing all of the negative beliefs projected upon us, everyone has some level of sexual trauma.


Since our sexual energy is the core of who we are, when that gets suppressed, EVERYTHING In our life gets suppressed.


If you go deep here, it’s the panacea for all.


The pounds come off, dream careers materialize, and lives change.


All through Anami-style, f**k-your-demons-away sex. 


In this episode:


- Why sexual shadow work is THE only shadow work you need

- Orgasms as the most powerful nervous system reset

- Reap the benefits of so much taboo

- Cervical orgasms and the vagus nerve

- My own adventures in conscious BDSM


In ALL of my salons, I show people how to do your sexual shadow work to illuminate your blind spots—and your dark spots—and alchemize them into power.


Next up on the Anami Roster is my How to Be a Well-F**ked Woman Salon. 


In this 10-week online salon we explore: 

  • How to clear your sexual blocks 
  • Quantum techniques for sexual shadow work 
  • Conscious BDSM practices to illuminate your “dark sides” and explore the power of surrender
  • How to have the deeper female orgasms—the deepest ANS and vagus nerve resets there are
  • Using Taoist and Tantric sexual energy practices to harness your pro-creative power 
  • Tapping into your feminine power to achieve more by learning the art of surrender 
     

The WFW salon opens for registration in June. Get on our mailing list to be notified when and take the “Are you underf**ked?” quiz. 


You’ll also receive access to the WFW free video preview series with multi-orgasmic techniques you can practice tonight. 


https://kimanami.com/the-well-fked-woman/


Published 2024-05-02

The Healing Power of 69

13 min
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Sex is medicine. 


As Director for the Center of Underfucked Disease Control, the CUFDC, I am constantly looking at what makes the best sex, and giving people the prescriptions they need to elevate their sex lives. 


I’m the best doctor ever. And one of the only ones who shows people how to heal themselves. 


Did you know you can find God up your ass? And that eating ejaculate makes you smarter and cures depression? That daily cervical orgasms keep you in a state of spiritual bliss? 


You would know that if you’ve been living in Anami Land for a while. If not, let me give you a tour around the place. 


Let’s talk about the illustrious act of 69. 

In this episode:

  • Absorbing ejaculate to tap your creative genius
  • Balancing your yin and yang energies
  • Helping your partner to own and love themselves
  • Your sexual duty to adore your partner’s genitals
  • The Fountain of Youth between your legs 

In my Coming Together for Couples Salon for creating conscious relationships and quantum sex: 

You’ll learn: 

  • Sexual reflexology of the yoni and lingam 
  • My prescription guide for different sexual positions to heal various ailments 
  • Tantric and Taoist techniques to harness your sexual energy and use it for healing, rejuvenation and creative genius 
  • How to have multiple, full-body and energy orgasms 
  • Supercock stamina techniques for men 
  • Amplifying masculine and feminine polarity to increase your chemistry attraction: going from buddies to headboard slammers 
  • And all my secrets to coming together

Signup now!

Published 2024-04-25

How to Have a 5-Day Sex Date

91 min
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Well-F**ked All Stars Jeff and Jen have been married for 30 years. 

They found my work last year and have been on an Anami pilgrimage ever since! 

They also happen to be endurance athletes. When they heard my philosophy of multi-hour and multi-day sex dates, it was game on!

You’ll hear them share their story of turning around their relationship of three decades, how they become ultra-sex marathoners and what a 5-day sex date looks like.

In this episode: 

  • What’s a typical day on a 5-day sex date? 
  • Sex as an extreme sport 
  • Secrets of slow sex 
  • Orgasm without ejaculation and semen retention 
  • 100 orgasms in one session 
  • Owning being the hottest woman in the room
  • Overcoming the Madonna/whore dichotomy 
  • Reaching age 50 and starting over sexually 

Jeff and Jen kicked off their Anami Land journey with the Coming Together for Couples Salon last year, which is now open for registration. 

This is my 10-week online signature program for creating conscious relationships and gourmet sex.

You’ll learn: 

  • How to have full-body and energy orgasms
  • Building Supercock male stamina so he can last for hours
  • How to achieve the deeper, life-changing vaginal orgasms for women: G-Spot and cervical
  • Sexual reflexology of the genitals
  • Tantra 101
  • Full guided tutorials on yoni and lingam massage
  • My prescriptions for healing using sexual positions
  • Busting out of the buddy rut to create sizzling chemistry 
  • And much more!

Signup now!

Published 2024-04-18

180 Days of Sex

79 min
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Well-F**ked All Stars Alexis and Mitchell made 2023 their year of Anami.

They’ve implemented pretty much every element of my philosophy and teachings into their lives and bed.

Then they took it to the next level, Anami-style, by committing to six months of daily sex:

“It started as a 180-day pact, and now it’s just a way of living.”

Before you protest, yes they have children: three of them!

And yet they still have sex every day—usually twice a day—with multi-hour sex sessions and the occasional “quickie” at 45 minutes.

We talk:

  • 180 days of sex: WITH THREE CHILDREN
  • Fucking your reality into existence: Financial abundance and career advancement via your bed
  • 36 orgasms a day x 180 days
  • When semen retention becomes essential for sexual growth  
  • Orgasm telepathy 
  • Sunday sessions: hour-long lingam and yoni massages
  • Anal orgasms and anal enlightenment 
  • Forgoing alcohol and TV in pursuit of gourmet sex 
  • Women testing men
  • On morning sex: “You can’t fuck the world if you don’t fuck in the morning.”

Reignite the sizzling-hot passion in your relationship!

In the Coming Together for Couples Salon, we explore:

  • How to break out of being “buddies” and bring back the guttural passion with your partner
  • Keeping sexual chemistry hot
  • Natural laws of attraction
  • How to use different sex acts to tap into different emotional and healing qualities
  • How to shift unconscious patterns that keep repeating once and for all, so that they never repeat
  • Specific tips and tricks for irresistibility, orgasm and attraction
  • How to channel orgasmic and creative energy into everyday life

Registration is NOW OPEN!

Check out the salon here.

Published 2024-04-11

The 5 Sexiest Things a Woman Can Do

16 min
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Last week we talked about the 5 Sexiest Things a Man Can Do. 


This week, we’re all about the women. 


What makes a woman irresistible? 


What are the qualities of the feminine that speak to the primal, archetypal masculine, turning him on and bringing him to his knees? 


What brings out his guttural manliness that inspires him to throw her over his shoulder and ravish her? 


In this episode:

  • The superpower of surrender 
  • Necessary life skills for women: vaginal hand jobs and deep throating
  • Just be hot
  • Separating the girls form the women and the clitoris from the vagina
  • The most seductive feminine quality 
  • Death by a thousand cunts 
  • Cock love and cultivating cockfidence 


Join my free 7-day Sex Cleanse for Couples!

Every woman can f**k her man into a new, better, ideal, full-bodied Supercock.

Every man can f**k his woman into a sexually powerful, gushing, orgasming, well-f**ked woman.

Every couple can have cosmic-connecting orgasms, with an off-the-charts libido at any age and stage of life.

Are you ready?

In this 7-day relationship renewal sex cleanse, you and your partner will explore:

  • How to keep the simmer going 24/7
  • The beauty of her G-Spot
  • Powerful stamina techniques for him
  • Squirting 101
  • My favorite weekly connecting date


I'll see you in there. 

Published 2024-04-06

The 5 Sexiest Things a Man Can Do

15 min
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The seduction guide for men. 


I guarantee that the following techniques have opened many a heart and legs, bringing them to their knees, and giving them deep, life-changing orgasms. These truly are the keys to the queendom. 


I can give Neil Strauss a run for his money with the Anami Game Protocol. 


Here’s how to game the chicks. 

In this episode:

  • My top five seduction techniques: must-dos for all men 
  • How to f**k a woman into oblivion 
  • Who is naturally more insatiable: men or women? 
  • The most important sexual skill men can have 
  • The most important emotional skill men can have 
  • The archetypal masculine: making pussies wet for the last 100,000 years 

Join the free Coming Together 7-Day Sex Cleanse. Each day, you’ll receive an email with an assignments to deepen into each other, sexually and emotionally.


Side effects of this Sex Cleanse may include: 


~ Ejaculate-soaked bed sheets

~ Broken bed frames

~ Being fully energized by each other's life force energy

~ Clearing of relationship blocks

~ Stronger stamina

~ Feelings of safety and security

~ Sky-rocketing libidos

Signup today.

Published 2024-03-29

9 Signs of a Conscious Relationship

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But make it sexy.

In a conscious relationship, we transmute our emotional connection and sexual energy into rejuvenating, healing and pro-creative power. We realize our relationship—and specifically our sex life—is the engine that fuels our entire lives. 


In this episode: 

  • 9 signs of a conscious relationship 
  • The daily sex prayer: get on your knees 
  • The only acceptable answer is “Fuck yes!”
  • The aphrodisiac of honesty 
  • Hardcore genital love 
  • Becoming an unstoppable super power couple 

“If you’re not scared shitless, you’re not aiming high enough.”
 
Today’s episode is all about going all in. Making bold moves, taking big chances.

Every single life-defining moment I’ve ever had, has always come down to how much courage I displayed in the moment. Did I step up to the plate?

Did I push myself out of my comfort zone and take a risk for something more?

This comes to love and relationships and orgasms, and truth telling and business decisions and even the waves I take when I surf.

Every major milestone and uplevelling of my life is always preceded by a moment. A crossroads where I was asked to leap off a clip.

Today’s podcast is a rally cry for courage in love and life and how 20 seconds of being brave and bold can truly change your reality in an instant.

In this episode:

  • The best "pickup" line a man ever used on me and how it led to a marriage proposal
  • Unlocking the secrets of the universe through big, bold acts
  • The aphrodisiac of radical honesty
  • Increasing your emotional and sexual courage
  • Go big or go home, bitch!

Join me for a free 7-Day Sex Cleanse

Starting today, you and your beloved can embark on seven days of relationship renewal and sexual ignition.

Whether things have come to a complete standstill in the bedroom, or you are spending every night in orgasmic bliss, there’s something for everyone to up-level.

Each day, you’ll receive an email with an assignment to watch or listen to, followed by discussion prompts and then homeplay.

The prompts and homeplay will set the foundation to deepen into each other, sexually and spiritually.

Signup for the free 7-Day Sex Cleanse

Published 2024-02-05

My Vagina Healed That!

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Heal thyself. 

Last week I hosted a LIVE online event called My Vagina Healed That! which featured me and three of our favourite Well-F**ked All Stars sharing on how their sexual energy healed everything from their reproductive ailments, to landing them life-changing multi-million dollar business deals.

True vagina stories.

Each day featured a different topic and all star, and started with me talking about these concepts, and then leading a guided visualization about them, and then had the All Star share their story and take questions from our listeners. We went much deeper than we usually do in a public forum and the set up gives you a taste of what my online programs—which I call salons—are all about.

Katie was our all star guest for the topic Alchemizing Sexual Trauma into Creativity and Cervical Orgasms. She shares falling madly in love with herself and her vagina, all of which translated in the healing of her crippling endometriosis and painful period.

In this episode:

  • How Katie went from not even being able to touch her own vagina, and with small, incremental steps overcame her history of abuse, leading to ecstatic orgasms
  • Eradicated her crippling periods and endometriosis through using the VKF healing practices and the jade yoni egg
  • Falling madly in love with herself and her vagina.
  • Experience my guided visualization on “Connecting the Heart, Cervix and Orgasmic Enlightenment”
  • Differences between G-Spot and cervical orgasms
  • Sexual energy and cash: ”We have so much money now we don't even know what to do with it all!" ~ Katie
  • My experiences having dolphin-gasms. Yes, it's a thing! At least for me it is. :)

MY VAGINA HEALED THAT! 3-day LIVE event
If you missed our rare LIVE and free event from last week, you can still watch the replays of each day's session. You'll hear our reality-bending conversations on:

  • Radical self-healing—including cysts, tortuous periods and endometriosis—through using the jade egg and deep throating. We kid you not.
  • Releasing a lifetime of sexual trauma through baby steps of self-exploration
  • From orgasms a few times a year to daily cervical orgasms
  • Manifesting a dream man and dream career with your vagina
  • Evaporating pounds of body weight and “baggage” through orgasms
  • Landing a life-changing multi-million dollar deal through several days of 90-minute oral sex sessions.

All thanks to their vaginas! These stories are the antidote and inspiration to thinking you’re “just one of those women who can’t.”

If they can, you can.

Signup to listen to the replays here.

Published 2024-02-02

Single and Multi-Orgasmic

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You can still be single and well-f**ked. 


You can still be single and have a voracious libido, be deeply, sexually fulfilled and have G-Spot, squirting and cervical orgasms on the regular. 

And it’s essential that you are. The key is to keep your sexual engines revving. 


A lot of people will come to us and think they can’t do the practices I teach because they need a partner. Sure, some of them you do. 


But most of them, you can—and ought to—practice on your own. Here's why and how. 

Today’s Well-F**ked All Star is Sarah.

She came into my work single, and used this time to explore herself and discover all the deeper vaginal orgasms, using her cervical orgasms to heal a breakup, and as a “roadmap to wealth that skyrocketed her business.”

In this episode: 

  • Sarah's story as a multi-orgasmic single with G-Spot and cervical orgasms galore 
  • Essential sexual practices for singles 
  • Why keeping your sexual energy high is key to attracting a new partner 
  • Using your single time to transform repeating relationship patterns through sexual shadow work 
  • My quintessential advice: Go f**k yourself! 

***

Vaginal Kung Fu is open for registration NOW and it closes February 2nd at midnight PST. 


In the salon, you’ll become a maestro of all things vaginal and sexual. You’ll learn: 

  • My step-by-step guided vaginal weight lifting routine 
  • Yoni massage to de-numb and activate your vagina 
  • Quantum techniques to clear your blocks and illuminate your sexual shadow
  • Breast massage techniques to tone, lift and enlarge the breasts 
  • Natural birth control and detoxing off The Pill 
  • How to make menstruation and menopause the energizing and rejuvenating portals they were meant to be  
  • How to give a vaginal handjob 
  • How to use your sexual energy to heal yourself, including my sex position mood guide. 

Come to Vaginal Kung Fu

Best ROI ever. 

When people rev up their sexual energy, they inevitably become more creative, they begin to align with their true calling and vocations in life. 


And they get rich! 

They’ll often say that “Money fell into my lap!” and I’ll say: “Yeah! Because your lap is what attracted it!” 


Most people never make the connection between their stagnant sex lives and their stagnant financial lives. 

When they’re in flow, living a life of bliss and orgasms—especially cervical orgasms, which we’ll get to in a minute—they not only become CAUSE (rather than effect) in their lives, but they naturally attract opportunities, people and cash. 


Energy in = energy out. 


In this case, we want the energy going deep within, where it has the most impact and quantum payout: Your vagina. The deeper you go, the more riches you get! 

In this episode: 

- The connection between sex and money 
- Microdosing and nervous system resets vs. cervical orgasms
- Sex as the most powerful personal growth tool there is 
- I'll take my dividends in cervical orgasms and cash please 

Published 2024-01-19

I Make All My Decisions from My Vagina

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Your vagina: Truth-teller extraordinaire.

In this episode, crowd favorite Well-F**ked All Star Amanda has amazing stories of using her vagina’s guidance to lead her in the right direction in her life, and how the jade egg and breast massage practices from Vaginal Kung Fu keep her in tune with her feminine energy and living a life of perpetual wetness. 

We’ll talk: 

  • Listening to your vaginal “brain” and voice 
  • The greatest nervous system reset and healer of them all: orgasm 
  • Using your feminine energy and surrender to get things done 
  • Making time to have daily sex—solo or partnered—with six children and a booming business 
  • Feminine magnetism and attracting what you want: it all starts in your vagina 
  • Being constantly wet 

All of the practices Amanda talks about for cultivating her feminine energy and awakening her vagina to be the ultimate truth-teller and divining rod are what we do in Vaginal Kung Fu


From the jade egg vaginal workouts, to the breast massage routines, self-pleasuring practices and vaginal reconnaissance, it’s all here. 


Plus, all of my quantum techniques for you to clear blockages, dive into sexual shadow work, reset your nervous system from the deepest possible level and and clear the channel so your vagina can function as your ultimate GPS in your life. And of course, orgasm giver. 


All this and more in Vaginal Kung Fu. Signup here. And you too, can have a super magnetic, gushing, lubricating, ejaculating, multi-million-dollar vagina! 

Published 2024-01-12

The Awakened Vagina: From Numb to Come

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I’ve often said that most women’s vaginas are numb. They have no idea how much pleasure their vaginas are actually meant to give them.

A high-functioning vagina: 

  • Acts as a compass in your life, guiding you toward pleasure and aligned choices 
  • Wants sex all the time. 
  • Bursting with bliss
  • Gives you life-changing cervical and G-Spot orgasms 
  • Squirts ejaculate across the room 
  • Is supremely articulate and can give vaginal hand jobs 
  • Is strong, supple and lifted, pulling up all your organs and even your breasts and face, creating an entire energetic lift in the body 
  • Can shoot ping pong balls 
  • Makes a man forget his name 

So how DO we wake up a vagina?  We'll hear from our Well-F**ked All Star Alexis, who went from numb to come and she’ll share how she did it. In this episode:

  • Messages from the vagina 
  • Trauma and the “issues in our tissues” as Wim Hof says 
  • How to wake up the vagina
  • Energetic STDs 
  • What is a “clit-fast” and what are the benefits of doing one? 
  • Fully exposing yourself to your partner. 

Alexis says: 


“I had never had any kind of orgasm besides clitoral. I now have gushing G-Spot/ squirting orgasms just from us kissing. During penetrative sex I'm having at least 5+ vaginal orgasms per session. Now we have had sex 2-5 times a day for the past 87 days and have a "sex every day" pact for 180 days.” 

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My legendary Vaginal Kung Fu Salon opens for registration next week! In this 10-week online mastership of all things vagina, you’ll learn: 

  • My guided, step-by-step exercise routine for using the jade yoni egg 
  • How to give yourself a healing yoni massage 
  • The art of the vaginal hand job 
  • How to channel your sexual energy into creative genius 
  • How to clear the blockages in the way of you going from numb to come

To check out the free preview video series and to be notified of when we open the doors for registration, go to Vaginal Kung Fu

Vaginal articulation, power and ping pong balls is the normal, healthy baseline for all vaginas. At least in Anami Land, it is. 

In today’s Well-F**ked All Star interview with Mara, we talk about how vaginal power journey and how she went from being vaginally and sexually disconnected to: 

  • Gushing wet 
  • Squirting her way through four towels on the bed 
  • Shooting ping pong balls 
  • Wanting sex every day and tiring out her man 
  • Falling in love with and honouring her vagina 
  • Giving her partner vaginal hand jobs that feel like “a thousand hands” 

The tools Mara used to unleash her super pussy are everything I teach in the Vaginal Kung Fu Salon.

You can “come into” yourself as a voracious, empowered sensual woman, who is multi-orgasmic, squirts through the bed sheets, is wetter than a tsunami, and gives “thousand hand” vaginal hand jobs.

And also happens to be able to shoot ping pong balls!

It’s all up for grabs in the Vaginal Kung Fu Salon.

My legendary online program on all things vagina and sexual wisdom is open for registration this month!

If you are on the VKF list, you’ll be notified as soon as we open.

When you sign up for the VKF list, you’ll also receive access to the free VKF training series and you can start practicing your inner kung fu moves tonight!

Published 2023-10-27

Deep Throat for a Better Birth

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The “open your throat open your vagina’ connection can be tapped for one of the most important sexual acts: 


Giving birth.


Yes, giving birth is a sexual act. 


When a baby is born into the typical hospital/emergency/surgical setting, they are imprinted with the energies of: 

  • Life is about pain, suffering and trauma 
  • You are powerless and you are helpless, as the birthing woman usually is 

OR: 

  • You are in charge of your life and body 
  • Pleasure is your birthright—ha, literally, starting with birth 
  • You are in tune with the divine forces of nature and the cosmos and can live your life in alignment with them

Which would you rather? 


Nothing will give your child a better start in this world than birthing them in ecstasy.


In today’s episode: 

  • Well-F**ked All Star Kristie shares her deep throating/vagina opening free birth story 
  • What it’s like to free birth three babies and NOT participate in the medical system at all 
  • Are naturally-birthed children any different than medically-birthed ones? 
  • Why sexual transformation is your best tool for a natural and orgasmic birth 

I will go so far as to say that ALL complications in birth are some manifestation of fear, unconscious programming and trauma imprinting that no one realized the importance of clearing before having a baby. 


That’s exactly what we do in the Sexy Mama Salon. 


We cover every thing from conception to pregnancy, birth and beyond, all the while showing you how to tap your sexual energy and your intimate partner connection to quantum leap the process and align you with the divine flow of the universe. 


You can signup for the salon at Sexy Mama

Published 2023-10-19

Freebirthing Twins (Surprise!)

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Emma shares how she welcomed twins into the world, at home, alone with her husband. The free birth was intentional, but the twins were a surprise! 

Carrying on with our “sisters doin’ it for themselves” theme, in today’s episode we hear from Emma Johnston, co-founder of The Reconnected and WFW alumni, who had an entirely sovereign pregnancy and free-birthed her twins at home, one of whom was breech.

“Free birthing” means the woman births her babies herself.

No extra hands, machines, or machetes.

Two of these presentations are enough for doctors to immediately insist on cutting babies out of women.

Emma gave birth in her own home, in water, with her husband and three children there with her. She trusted that her body, and the eons of wisdom encoded within it, were far more powerful than any outside source.

And they were.

In today’s episode:

  • The role of surrender in birth
  • Rewiring the nervous system for trust and pleasure
  • Do you really trust yourself?
  • Protecting yourself during pregnancy from outside forces of doubt and fear
  • Shedding programming and building confidence in your body’s true powers

Sexy Mama is my 8-week online salon to reprogram you for the bliss of a profoundly orgasmic birth and to become an empowered, luscious mama.

Sexy Mama is for you if:

  • Are currently pregnant or plan to be at any point in the future 
  • Want to create an blissful, orgasmic birth 
  • Are seeking the most cutting-edge, holistic information and practices available for conception, pregnancy and birth to early childhood
  • Want a precise map to reprogram yourself away from pain propaganda and instead into ecstasy and self-empowerment 

Signup for Sexy Mama now. 

Published 2023-10-12

Tantric Pregnancy: Sex As Prenatal Care

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Off-the-charts libido and multi-orgasmic pregnancy. 

In today’s episode, we’re talking to Amanda, who is one of our favourite—and most frequent—all stars. 


We’ve interviewed her on her journey from NO orgasms, to having G-Spot and cervical orgasms, nipple-gasms, and the biggest orgasms of her life:


Her birth orgasms


We’re speaking today about her very, very sexual pregnancy and how her libido was not just high, but off-the-charts. 


She's having a very multi-orgasmic pregnancy. 


I spoke in last week’s episode: All Women Can Have Orgasmic Births about the idea of pregnancy being a massive 9-month foreplay arousal experience, culminating with birth as the climactic orgasm. 


Which would you rather?? 


Perpetual orgasmic bliss? Or constant suffering, as some women experience pregnancy and birth? 


Because I assure you, it is a choice. 


Let’s hear from Amanda on how she made hers. 


In this episode: 

  • Sex as the only prenatal care needed 
  • Well-F**ked All Star Amanda on having sex nearly every day, for hours a day, even with three children, working, a husband and being pregnant 
  • An orgasm a day keeps the hospital away 
  • Cervical orgasms and surrender to lead you back to yourself
  • All the birth prep you need is already encoded into your cells 

Sexy Mama is my all-in-one salon to reprogram you for the bliss of a profoundly orgasmic birth and to become an empowered, luscious mama.

In my 8-week online program for women, you'll learn:

  • How to tap into the power of vaginal orgasms for orgasmic birth
  • The connection between your intimate relationship and your birth experience 
  • How to heal from past sexual conflicts and clear the path for a new, ecstatic experience during pregnancy
  • Conception consciousness + nutrition and environment enhancement for a clean body and mind: what to add and what to remove
  • How to create your renegade birth kit
  • How to prevent postpartum depression and enjoy your baby moon year
  • Finding and building the village to raise your child

Everything you need to have an ecstatic birth and be a tuned-in, blissful and sexy mama. Whether you are actively trying to conceive, are pregnant or are planning to be, this is for you.

Sign up for the Sexy Mama online salon

Published 2023-10-06

All Women Can Have Orgasmic Births

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It's the Anami Guarantee. 

Birth is meant to be the most orgasmic, pleasurable event of your life, and the biggest, wildest, most life-changing orgasm and spiritually transcendent experience you will ever have. 

What if the TRUTH is that your entire pregnancy was actually an extension of the sexual act, where you feel erotically lit up and charged ALL of the time, brimming over with sensual and sexual energy, and at the edge of orgasm for nine months? Living in a perpetual state of arousal and bliss? 


What if the TRUTH is that your birth was then the peak of all of that, the building of NINE months of delicious foreplay, climaxing with the biggest, wildest, most ecstatic orgasm of your life, that will forever change you as a person, and hardwire your baby for a life of bliss and flow? 


It is. 

In this episode: 

- The connection between sex, God and birth
- The only way to have blissful birth is if you are sexually connected to yourself and partner 
- Cervical orgasms as birth training 
- How to prepare for an orgasmic birth 
- The biggest reason why couples don't have sex after children and how to avoid it 

Published 2023-09-15

10 Reasons to Lift Weights with Your Penis

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This is an essential life skill for all men: creating your supersized, super-strengthened, marathon cock. 

In this episode: 

  • 11 reasons to lift weights with your penis 
  • Does every man need to pull seven cars and a helicopter with his genitals? It’s bene done. It’s a thing. 
  • How a weight-lifting regimen leads to self-actualized cock
  • Explosive orgasms from stronger genitals 
  • Owning and loving your cock 
  • How to give a handjob, With your cock. 
Published 2023-09-08

Dickmatize Your Woman!

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The urban dick-tionary defines “dickmatize” as: 


"To mesmerize or enchant a woman with your sexual prowess."


I’d add to that, the noun of being dickmatized:

To be smitten and obsessed with dick. You’ll do anything for that dick. You’ve been put into a trance by…good dick. Happy, starry-eyed, blissed out, hypnotized by you and your come and your sexual powers. Example: "I can't stop thinking about Mark and his cock. I'm obsessed. I've been dickmatized!”


if you’ve never been to that place—man or woman—well, let’s just say that this is the holy grail of your sex life.

 

In today’s interview, we have Jeff. He and his partner Jen have dove into all things Anami and have taken all my suggestions to heart and genitals. From the Anami staples of 3-hour sex dates to sex weekends to vaginal orgasms, superstar stamina and making more cash than ever, they’ve now got it all. 


Jeff is also one of those Anami Ambassadors who is always active on my Instagram comments, encouraging people and answering their questions. When you know, you know! 


We’ll talk especially on how his wife went from being a woman who was held back by religious and cultural taboo, and who is now, in his words, an insatiable sex monster. 

Oh, and they’ve been married 29 years. 


Jeff has some sage advice for you guys: 


"Dont turn on your woman and make her an insatiable sex monster if you dont want to have blow jobs all the time.” 
 

In this episode:

  • What’s it like having 10-12 hours of sex a week, plus running uber-successful businesses and also being ultra endurance athletes and parents on top of that—in case you think you “have no time for sex”! 
  • How Jen went from 49 years of only clitoral orgasms to to becoming an insatiable sex monster: “The noises that were coming out of her…!” 
  • Busting through Madonna/whore blocks and embracing the quintessential “whore in the bedroom” 
  • Stamina as the key to giving your woman third-eye cervical orgasms
  • G-Spot orgasms from tongue thrusting alone
  • Why amplified masculine and feminine energies are so important to life-changing sex: you can’t have it without them 

Sexual Mastery for Men is open NOW for registration!

In my 8-week online signature salon for men, you’ll learn: 

  • How to last longer in bed
  • Orgasms without ejaculation 
  • How to use your sexual energy and relationship as a power source in your life 
  • How to achieve the deeper, vaginal orgasms for women. 
  • Organically grown cock with lengthening and strengthening exercises 
  • And much more. The ultimate Supercock training. Everything you need to Dickmatize your woman and dominate in your life. 

Sign up now at Sexual Mastery for Men.

Published 2023-09-01

Men's Sexual Healing 2.0

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According to the Anami Guarantee, all men can be Supercocks. 
 
All men can: 

  • Orgasm without ejaculation
  • Have sex for hours at a time
  • Give their women multiple cervical and G-Spot orgasms
  • Have wild and potent erections into their 90s 
  • Get high from sex and realize it’s a portal to higher states of consciousness and leaves your psychedelic experiences in the dust
  • Feel like you can run a marathon after sex, or at the very least, go to the gym for a heavy workout, because you have THAT much energy after 

So why aren’t they? 


Beliefs, blockages and traumatic experiences that may have happened to them will stifle their innate Supercock-ness. 


These can range from outright sexual abuse, to absorbing the distorted cultural ideas about sexuality, creating shame, taboo and suppression. 


We all have them. 


It’s impossible to grow up in our modern, very sexually suppressed world, and NOT have taken them on. 


You can clear all of these things and attain Supercock status. 


Here is my Sexual Rx, specifically for men. 


These are methods you can use to heal trauma, ground you in your body, and align yourself with your potent sexual energy and dominate in bed and in life. 

In this episode: 

  • 11 techniques to clear sexual blocks and rewire yourself 
  • Rewilding masculinity 
  • Is enlightenment up your ass? 
  • Healing power of pussy juice 
  • Lingam massage for cock enlightenment 
  • One of the biggest traumas most people overlook 

The Sexual Mastery for Men salon 2023 is officially open! For the next two weeks, you can signup for my ultimate guide to all things men—and pleasuring women. 


In this salon, we cover everything from: 

  • Deeper healing modalities to release trauma and clear blocks 
  • Detoxing from porn 
  • How to build marathon super stamina and separate orgasm from ejaculation 
  • Cock exercises to lengthen, strengthen and grow cock: organically! 
  • How to channel your sexual energy as a creative power, increasing your vitality, confidence and cash flow. 
  • A pelvic weight lifting routine 
  • Orgasmapedia: the guide to female orgasms 
  • Finding your masculine expression in the world: how to “man up” in today’s “hostile-to-masculine-energy” climate.

Register now.
https://kimanami.com/sexual-mastery-for-men-salon/

Published 2023-08-25

Marathon Man, Marathon Cock

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An ultramarathoner shares his secrets to success: Lots of sex "before the big game". Anami-style. 

He's not just a marathon cock. He's an ULTRA-marathon cock. 


Today, we’re speaking with Well-F**ked All Star, Anthony Kunkel who is a national ultramarathon champion in the 50 mile and 100k. As a legendary bio-hacker, he’s always looking for way to optimize his performance and stay at the top of his game. 

When he heard me say “You ought to be able to run a marathon after sex!”, that got his attention. 

You’ll hear him speak about how he uses these techniques to harness and channel his sexual energy into his athletic career, logging some of his best races in the process. 

In this episode: 

  • Anthony’s favorite biohack: marathon sex “before the big game” 
  • Superstar stamina to go the distance 
  • Channeling your sexual energy into anything and everything, from sports to business to creativity  
  • Testicle massage for boosting testosterone 
  • Owning your masculine power and polarity  


***

If you’re ready to become a legendary Supercock slayer in all areas of your life, check out my Sexual Mastery for Men Salon, which opens for registration at the end of August.

In my 8-week online program for men, you'll learn:

  • Superstar stamina and breathing techniques to last as long as you want 
  • Testicle and cock massage for boosting testosterone and increasing length, strength and girth
  • Tutorials for bringing her to G-Spot, squirting and cervical orgasms 
  • How to occupy your uber-masculine energy in bed and in life 

And so much more.

Signup for the 7 Days to Supercock series, and to be notified of when Sexual Mastery for Men opens for registration by clicking here.


Published 2023-08-18

Make Her Squirt, Make More Cash

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The better you f**k your woman, the more money you’ll make. You’ll slay not only in bed, but in business and far beyond. 


In today’s episode, we have some amazing stories of men having epic sex dates and then closing the biggest deals of their lives, including a multi-million dollar blow job, and landing bucket-list gigs and finding dream houses. 


All through the power of f**k.


We hear from salon members ALL the time who go through the salons, how people are just “throwing money at them” or how money just “falls into their laps”. 


Yeah. Because your lap is exactly what attracted it. 

In today’s episode: 

  • 5 keys to using your sexual energy to make more cash and boost your business
  • How to create conscious, self-actualized cock 
  • Learn to keep—instead of dump—your sexual energy. NoFap ain’t got nothing on this! 
  • The impact of a shitty sex life on your bank balance 
  • Are you bending life over and f**king it into oblivion? 
  • The multi-million dollar blow job 

If you’re ready to become a legendary Supercock slayer in all areas of your life, check out my Sexual Mastery for Men Salon, which opens for registration at the end of August. 


In this 8-week online program, you’ll learn: 

  • How to build Superstar stamina to last for hours.
  • How to own your masculine power and drive and use your sexual energy to boost your business and income.
  • Master everything from communication to vaginal orgasm techniques to make your woman well-fucked. 
  • And so much more. 

You can signup for the 7 Days to Supercock series, and to be notified of when the Sexual Master for Men opens for registration.

Signup here.


Published 2023-08-11

5 Ways Men Cockblock Themselves

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The clinical definition of “cockblocking” that you’ll find in the DSM is to “prevent copulation”. 


It’s usually done by one person to another, but today, we’re talking about how men do it to themselves. 


What are the things that minimize a man’s chances of having any sex, let alone life-changing, gourmet sex? 


We’ll talk about the top five self-cockblocks and how to remedy them. 


In today’s all star interview, we’ll be speaking with well-f**ked man Jim, to hear how he has un-cockblocked himself in all these areas: 

  • F**king his woman into oblivion: “G-Spot orgasms, cervical orgasms. It’s like open communication with God when she has them. There is an exorcism of demons and then bliss and joy. Her senses are on fire; her vagina is on fire…and then I f**k her harder.”
  • Weight loss: “Since SMM, I have lost 45 pounds.” 
  •  Stamina: “My stamina is off the Richter scale; I can go for an hour of penetration.” 

And his play-by-play in seizing control of his cock, his masculine power, and his woman. 

We cover ALL of these uncockblocking and cockfidence building practices in my legendary 8-week online salon—Sexual Mastery for Men Salon, where you’ll learn: 

  • How to last longer in bed: my massively effective techniques to eliminate premature ejaculation permanently and extend your staying power for as long as you want. 
  • Orgasms without ejaculation. 
  • How to achieve the deeper, vaginal orgasms for women. 
  • Cock lengthening and strengthening exercises.
  • How to occupy your masculine power and dominance to embody the alpha male energy that all women want.  
  • How to use your sexual energy and relationship as a power source in your life to bring you more cash, business success and overall life abundance. 
  • And much more!

Signup for the free video series and salon at Sexual Mastery for Men

Published 2023-08-04

Does Size Matter?

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A definitive and honest answer to the quintessential question. 

  • Is there such a thing as "too small"? 
  • Can a man be too big? 
  • Five ways a man can occupy his full cock size and power 
  • Can you really grow cock? Organically? 
  • How to f**k like you have an 11-inch cock 

The Sexual Mastery for Men Salon opens soon! This is my signature 8-week online program for men, to become sexual masters of themselves—and their cocks. 


In the salon we cover: 

  • How to build epic stamina and separate orgasm from ejaculation 
  • Cock exercises to lengthen, strengthen and grow cock: organically!
  • Deeper healing modalities to release trauma 
  • Detoxing from porn 
  • How to channel your sexual energy as a creative power, increasing your vitality, confidence and cash flow. 
  • A pelvic weight lifting routine 
  • Orgasmapedia: the guide to female orgasms 
  • Finding your masculine expression in the world: how to “man up” in today’s “hostile-to-masculine-energy” climate.

For the free preview videos you can watch, and my "7 Days to Supercock" series with exercises you can practice TONIGHT to build stamina, signup at Sexual Mastery for Men.


Published 2023-07-28

She Comes First, Second, Third, Fourth, Fifth…

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It is the golden rule of female orgasms: She comes first, second, third, fourth and fifth.


Once your woman has been thoroughly, artfully, heart-fully f**ked into oblivion, then you can come. 


And if a woman is only having one orgasm—or one paltry clitoral orgasm—then I guarantee that not only has she not been well-f**ked, but that she will be significantly UNDERf**ked and sorely lacking. 


In today’s episode: 

  • Why jizzing all over the place like a teenage boy at the slightest provocation makes your woman stop having sex with you (“The Come Fairy made me do it!”) 
  • How the more unfaze-able you are, the more f**kable you are as a man.
  • Why stamina is the most important sexual skill you can cultivate 
  • Why one is never enough for women  

The Supercock: Sexual Mastery for Men Salon is coming in September. This is signature 8-week online program for men. 


In it, you’ll learn how to: 

  • Achieve superstar stamina and be a marathon f**ker. 
  • Learn to separate orgasm from ejaculation 
  • Give your woman multiple G-Spot, cervical and squirting orgasms 
  • Build a Supercock with exercises to increase strength, length and girth 
  • Occupy your alpha, dominant masculine power and take charge in bed and in life
  • And much, much more! 

To be notified of when we open registration and receive my free, preview video series, go to Sexual Mastery for Men

A response to the idiocy of using terms like "bonus hole", "chest feeders", "birthing people" and the cumulative encroachment on women.

  • "Chest feeder"
  • "Birthing person" 
  • "Uterus haver" 
  • "Menstruating person" 

And now it’s a “bonus hole” for a vagina. 

Get. The. F*ck. Out. Of. Here. 


Where does it end? 


With humans only having test tube babies because they no longer have genitals, or forget what they were ever used for? 


If you look at this new movie trailer that just came out called The Pod, the predictive programming tells us that this is the actual plan for the future.


Whatever choices adults make for their own bodies, is up to them. 

But why must the language that describes the power of birth, and  the holiness of women's bodies be erased as some kind of plaintive apology for existing? 


Enough. 


Vaginas are the origin of the f**king universe. 

They are the sacred life-creating and soul-giving portals of pure bliss and ecstasy. 


I celebrate the wild, magical and divine channels that women and their yonis are.

And I hail the powerful, strong, dominant, heroic nature of men and their cocks. 

Always. And forever. 

IN this episode: 

  • Why I wholly (ha!) reject all of these infantile, placating terms and how people using them are advancing this agenda 
  • The path to true enlightenment lies in OWNING the body you have 
  • The answer to all this madness 
Published 2023-07-07

Cervical Orgasms: God’s Greatest Gift

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Yes: God wants you to have them, and wants you to have lots of them.

One of the most common things we hear when women start having cervical orgasms is:

“I saw God!”

For clarity’s sake, let’s define God as spirit, energy, nature, the life force of the universe—whatever you want to call it.

So women get f**ked really, really well—whether by themselves, or with their partner—and they “see God.”
They feel:

  • At one with life.
  • In sync with the rhythm of life and in touch with people and the flow of the universe.
  • Bliss radiating through their bodies and emotions. They are transmitting signals of ecstasy constantly.
  • Deeply connected to themselves, and truly LOVE being in their own skin, as opposed to feeling like they want to crawl out of it and dissociate.

They transcend their little selves, and their mind grooves and elevate to a more beautiful version of who they are, acting from their highest selves.

They find intuition, grace, compassion and love.

They radiate beauty and flow.

  • Finding God and salvation through the body, not by avoiding it
  • What do cervical orgasms feel like?
  • My top 5 tips for having them
  • Three all-stars share their God-seeing moments in cervical orgasms
  • How I find God

 
The Well-F**ked Woman Salon is open!

In this 8-week online salon, I've compiled the best of my 30 years of orgasmic experience (!) to take you over the edge into a lifetime of bliss.

You'll learn:

- Step-by-step instructions for the deeper vaginal orgasms: G-Spot, cervical and squirting
- How to transform challenging menstruation, PMS and menopause into blissful portals
- Self-pleasuring 101 and how to channel sexual energy into creative genius
- Using your feminine essence to build a life of ease and pleasure
- Breast massage to tone, lift and activate the orgasmic potential of the breasts
- How to give your man enlightened blow jobs and hand jobs

Come and get it.

Published 2023-07-02

Big, Blissful Breast Orgasms

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My top four suggestions for creating body-blowing breast orgasms. Plus: 

  • How to overcome the dissociation many women feel and love and own your breasts
  • How breasts alchemize emotions and are essential tools for us to use
  • Three Well-F**ked All Stars share on how they went from numb and disconnected to radiant, cosmic, multi-orgasmic breast and nipple-gasms.

Our Well-F**ked All Stars have gone through the gamut of breast experiences, from extended breastfeeding to total disconnection and they range in age from their twenties to their mid-sixties. 

Says Amanda:

“The breast massage was mind-blowing to me because I fell in love with my breasts for the first time. You talk about the whole concept of infinite possibility and using your intention. I said, “I’m going to grow my breasts! I’m going to grow them a whole size, just to see,” and they did. They got way fuller. They grew an entire cup size.”

The Well-F**ked Woman Salon is open!

In this 8-week online salon, I've compiled the best of my 30 years of orgasmic experience (!) to take you over the edge into a lifetime of bliss.

You'll learn:

- Step-by-step instructions for the deeper vaginal orgasms: G-Spot, cervical and squirting
- How to transform challenging menstruation, PMS and menopause into blissful portals
- Self-pleasuring 101 and how to channel sexual energy into creative genius
- Using your feminine essence to build a life of ease and pleasure
- Breast massage to tone, lift and activate the orgasmic potential of the breasts
- How to give your man enlightened blow jobs and hand jobs

Come and get it.

Published 2023-06-25

How to F**k Your Man into Oblivion

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F**k them until you change them is what I always say. How do you know when you’ve f**ked someone enough? 

They change. They metamorphose into a new person. 

Into a new, better, ideal, full-bodied, soul-expressed version of their highest selves.  

Their tired and weary parts fall away. Fear, anxiety, insecurity, isolation, anger, playing small in life—they evaporate.

They get alchemized and transformed into love, freedom, power and bliss. 

And a sexually powerful, gushing, orgasming, well-f**ked woman and a Supercock. 

All this in the wake of your powerful sexual love. And your ability to f**k annihilate someone. 

In this episode:

  • The proper way to f**k annihilate a man
  • My top four tips and techniques for bringing him to his knees
  • Cock as the divining rod to heaven and making you a better person as well. I mean, come on. It’s a “divine rod”, right?!
  • Hungry women can only be satisfied with cervical orgasms and wild, sumptuous cock
  • Feminine surrender as the ultimate f**k obliteration tool. And being an accomplished deep throatier. Rhymes with hotelier. I just came up with that. Quick I better trademark it before some underf**ked hoe steals it!
  • Brooke’s enduring love affair with cock and her insatiable desire to have it daily 

The WFW Salon opens for registration on June 28th. 

In this 8-week how-to-live-love-and-orgasm-in-a-female-body education you never received, you'll learn how to:

  • Master the technical skills of oral sex, deep throating, anal sex and wild hand jobs, plus how to use these sex acts to accelerate your personal growth and transformation.  
  • Achieve the deeper, life-changing, vaginal orgasms: G-Spot, cervical, anal and more
  • Tap into your deep feminine power, learning the art of letting go and surrender in your own life and in your intimate relationship 
  • And much more!

To learn How to Be a Well-F**ked Woman, get on the mailing list to be notified of when the salon opens for signup, and in the meantime you can take the “How Underf**ked Are You?” quiz and watch the WFW free preview video series.

Published 2023-06-16

Wet, Wet Menopause

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Women “of a certain age” can be orgasming, ejaculating and LUBRICATING ALL OVER the place, with raging libidos. Without ANY assistance from a bottle of lube or artificial hormones. I guarantee it. 

One of the myths I LOVE busting the most is the idea that menopause is a time when women dry up. They lose any and all sexual juiciness and must resign themselves to a life of perma-lube and Anne Taylor.

Menopausal women are the cash cow of Western medicine.

Do we really think that nature is so dumb, that it made women’s bodies in such a way that they would be required to take outside medicine for half of their lives, just to feel good?
 
This is ridiculous.

In other cultures—especially non-North American ones—there are people who don’t even have a WORD for menopause, because it’s a non-event.

Our Well-F**ked All Star Amber Jean shares: “I am JUICY....! Gushingly alive "down there." Fifty-six f**king years old and wetter than I've been in decades...lube is no longer necessary—ever.”

In this episode: 
- Why does this particular condition seem to afflict Western women, and in particular, North American women, more than any other women in the world? 
- How to pass through this life transition seamlessly 
- Interview with 56-year-old "wet wet wet" Well-F**ked All Star Amber Jean 
- Lube no more! 
- Amber Jean shares how she can still have cervical orgasms—even without a cervix 
- And, how she healed breast lumps so they disappeared on their own 
- The true spiritual purpose and power of menopause that most women never realize 

My How to Be a Well-F**ked Woman Salon opens for registration in two weeks! 
 
This is my 8-week, online signature salon for women that shows you how to be well-fucked at every age and stage, including menopause,
 
We cover much of what Amber talked about: 

  • Natural hormonal balancing. 
  • Breast massage to tone, lift and enrage the breast as well last holistic breast care practices 
  • Living a life with no lube - except for anal play - then you can lube it up! 
  • Well-fucked menopause 
  • How to have the deeper vaginal orgasms: G-Spot, squirting and cervical
  • My cock whispering secrets to ecstatic blow jobs, deep throating, anal play and manual techniques to bring him to his knees 
  • How to surrender and activate your feminine magnetism 
  • And much more! 

To learn How to Be a Well-F**Ked Woman, get on the mailing list to be notified of when the salon opens for signup, and in the meantime you can take the “How Underf**ked Are You?” quiz and watch the WFW free preview video series. 

Published 2023-06-09

All Women Are Insatiable

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The Anami Guarantee is that all women are ravenous and insatiable. Once you wake them up. 

All women have high libidos and are ravenously sexual. I guarantee it. 


“But Kim! Some women just aren’t that sexual!”


“But Kim! Women have lower sex drives than men!”


“But Kim! Sex isn’t the most important part of a relationship!”


To which I say: 


Bullshit. Bullshit. Bullshit. 


All women are erotically wild with voracious appetites. I guarantee it. 


Once you unlock and turn them on, they keep on coming. 


In today’s episode: 


I always want a cock deep inside of me. I always want something inside of my vagina. Now I know, it’s air and food. It’s something that you eat, you breathe, and you fuck.”


Also: 

  • All women are naturally multi-orgasmic and have a higher sexual capacity than men (Don’t worry guys. You can catch up, with study).  
  • All vaginas lubricate and ejaculate profusely 
  • Nine keys to insatiability 

My legendary Well-F**ked Woman Salon opens for registration at the end of June. This is my 8-week online salon for all things female sexual mastery. We cover:

  • How to boost your libido, clear your blocks and become a sexually insatiable woman
  • Enlightened blow jobs, deep throating, and manual techniques to make you a champion cock whisperer
  • My full orgasmapedia of vaginal orgasms: how to have G-Spot, cervical and squirting orgasms.
  • Self-pleasuring 101
  • Breast massage to tone, lift and enlarge the breasts
  • Taoist techniques to convert sexual energy into creative energy
  • How to use your sexual energy to heal yourself and your body
  • And much more!

Signup today for the free preview video series and to take the quiz and find out "Are you underf*ked?" 

Published 2023-05-26

Asexuality Is Bullshit

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“Asexuality” is an invented, fictional term which attempts to “normalize” the idea of having no sex drive. There are any number of reasons why someone my have a low libido. Being "asexual" as a condition or way of life is not one of them. In this episode, we discuss some of the things that block people from realizing their true sexual potential and selves. 

We cover: 

- The biggest legitimate reasons for having a low libido and feeling sexually disconnected 
- Are female animals attracted to Beta males? 
- Weak genitals = weak sex drive 
- Chemical sterilization and poisoning 
- Pop singer Robbie Williams would rather eat tangerines than have sex 

Published 2023-05-15

Plagiarists Are Underf**ked

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99.9% of people are underf**ked. Does that mean 99.9% of people can't come up with original ideas? 

In this episode: 

- Why plagiarists are by definition rabidly underf**ked
- The relationship between being original, well-f**ked and expressing your creative genius
- Why women stealing content from other women is not "women supporting women"
- How people defending plagiarism (bizarre, I know) are also wildly underf**ked and also likely plagiarists
- Why most people truly are not creative and original and how you can be

Published 2023-04-20

The FÜKMOR Parenting Method

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One of the most common and socially acceptable excuses for not having sex as a couple, is when you have children. No one will fault you for that.


Oh, you have a new baby? Of course you aren’t having sex! You haven’t had sex in a few years? Well you have so many children, how could you ever find the time?” 


The irony here is that the more you have sex, the easier and more effective your parenting will be. The better the sex you have, you’ll find that your whole life, especially as a parent, flows with ease and grace and harmony. 


Wanna know why? 


Because your bed is the epicentre of your family. The energy that you cultivate from your intimate life radiates out and reverberates into everything you do. Especially your children and family. 


You, as the couple, are the engine. When you are in love and having passionate, life-changing, life-building sex, you are feeding and nourishing yourselves and everyone around you. 


In this episode: 

  • Couple with six children magically finds/makes the time to have regular sex
  • Mom of 6 has 30 cervical orgasms in a row
  • They share how the delicacy of the connection between them as parents/lovers impacts their children 
  • Hot sex life = hot business life. 
  • Getting two hours of sleep because you’ve been up most of the night making love and having so much energy from each other that you float through the day, unfaze-able 
  • How much easier it is to magnetize opportunities in your life when you put your relationship first 


Published 2023-04-14

Tantra + Slow Sex for Ecstatic Orgasms

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Orgasms that last for hours and days. Can you handle that much bliss? 

In this episode: 
- The importance of marathon f**king
- Harvesting sexual energy as a creative power source 
- The relationship between "fast sex" and sexual trauma 
- 3-day sex dates
- Enlightened sex acts like yoni and lingam massage, in our all star interview with Jim and Meg 

Published 2023-04-07

Polarity: The Hottest Sexual Chemistry

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The hottest sexual chemistry and couples who can’t keep their hands off each other, generally have exaggerated feminine and masculine energies at play.


Archetypically speaking, feminine energy is softer, open, receptive, and embodies the spiritual notion of surrender. The goddess archetype. 


Masculine energy is more active, achievement-oriented, driven, takes charge, makes things happen. The warrior archetype.


We all have these energies. Our sex life gives us a chance to explore and play with these themes, to experiment, try them on, and bring dormant parts of us to the surface.

Today we’re talking to Well-F**ked All Stars Jim and Meg. They’ve done every Anami Salon since they began their journey last year with Coming Together. 

In this episode: 

  • Why gender neutrality was killing their marriage and sex life 
  • How embodying their respective masculine and feminine energies revived their relationship, leading to the best sex ever: “We can’t keep our hands off each other. Everyone thinks we’re newlyweds!” 
  • Can you be gender neutral and well-f**ked? 
  • What it looks and feels like to be surrendered and in the feminine and masculine: sexually, and in work/life 
  • The exhaustion of denying polarity vs. the wet, hard, wild energy of letting it inside you 

The Coming Together for Couples Salon is now open! 


This is my 10-week online salon for couples. 


In it, we go deep into how to break out of the buddies and sexless rut and into the wild and orgasmic reality of sexuality polarity, helping you to reconnect with and own your potent masculine and feminine essences. 


We also go into all things Orgasmapedia: from full-body and energy orgasms, G-Spot orgasms for her AND him, cervical orgasms, and Supercock stamina building so he can get here there! 


You’ll receive tutorials in Tantric breathing and energy practices, yoni and lingam massage, how to use sexual reflexology maps and sexual positions for healing and rejuvenation. 


And much more! 


Signup now.


Published 2023-03-31

From Fighting to F**king

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If you aren’t f**king enough, or f**king well, you are going to be fighting. Whether you’re in a relationship where the sex is infrequent, or subpar, and you are bickering and testy with each other. Or, if you are single, and you create opportunities to yell at shop clerks and road rage at someone for not going fast enough on their way to the stoplight.

All of this is misdirected sexual energy.


In today’s all star interview, we’re talking with Premala and David. We speak about:

  • Premala’s history of severe sexual abuse and her journey to become a well-fucked all star
  • How they went from fighting to f**king and barely having sex in two years to now having it 3-4 times a day
  • Fight, flight and freeze as responses to unhealed trauma
  • Our lady of perpetual wetness
  • Buying special towels for all the squirting ejaculate
  • Both needing to work out more to stay fitter for all the f**king
  • Premala having the full range of Orgasmpedia in her daily repertoire: G-Spot orgasms for lunch, cervical orgasms for dinner
  • Manifesting their dream lives from all the amazing f**king they are doing

The Coming Together for Couples Salon opens for registration next week! This is my premier online program for showing you how to come together emotionally and sexually.


In the meantime, you can sign up for my free 7-Day Sex Cleanse. This mini-program starts as soon as you register for it. You’ll receive an email each day with a lesson to view and then assignments which will be a blend of emotional connection exercises and Tantric practices. 


Go Coming Together for Couples and you’ll find the signup for the Sex Cleanse there. 


 

Published 2023-03-26

F**k Medicine: Kim's Sex Rx

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Did you know that you can fuck your problems away? That cock can heal your depression? And open your heart? That pussy juice can take away your back pain? And give you energy? Did you know that certain sexual positions can make you smarter? 


That’s right. You have a veritable pharmacy in your bed. Sex Rx or Good-fuck medicine, as I like to call it, is healing power that you have at your fingertips. 


And your genitals. 

Every time you have sex with your partner, you have the power to give them—and yourself—a rejuvenating, anti-aging, anti-depressant, weight loss drug and psychedelic experience all at once. 

Published 2023-03-16

Meditate, Masturbate, Create

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I don’t do coffee. I do orgasms. 


My legendary Meditate, Masturbate, Create three-step formula will help you to break out of the habit of using sex as a genital sneeze and sleep aid and instead show you how to rewire yourself to get high, tap your creative genius, and infuse ecstasy into all of your waking life. 

Published 2023-02-17

How Casual Is Casual Sex?

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“Casual” sex is a massive contradiction and oxymoron. How casual sex really impacts you, in ways you’ve likely never thought of before.

  • Casual sex vs. gourmet sex 
  • What’s the true impact of casual sex 
  • 10 reasons why to go f**k yourself instead
  • The false liberation of The Pill 
  • Do you need many partners to be “experienced”? 
  • Are men and women built differently for casual sex? 
  • Is it worth getting a "practice partner"? 



Published 2023-02-03

Toss Your Lubes!!

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"You’re always wet!” 

This is one of the things my lovers have said to me most often.

They’re shocked. 

They aren’t used to touching a women and she’s already dripping wet. 

It’s normally something in the past that they have to work at to create, or need to squeeze out of a plastic tube.

Most men and women have been conditioned to think that lube doesn’t actually come from inside a woman’s vagina! 

Well. 

Me and thousands of vaginas are here to tell you that you’re wrong.

Lubrication definitely comes from vaginas.

Kung fu vaginas, anyway.

In this episode: 

  • 5 tips for natural, gushing lubrication 
  • Why women actually “dry up” 
  • A woman can be wet at any age and stage of her life
  • Lube and the American Dream 
  • The great menopause psyop 
Published 2023-01-27

Healing Sexual Trauma with the Yoni Egg

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"I don't stargaze; I vagina-gaze." 


This is one of the most profound podcast episodes I've done. 

I interview our Well-F**ked All-Star Katie, who shares how she healed her sexual trauma primarily through using the jade yoni egg.

“I was one of those women you talk about who never even looked at my own vagina. I was terrified to. I couldn’t touch myself because of a longstanding history of childhood sexual trauma.”

She’d tried countless other therapies to address not only her trauma history, but the resulting expressions of it, like her endometriosis and painful periods. 

I always say that ALL—and I mean ALL—reproductive ailments are symptoms of stuck sexual energy. 

The source is often unresolved trauma. 

It gets lodged in the body. 

And to the body we must go, in order to find it, illuminate it, and transform it. 

Exactly as Katie has done. 

Through taking both VKF and WFW, Katie threw herself into this and applied ALL of the tools I offered her. 


“My endometriosis is gone. Gone! No heavy periods, no painful bleeding. It is normal and healthy. I had tried lots of remedies and herbs…It was healing the sexual trauma. That’s what my body was crying out for.”

I used to associate being a woman with pain and trauma and blood. But now I dance around the house naked, reveling in the magical, sacred, special witch-iness of this woman’s body.

I went from being a highly sensitive person, to having a highly sensitive pussy.”

Katie also has some words for the skeptical and self-doubting: 


“I know what it’s like to feel like you’re the one woman who can’t and who won’t. Now, from my experience, if I can, anyone can. If you keep showing up for yourself, your body will show up for you and you can be part of The Anami Guarantee.”

If you are new around these parts, The Anami Guarantee states that:

ALL people can.

All women can have ravenous libidos, experience multiple orgasms: G-Spot, ejaculatory and cervical. All women can have blissful periods and menopause. All men can last for hours in bed, have rock-hard erections into their 90s and learn to separate orgasm from ejaculation.

I truly love this interview, because it shows you that all the healing power you need, is right inside you.

If you’re ready for your own vaginal odyssey, you can join Vaginal Kung Fu now.

In the salon, you receive:

- The tools and techniques to uncover and recover from sexual trauma.
- Guided instructions to perform your own healing yoni massage
- Full jade egg workout routines
- Guided visualizations to help you with higher level subconscious healing and re-patterning: As above, so below.
- Breast massage techniques to tone, lift and enlarge the breasts 
- Sexual position prescription mood guide—this tells you which sexual positions to be in to balance out different moods. For example, if you are angry, sad, depressed.
- Taoist qi gong practices to rid yourself of difficult PMS, periods and menopause
- How to use your sexual energy to create and attract abundance in your life 

All this and more! 

The salon is open for registration for another week, until Feb 4th.


Click here to signup!

I often use the hashtag: #poweredbyvagina

Which means: my vagina created this.

Vaginas aren’t just for making babies, you know!

They’re also for creating your dreams.

I’m always talking about how our sexual energy is creative, life-force energy.

If you aren’t creating babies with it, you can use it to build your life.

When your vagina is happy and healthy and it’s getting well-f**ked on a regular basis, it is very productive.

In fact, your life and work output is directly related to your vaginal satisfaction.

Turn on your vagina and you turn on your life.

With a switched on, aroused and activated vagina, your creative powers are at their maximum potential.

Your vagina is your mover and shaker. This is your ultimate power source.

Sexual energy is creative energy.

If you aren’t birthing babies with this energy, you can channel it out into the world and birth—and rebirth—every part of your life.

In this episode:

  • The sex and money connection
  • How I stabilized my weight and sculpted my body
  • Attracting high caliber partners without even trying
  • The evolution and elevation of my own business
  • How deep throating leads to amazing business opportunities
  • Where I get all my viral media campaign ideas from
  • Four steps to manifest everything you want in your life
Published 2023-01-13

Clitoral Orgasms Are for Amateurs

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In this episode:

  • My top FOUR tips for moving from the clitoris into the holy land of the vaginas 
  • Not one, not two, but THREE epic all-star stories of women sharing their sexual and life transformations via their vaginas and cervical orgasms 
  • Why do people fight for the right not to orgasm? 
  • The fastest way to de-numb your vagina
  • Why only having clitoral orgasms leaves you underf**ked 
Published 2023-01-06

A Strong Vagina Keeps the Botox Away

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Do you have an uplifting vagina?

Did you know that lifting weights with your vagina does all of the following?

  • Creates an overall lift in your mood
  • Lifts the pelvic floor, and all your internal organs so they don’t fall out—um yes, this is a thing that happens to 50% of women after childbirth
  • Gives you a facelift. Bye bye Botox.
  • Prevents leakage: energetic and otherwise. 

Yes, having a strong, uplifted vagina uplifts every part of your life.

When you lift at the genitals, you create an energetic uplift throughout the entire body.

In women, this translates into a natural facelift, breast lift.

Your sexual energy is one of your greatest and most creative tools.

When you are properly accessing it, you’ll see how it inspires your life, giving you a buoyancy, a resilience, and an ability to go with the flow.

It gets you high.

I always say—if you want to get high, have more sex.

If you want to get higher, have sex with a strong set of genitals that can pump up your sexual energy from your lower centres to your higher ones, cultivating higher potency encounters.

In this episode: 

  • Natural face lifts and breast lifts: for realz. 
  • How are you leaking energy? Seal it and pull it up.
  • Tap into the Fountain of Youth
  • Vaginal acupressure treatments with the jade egg 

All my vaginal power secrets and practices will be revealed in the upcoming Vaginal Kung Fu Salon.

The salon opens for registration on January 18th. Get on the list to be notified when it does, and check out my free preview video series for the salon now, which includes an exercise you can do tonight!

Click here to signup

Published 2022-11-11

Should I Stay or Should I Go?

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I did a podcast a couple of years back called “When One Person Wants to Grow”.

In it, I talked about what to do when one person in the relationship is more keen on growth and healing, and the other is not.

In Anami Land, a conscious, gourmet sex relationship requires both people to be actively participating.
It doesn’t work if one person is consistently putting in more effort than the other.

The magic only happens when both people dive deep and commit to 150% effort.

I highly recommend listening to the “When One Person Wants to Grow” episode. Consider this a follow up. 

Let's say you tried what I suggested in that episode and your partner is still consistently uninterested in growing with you and cockblocks you and your relationship. 


Here is my straight Anami-style talk about what I suggest. 

In this episode:

  • At what point do you call it quits in a relationship
  • What is an acceptable pace to move and grow at
  • The lie of limbo 
  • The impact of stagnation on your overall life 
  • What it looks and feels like in a relationship where both people are committed to growth. Hint: it’s sheer jubilation and nothing less. 
Published 2022-10-27

Fertile at 45!

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There are so many pregnancy myths and misinformation that it’s truly a delight to bust them all. 

Birth is painful? 

Nope. Birth is actually meant to be the biggest orgasm of your life. 

The safest place to have a baby is in a hospital? 

Nope. It’s actually the most dangerous. The safest place to have a baby is at home. 

You need an OBYGN to “deliver” your baby for you. 

Lol, nope. 

Your body and eons of encoded wisdom know exactly what to do if you can remove all of the bullshit programming and in-doctor-nation that tells you otherwise. 

It’s “risky” to have a baby over the age of 30 or 35 or whatever the arbitrary number is they invent. 

NOPE. So long as you are healthy and create space, you can get pregnant whenever you want. 

And that is the topic of today’s podcast: 

Conscious conception and a woman who is pregnant with her first child at age 45. 

Today’s well-f**ked all star interview features Katalin, a first time mother who conceived her baby at age 45. 

She’s taken a few of my salons and then signed up for Sexy Mama. 

Within months of trying, she and her partner conceived. In her words: 

“We never went to see a doctor, we just trusted that it will happen naturally.”

She was terrified of birth prior to taking Sexy Mama. 

She’d bought into the fear mongering for most of her life—the sole purpose of which is to shepherd women into hospitals by convincing them of the lie that childbirth is far too dangerous to go through on their own—and she transcended it to the point where now after completing the salon she is “totally comfortable and will not even consider a hospital birth.”

In today’s episode: 

  • My top 3 tips for natural conception at any age and stage 
  • The deeper problem with IVF and forced fertility 
  • The role of the quality of your relationship in your fertility journey 
  • Vaginal reconnaissance 
  • Well-f**ked all star Katarin shares how she went from skeptical to firmly committed to home birth and how she conceived naturally at age 45

The Sexy Mama Salon begins today! 

This is my 8-week online salon on all things holistic pregnancy and ecstatic childbirth.

It's my view and experience that just like all women can have vaginal orgasms and voracious libidos, so too can they have orgasmic, transcendent, blissful births.

Yes, every woman can.

She just need to clear the blockages and programming she's taken on via a corrupt medical system and culture at large that seeks to remove a woman from this power.

I seek to restore her to it.

That's what we do in Sexy Mama. We systematically go through every stage from conception through pregnancy, birth and postpartum to "reprogram" you with all the strength and power and ecstasy to make these peak, life-affirming experiences and create an imprint of bliss for life.

Yes, it's possible for everyone.

These women are living proof. And so too can you be.

Even if you aren't currently pregnant or have immediate plans for children, I would suggest signing up so you can begin the "reprogramming" process and create confidence in your choices, knowing they are backed up by facts and impeccable research.

See you inside! 

~Kxx

Published 2022-10-20

The Lie of Postpartum Depression

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In this episode I chat with Rachelle Garcia Seliga of Innate Traditions and we discuss: 

  • The five pillars of a restorative postpartum
  • The role of birth trauma in postpartum depression
  • Indigenous traditions in postpartum care around the world
  • The role of community and how to create it 
  • A man’s role and its impact on their relationship overall 
Published 2022-10-13

Psychedelic Birth

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Birth is an initiation that unifies you with the cosmos and solidifies your role as a channel for the divine. 


You are the vessel for life-force to come through. You are a portal to other dimensions. 


In accessing these places, you ascend to higher states of consciousness. And you stay there. Because you’ve earned it. 


Yes, this is what birth was meant to be. 


The fact that most women’s birth experiences and the collective cultural understanding—or shall I say misunderstanding—of what birth is, is so FAR FROM this, tells us a lot about the problems in the current paradigm of the allopathic treatment of pregnant women. 


Left to our their own devices, our bodies, and nature will create the most perfect and even orgasmic, psychedelic birth experience. 

In today’s interview, we have the legendary Well-F**ked Star Amanda. We chat about: 

  • What it’s like to walk through pregnancy and birth without seeing anyone about anything vs. her first two pregnancies with a midwife 
  • Psychedelic visions she received in each birth
  • How being surrendered and UN-INTERFERED with allowed these visions to come through 
  • Orgasms as pre-natal care
  • Plant medicine vs. birth and cervical orgasms 
  • How birthing from her own intuition has transformed her as a person to become her truest, highest and most confident self and mother 

The Sexy Mama Salon is open for registration!

https://kimanami.com/sexy-mama

This is my 8-week online salon on all things holistic pregnancy and ecstatic childbirth.


It's my view and experience that just like all women can have vaginal orgasms and voracious libidos, so too can they have orgasmic, transcendent, blissful births. 


Yes, every woman can. 


She just need to clear the blockages and programming she's taken on via a corrupt medical system and culture at large that seeks to remove a woman from this power. 


I seek to restore her to it. 


That's what we do in Sexy Mama. We systematically go through every stage from conception through pregnancy, birth and postpartum to "reprogram" you with all the strength and power and ecstasy to make these peak, life-affirming experiences and create an imprint of bliss for life. 


Yes, it's possible for everyone. 


These women are living proof. And so too can you be. 


Even if you aren't currently pregnant or have immediate plans for children, I would suggest signing up so you can begin the "reprogramming" process and create confidence in your choices, knowing they are backed up by facts and impeccable research.

Register now: 
https://kimanami.com/sexy-mama


It’s a commonly accepted and very socially validated reason not to have sex: You have kids Especially young kids. 


Haven’t had sex in a few years? Of course! You have children! This is one of the most acceptable excuses there is. 


No one will judge you or admonish you. They’ll just cluck their tongues and nod. Often, because they’ve been there too. Or, because it’s a convenient narrative to buy into, instead of looking at the real reasons this has happened. 


In this episode: 

  • The three biggest reasons why couples stop having sex after children 
  • Why having children ought to make you have more sex rather than less 
  • How to ensure your sex life stays intact through pregnancy, birth and through early childhood 
Published 2022-09-16

Power Thrusters

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I often say that it’s not “behind every good man is a woman”. 

Au contraire. 

Behind every good woman is a man, on his knees and ferociously thrusting and giving her everything he’s got. 

In order to transform your partner into  well-f**ked woman, your thrusting game needs to be on point. 

To get to the deeper, vaginal, life-changing orgasms—G-Spot and cervical, women need SUSTAINED penetration. 

A two-pump chump just ain’t gonna cut it. 

In this video: 

- Thrusting do’s and don’ts 
- Techniques and maneuvers to be a power thruster 
- The best position for cervical orgasms
- Strengthening the cock for Supercock-status thrusting

******
SEXUAL MASTERY FOR MEN: Supercock for Life! 

In my signature 8-week online salon Sexual Mastery for MEN, you can learn how to: 

- Achieve superstar stamina and be a marathon f**ker. 
- Learn to separate orgasm from ejaculation 
- Take that sexual creative power and manifest in your life with it 
- Give your woman multiple G-Spot, cervical and squirting orgasms 
- Build a Supercock with exercises to increase strength, length and girth 
- Occupy your alpha, dominant masculine power and take charge in bed and in life

And much, much more! 

You have weekly videos full of techniques and my well-f**ked secrets, homeplay for singles and couples and weekly live Q&A coaching calls with me! Plus, you have lifetime access to the course. 

Are you coming??? 

Register now: 
https://kimanami.com/sexual-mastery-for-men-salon/

Published 2022-09-09

All Men Can Orgasm without Ejaculation

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An essential life skill of a Supercock is having total control over his ejaculation. 

He is a marathon f**ker who can go for hours if he chooses to. 

Being a man who knows how to separate orgasm from ejaculation? 

THIS is probably the ultimate Supercock achievement. 

Yes, it’s totally possible. 

The Anami Guarantee states that:

All men can have rock solid erections into their 90s, master their orgasmic control and be able to go for an hour, three hours and all night if they wish. 

And. All men can learn to separate orgasm from ejaculation. 

I guarantee it. 

This is something I teach in my Sexual Mastery for Men Salon. 

In today’s All Star interview, we’re speaking with Steve. 

Steve mastered this practice in two weeks. 

In today’s episode: 

  • Why does it matter? Ancient Taoist and Tantric wisdom, NoFap and “Don’t have sex before the big game!” all add up to something. 
  • How to feel energized after sex rather than needing a nap. 
  • Steve talks about going from coming after 10 minutes of penetration to now having multiple orgasms, being able to have 10 to 15 orgasms in a row, and separating orgasms from ejaculation.
  • Short sessions are now an hour and longer ones are 3+ hours on the weekends. 

In my signature 8-week online salon Sexual Mastery for MEN, you can learn how to: 

  • Achieve superstar stamina and be a marathon f**ker. 
  • Learn to separate orgasm from ejaculation 
  • Take that sexual creative power and manifest in your life with it 
  • Give your woman multiple G-Spot, cervical and squirting orgasms 
  • Build a Supercock with exercises to increase strength, length and girth 
  • Occupy your alpha, dominant masculine power and take charge in bed and in life
  • And much, much more! 

You have weekly videos full of techniques and my well-f**ked secrets, homeplay for singles and couples and weekly live Q&A coaching calls with me! Plus, you have lifetime access to the course. 


Register now: https://kimanami.com/sexual-mastery-for-men-salon/

Published 2022-09-02

Supercock Superpowers

68 min
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Cock is magical thing.

It’s healing, rejuvenating, recalibrating and it opens me up to life, bliss and the divine.

The best cock activates a pussy, setting it on fire so it can realize its true potential.

It functions as a barometer for the man and how he is showing up in his life.

Is he potent, solid and strong?

Then his erections will be as well.

I spoke in last week’s episode about the necessity of a man being able to f**k his woman into oblivion.

You do that with your Supercock.

A Supercock, as opposed to a regular ole’ cock, has realized its true nature and owns its power.

And wields it wisely.

And wildly.

In today’s episode on Supercock Superpowers I chat with Well-F**ked All Star Max on:

– Six qualities a Supercock has
– How to create your dream life—with your cock
– Using your cock as a healer
– Your cock as the great antenna to “point you in the right direction”
– Ejecting your sexual energy vs. using it to create with

Two of my favourite quotes from this interview:

“The old me would reach for a Red Bull. Now I reach for my cock.”

and

“If you have a goal and you want to reach it—sexuality is the way. It is the primary fuel. It is the primary building block. When you lead the way with the cock, things just fall into place.”

Spoken like a true Supercock.

Supercock training camp is open now for registration! 

This 8-week virtual salon is all about harnessing male sexual power and rocking her world.

The salon covers all things sexual mastery:

  • Foreplay
  • How to last for hours…
  • Testosterone boosting
  • Cock lengthening and strengthening exercises
  • How to give your woman G-Spot and cervical vaginal orgasms
  • Cockfidence: inhabiting your cock and your masculine alpha self.
    and even sex acts that will boost your business.

You have weekly videos full of techniques and my well-f**ked secrets, homeplay for singles and couples and weekly live Q&A coaching calls with me! Plus, you have lifetime access to the course.

Register today.

Are you coming???

Published 2022-08-26

How to F**k Your Woman into Oblivion

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What does this even mean? To get fucked into oblivion?

It’s to get fucked so well, so thoroughly, so artfully, so heart-fully that it blows away all the pre-conceived, false notions of who you are, and leaves behind a more true, authentic and beautiful version of you.

Yes, all that and more from a good f**king.

If you’ve followed my work at all, you know that in Anami Land, a good f**king isn’t some version of superficial sex.

It’s deep mind, body, soul penetration.

It’s been seen and held at the deepest level of who you are, having anything that isn’t true or real in your life, blown to smithereens.

THAT is the true power of good-f**k medicine.

So how do you get there? HOW DO you fuck a woman like that?

Today’s all star Jim is going to share with you exactly that, how he went from wanting to end his marriage, to being more in love with his wife than ever, and giving her life-changing, God-seeing, multiple orgasms.

In our vulnerable and often hilarious conversation, we talk about:

- "The number of orgasms has increased along with the type of orgasms. Our highest number for Meg is 6 in one session. 2 cervical, 2 G-Spot, 1 clitoral.”
- Masculine dominance as a key to f**king your woman into oblivion—all hail masculine men
- Salvaging a marriage from the brink of “splitsville” by going all in
- The power of the radical-est radical honesty and the aphrodisiac of truth. Hint, the seemingly hardest truths to tell get you the most wet, hard and orgasmic.
- Witnessing a successful, Fortune 500 company “bulldog” of a woman find the bliss of her feminine flow
- Falling deeply in love with your partner after years of disconnection

 
We cover ALL of this in my legendary 8-week online salon—Sexual Mastery for Men Salon, where you’ll learn: 

  • How to last longer in bed: my massively effective techniques to eliminate premature ejaculation permanently and extend your staying power for as long as you want. 
  • Orgasms without ejaculation. 
  • How to achieve the deeper, vaginal orgasms for women. 
  • Cock lengthening and strengthening exercises.
  • How to occupy your masculine power and dominance to embody the alpha male energy that all women want.  
  • How to use your sexual energy and relationship as a power source in your life to bring you more cash, business success and overall life abundance. 
  • And much more!

https://kimanami.com/sexual-mastery-for-men-salon/

Published 2022-08-19

From Porn to Power

57 min
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To porn or not to porn. That is the question!


A recent study showed that 94% of men had viewed pornography in the last six months. 


And 82% considered themselves “regular viewers” of pornography.


There’s A LOT of information out there on the negative impacts of porn, from the depletion of testosterone and dopamine and its impact on erections, to how addictive it is, to keep its effects going. 


And then there’s how porn effects a man’s relationships with women in general, and a regular partner especially. 


Instead of rattling off a bunch more stats for you, I’m going to let Jonathon share with you directly.  


He started using porn at age 17 and within a year had ED issues. 


He’s had the classic porn trajectory, and now has come out the other side of it. 


He says: 


"Quitting porn was the best thing I ever did for my sex life.”


and 


 "Since starting the Sexual Mastery for Men course, I have not even thought of porn. The fire in our relationship has exploded once we got on the same sheet of music.”


In our raw and intimate conversation we talk about: 

  • Porn as a formative sexual influence in many young male lives 
  • The additive nature of porn
  • What porn does to your cock 
  • What porn does to your relationship to yourself, and your partner 
  • Why watching porn is akin to being a cuckhold 
  • Porn’s contribution to the beta-fication of men
  • The parasitic nature of porn 
  • The problem with depleting your fluids constantly 

****

My Sexual Mastery for Men Salon opens in late August. In this 8-week online program for men you’ll learn everything from how to: Become a marathon fucker and be able to last for hours in bed 

  • How to separate orgasm from ejaculation - yes, this is possible, and every man can. 
  • How to occupy your more masculine, dominant, alpha male self. 
  • Exercises to increase your cock strength, length and girth 
  • Give your woman the full range of orgasmic experiences, bringing her to G-Spot, cervical and squirting orgasms on the daily. 

And much more. 


You can signup for the salon and check out the free video preview series for the salon at:

https://kimanami.com/sexual-mastery-for-men-salon/

Published 2022-08-12

Rewilding Sexuality

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Before I heard the term, “re-wilding”, I used to talk about the process of “de-civilizing”, which I defined as removing all of the false, super-imposed layers of conditioning we’ve taken on over the course of our lives, and leaving in their place, a purer, more authentic version of the self.

So there’s two parts to this journey then:

  1. Removing what isn’t natural and pulls us out of sync.
  2. Adding back into our lives and routines what brings us back into flow and harmony with ourselves and nature.

If you’ve followed me for any length of time, you’ll see that I don’t recommend ANY artificial interferences in the sexual realm: that includes lube, Viagra, hormones—whether you want to call them “bioidentical” or not—and all ph-Harma_ceutical drugs.

I believe that pretty much anything can be healed naturally, through a combination of physical, emotional, mental and spiritual work to find the energetic root cause.

In this episode:

  • My top recommendations for what to remove from your sexual repertoire
  • What to add in for optimum sexual health, hormonal balance and life-changing orgasms
  • General rewilding practices I recommend
  • Things I’m especially into right now that I incorporate into my daily routine
Published 2022-08-05

From Toxic to Divine Masculinity

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Most men grow up with role models that are “toxic” or “beta".

The thing is, neither the “toxic” version nor the “beta” version are actual masculine energy.

They are devoid of it.

So what is true masculine energy? What are the qualities men can strive to develop in themselves, embodying the divine Supercock that is fulfilling for them and that women are craving?

In today’s episode we’ll talk:

  • Is “toxic” masculinity real or just a rejection of masculine energy?
  • The energy females really want in their men
  • Qualities of the divine masculine
  • The masculinity that gets women wet and weak in the knees

For many men, they are going to have to chisel away at the parts of themselves that have been superimposed, traumatized and programmed through their upbringing and the culture surrounding them, to birth this divine masculine warrior and Supercock for the ages.

He’s there.

And as women, we. want. him.

So give him to us.

Published 2022-07-06

F**king Is Better than Therapy

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Yes, f**king is better than therapy. 

I would know. I’ve done a lot of both.  

Save thousands of dollars and hours.

Work it out in bed instead.

More effective, works faster and much better fun.

I mean, what is the purpose of therapy? 

To confront your demons. 

To heal. 

To be honest with yourself. 

To alchemize your wounds and past pain into wisdom and pleasure. 

Well, my orgasms do that. 

My cervical ones do, anyway. 

They have for years. 

And the fact that they do is why I do what I do. 

Everything I teach about sex and intimacy is guiding you to the place where you can be your own self-healer and master creator of your reality. 

And you can get there through your vagina. 

Specifically, through your vaginal—and especially—cervical orgasms. 

My big barometric question is: Does sex leave you feeling energized, rejuvenated, transformed, ecstatic and like it changed your life? 

IF not, you are doing it wrong. 

You can have sex in a way that depletes you. 

Or energizes you. 

I’m all about getting high through sex. 

And if you are doing that, you are harnessing that super potent energy source that will enable you to do all kinds of things from manifest a new job, to a new partner and heal your body. 

This is exactly what Alexa did. 

She learned how to use this energy, consciously cultivating it, so that it became a tangible source of power, creativity and revitalization in her life. 

Her story is mind and body-blowing and you can hear the well-f**ked radiance OOZE from her voice. 

Hear how Alexa’s vagina helped her to: 

  • Go from being $34k in debt, to mega-prosperity and a TV show in the works 
  • Unleash her creativity: she picked up the songwriting and performing career she’d put on the backburner for years, using my Meditate, Masturbate, Create sequence 
  • Lose 70 lb in body weight and emotional “baggage” 
  • Move from sexual shame and early childhood trauma to not giving a f**k with total confidence 
  • Heal her throat and vulva cysts—they totally disappeared 
  • Find God. In her vagina. 

"I would say 100% that the course that I did with you recently, and just your work in general, was a catalyst for healing for me in all levels of my life.”

The Well-F**ked Woman Salon—the ultimate guide to how to live, love and orgasm in a female body—is now OPEN for registration. 

In the salon we cover:

  • All the different vaginal orgasms and how to get there: G-Spot, cervical and squirting 
  • Self-pleasuring 101 
  • Using your feminine energy to achieve anything you want: from relationships to cash 
  • The secrets of surrender: in bed and in life 
  • Breast massage to tone, lift and enlarge the breasts 
  • BDSM 101  
  • Cock whispering secrets from yours truly, the “cock witch” 
  • And much, much more!

Register for WFW now.

Published 2022-06-30

The Multi-Million Dollar Blow Job

51 min
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Blow jobs can do all kinds of things.

They give pleasure.

And orgasms.

They can land you massive business deals.

And grow cocks.

They can make your yoga practice better.

And your children are calmer and happier.

They can make a man into a warrior, confident, alpha god.

And turn a woman into a sensual goddess.

Did you know that blow jobs are all that and more?

Their ecstatic and reality-bending powers are unlocked when you dive deep into the mysteries of cock love.

This magic bestows itself upon the recipient—and the giver.

In this interview we have Amanda, from our legendary All-Stars couple, Amanda and Mark.

We’ve featured them on the show several times already, and she writes in to give us regular updates on their adventures and their evolution, which are always amazing to hear.

This time they had a very powerful and miracle-worthy, experience with their oral sex explorations.

They had the biggest breakthrough EVER in their business, powered by a 90-minute oral sex session.

Yes, some devoted cocksucking made them rich.

We featured Amanda on the episode “Cock Lovers of the World Unite” where she shared her experience of dissolving a growth in her thyroid from doing lots of deep throating. 

See? I told you. Sucking cock is a truly magical thing.

In the Well-F**ked Woman, which is my 8-week online Salon for all things female sexual mastery, you’ll receive my full tutorials on: 

  • Enlightened cock sucking, deep throating, and manual techniques to make you a champion cock whisperer. 
  • The full orgasmapedia of vaginal orgasms: how to have G-Spot, cervical and squirting orgasms. 
  • Self-pleasuring 101
  • Breast massage to tone, lift and enlarge the breasts
  • Taoist techniques to convert sexual energy into creative energy.
  • How to use your sexual energy to heal yourself and your body 
  • And much more! 

The salon begins on July 7th and registration closes on July 8th. Signup now! 

This is one of my favourite things to put out there to people: 


The promise that everyone CAN. 


Whatever age or stage you are in your life, you can achieve all of the epic sexual adventures and milestones I talk about. 


I guarantee it. 


All women can:

  • Produce tsunamis of lubrication. Yes, even when menopausal, pregnant or postpartum. 
  • Ejaculate across the room. 
  • Have multiple, daily, G-Spot, cervical, nipple and energy and anal orgasms. 
  • Shoot ping pong balls with their vaginas. 

These things are possible for every woman. 


But Mila didn’t think they were possible for her. 


She says: “I felt like I would probably be that one woman who didn’t get there.

I thought it was probably true for everybody, but given my whole sexual history from childhood onward and how I’ve always thought about sex, I didn’t think it was possible for me.”


How wrong she was. 


After some Anami schooling, now she says things like: 

“I want to have sex every single day.” 

“I have cervical orgasms all the time now.”
 “I want to get my husband’s pants off as soon as possible.”

“I’m pretty much always turned on.” 

“I love giving him blow jobs.”


It was possible for Mila and it’s possible for you. 


One of the reasons I LOVE featuring our All Stars, is so you know that you, too, can overcome any seeming obstacle, and turn yourself into a well-f**ked woman. 


Every. Woman. Can. 


I guarantee it. 


***


The Well-F**ked Woman Salon—the ultimate guide to how to live, love and orgasm in a female body—is now OPEN for registration. 


In the salon we cover:


  • All the different vaginal orgasms and how to get there: G-Spot, cervical and squirting 
  • Self-pleasuring 101 
  • Using your feminine energy to achieve, magnetize and navigate the world 
  • The secrets of surrender: in bed and in life 
  • Breast massage to tone, lift and enlarge the breasts 
  • BDSM 101 
  • Cock whispering secrets from yours truly, the “cock witch” 
  • And much, much more!

Signup here: 
https://kimanami.com/the-well-fked-woman/

Published 2022-06-17

How to Manifest Your Dream Partner

65 min
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Everyone wants to know: How to find "the one"!


First off, I don’t think there is just ONE person in a lifetime we’re meant to be with. 


I believe there are several “ones” out there waiting for us. 


How DO we find them? 


How do we draw them into our lives and our hearts and our beds? 


How do we find the people who will be most suited to us, who will match us and also help us reach our next stages of evolution? 


When people are serious about drawing in new love, I encourage them to embark on a rigorous self-pleasure practice, to explore ways to amplify their feminine and masculine energies, and clear any blockages they have to fully owning and expressing as sexual beings. 


As you clear out your old baggage and interferences, that make it harder for people—and the right people—to find and really see you, the signal you broadcast becomes super clear. 


And you magnetize in your vibrational match.


I have countless stories from women who began their self-pleasuring practice in the Anami style: Meditate, Masturbate, Create or through using their jade egg for ONE DAY and they go out the next day in sweats, no makeup, not looking for anything or anyone, and guys come up to them at the gas pump, or run across the street to ask them for their number. 

That energy is so palpable, that people are drawn to it like moths to the flame. 

*** 

In today’s all star interview, I’m talking to Freya. She took the Well-F**ked Woman Salon a couple years back and has had a radical transformation, going from being sexually numb to ejaculating all over the place. I interviewed her earlier this year on her experiences with squirting, which you can find in the episode entitled …. 9 Steps to Make You a Squirting Master.
https://kimanami.com/9-steps-to-make-you-a-squirting-master


I wanted to bring her back on to share on other aspects of her transformation, including finding her voice as a poet. 


Today, we discuss how she attracted in a beautifully matched life partner. (The wedding is in a couple of months). 


In this episode: 

  • Unconscious vs. conscious attracting 
  • The secret to manifesting anything: partners, cash and a new body 
  • The inspiring and heart-opening story of how Freya put her heart (and vagina’s) desire out there and the universe brought her the perfect match 
  • The poem that cracked the code of the universe 
  • Internal feng shui: the clearing of your inner space to bring in a beautiful match

    The Well-F**ked Woman Salon opens for registration next week! In the salon, I show you how you can be well-f*ked, whether you are single or coupled. 

In the Well-F**ked Woman, we explore: 

  • Self-pleasuring 101 
  • How to use your sexual energy as the ultimate healer and cleanser 
  • Harnessing sexual energy as s creative power to manifest what you want in your life, including a new partner
  • The Anami Orgasmapedia - how to achieve the deeper vaginal orgasms: G-Spot, cervical and squirting 
  • Breast massage to tone, lift and enlarge the breasts 
  • My cock whisperer tutorials on all things manual and oral pleasure for your man 
  • The connection between sex, creativity and money. More sex + better sex = more cash. 
  • And much more! 
Published 2022-06-08

Lose Belly Fat Overnight! With Orgasms

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Did you know that orgasms are one of the best fat-busters going? Science says! 

I’ve worked with people who have done EVERYTHING to lose weight. 


They had trainers, nutritionists, they were disciplined about eating and working out and there would be that last 10 or 15 pounds they just couldn’t seem to lose. 


And then they’d start having gourmet sex. 


The kind of sex I teach about, where they are being seen, fed and nourished. 


Their hearts and genitals are open, and they are being changed by the potency of this deep, sexual love. 


And then the extra weight evaporates. 


They don’t do anything different - no changes in their diet or exercise. 


They just got well-f**ked. 


Deep, cataclysmic, vaginal orgasms, powerful connections. 


And suddenly those abs were svelte and chiseled. 


Like magic. 


From your orgasms. 


In this episode: 

  • 5 tips to lose belly fat overnight 
  • The relationship between cortisol, stress and belly fat 
  • Why orgasms burn fat like nothing else 
  • How cataclysmic sex transforms your baggage and emotional “weight” 
  • Well-f**ked all star Robin shares her story of becoming a widow, being diagnosed with the big C-word, and using her sexuality to alchemize her way through it all, healing herself, working through her grief and losing 60 lb in the process. All through the magical power of orgasms. 



Published 2022-06-03

From Toxic Femininity to the Divine Feminine

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In this episode: 

  • Examples of toxic femininity 
  • What the balanced and divine feminine looks like 
  • How to cultivate it in your daily life 
  • Using sex as your greatest access point into your divine feminine nature 
  • Kim's forays into conscious BDSM as a powerful and erotic tool to learn to truly surrender and embody my feminine 

IN the Well-F**Ked Woman Salon, I help you to identify, excavate and transform your blocks and weaknesses into your greatest power. 


I go into depth and share my personal journey in my nearly year long BDSM relationship where I went deeper than I ever had, and came into balance with my feminine self, learned the art of surrender and came out truly not giving a fuck anymore. 


I’ll show you how to have the deeper vaginal orgasms, which are what help you to burn through the dross of your life and elevate yourself into your highest potential. 


La petite mort" the little death and rebirth, indeed. 


The Well-F**ked Woman salon begins in early July. In the meantime, you can signup for the free preview video series where I dive deeper into feminine power, vaginal orgasms and becoming a well-f**ked woman. 

https://kimanami.com/the-well-fked-woman/

Published 2022-05-27

Boobs vs. Breasts

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In this episode: 

- How to unlock the orgasmic bliss in your breasts
- Owning and loving the breasts 
- Breast massage to reconnect and increase sensation
- Reclaiming the breasts after breastfeeding 
- From "boob" to "breast": the journey of taking our breasts back from public commodities to our own sentient, alchemical pleasure portals 

Published 2022-05-12

Roe vs. Wade. Do I Give a Shit?

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This episode is a recording of an Instagram Live I did. I cover: 

  • Natural birth control 
  • The ludicrousness of having a 95-97.5% elective abortion rate, which tells us that most women have no idea how their reproductive systems work 
  • The dark history of OB/GYNs and why I would never send a woman to one. Plus, what I suggest as alternative care. 
  • The power of self-responsibility and self-governance in all things: especially your vagina 
  • Some great crowd-sourced questions about healing reproductive aliments like fibroids, cysts, and my take on STDs 


Published 2022-04-28

Genital Sunning

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Genital sunning is all the rage. For good reason: it's incredibly good for you. I love my genital sun time, and I do it (nearly) every day. 

In today’s episode:

  • Yoni sunning as a treatment for depression 
  • Historical use of the sun as medicine in treating disease 
  • Studies showing how genital sun exposure increase testosterone and sexual satisfaction levels 200-300%
  • My scientifically-endorsed method for getting daily sun exposure between the prime hours of 12 and 2; when people are typically told to "avoid the sun". 
  • Why getting sun in your shadow places is so lit! 🔥

https://www.instagram.com/kimanami/

Published 2022-04-15

50 Shades of Anami: BDSM 101

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Many people have misconceptions about what BDSM really is. 

For anyone who doesn’t know, BDSM stands for: 

  • Bondage
  • Discipline
  • Domination
  • Submission
  • Sadism
  • Masochism

Even me, before I learned about what it was, and how deep it could be, thought: “oh, whips and chains!”.

And, like with anything, there are superficial versions of it, and there are deeper, sacred and sophisticated versions of it.

Just like how I teach about sex.

i would say that the most “junk food” version of sex is to jerk off to porn, racing to the finish line of the goal of just having an orgasm for stress relief or to you put yourself to sleep.

The gourmet sex version, that I teach, is about having sexual experiences that take you to heights of ecstasy and bliss, give you orgasms that last for hours, and through that you are transformed. 

You become a better, more self-realized of yourself. 

It’s the same in BDSM. 

The deepest themes for me in my BDSM exploration have been playing with surrender and control, and with archetypal feminine and masculine energies. 


The hottest sexual chemistry and couples who can’t keep their hands off each other, generally have exaggerated feminine and masculine energies at play. 

In today’s episode: 

  • Using conscious BDSM to generate explosive chemistry in your relationship 
  • Why 50 Shades of Grey was a worldwide hit. Hint: these are primal energies we are all turned on by and crave 
  • Amplifying the divine masculine and feminine through conscious and sensual BDSM
  • How BDSM is a fantastic tool for shadow work 
  • Sexy demo examples of some classic BDSM moves  

Signup for the Coming Together for Couples salon: 
https://kimanami.com/coming-together-couples-salon/

Published 2022-04-10

F*ck Them Until You Change Them

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I'm always talking about the transformative power of sex.

It's where the whole "well-f**ked woman" and “well-f**ked man” memes comes from.

This is the idea that the changes and effects of really good lovemaking are written all over someone's face and body.

And so are the bad ones.

It becomes so obvious that other people can see and feel them.

As a lover, it's your duty to f*ck your partner open.

To penetrate them (man or woman) so deeply, that they forget who they are, they drop all the preconceived, civilized notions of who they are, and a truer, deeper, more real and powerful version of themselves rises to the surface.

F*ck them until you change them.

If you've finished making love with your partner and they aren't glowing, if they aren't looking at you like you are some kind of messiah god (does this seem lofty? I promise you it isn't), then you have further to go.

My big, barometric question is always: Does sex leave you feeling rejuvenated, energized, transformed, ecstatic and fuck-changed?

If not, you are doing it wrong.

My work is all about showing you how to do it right.

Of all the years—about 30—and all the different therapies—a shit ton—that I've experimented with over the years, none have changed me so quickly, so profoundly and so permanently as really. good. f*cking.

The kind of f*cking that replaces addictive behaviours, loses weight, turns anger into patience and depression into action.

To help create the kind of f*cking that changes you, listen to today’s episode.

In the Coming Together Salon, it’s all about the art of the Phoenix f-ck change. 
 
 How to have the kind of sex that changes your life. 
 
 The kind that brings you daily, good-f**k medicine, wildly ecstatic orgasms, a deeper connection than you ever thought possible, both with yourself and your partner, 

In the salon, we touch on every aspect I’ve covered in today’s episode including: 

  • Guided, step-by-step lingam and yoni massage 
  • Clarity and communication techniques 
  • How to build stamina and become a marathon fucker for men
  • How to achieve the deeper, vaginal orgasms for women 
  • My secrets to marathon sex and getting high via your 3-hour sex dates. 
  • And much more! 

To check out the free preview video series for the salon and to signup, go to: 

https://kimanami.com/coming-together-couples-salon/

In a loving, passionate, dedicated yoni massage, we are aiming to awaken, activate and bring deep, life-changing pleasure to the vagina and a woman’s overall sexual being.

Over the decades of doing my work, as a holistic sex and relationship coach, the thing I hear over and over from women is how numb their vaginas are. 

One of the biggest tools I recommend for de-numbing and re-pleasuring the vagina is the jade yoni egg. 

By building strength, sentience and articulation in the vagina, increasing circulation and oxygen flow, ALL things flow better: from lubrication to hormone transport to orgasms. 

The other practice I recommend is yoni massage. 

With focused, loving attention, we can transform a numb vagina into a multi-orgasmic and highly aroused one. 

In today’s episode: 

  • Benefits of yoni massage, including increased libido, lubrication and vaginal orgasms 
  • 15 techniques for a blissful, life-changing yoni massage 
  • Our epic flower mandala yoni 
  • All star interview with Tania sharing how she initially had pain in her vagina, and through yoni massage that gave way to numbness, and then pleasure.  

You'll find my fully guided yoni massage routine in the Coming Together for Couples Salon.

This is my 10-week signature online program for couples where we cover everything from squirting techniques in my entire Orgasmapedia, male stamina and marathon sex, communication skills and Tantric and Taoist practices.

Click here to sign up now. 

Published 2022-04-01

How to Give an Ecstatic Penis Massage

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The purpose of lingam massage is to awaken the true power of your man’s cock.

We want him to own and inhabit it, amplifying his capacity for pleasure.

And yours.

Then he can penetrate you with it, bringing both of you to ecstasy and obliterating you to smithereens, with an awakened and self-actualized cock.

Lingam massage can be totally transformational for your partner and your relationship.

Published 2022-03-24

9 Steps to Be a Squirting Master

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Squirting has been written about for millennia. We find it referenced in text and teachings all over the world. 

 
It is often described as: Food of the Gods. Nectar. Ambrosia. Amrita. The Fountain of Youth.


Even though squirting tends to be a highly sought after check-the-box sex act inspired by porn, it’s a profound experience to have and share with an intimate partner. 


An anointing! 


To coax these emissions out of a woman requires trust, openness and surrender.  


These qualities are INFUSED into her essence. 


Which is why it’s such a potent gift to receive, for both. 

In this episode: 

- Why squirting is an essential life skill for women
- Five facts about squirting
- How it feels in the body and emotionally 
- Nine steps to squirting mastership
- The benefits of ingesting “amrita” 
- How our all star Freya went from low interest in sex, to becoming a prolific, soak-the-sheets squirting sensation 

Published 2022-03-18

Energy Sex in the Wild

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Energy orgasms are orgasms that take place without and kind of touch whatsoever. You know the spiritual axiom that “thoughts are things.”  Well, here we see that in action. Orgasms are things too and we can have them whenever and wherever we want! 

Published 2022-03-11

9 Unusual Foreplay Techniques for Epic Sex and Orgasms

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How long can you make it last? How good can you take it? What’s it like to live in a perpetual state of bliss? 

Slowing down and prolonging your foreplay not only primes you for marathon sex and the deeper orgasmic experiences, but afterward you feel even higher, ecstatic, transformed and like you’ve been reborn. 

You are tapping into the rejuvenating, enlivening power of your sexual energy. 

The more you treat foreplay like its own sex act and endgame, the deeper your sexual experiences will be. 

There are stories in ancient Tantric texts about the ultimate battle for lovers: 


To make the other come first. 

Your job is to tantalize, tease and stimulate your partner so they live in an ongoing state of arousal. 

Yes, this is possible. 

In this episode, we'll discuss how: 

Published 2022-02-18

Conscious Celibacy

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Celibacy gets a bad rap because people don’t do it very well.

I would never counsel someone to just “give up sex” without any intention behind it.

Or, without learning how to channel their sexual energy.

That would be “unconscious celibacy”.

Doing it consciously is deciding to contain yourself for a while, to put an invisible “not available” sign on your forehead, and direct your energy inward. 

This could be for any number of reasons, such as: 

  • to recover and heal after a breakup 
  • to take stock and try and change patterns and behaviours in relationships before starting a new one 
  • Up-levelling parts of your life before your next relationship, so that you are in a better place to welcome someone into your space and life

I often talk having had some of my most well-fucked periods of my life, when I was single.

If you know anything about my work, the way I define “well-f**ked” isn’t just about “having lots of sex”.

It’s having lots of gourmet, conscious, life-changing sex and channeling your sexual, pro-creative energy out into the world as a manifesting power to birth and shape your reality.

So how do we do this?

Show notes and product links here:

https://kimanami.com/conscious-celibacy/

Published 2022-02-03

Everyone Is Creative: Just Ask Your Vagina!

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This is the ultimate creative power of the universe and it flows through  you.

Instead of tuning into this ad riding this wave, most people are totally disconnected from and have disowned this power.

All of my work is about helping you get it back.

“Unexpressed creativity is not benign. It metastasizes”
~ Brene Brown 

I say the same thing about your sexual energy: whatever you aren’t expressing and owning, inverts back on you and creates all kinds of stagnation and blockage in your life.

In today’s episode:

  • Are creatives born or made?
  • The fastest way to achieve creative genius
  • The connection between the deeper vaginal orgasms and being divinely inspired
  • Sex and self-actualization
  • #poweredbyvagina is the mantra I live by. How I create my own life–via my vagina
  • Three techniques to activate your creative and orgasmic brilliance

Plus, we have THREE Well-F**ked All Stars today sharing on how they have fuelled their creative projects and lives.

With their orgasms and vaginas.

My legendary Vaginal Kung Fu Salon is now open for registration until tomorrow—Friday February 4th at midnight PST.

In this 8-week online salon, I've compiled the best of my 30 years of sexual and vaginal experience (!) to take you over the edge into a lifetime of bliss. We cover everything talked about in today’s episode, from yoni massage to how to use the jade yoni egg, to activating your feminine energy as the receiver in your life—all of which bring you into your creative genius.

You'll learn:

  • How to have a toned, orgasmic and ecstatic vagina;
  • How to channel your sexual energy into creative power
  • Step-by-step instructions for your vaginal weight lifting practice, thereby putting yourself in the running for the Guinness Record for world’s strongest vagina;
  • My guided routine for giving yourself, or having your partner give you, a healing and activating yoni massage.
  • How to give your man a hand job. With your vagina.

Come and get it.

After tomorrow, it's gone until 2023!

While the clitoris is good for a laugh or a warmup, if you really want to harness the power of your sexual energy, you need to go deeper.

A few inches deeper.

These deeper, vaginal orgasms are like the Loch Ness Monsters of sexuality. They are mysterious and subject to much skepticism and known only to some.

The reason why they elude many people, and especially laboratory analysis (though they’ve been sighted in some labs; mainly French, and not English), is because they involve far more than just technique.

In fact, I’d say that technique is less than 10% of what will take you there.

In this episode we cover the other 90%. 

We also talk to Well-F**ked All Star Robin, who is a 44-year-old from our Well-F**ked Hall of Fame. She’s taken my salons for women and emerged out the other side a radiant, lubricating, ejaculating, vaginal orgasming-on-the-regular, sexual powerhouse. 

My legendary Vaginal Kung Fu Salon is open for registration! 

www.kungfuvagina.com 

Having a Kung Fu Vagina is every woman’s birthright and within her natural abilities.  

With the right tools! 

This is what is possible for every single vagina, on the daily: 

  • Multiple, vaginal and ejaculating orgasms 
  • Insane, life-changing pleasure 
  • A vagina that is so responsive that it gets wet just from hearing your lover’s voice. 
  • Produces a tsunami of wetness 
  • A ravenous libido 
  • Gives your lover a vaginal handjob with your sensational articulation skills. Aka "voodoo pussy". 
  • Shoots ping pong balls. This is the normal, healthy baseline for every vagina. 
  • Zero urinary incontinence. Some women reverse this in a week. 
  • Iron-clad pelvic floor strength that maintains your internal organs. Yep. You were meant to keep them. 

In short: Ecstasy and power on tap. Courtesy of your Kung Fu Vagina. 


Come and get it: www.kungfuvagina.com 

Published 2022-01-06

5 Techniques to Create a Super Pussy!

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Most vaginas are numb. They aren't pleasured or exercised well, and they atrophy into a place of disconnection and lackluster existence. You can change that, and instead cultivate a Super Pussy that is: 

- Strong, articulate and powerful.
- Orgasms wherever, however, whenever it wants, with the full range of orgasmic pleasure: clitoral, G-Spot, cervical orgasms 

- Feels blissful during sex 
- Has a voracious libido

- Can give hand jobs. Just like with your actual hand, a super pussy can push, pull, squeeze and isolate different sections of the muscles, playing the proverbial flute.
- Produces “tsunamis of lubrication”
- Shoots ping pong balls. This is every woman’s God-given right. 

In this episode, we’ll cover:

  • Super Pussy mythbusting: Common reasons why you think you might not be able to have one. I’ll prove you wrong.
  • My #1 tool for creating Super Pussies. Plus four more.
  • On removing blocks from our reproductive organs, freeing them up to be orgasmic and blissful. Constantly.
  • Is lube really a girl’s best friend?
  • Well-F**ked All Star Mara shares how she started her Super Pussy journey at eight months pregnant, had her first cervical orgasm on her birthday six weeks later, and how they use sex to keep them energized with a young baby and four other children.

 All my vaginal power secrets and practices will be revealed in the upcoming Vaginal Kung Fu Salon. The salon opens for registration on January 19th. You can get on the list to be notified when it does, and check out my free preview video series for the salon now: 

https://kimanami.com/vaginal-kung-fu/

Organic sex toys. Is that even a thing?


There definitely are #thingsIwouldputintomyvagina and things I would not. 


The whole Anami philosophy is about cultivating the highest quality experiences and using the healthiest and most holistic products in our intimate lives. 


I created the Anami Alchemia online shop so that we could feature exactly that: 


Erotic accessories you could trust to be an extension of the Anami way of life: 


Beautiful, (functional), impeccable quality, and nourishment for your body and spirit. 


So let’s talk about clean, organic and body-friendly erotic accessories to uplevel your orgasmic enlightenment. 

Published 2021-11-19

5 Laws of Female Orgasms

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They apply to all women, all vaginas, everywhere.

They are true in every circumstance, 100% of the time.

There are NO exceptions to these rules.

None.

Ever.

It doesn’t matter if a woman has had everything from sexual trauma, to reproductive organs removed, to a strict religious and shaming upbringing to being in menopause, to having emerged out of a 20-year shitty marriage or whether she is straight or gay, single or coupled.

These laws apply to EVERY WOMAN at any and every stage of her life.

We don’t do excuses in Anami Land. Or Band-Aids.

Only solutions.

So buck up bitches and let’s go.

Published 2021-10-21

From C-Section to Free Birth

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One of the things I hear most often from women who had a transcendent, empowering, largely independent, birth experience, is that it wipes out the residue of former births they may have had, where they were more entrenched in the allopathic system.

Women who had C-sections have gone on to have triumphant free-births at home, which we’ll hear about in today’s episode.

All of the education I put out around this topic is to reassure and REMIND you that YOU can do this.

Yourself.

In order to have this kind of orgasmic, ecstatic birth experience means taking the reins early on in your journey.

Even during conception.

As you work out the kinks and blocks in yourselves and the collective of your relationship, you free up the flow for a smoother conception, pregnancy and birth.

Anything significant that is NOT resolved between you, will show up in your birth.

And even before that in your pregnancy and even before THAT in your conception journey.

Combine all of that with the programming and imprinting you receive around birth, you’ve got a lot of work to do to clear the space.

The most important “preparation” you can do is on your mindset, your fears, your internalized beliefs and then setting to work on reframing and recreating all of that to fit the vision YOU want to have.

In today’s episode, we are talking with our Well-F**ked All Star couple of the year, Mark and Amanda.

Their story is amazing, and encapsulates ALL of the concepts I’ve just described.

Amanda’s first child was breech, and she was told that she’d have to have a C-section.

Her fourth child was born at home, in her bed, with just her husband present. This was a free birth, with no one attending her pregnancy either.

In between all of that was FIVE miscarriages.

Their story is amazing, inspirational and super entertaining, as they share what happened and how they evolved along the way.

Anyone can take their power back, and recreate their lives.

Including you.

The Sexy Mama Salon begins today!

This 8-week online class is ALL about how to educate yourself, deprogram and reprogram yourself as the powerful portal you truly are. 

We cover everything from conscious conception, blissful pregnancy, birth orgasms, breastfeeding and early childhood education. 

This is the ultimate condensed and enlightened guide on how to use pregnancy and birth as an ascension experience and raise independent, free thinkers in the process. 


It all starts with birth.

Check out Sexy Mama now

Published 2021-10-14

Intuitive Birth: Trusting Yourself and the Divine

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A natural, sovereign, empowered pregnancy and birth brings you:

  • Confidence, boldness and the ability to stand up and speak your truth.
  • Knowing that you can do anything in your life. If you can do this.
  • An even stronger link with your intuition and divine guidance, that leads you through pregnancy, birth and into all parts of your life. You’ve earned this. And you get to keep it.
  • A transcendent, pleasurable and orgasmic birth
  • A deepened relationship and love of yourself and your body
  • A strengthened bond with your partner
  • An un-traumatized child—which is a rarity in this world—who will also have a stronger connection to their innate knowing and the divine
  • You emerge from birth in a state of euphoria that lasts weeks, months and even years.

The Sexy Mama Salon is now open for registration.

This 8-week online class is ALL about how to educate yourself, deprogram and re-program yourself as the powerful portal you truly are.

We cover everything from conscious conception, blissful pregnancy, birth orgasms, breastfeeding and early childhood education.

This is the ultimate condensed and enlightened guide on how to use pregnancy and birth as an ascension experience and raise independent, free thinkers in the process.

It all starts with birth.

 

Published 2021-10-08

Med-Wives vs. Mid-Wives

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Birth either becomes an initiation into your own power, autonomy and sovereignty, or it becomes a massive imprinting on your psyche and body of the outsourcing of it. Do modern midWhat has happened to the modern midwife? With Yolande Norris-Clark.
Published 2021-10-01

How to Talk to Children About Sex

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This is one of the topics I get asked about ALL the time: “How do we talk to our children about sex?”

This question becomes even more crucial to parents, as they begin doing this work of orgasmic enlightenment.

As they see and feel the changes in their own relationships and lives, they wonder: 

“How can we present a different view of sexuality to our kids, than we got?”

“How can we make it so that they don’t have to go through all of the de-programming that we have?”

f you aren’t guiding your children and modelling a healthy sex life to them, someone else will.

That will likely be through pornography, or the cultural messages of shame, violation and unconsciousness, or the school “sex ed” messages of “sex will kill you and get you pregnant, now off you go”.

The responsibility for educating your children about sex and how to cultivate a healthy, sacred, powerful relationship with it, begins with you.

In this video, I chat with our Well-F**ked All Star Couple of the Year, Mark and Amanda. We discuss:

  • How their relationship changed since doing this work and what their children noticed
  • The ways they talk to their children about sex and handle all the questions they get
  • How they model healthy intimacy in their family
  • The direct connection between the state of their relationship and how it impacts their family: i.e. the more sex they have, the happier EVERYONE in the family is
  • What their children’s reactions are to seeing their parents passionately into each other 

Sign up for my Sexy Mama: Holistic Pregnancy and Ecstatic Birth Salon and watch the free video preview series: 
https://kimanami.com/sexy-mama/

Published 2021-09-24

Meet Another Well-F**ked Man!

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In our conversation, we chat about: 

  • How women are underf**ked if they are only having clitoral orgasms.
  • Giving your woman a non-stop flow of G-Spot orgasms 
  • “Cervical after cervical after cervical” orgasms that crack her open and give her that “I just saw GOD!” face 
  • The definition of a well-f**ked man 
  • Super-charged erections at every age (Paul is older than his wife so he makes this a priority) 
  • She comes first and many, many times
  • Constantly receiving oral sex from his woman (so tedious, I know). yet he soldiers on 
  • Using their orgasms to manifest a new house, job opportunities and more! Seriously tho. 

Everyone can reach these places. If you put in the time and energy. It’s the Anami Guarantee: 


That’s why I’ve created all of my salons—to get you there. 

****** 


The Sexual Mastery for Men Salon is open! This 8-week virtual salon is all about harnessing male sexual power and rocking her world. The salon covers all things sexual mastery: 

  • Foreplay
  • How to last for hours…
  • Testosterone boosting
  • Cock lengthening and strengthening exercises
  • How to give your woman G-Spot and cervical vaginal orgasms
  • Cockfidence: inhabiting your cock and your masculine alpha self. 
     and even sex acts that will boost your business.

You have weekly videos full of techniques and my well-f**ked secrets, homeplay for singles and couples and weekly live Q&A coaching calls with me! Plus, you have lifetime access to the course. 


Are you coming??? 

Published 2021-09-16

The Well-F**ked Man

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Mark shares his perspective as the other half of this radiantly well-f**ked couple, and the impact that up-levelling their sex life has had on all parts of his life, from finance and business, to parenting and friendships and of course, as a man who can f**k his woman open to smithereens.

He can have sex for hours, he can come—or not—when he wants to. He is giving his woman multiple, vaginal, life-changing orgasms. And throat-gasms. And anal-gasms.

He is the well-f**ked man, to his well-f**ked woman. He becomes the man he was always meant to be.

Sexual Mastery for Men is open now! In my signature 8-week online salon for men, you’ll learn: 

  • How to last longer in bed: my massively effective techniques to eliminate premature ejaculation permanently and extend your staying power for as long as you want. 
  • Orgasms without ejaculation. 
  • How to achieve the deeper, vaginal orgasms for women. 
  • Cock lengthening and strengthening exercises. 
  • How to use your sexual energy and relationship as a power source in your life to bring you more cash, business success and overall life abundance. 
  • And much more!

    Signup now! 

Stamina is: when a man has complete control of his ejaculation. He comes when he wants. Even in the most sexy, wild moments, with his woman’s butt up in the air, and her back arched and she’s making those crazy noises that just. send you… you keep it together. 

For women to reach the deeper vaginal orgasms—G-Spot and cervical—it can take 30-45 minutes. Women were built for the long haul. They are naturally multi-orgasmic and sexually insatiable. 

One of the main reasons they never realize their full potential is because they’ve had a series of male lovers who are two-pump chumps. 

You can be much better than a two-pump chump. 

Marathon stamina is one of the many things I teach in my signature 8-week online program for men. Not only will you learn how you, too, can fuck like Sting, but you’ll learn how to: 


- Grow cock organically with lengthening and strengthening exercises

- Bring her to deeper vaginal orgasms: G-Spot and cervical  

- Reclaim your masculine strength and power 

Registration is open now. Signup:
 https://kimanami.com/sexual-mastery-for-men-salon/

Published 2021-09-03

Beta Male Variants: The Real Epidemic

14 min
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NOTE: This episode is a video I highly suggest you WATCH on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=szfTXMUIE8g

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In this week’s special investigation SMM news report, we bring you a visual depiction of the Beta Variant pandemic. And it’s cure: The Alpha Variant.

The report features: 

  • Dr. Kim Anami, of the CUFDC (Center for Underf**ked Disease Control), who makes a return appearance to weigh in on the controversy. As our most trusted expert, she has fabulous advice for those seeking to ward off and develop natural immunity to the Beta Variants. 
  • Exclusive footage of Beta and Alpha Variants in their natural habitats.
  • A graphic demonstration of the effects of the Beta Variant on women.  
  • An inspiring rally cry for Alphas to make their return. We are waiting with bated breath and ready-to-open legs. 

A great question I received after last week’s provocative episode, was:  Can Beta Variants be transformed into Alphas?

ANSWER: Yes, they can.

Beta behavior is learned and acquired, both socially and physically. Any man can take charge of his life and make massive changes and in a short period of time.

Your sexual energy is the quantum leap shortcut to getting there. Once you have mastery over it, that dominion extends to all parts of your life: woman, confidence, finances, career.

In my Sexual Mastery for Men, I show you how to occupy your fully embodied, testosterone-fuelled, ultra-f**kable masculine self. 

Salon opens next week! 

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YOUTUBE: 
https://www.youtube.com/user/KimAnami

Published 2021-08-26

Alpha Males vs. Beta Males

20 min
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In today’s episode, a blunt examination of:

  • Is the feminization of men deliberate?
  • Who do women prefer having sex with?
  • The differences between alpha and beta men.
  • We are swimming in a sea of estrogen: where is it coming from?
  • A major estrogenic source you didn’t think of and may be consuming daily.
  • What happened when I personally tried relationships with beta men. And, uh, what didn't happen. (Sex!)

My 8-week Sexual Mastery for Men Salon is ALL about this: Life AND cock power. We cover everything on how to better occupy your masculine strength in and our of the bedroom. 

The salon opens in the next few weeks: you can signup for the FREE preview videos series here. 

Published 2021-08-19

Natural Viagra

7 min
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From guys in their early 20s with longstanding porn habits, to 70-year-olds who had bought into the fable that old age diminishes their potency, all have been able to NATURALLY regain rock-hard, high-performance Supercocks. Without Viagra. 

Watch the video version on my YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5ZTYzGeNNhE

Check out my Sexual Mastery for Men Salon: 
https://kimanami.com/sexual-mastery-for-men-salon/

Published 2021-07-22

Cock Lovers of the World UNITE!

45 min
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Cock like vs. cock love. How true cock love increases a man's size, erectile strength and overall confidence. Being on the receiving end of a self-actualized cock makes you an even more well-f**ked woman. Indeed, cock love can bring YOU ecstasy. And oh yeah, him too. 

Published 2021-07-15

Epic Hand Jobs: 7 Awesome Techniques

8 min
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Hand jobs are the most underrated sexual act. But they can be so much more: fully satisfying and deep experiences all on their own. In the spirit of Tantra, and expanding the sexual experience, having longer foreplay sessions not only builds stamina, but it generates more energy and rejuvenation. And lots more bliss. Plus, who doesn’t want to become an enlightened Mistress of Cock? *** Watch the video version on my YouTube channel. 

Published 2021-06-24

6 Tips for Beautiful, Orgasmic Breasts

15 min
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Creating beautiful breasts is a mix of physical and energetic practices. In this video we explore my top tips for cultivating radiant, orgasmic, pleasurable breasts, including how to increase breast size by 25%, Kim's favorite breast massage oil, detoxing the breasts, how to sunbathe your breasts for maximum Vitamin D, o bra or not to bra, best prevention to keep breasts lifted and firm and the role of breasts overall in female orgasm. 

Published 2021-06-09

Well-F**ked Beauty

17 min
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Your sexual energy is so powerful that it writes itself all over you. It can alter your face and your body, more powerfully than any kind of plastic surgery or injectable can. The combustion and fusion of your sexual energy, combined with the love, emotion and surrender, creates the alchemizing power of the HOLY FUCK. Here are 9 dimensions of well-f**ked beauty, Anami-style. 

Published 2021-05-06

Sacred Sexuality and Tantric Secrets

10 min
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By consciously tuning into our sexual energy, we could use it to help us reach higher states of consciousness. No drugs needed! You can tap the source from within. In this episode: the five primary pillars of Tantra, your keys to creating a sacred sexuality relationship, three famous Tantric sex positions demonstrated, full-body expanded orgasms. Check out the full video version on kimanami.com


Published 2021-04-08

The Holy F**k Part Two

39 min
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Sex as a healing prayer. How to make love to all of creation. The life-giving power of worshipping at each other's genitals. Healing the future and the past with the power of your conscious, elevated, sexual connection. Get on your knees and pray. 

Published 2021-02-12

Your Vagina Is Money!

24 min
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When you turn on your vagina, you turn on your life. As you wake it up and activate it to be the divine birth-er of all things, it does exactly that, energetically. It magnetizes opportunities, people, ideas and wealth. Right into your lap. Because that’s exactly what attracted them!

Published 2021-02-04

Sacred Waters of Ejaculate

34 min
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Female ejaculation is real! And every woman can do it. "Squirting" has been found in texts all over the world, spanning centuries. Just like with the jade egg and vaginal strengthening, this is an art form that has been practiced since ancient times.Wild and wise vaginas are nothing new.

They just need a revival these days!


In this episode:

  • The sacred and ancient history of female ejaculation
  • The keys to gushing that no one ever talks about
  • How a woman learned to squirt in two days
  • An all-star interview with a woman who “shoots above her husband’s head and across the room”
  • How ejaculation feels: a profound, enlightening, transcendent and blissful experience




Published 2021-01-15

A Tsunami of Lubrication

43 min
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Wet, wet, wet. Wetter than wet. What is normal in Anami Land? Getting wet hearing your lover’s voice, even without touch. Having wetness of tsunamic proportions well into your 50s, 60s and 70s. Yes, this can be the New Normal for all.

Published 2020-10-01

Radical Unschooling

73 min
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Raising rebels and free thinkers. Unschooling is learning 7 years of math in 20 hours. Acquiring reading skills overnight. A child finding their zone of genius and easily turning that into a vocation. It's the opposite of the modern public school system.

Published 2020-09-03

BDE: Big D*ck Energy

78 min
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BDE is the confidence and self-love someone has when they have got the goods. A man can have BDE, regardless of the size of his physical c*ck. What can men do to step back into their masculine power and OWN that shit? 


Published 2020-08-27

10 Signs You Are a Sexual Master

20 min
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When I posted this list on social media, these were the female responses: “I’m aroused now.” "💦💦💦"  “OMG this is perfect. Where can I get me one of these men? “I  think I may have had a mental orgasm reading and thinking about this.”  “There needs to be a dating site where men can show their graduation certificate from this course.” 

Published 2020-05-20

The New Normal

21 min
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What's normal? Suicide-inducing periods? Removal of internal organs? A sterilized society? Or 60 cervical orgasms in a row? And eight-hour lovemaking sessions after which you want to run a marathon? What is your #newnormal?

Published 2020-05-07

How to Be Original

26 min
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What does it take to be an original, a game changer and a true leader? The only people who say "There is nothing original out there!" are people the tepid and boring. The rest of us are disrupting and creating as a way of life. What are our secrets?

Published 2020-04-24

Energy Sex and Orgasms

18 min
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How to have sex with your partner while they are across the room, or across the planet. Consciously exchange and feel energy with your partner and come to orgasm, without any physical touch involved. Here are five steps to get there.

Published 2020-04-16

Super-Power Couples

78 min
Open

Practicing these techniques will take your relationship into the realm of superhuman. Where it is supposed to be. We'll talk to a Super-Power Couple and hear their secrets to ongoing passion. 

Published 2020-04-09

The Holy F**k

13 min
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The spiritual and the sexual come together in the ultimate crucible of creation and transformation: the holy fuck. If sex doesn't change your life and self-actualize you, you're doing it wrong. 

Published 2020-03-20

Sex, Intimacy and Immunity

13 min
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Not only does amazing sex and orgasms boost your immunity, but the energetic, emotional and psychological actions of being loved, seen, penetrated, cherished and well-f**ked create a supersonic shield around you that repels negativity of all kinds.

Published 2020-03-06

Women's Biggest Turn On

11 min
Open

“The most attractive thing a man can do is exactly what he says he’s going to do.” This is you key to the vaginal kingdom. It trumps everything. We talk today about what truly opens a woman to deeper love and orgasms.

Published 2020-01-16

5 Steps to Cervical Orgasms

67 min
Open

What are cervical orgasms? How do they feel? How do you get there? These are the life-changing orgasms that all women can have. Hear from Sarah and her journey from religious oppression to now finding God—in her vagina.

Published 2020-01-03

Magical Menstruation

22 min
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Prior to modern religions teaching that menstruation is impure and unholy, and allopathic views that it is inconvenient and disposable, menstruation was once considered a magical and powerful thing by cultures all over the world.

Published 2019-10-23

What is "Free" Birth?

121 min
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Women doin' it for themselves: birthing their babies without any outside assistance, except their partners. We talk why to free birth with Emilee and how with Hannah's story of birthing in her backyard tub, letting only her body and intuition guide her.

Published 2019-10-16

Birth Orgasms

13 min
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“My birth was all of the orgasms I ever had, rolled into one” We talk pleasurable birth—your biggest orgasm ever! How orgasms and sexual self-knowledge are the ultimate preparation for orgasmic, all-natural birth.

Published 2019-10-10

Natural Birth = Ecstatic Birth

84 min
Open

The best birth expert in the world? You. Women’s bodies are designed in a beautiful orchestra of hormones and biofeedback, to have blissful, orgasmic, self-actualizing birth experiences. It's only in interfering with that where problems are created.

Published 2019-10-02

Questions to Ask Your OBGYN

17 min
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In the market for a new OBGYN? Here's the definitive guide to the questions you OUGHT to be asking of the profession that used to hang women upside down and apply a hot branding iron to "scare" a uterus back in place. Have things improved much since?

Published 2019-09-06

Orgasms without Ejaculation

44 min
Open

Every man can learn how to separate orgasm from ejaculation, experience full-body ecstasy, plus have enough energy to run a marathon afterwards. Plus, we hear from a man who can have dozens of orgasms during his 14-hour sex dates.

Published 2019-08-28

Circumvent the Circumcision

72 min
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Male circumcision has the same purpose as in females–to stop sexual pleasure. Kim interviews American Circumcision film director Brendon Marotta to discuss the facts: what this barbaric practice really does to men and how can they heal from it.

Published 2019-08-21

F*ck, Motherf*cker! Ft. Wim Hof

55 min
Open

Kim and Wim wax poetic and uncensored on the ecstasy of sex, rewilding and using the tools at our disposal—breath, sexuality and the power of nature—to self-actualize. And have plenty of orgasms and break a few Guinness World Records along the way.

Published 2019-08-07

REAL Aphrodisiacs

21 min
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A true aphrodisiac generates signs of sexual arousal—higher libido, increased lubrication, easier and longer-lasting erections and more sexual organ sensitivity. Chocolate and oysters? No. Herbs? Yes. Find out my top, scientifically-backed picks.

Published 2019-07-31

Anal Enlightement

10 min
Open

There is a reason we call people “tight asses" or “anal retentive.” They’re in need of loosening up. A little anal en-light-enment is just what I prescribe to open, awaken and spiritually transcend when you feel stuck.

Published 2019-07-17

Well-F**ked Weight Loss

25 min
Open

Being well-f**ked is an amazing weight loss tool. Not only does a steady diet of good loving' fill you up, your potent sexual energy burns through all of your stagnant emotional and psychological "weight" at quantum speed.

Published 2019-07-10

BTE: Big Tit Energy

34 min
Open

BTE is a tangible energy that reaches out and makes itself known before you even see a woman's physique: confidence and self-love, embodied. How can you cultivate it and reclaim your breasts as glowing orbs of light, whatever size they are?

Published 2019-06-19

Myths of Menopause

37 min
Open

Despite what you’ve been told—and the hormones you've been sold—menopause and beyond can still be a time of high libido, gushing lubrication and ecstatic sex. Without hormones or surgeries.

Published 2019-06-06

#thisis48

11 min
Open

Multi-orgasmic, plenty of lubrication and the ass of a 20-year-old: This is the "new" aging, which is typically another area of normalized dysfunction and ill health. Embrace what is, but “what is” doesn’t need to be a substandard state of being. Rock it!

Published 2019-05-23

Don't Take It Lying Down

27 min
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From pelvic exams to birth control, to the way most have been coerced into giving birth, women have been taking it lying down for a long time. Learn about how to take your reproductive power back and care for and heal thyself.

Published 2019-05-17

Sex + Creativity

17 min
Open

One of the fastest roads to your creative genius is tapping into your sexual energy. As life-force energy, you can harness this power and channel it into your creative projects, your work and every area of your life.

Published 2019-05-08

Full-Body Orgasms

27 min
Open

It feels as though every cell in your body is having an orgasm. Tingling, shaking euphoria that lasts for minutes, hours—even days! Afterwards you feel energized, rejuvenated and ready to run a marathon. Welcome to the wild world of full-body orgasms.

Published 2019-05-03

Expert Lingam Massage

7 min
Open

Give your partner an ecstatic, transcendent penis massage. Benefits: More pleasure and sensation; stronger erections and orgasms; feeling more consciously connected to his sexuality; help to heal sexual trauma and disconnect.

Published 2019-04-18

Pussy Shiatsu

9 min
Open

Spending focused time, touch and attention on each other’s genitals is profoundly hearing and awakening. Learn how to give a healing, awakening and arousing pussy massage.

Published 2019-04-04

One Person Wants to Grow

57 min
Open

When happens when you are focused on growth and your partner isn't? What can you do to invite them forward? Can you realize your full potential in a relationship where both people aren't committed to their evolution?

Published 2019-03-29

Are You Lovers or Roommates?

21 min
Open

Are you “great partners and buddies” who work really well together at the business of raising a family and running a household? Or is the core of your relationship heart-shattering, soul-renewing, cosmic passion from which all else flows?

Published 2019-03-14

Gourmet Sex

7 min
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Gourmet sex is when you bring all of your deepest parts to the table. Your heart and your genitals. You are open. You let yourself be seen. This is the kind of sex that changes your life.

Published 2019-03-08

Kim's Health Hacks

15 min
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Even though one of my biggest health hacks has to do with a deep and abiding love of eggplants, there are many other things I do, eat and rub all over me on a regular basis. In this episode, I share my favourite tools for daily enlightenment.

Published 2019-03-01

Crystals for Epic Sex

9 min
Open

Crystal medicine is the new—and ancient—frontier of DIY natural healing. 

Learn which are the best crystals for improving libido, erections, lubrication, ejaculation, orgasms, and healing sexual abuse. And how to best use them.

Published 2019-02-22

The Sex Weekend

12 min
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Imagine a whole weekend that’s all about…sex. With a partner. Or by yourself. No digital screens. No alarm clocks. Unplug. Shut out the distractions of the busy, noisy world. Massage. Soak in a tub. Swim in the ocean. Have sex multiple times a day.

Published 2019-02-14

The Solo Sex Date

38 min
Open

You can have an incredible sex life…even if you’re single. Learn my consciousness-expanding, self-pleasuring techniques to amplify your sexual energy and magnetize your deepest desires of love, creativity and abundance.

Published 2019-02-08

The 3-Hour Sex Date

30 min
Open

A pillar of my professional—and personal—philosophy is to schedule a 3-hour sex date every week. This becomes the sanctuary and refuelling station in your relationship and can nourish and rejuvenate you through your entire week. We discuss what it looks like, why three hours specifically and how to do it, do it, do it.

Published 2019-01-31

The Art of the Vaginal Handjob

37 min
Open

Your vagina is meant to be strong, articulate and highly pleasurable: to both you and your partner. “Pompoir” is the ancient art of cultivating vaginal stroking so as to make a man ejaculate or stop him from ejaculating—with the power of your vagina alone. Having a powerful, articulate, consciously aware vagina is also a metaphor for how you live your life.

Published 2019-01-24

SOS: Save Our Reproductive Organs

44 min
Open

We are in the midst of an epidemic. Women are losing—and voluntarily parting with—their reproductive organs at an alarming rate. Breasts, cervixes, uteruses. Are they really so disposable? Is organ removal really necessary? Are there other ways to remedy these issues? Yes!